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By *ack_Pot_69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Belfast

So many people have different ideas of what it means. What's yours?

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

I've been called kinky because I like spanking bottoms and handcuffs and whispering smut into someone's ear.

A kinkster would probably think that was cute.

Kinkish but not Kink.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

It's the difference between using a feather and the whole chicken.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

People seem to want to see it as a black and white definition - kinky or vanilla. Like it's some special label.

I believe its about wanting to try new things, experiment and enjoy different aspects of a sexual relationship. Most people in new or established relationships will do this as part of keeping that interesting. Trying different things with different partners. That's why we are here anyway.

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford

I view kink as I view any 'alternative' interests.

Some people are interested in what would be called underground music or film. Interests that aren't in the mainstream.

For example, one might prefer indie films over the mega Hollywood blockbusters.

Like any alternative interests, it goes against the grain, so to speak.

For me, kink is just an interest in what could be labeled as an alternative approach to sex.

It doesn't have to be extreme like BDSM to be kinky. It can be simply anything, however tame, that just gives you an extra thrill.

Me personally, I like leather. Don't know why, or how it became a thing. It's just something I like.

But it doesn't mean I need it or that I can't enjoy vanilla sex. It's just an extra thrill when I, or a partner is wearing leather.

Look at it this way; An ice cream cone is delicious and thoroughly enjoyable. But it's just that little bit nicer when there's a flake in it

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people.

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West


"It's the difference between using a feather and the whole chicken. "

It's way easier to fist a chicken.

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By *ohnnyCoxvilleMan
2 weeks ago

dublin

I think the term kinky is vague. Everyone is different as are peoples definitions of kinky

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By *P_80Man
2 weeks ago

Waterford


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people. "

Sure we'll never get everyone to agree on anything.

I'm going for a kinky 99 now

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By *eordie.Woman
2 weeks ago

The Sticks


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people. "

I will never be able to look at a 99 now without thinking of you

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people.

I will never be able to look at a 99 now without thinking of you"

And whether to have a flake or sausage? 🤔 🤣 😘

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By *eordie.Woman
2 weeks ago

The Sticks


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people.

I will never be able to look at a 99 now without thinking of you

And whether to have a flake or sausage? 🤔 🤣 😘"
Both!!

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By *lue eyesMan
2 weeks ago

cavan


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people.

I will never be able to look at a 99 now without thinking of you

And whether to have a flake or sausage? 🤔 🤣 😘 Both!! "

Actually cheese and onion tayto and a kitkat with a 99 is almost heaven 😋

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By *aughty MilfCouple
2 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"People seem to want to see it as a black and white definition - kinky or vanilla. Like it's some special label.

I believe its about wanting to try new things, experiment and enjoy different aspects of a sexual relationship. Most people in new or established relationships will do this as part of keeping that interesting. Trying different things with different partners. That's why we are here anyway. "
agree

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people.

I will never be able to look at a 99 now without thinking of you

And whether to have a flake or sausage? 🤔 🤣 😘 Both!!

Actually cheese and onion tayto and a kitkat with a 99 is almost heaven 😋 "

😱 glad I know that now 🤣🤣

Maybe I can be persuaded to try it 😘

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By *s. DevineWoman
2 weeks ago

Dublin


"It's the difference between using a feather and the whole chicken. "

Haha, brilliant 🤩

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By *_05Man
2 weeks ago

D11


"And some people.will say a flake in it is still vanilla, whereas a sausage in it is kinky 🤣

Kinky is different to different people. "

Where do you get your 99s from?

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By *iresmillyWoman
2 weeks ago

Stillorgan

I think of kink as fetishes. Anything outside of the norm.

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By *ionycusMan
2 weeks ago

Babylon

For me I am still discovering my kinks, this remarkable journey brings so many people into your life, and you trade likes, and kinks and although I enjoy bacon sandwiches, I think I'd go crazy if I had to eat them everyday.

Kinks are personal and changeable and different for everyone, rimming to some is disgusting, to some delightful, to some kinky.. to some, foreplay.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
2 weeks ago

Hereabouts

I dunno. Id say I was pretty vanilla but some people say simply being on here means I'm kinky, that sharing sexy pics is kinky, that being a voyeur is kinky etc etc. Seems to be a matter of perspective 🤷🏻‍♀️

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By *ack_Pot_69 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"People seem to want to see it as a black and white definition - kinky or vanilla. Like it's some special label.

I believe its about wanting to try new things, experiment and enjoy different aspects of a sexual relationship. Most people in new or established relationships will do this as part of keeping that interesting. Trying different things with different partners. That's why we are here anyway. "

I agree with this too. I was thinking there might be a difference in definition between men and women but this covers things nicely

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
2 weeks ago

Portstewart

There simply is no one single definition that could possibly tell you what is kinky and what is not because it is a very personal thing and is unique to each and every single individual person in the world

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West


"I dunno. Id say I was pretty vanilla but some people say simply being on here means I'm kinky, that sharing sexy pics is kinky, that being a voyeur is kinky etc etc. Seems to be a matter of perspective 🤷🏻‍♀️ "

Starting threads about how cum reacts to water is pretty kinky

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
2 weeks ago

City Centre

Sometimes pleasure comes wrapped in a different kinda box that very few are able to open and less would understand.

My dopamine hit is peaked in ways that it wouldn't for other people. I find myself doing a merry dance to find and attain what I need, and that is really cumbersome and frustrating. I'm sure that's true for lot's of people.

Do I think I'm kinky? No. Isn't that for other's to perceive you to be?

Is it hard for me to define? Extremely. One person's extreme perversion is another's good clean fun or interest.

Fab can be really helpful in finding someone with a penchant for similar I'm sure. I just haven't discovered them on here... yet. 😉

💜

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By *astelloWoman
2 weeks ago

Far far away

My idea of kink is mango sauce on a 99 cone.

I'm vanilla.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
2 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"I dunno. Id say I was pretty vanilla but some people say simply being on here means I'm kinky, that sharing sexy pics is kinky, that being a voyeur is kinky etc etc. Seems to be a matter of perspective 🤷🏻‍♀️

Starting threads about how cum reacts to water is pretty kinky "

😂😂🤭 I think that's just shameless Maybe shameless is kinky😎

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