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By *astello OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Far far away

Do you ever meet couples and go wha...

Totally mismatched on the attractiveness scale. I know beauty is in the beholder..but IMHO l tend to notice more attractive women with less than attractive men. Is it their BIG personalities..... 🤣

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
22 weeks ago

Dublin

Attractiveness works for initial connection and anything thats purely sexual.

For relationships it needs to go far beyond that so I'd imagine they've taken long term compatibility over arm candy

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By *ofusplusCouple
22 weeks ago

Limerick


"Do you ever meet couples and go wha...

Totally mismatched on the attractiveness scale. I know beauty is in the beholder..but IMHO l tend to notice more attractive women with less than attractive men. Is it their BIG personalities..... 🤣"

Contrary to public opinion, I think women age better than men. Many couples here are together a looong time.

Plus, controversial opinion incoming but the men of couples often don't put as much effort into their appearance as single men for obvs reasons!

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By *astello OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Far far away

Good points by all. I'm not here bashing either sex just find the mismatch quite shocking sometimes.

Sure I can always be shrek fwb..

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By *adger BrocMan
22 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Good points by all. I'm not here bashing either sex just find the mismatch quite shocking sometimes.

Sure I can always be shrek fwb.. "

Some couples grow to look like each other over time......a bit like people often resembling their pets....

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By *ionycusMan
22 weeks ago

Babylon

The grass is always greener

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

My partner is the looker, 100%, he’s gorgeous. I never have an issue saying it.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
22 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Attractiveness isn't a scale. What one might find visually attractive someone else might not. Also visual attraction is only part of overall attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Anyone I've been in a relationship with, in my eyes, have been insanely attractive, although I'm sure others would argue. It's the sum of all parts.

In fairness it can be hard to find a couple where I'm attracted to both of them. Hard enough to find one let alone two people I'd want to spend time with naked. 🫣

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By *licat.2Woman
22 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI


"Good points by all. I'm not here bashing either sex just find the mismatch quite shocking sometimes.

Sure I can always be shrek fwb..

Some couples grow to look like each other over time......a bit like people often resembling their pets....

"

That made me look at my chocolate lab and then the mirror 🪞

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By *aseylee324Couple
22 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

In our culture, women are valued primarily on their appearance, this is a message female humans absorb continuously from their early childhood, the pressure is constant. So it's hardly surprising that women put a lot more time and effort into their physical presentation. Women also have more tools to hand (as a result of the colossal "beauty" industry) with which to enhance their appearance, and are more likely to look after their health as they get older, which almost inevitably impacts looks also.

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By *om TangoMan
22 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’m actually kinda attractive if you’re d*unk, the lights are turned down and there is one else around. Especially if you have low standards

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By *ealitybitesMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

I went to primary school with two sisters who even at that age were like little models.

When we were all teenagers they could easily have graced any magazine cover but they had no airs or graces and were very grounded and approachable.

They both married guys who most would have said were definitely punching up.

I worked with the brother of one of the husbands and he told me that they had been neighbours with the girls for years and neither of the sisters had a regular boyfriend because most guys were intimidated by how they looked.

His brother, despite having thick glasses and walking with a limp was confident that he had known them long enough and he just asked one of them out and they are still married 35 years later.

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By *adger BrocMan
22 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Good points by all. I'm not here bashing either sex just find the mismatch quite shocking sometimes.

Sure I can always be shrek fwb..

Some couples grow to look like each other over time......a bit like people often resembling their pets....

That made me look at my chocolate lab and then the mirror 🪞 "

.....

Everyone loves a lab.....and a chocolate lab is twice as nice.

🐕💋

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
22 weeks ago

South Dublin

Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake

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By *leasurer77Man
22 weeks ago

Athlone

If you're a man and ugly and want to get a honey, be funny or have money!

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By *affa31Woman
22 weeks ago

Galway


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake "

What’s controversial about that?

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake "

Calling people snowflakes with no cause in a thread where everyone is being civil is the most controversial post in this thread.

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By *he KakapoMan
22 weeks ago

A nice rock


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake

Calling people snowflakes with no cause in a thread where everyone is being civil is the most controversial post in this thread.

