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"Try get yourself to a few socials if possible. That way it should cut out the fools and time wasters. Normally most hosts for socials will have a group chat set up for everyone to mix before the event. I find socials are the only way to go. I’ve looked at profiles on here and thought to myself she/ they sound like hardwork. But after meeting in person I’ve discovered many times the person/people behind the profile are top class people and some I can now call my friends. " I am here about 8 years, met many great hot sexy men, as soon as some guy getting rough with me I am deleting my profile and start again , but struggling to get started 🙄 I know it’s in my head the problem, I want to step over and enjoy the fab time again | |||
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"Try get yourself to a few socials if possible. That way it should cut out the fools and time wasters. Normally most hosts for socials will have a group chat set up for everyone to mix before the event. I find socials are the only way to go. I’ve looked at profiles on here and thought to myself she/ they sound like hardwork. But after meeting in person I’ve discovered many times the person/people behind the profile are top class people and some I can now call my friends. I am here about 8 years, met many great hot sexy men, as soon as some guy getting rough with me I am deleting my profile and start again , but struggling to get started 🙄 I know it’s in my head the problem, I want to step over and enjoy the fab time again " I’ve done that so many times on a bad day or an abusive man day | |||
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"I’d say socials too . No pressure to get along or interact. Just have fun " Hopefully I will get it going again Thanks for advice | |||
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"Would you message the guy who you haven't spoken to since or maybe he might see this on the forums and message you " I don’t think so he will do, I am trying to pick my words carefully to make sure I won’t hurt his feelings, but if he sees it and contacts me again I will be happy | |||
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"Would you message the guy who you haven't spoken to since or maybe he might see this on the forums and message you I don’t think so he will do, I am trying to pick my words carefully to make sure I won’t hurt his feelings, but if he sees it and contacts me again I will be happy" Ask him to meet you for coffee and a chat and say nothing about what happened the last time. He is probably embarrassed and afraid of rejection if he contacts you again. My advice is to go for it and contact him. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain  | |||
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"Would you message the guy who you haven't spoken to since or maybe he might see this on the forums and message you I don’t think so he will do, I am trying to pick my words carefully to make sure I won’t hurt his feelings, but if he sees it and contacts me again I will be happy Ask him to meet you for coffee and a chat and say nothing about what happened the last time. He is probably embarrassed and afraid of rejection if he contacts you again. My advice is to go for it and contact him. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain "This is absolutely right, I know I would have been mortified. But it is everything to gain. | |||
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"Would you message the guy who you haven't spoken to since or maybe he might see this on the forums and message you I don’t think so he will do, I am trying to pick my words carefully to make sure I won’t hurt his feelings, but if he sees it and contacts me again I will be happy" Have to be honest I wrote my reply because of the lovely way you worded your post in the first place Hopefully ye try another time | |||
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"Any useful advice for how get started meet again, last two meets wasn’t very good, one guy had d.r.u.g.s , other guy was great we chatted for long enough to set up a meet, it was so premised to be a good fun, we met and then went wrong for him, so after that we never spoke again( even I would like to hear from him again)Now I cant even imagine how to get going again. Trying to find excuses to not set up next meet thinking something similar happen again " Really sorry that this is something you had to put up with the 2nd gent needs to get in touch with you as almost everyone has had some kind of performance based issue and it's OK it happens it's being too much in your own head. As for sniffers we would ask them to leave or call the cops can't stand them as we've seen how it destroys not just them but families. And lastly op you are absolutely stunning and you will have lots of decent people offering you socials until your ready to go further and please pm if you need someone listen or chat with | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away" Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting? | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting?" Yes it’s and tried to offer me 😡, it’s hard to get away quickly in this situation you don’t know how this person react | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting? Yes it’s and tried to offer me 😡, it’s hard to get away quickly in this situation you don’t know how this person react " This exactly especially if it's just the two of ye Drugs are common everywhere I'd imagine most people would be amazed at the answers if they asked family and friends had they ever tried any | |||
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"Any useful advice for how get started meet again, last two meets wasn’t very good, one guy had d.r.u.g.s , other guy was great we chatted for long enough to set up a meet, it was so premised to be a good fun, we met and then went wrong for him, so after that we never spoke again( even I would like to hear from him again)Now I cant even imagine how to get going again. Trying to find excuses to not set up next meet thinking something similar happen again " I'd have a run of those ones and say ok done with that, and after a while I feel an urge and start again. Then you meet someone and think, Wow, it was all worth it 😊 | |||
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"Any useful advice for how get started meet again, last two meets wasn’t very good, one guy had d.r.u.g.s , other guy was great we chatted for long enough to set up a meet, it was so premised to be a good fun, we met and then went wrong for him, so after that we never spoke again( even I would like to hear from him again)Now I cant even imagine how to get going again. Trying to find excuses to not set up next meet thinking something similar happen again I'd have a run of those ones and say ok done with that, and after a while I feel an urge and start again. Then you meet someone and think, Wow, it was all worth it 😊 " Definitely agree with this.When it works out its just brilliant. | |||
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"Any useful advice for how get started meet again, last two meets wasn’t very good, one guy had d.r.u.g.s , other guy was great we chatted for long enough to set up a meet, it was so premised to be a good fun, we met and then went wrong for him, so after that we never spoke again( even I would like to hear from him again)Now I cant even imagine how to get going again. Trying to find excuses to not set up next meet thinking something similar happen again I'd have a run of those ones and say ok done with that, and after a while I feel an urge and start again. Then you meet someone and think, Wow, it was all worth it 😊 Definitely agree with this.When it works out its just brilliant. " Had incredible fun, hopefully I will find a cure 😈 and enjoy myself again x I know it’s worth | |||
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"Would like to help you if you would like to chat." I definitely don’t want you near to me and you know why | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting?" Yes 100% , people haven't a clue how much drugs is in this country and the amount of young people taking drugs | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting? Yes 100% , people haven't a clue how much drugs is in this country and the amount of young people taking drugs" It’s sad as it is next generation to rule this world | |||
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"I found drugs to be quite common, so I’ve put it in my profile, in hopes to keep the key sniffers away Really are drugs gone that common now that someone would have taken them before a meet or possibly bring them to a meeting? Yes 100% , people haven't a clue how much drugs is in this country and the amount of young people taking drugs It’s sad as it is next generation to rule this world " the country is riddled with cocaine its in every small villages and towns each to there own its there own lives there ruining | |||
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"Drugs are common everywhere " Not at Fab parties. In fact, party organisers tend to have a strict no-drugs policy. Anyone on drugs is easy to spot. We've been at parties where people disappear into the walk-in wardrobe or the bathroom and think nobody else knows what they're up to. From our limited experience, it's more common at Dublin-based parties. But it's not that common outside of Dublin from what we've seen. | |||
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"We've been at parties where people disappear into the walk-in wardrobe or the bathroom and think nobody else knows what they're up to." I was hoping nobody noticed me popping Paracetamol in the corner. | |||
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"We've been at parties where people disappear into the walk-in wardrobe or the bathroom and think nobody else knows what they're up to. I was hoping nobody noticed me popping Paracetamol in the corner." Dr*ggie  | |||
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"Would you message the guy who you haven't spoken to since or maybe he might see this on the forums and message you I don’t think so he will do, I am trying to pick my words carefully to make sure I won’t hurt his feelings, but if he sees it and contacts me again I will be happy Ask him to meet you for coffee and a chat and say nothing about what happened the last time. He is probably embarrassed and afraid of rejection if he contacts you again. My advice is to go for it and contact him. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain " | |||
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"Dr*ggie "I can stop at any time…….. 🫣 | |||
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