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"We've had a good few bad ones One that sticks out is , the girl was 5 foot 5 , I'm 5 foot 7 and it's on my profile for the world to see , the day before the said meet was to happen, the excuse was " i want to wear heels on the night and I don't want to look like a giant beside you" lol But the absolute worst was , day of meet ...about half an hour before we left our house "you said you work in construction and I wouldn't like dirty hands , prefer them manicured " I sh*t you not people !! Let hear yours !" Out of interest, were they verified or not? | |||
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 I then got it most have been the excitement at the toughts of a meet. If it was a real excuse it was definitely way to honest | |||
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"We've had a good few bad ones One that sticks out is , the girl was 5 foot 5 , I'm 5 foot 7 and it's on my profile for the world to see , the day before the said meet was to happen, the excuse was " i want to wear heels on the night and I don't want to look like a giant beside you" lol But the absolute worst was , day of meet ...about half an hour before we left our house "you said you work in construction and I wouldn't like dirty hands , prefer them manicured " I sh*t you not people !! Let hear yours ! Out of interest, were they verified or not? " yes both verified on here and on it a few years too | |||
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"Was staying in a hotel in waterford and due to call out to her house in the early evening Rang to say I was that nervous of the meet that I had two pints in the hotel and couldn't drive out to her The truth was I got locked into the Audi dealership in Waterford when I was looking at buying a car They locked up early and went home and left me parked in the carpark without a way to get out Rang the Guards in waterford to get the keyholder to drive back from Dungarvan to let me out I took a video and sent it to her the next day to explain my embarrassment Drove back to the hotel and had a few drinks in the bar "ouch that's unlucky | |||
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"Was staying in a hotel in waterford and due to call out to her house in the early evening Rang to say I was that nervous of the meet that I had two pints in the hotel and couldn't drive out to her The truth was I got locked into the Audi dealership in Waterford when I was looking at buying a car They locked up early and went home and left me parked in the carpark without a way to get out Rang the Guards in waterford to get the keyholder to drive back from Dungarvan to let me out I took a video and sent it to her the next day to explain my embarrassment Drove back to the hotel and had a few drinks in the bar "No one believes that...instant block 🤣 | |||
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"Was staying in a hotel in waterford and due to call out to her house in the early evening Rang to say I was that nervous of the meet that I had two pints in the hotel and couldn't drive out to her The truth was I got locked into the Audi dealership in Waterford when I was looking at buying a car They locked up early and went home and left me parked in the carpark without a way to get out Rang the Guards in waterford to get the keyholder to drive back from Dungarvan to let me out I took a video and sent it to her the next day to explain my embarrassment Drove back to the hotel and had a few drinks in the bar
No one believes that...instant block 🤣"I'll show you the video the next time you're eating one of my donuts | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not " Oooooh nooooooooo 😱 | |||
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"I forgot to charge my phone for 24 hours... I mean as if that happened..🙄" Someone cancelled on you guys 🙄. Need their head examined | |||
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"Was staying in a hotel in waterford and due to call out to her house in the early evening Rang to say I was that nervous of the meet that I had two pints in the hotel and couldn't drive out to her The truth was I got locked into the Audi dealership in Waterford when I was looking at buying a car They locked up early and went home and left me parked in the carpark without a way to get out Rang the Guards in waterford to get the keyholder to drive back from Dungarvan to let me out I took a video and sent it to her the next day to explain my embarrassment Drove back to the hotel and had a few drinks in the bar "I laughed way too hard at this , funny but very unfortunate  | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not " wtf ???? Seems like it was a setup to get you in his own | |||
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"We've had a good few bad ones One that sticks out is , the girl was 5 foot 5 , I'm 5 foot 7 and it's on my profile for the world to see , the day before the said meet was to happen, the excuse was " i want to wear heels on the night and I don't want to look like a giant beside you" lol But the absolute worst was , day of meet ...about half an hour before we left our house "you said you work in construction and I wouldn't like dirty hands , prefer them manicured " I sh*t you not people !! Let hear yours !" The weirdest one for me was 10 Mins before he cancelled saying that - he’s decided that we will meet and then I am only allowed to give him a blow job and nothing more in case I try to get pregnant by him! Even though nothing was guaranteed on the cards, and I don’t do bareback even if it was. But cancelled on him! Absolutely weirdo | |||
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"Another thing that happened us was , we agreed to meet this couple at theirs on the promise we were to be accommodated overnight no matter the outcome and so drove 2 hours to them , when we arrived they changed location to the pub , met at 9,30 in the pub , was having a good time or so we thought , we were both 4/5 drinks deep then at 1am while we were in the smoking area of the pub they abandoned us leaving us to sleep in the car for the night , when confronted on another app that was used to arrange the meet , the reply was " ah you'll be grand just sleep it off for an hour and drive home " 170 km away from home ,luckily we had friends not far from there who came and collected us and we stayed at theirs for the night, had to get a taxi from theirs back to where the car was parked the next morning at a cost of 70 euro" 🙄🙄🙄 these stories are all scary. Isn't fair to leave the names of these people so others won't have the same troubles as you did 🤔🤔 | |||
