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"My tuppence worth ..1st meet .. single... couple.. whatever..always a safe public place , you have no idea of who you're meeting, so a safe , public place would be it for me. " Definitely this! For all, women couples and men. You should stop and think what sort of situation you could be putting yourself in. What happens if you don't like them, or they're intimidating. Even for men with the best intentions, how do you know hers are! | |||
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"My tuppence worth ..1st meet .. single... couple.. whatever..always a safe public place , you have no idea of who you're meeting, so a safe , public place would be it for me. Definitely this! For all, women couples and men. You should stop and think what sort of situation you could be putting yourself in. What happens if you don't like them, or they're intimidating. Even for men with the best intentions, how do you know hers are!" This is how I see it. I had 2 separate coffee meets with a woman before my first hotel meet and her intentions weren't good at all and led to me leaving the site straight after. I can only imagine how much worse it could have been if we had been in her home. I don't trust people just because they have been verified by others and I don't want anyone trusting me just because I have a few verifications either. I'd much prefer if they took the time to get to know me first. | |||
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"I've had 2 different women insist that we meet in their homes. I turned them both down because I felt if they had so little thought for their own safety they were going to allow me as a complete stranger into their home they weren't people I wanted to meet. I don't meet anyone without at least one social in a public space and even that isn't foolproof as I found out on my very first fab meet years ago. I know of fabbers who have been kicked out of chatgroups for following women home and other women asking for them to be added back into the group because they were hot! I genuinely don't understand how lax some people are with giving out phone numbers and addresses. " I never thought about it that way but you make a lot of sense there. I know I’m a genuine normal, respectful guy with now ulterior motives when visiting someone’s home. But how do they know. People mostly exchange messages and make a decision based on that interaction. There must be some horror stories out there though ![]() | |||
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"We started chatting with someone and within hrs they asked us to meet for play at their home. They might be very nice people. Not raising fingers on them at all. But as a newbie and a female I felt uncomfortable. Looking for advice from females from this forum. No offence towards mails. Bcs I also have a man and from where they think😉 Is this feeling normal. What precautions u take and how u set boundaries?" If you feel uncomfortable about it , trust your instinct and move on. This is supposed to be fun. | |||
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"My tuppence worth ..1st meet .. single... couple.. whatever..always a safe public place , you have no idea of who you're meeting, so a safe , public place would be it for me. Definitely this! For all, women couples and men. You should stop and think what sort of situation you could be putting yourself in. What happens if you don't like them, or they're intimidating. Even for men with the best intentions, how do you know hers are! This is how I see it. I had 2 separate coffee meets with a woman before my first hotel meet and her intentions weren't good at all and led to me leaving the site straight after. I can only imagine how much worse it could have been if we had been in her home. I don't trust people just because they have been verified by others and I don't want anyone trusting me just because I have a few verifications either. I'd much prefer if they took the time to get to know me first." Being nosey here but what did she do!? | |||
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"My tuppence worth ..1st meet .. single... couple.. whatever..always a safe public place , you have no idea of who you're meeting, so a safe , public place would be it for me. Definitely this! For all, women couples and men. You should stop and think what sort of situation you could be putting yourself in. What happens if you don't like them, or they're intimidating. Even for men with the best intentions, how do you know hers are! This is how I see it. I had 2 separate coffee meets with a woman before my first hotel meet and her intentions weren't good at all and led to me leaving the site straight after. I can only imagine how much worse it could have been if we had been in her home. I don't trust people just because they have been verified by others and I don't want anyone trusting me just because I have a few verifications either. I'd much prefer if they took the time to get to know me first. Being nosey here but what did she do!?" I've told this story often enough before. She punched me full on in the face as soon as we got undressed and announced that it was her kink for me to retaliate. I told her she had picked the wrong guy for that shit and got dressed again. I asked why she hadn't mentioned it before. She said she was afraid I wouldn't turn up and then she apologised profusely and said she was in the wrong and convinced me to stay. An hour later I walked out of the bathroom and she drove her knee into my balls so I left at that point and left the site a couple of days later thinking it was full of loons like her. She was half my size but that's not the point. Imagine if the roles had been reversed and even though I hadn't touched her it would always be her word against mine if she decided to complain. | |||
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"I've had 2 different women insist that we meet in their homes. I turned them both down because I felt if they had so little thought for their own safety they were going to allow me as a complete stranger into their home they weren't people I wanted to meet. This for sure, it’s not safe imo If they vvv well verified I’d make a judgement call but if new or no verifications I’d insist on a public meet I don't meet anyone without at least one social in a public space and even that isn't foolproof as I found out on my very first fab meet years ago. I know of fabbers who have been kicked out of chatgroups for following women home and other women asking for them to be added back into the group because they were hot! I genuinely don't understand how lax some people are with giving out phone numbers and addresses. " | |||
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"I've had 2 different women insist that we meet in their homes. I turned them both down because I felt if they had so little thought for their own safety they were going to allow me as a complete stranger into their home they weren't people I wanted to meet. This for sure, it’s not safe imo If they vvv well verified I’d make a judgement call but if new or no verifications I’d insist on a public meet I don't meet anyone without at least one social in a public space and even that isn't foolproof as I found out on my very first fab meet years ago. I know of fabbers who have been kicked out of chatgroups for following women home and other women asking for them to be added back into the group because they were hot! I genuinely don't understand how lax some people are with giving out phone numbers and addresses. " Both women were well verified. One of them had 100+ verifications but that's not the point. They were insistent that they didn't do socials and wouldn't meet anywhere else so that was 100+ people they had given their address to and allowed into their home. I was still a complete stranger to them and they to me so it was a non starter. | |||
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