"

That's what a snowflake would say

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By *astello OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Far far away

I'm wearing my ski goggles...

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By *iscuits8Man
22 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Snowflakes fucking LOL

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake

Calling people snowflakes with no cause in a thread where everyone is being civil is the most controversial post in this thread.

That's what a snowflake would say"

I bet you drink flat whites with oat milk.

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By *adger BrocMan
22 weeks ago

Co. Cork

No two snowflakes are the same....

Yet the fab forum variety do tend to contribute to topics with a uniformity of opinion that sometimes defies credulity.

But I suppose its a fact of nature that snowflakes do combine to form a homogenious blanket covering over the undulation of diverse contributions that an open forum normally generates.

❄ 🌨

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
22 weeks ago

South Dublin

Ha ha point proven


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake

Calling people snowflakes with no cause in a thread where everyone is being civil is the most controversial post in this thread.

That's what a snowflake would say"

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By *iscuits8Man
22 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I thunk he's taking the piss out of you fella

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West


"I thunk he's taking the piss out of you fella "

Bless his cotton socks

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By *iscuits8Man
22 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I thunk he's taking the piss out of you fella

Bless his cotton socks "

🤝

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By *he KakapoMan
22 weeks ago

A nice rock


"Controversial! Watch out for the Fab snowflakes backlash lol

Beautify is deffo in the eye of the beholder , you can be so beautiful on the outside and so ugly on the inside.

I’ll take an average gal who’s a good person and genuine any day over a Fab fake

Calling people snowflakes with no cause in a thread where everyone is being civil is the most controversial post in this thread.

That's what a snowflake would say

I bet you drink flat whites with oat milk."

Dammit I've never felt so seen

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

You could cut the sexual tension here with a knife. ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

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By *astello OP   Woman
22 weeks ago

Far far away

My thread got derailed for snowflake smoothies and oat milk fabacchinos..

Back to topic.... where is my shrek

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By *adger BrocMan
22 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"My thread got derailed for snowflake smoothies and oat milk fabacchinos..

Back to topic.... where is my shrek

"

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He is probably off flexing his muscles trying to seduce some "older gal".

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By *attooYouMan
22 weeks ago

just about northside


"I went to primary school with two sisters who even at that age were like little models.

When we were all teenagers they could easily have graced any magazine cover but they had no airs or graces and were very grounded and approachable.

They both married guys who most would have said were definitely punching up.

I worked with the brother of one of the husbands and he told me that they had been neighbours with the girls for years and neither of the sisters had a regular boyfriend because most guys were intimidated by how they looked.

His brother, despite having thick glasses and walking with a limp was confident that he had known them long enough and he just asked one of them out and they are still married 35 years later."

The ending of this story is hilarious......thick glasses and a limp. Very funny. Quasimodo comes to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"Back to topic.... where is my shrek"

I think mine got stuck in a condom 🤭

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

A lot of people here are talking relationships, but we're on Fab. So I'm talking about that perspective.

I already have a partner who I think is very handsome.

And women definitely gravitate to him. Not cos he has a gym body and muscles, but because he has a cute attractive face, and is very friendly and chatty.

Most people I know are couples, and so it's very common to hear women talking about frustration of seeing gorgeous women, with guys who are not taking great care of themselves in comparison.

Which is disappointing for both of us because no matter what she looks like, we're not playing with them if I can't find him attractive too.

We have no judgement towards those couples, but we're looking to be equally excited to play. I'm here to enjoy meeting people Im attracted to as well, just like he is. I'm not here just to keep husband's busy so my partner can play with her.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
22 weeks ago

Louth

Not going to judge who anyone is with as relationships v sexual attraction are different. But this is Fab so yes I don't think many/any couples do or should take one for the team. Communication is key for all parties. If it's a thanks but no thanks that's OK as it should be in reverse. But that's when people fall out.

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West


"A

Most people I know are couples, and so it's very common to hear women talking about frustration of seeing gorgeous women, with guys who are not taking great care of themselves in comparison.

"

I've heard this called hotwife syndrome.

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