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"Another thing that happened us was , we agreed to meet this couple at theirs on the promise we were to be accommodated overnight no matter the outcome and so drove 2 hours to them , when we arrived they changed location to the pub , met at 9,30 in the pub , was having a good time or so we thought , we were both 4/5 drinks deep then at 1am while we were in the smoking area of the pub they abandoned us leaving us to sleep in the car for the night , when confronted on another app that was used to arrange the meet , the reply was " ah you'll be grand just sleep it off for an hour and drive home " 170 km away from home ,luckily we had friends not far from there who came and collected us and we stayed at theirs for the night, had to get a taxi from theirs back to where the car was parked the next morning at a cost of 70 euro 🙄🙄🙄 these stories are all scary. Isn't fair to leave the names of these people so others won't have the same troubles as you did 🤔🤔" this can be a great place ir a bad place depending on who you meet | |||
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"Another thing that happened us was , we agreed to meet this couple at theirs on the promise we were to be accommodated overnight no matter the outcome and so drove 2 hours to them , when we arrived they changed location to the pub , met at 9,30 in the pub , was having a good time or so we thought , we were both 4/5 drinks deep then at 1am while we were in the smoking area of the pub they abandoned us leaving us to sleep in the car for the night , when confronted on another app that was used to arrange the meet , the reply was " ah you'll be grand just sleep it off for an hour and drive home " 170 km away from home ,luckily we had friends not far from there who came and collected us and we stayed at theirs for the night, had to get a taxi from theirs back to where the car was parked the next morning at a cost of 70 euro 🙄🙄🙄 these stories are all scary. Isn't fair to leave the names of these people so others won't have the same troubles as you did 🤔🤔 this can be a great place ir a bad place depending on who you meet" The scariest and creepiest one was the guy who forgot to tell his wife and offered to give him a handjob. That's really creepy | |||
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"Another thing that happened us was , we agreed to meet this couple at theirs on the promise we were to be accommodated overnight no matter the outcome and so drove 2 hours to them , when we arrived they changed location to the pub , met at 9,30 in the pub , was having a good time or so we thought , we were both 4/5 drinks deep then at 1am while we were in the smoking area of the pub they abandoned us leaving us to sleep in the car for the night , when confronted on another app that was used to arrange the meet , the reply was " ah you'll be grand just sleep it off for an hour and drive home " 170 km away from home ,luckily we had friends not far from there who came and collected us and we stayed at theirs for the night, had to get a taxi from theirs back to where the car was parked the next morning at a cost of 70 euro 🙄🙄🙄 these stories are all scary. Isn't fair to leave the names of these people so others won't have the same troubles as you did 🤔🤔 this can be a great place ir a bad place depending on who you meet The scariest and creepiest one was the guy who forgot to tell his wife and offered to give him a handjob. That's really creepy" It's also pretty common on here. This is my fourth profile and each time I've signed up again with a new profile I got a message from a couple in my area. It was always exactly the same message. They weren't married and lived 20 miles apart. I was to meet him in a city centre carpark and he would take me to her home where she would be bent over the sofa. I was to fuck her and leave and he would take me back to my car. They had 50 or 60 verifications as a couple but I didn't like the idea of not getting consent from her or engaging with her in any way other than fucking her so I said no every time. Another guy from the same area who used to post here told exactly the same story but he went along with it and when he met the male half in the carpark he insisted that they both have a wank before going any further. As far as I remember he backed out at that point and left. | |||
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"Another thing that happened us was , we agreed to meet this couple at theirs on the promise we were to be accommodated overnight no matter the outcome and so drove 2 hours to them , when we arrived they changed location to the pub , met at 9,30 in the pub , was having a good time or so we thought , we were both 4/5 drinks deep then at 1am while we were in the smoking area of the pub they abandoned us leaving us to sleep in the car for the night , when confronted on another app that was used to arrange the meet , the reply was " ah you'll be grand just sleep it off for an hour and drive home " 170 km away from home ,luckily we had friends not far from there who came and collected us and we stayed at theirs for the night, had to get a taxi from theirs back to where the car was parked the next morning at a cost of 70 euro 🙄🙄🙄 these stories are all scary. Isn't fair to leave the names of these people so others won't have the same troubles as you did 🤔🤔 this can be a great place ir a bad place depending on who you meet The scariest and creepiest one was the guy who forgot to tell his wife and offered to give him a handjob. That's really creepy It's also pretty common on here. This is my fourth profile and each time I've signed up again with a new profile I got a message from a couple in my area. It was always exactly the same message. They weren't married and lived 20 miles apart. I was to meet him in a city centre carpark and he would take me to her home where she would be bent over the sofa. I was to fuck her and leave and he would take me back to my car. They had 50 or 60 verifications as a couple but I didn't like the idea of not getting consent from her or engaging with her in any way other than fucking her so I said no every time. Another guy from the same area who used to post here told exactly the same story but he went along with it and when he met the male half in the carpark he insisted that they both have a wank before going any further. As far as I remember he backed out at that point and left. " Why would anyone go to that extend to have a wank with a guy!!!  is he like bi or something, sounded more like the news from the states where the guy drugs her wife and let other men use her. Worlds a strange freaking place | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 😂" ..... Wow.......that's a lot of ass. | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 😂" Omg... lol.. the donkeys must have been cute... | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not " I'm starting to think there wasn't a wife... | |||
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"Tbh there’s some of these where I’m wondering why you ever thought the meet was going to happen" Because we're too trusting and take ppl at their word , we don't blaggard ppl and we thought others on here wouldn't either ,learned the hard way | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 😂 Omg... lol.. the donkeys must have been cute..." He actually sent me a pic of him with the donkeys in his trailer and he was given me the thumbs up....to be fair they were really cute 😍 | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 no way , at least he was honest 😂 Omg... lol.. the donkeys must have been cute...He actually sent me a pic of him with the donkeys in his trailer and he was given me the thumbs up....to be fair they were really cute 😍 " | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 😂 Omg... lol.. the donkeys must have been cute...He actually sent me a pic of him with the donkeys in his trailer and he was given me the thumbs up....to be fair they were really cute 😍 " I'd have gone to his house 🤣, especially if there were baby donkeys 😍 | |||
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"All from the same couple: Messaging for weeks, exchanged face pics and all going smoothly. So the night came and I had just closed the door behind me to go and meet at theirs and get a text that they lost their bottle. Totally fine with me as it was their first time apparently. They apologized the next day and all was good. Two weeks later we had arranged to meet again but at my place this time. No text at all. So I texted to say that I take it we're not meeting and he replied that he got called into work. Ok. Plausible, but at least let me know. The third time was the best though. About an hour before the arranged meet I get a message that a tree had fallen down in front of their driveway and that they won't make it as they can't get the car out. After that I got a few more messages from time to time about meeting up and my reply was just 'Grand. Sure let me know.', and left it at that. Needless to say we never got round to it." See that's at least one, if not two, too many chances given.  | |||
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"All from the same couple: Messaging for weeks, exchanged face pics and all going smoothly. So the night came and I had just closed the door behind me to go and meet at theirs and get a text that they lost their bottle. Totally fine with me as it was their first time apparently. They apologized the next day and all was good. Two weeks later we had arranged to meet again but at my place this time. No text at all. So I texted to say that I take it we're not meeting and he replied that he got called into work. Ok. Plausible, but at least let me know. The third time was the best though. About an hour before the arranged meet I get a message that a tree had fallen down in front of their driveway and that they won't make it as they can't get the car out. After that I got a few more messages from time to time about meeting up and my reply was just 'Grand. Sure let me know.', and left it at that. Needless to say we never got round to it. See that's at least one, if not two, too many chances given. "I know. Learned my lesson though. | |||
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"Mine was he was shaving his balls getting ready to come meet me and he discovered a big spot on his bum and he was no longer feeling sexy because of the said spot and canceled. Said he would rearrange when the spot cleared up. 🤣🤣" This just made me LOL😂😂 | |||
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"Mine was he was shaving his balls getting ready to come meet me and he discovered a big spot on his bum and he was no longer feeling sexy because of the said spot and canceled. Said he would rearrange when the spot cleared up. 🤣🤣" Omg I'm actually weak here...that's gold right there🤣🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Mine was he was shaving his balls getting ready to come meet me and he discovered a big spot on his bum and he was no longer feeling sexy because of the said spot and canceled. Said he would rearrange when the spot cleared up. 🤣🤣" Ah stop !! Lol | |||
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"Mine was he was shaving his balls getting ready to come meet me and he discovered a big spot on his bum and he was no longer feeling sexy because of the said spot and canceled. Said he would rearrange when the spot cleared up. 🤣🤣" You couldn't make it up! 😂 | |||
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"With today's technology it would be very easy to minimise no shows. Very easy for the software engineers to built it into the fab site. Organise a meet on fab, let all parties to the meet confirm the location on a map, check in on arrival and have a report button stating someone didn't turn up. Which can be confirmed by them not allowing fab to see their location or them not showing up. Then have a warning visible on the profile that this account was a previous non runner and didn't turn up, all the dreamers would think twice about arranging or agreeing to meet. Twice I have this happen, a couple who just ghosted me when I got to the location, and also a female, they just block you then, another issue here is bad reviews aren't displayed or left I'd imagine. We only see the good ones and you can't edit or remove afterwards." The issue is that both suggestions are open to abuse. What if I maliciously gave you a negative verification and you'd no option but to display it? What if we'd arranged to meet and I had to cancel but you were really pissed off and reported me as a no show? | |||
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"In the last two weeks I've been ghosted...no excuse nothing....all chat, got down to the place an time an then they went silent and didn't read messages so no meet happened...very strange...but in both cases I had back up plans...one profile had no verifications so more fool me, the other had 42 but not displayed!!! Put me off meeting single blokes on this actually... "I have no idea why single guys ghost ladies on here , they all complain its hard to get meets , when they get them then they don't then up , wtf ?!? | |||
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"In the last two weeks I've been ghosted...no excuse nothing....all chat, got down to the place an time an then they went silent and didn't read messages so no meet happened...very strange...but in both cases I had back up plans...one profile had no verifications so more fool me, the other had 42 but not displayed!!! Put me off meeting single blokes on this actually... "you take that back. You haven't had me yet lol | |||
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"In the last two weeks I've been ghosted...no excuse nothing....all chat, got down to the place an time an then they went silent and didn't read messages so no meet happened...very strange...but in both cases I had back up plans...one profile had no verifications so more fool me, the other had 42 but not displayed!!! Put me off meeting single blokes on this actually... I have no idea why single guys ghost ladies on here , they all complain its hard to get meets , when they get them then they don't then up , wtf ?!?"
It's very frustrating alright an I do see posts all the time with guys saying it's so difficult to chat to ladies here, I always try to give everyone a response but of late, I'm not arsed an I know it's unfair to tar everyone with the same brush but... | |||
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"In the last two weeks I've been ghosted...no excuse nothing....all chat, got down to the place an time an then they went silent and didn't read messages so no meet happened...very strange...but in both cases I had back up plans...one profile had no verifications so more fool me, the other had 42 but not displayed!!! Put me off meeting single blokes on this actually... you take that back. You haven't had me yet lol "Yet is the keyword here! | |||
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"In the last two weeks I've been ghosted...no excuse nothing....all chat, got down to the place an time an then they went silent and didn't read messages so no meet happened...very strange...but in both cases I had back up plans...one profile had no verifications so more fool me, the other had 42 but not displayed!!! Put me off meeting single blokes on this actually... I have no idea why single guys ghost ladies on here , they all complain its hard to get meets , when they get them then they don't then up , wtf ?!?
It's very frustrating alright an I do see posts all the time with guys saying it's so difficult to chat to ladies here, I always try to give everyone a response but of late, I'm not arsed an I know it's unfair to tar everyone with the same brush but..."well i known this is cliché , bur it's their loss | |||
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"In summary I was absolutely disgusted with the key and taken back by the total ignorance of the guy … On a positive take from that episode… THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO SINCE … I lived and learned 😫" Typo above - Guy not key that should read | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not Oooooh nooooooooo 😱" Crashed the car on the way back as well fuck sake lol | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not wtf ???? Seems like it was a setup to get you in his own " Definitely was, very weird for a “straight” husband | |||
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"My funniest one's were his cow got loose and he'd to go chase him down the lane🐄🏃 Another one was he'd gone to mart to buy cattle but instead came back with 7 donkeys and couldn't meet till he re-homed them first 🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🫏🏠 😂" I'd like to know where in the country this cattle mart that sells donkeys is??? LOL | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though." Teh thread is about worst excuses for cancelling, if the above it true I think being hospital-bound after a fall is a fairly reasonable excuse myself 🙃 | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though." Those in the Fab universe must not be very H&S aware, a single lady I had arranged to meet informed me 30 minutes before the meeting time that her husband just fell down the stairs and was waiting for an ambulance to arrive 👀🚑 | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though. Those in the Fab universe must not be very H&S aware, a single lady I had arranged to meet informed me 30 minutes before the meeting time that her husband just fell down the stairs and was waiting for an ambulance to arrive 👀🚑" a lot of fabbers fall down , never see any pics of crutches on top pics though | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though. Those in the Fab universe must not be very H&S aware, a single lady I had arranged to meet informed me 30 minutes before the meeting time that her husband just fell down the stairs and was waiting for an ambulance to arrive 👀🚑" I had arranged a date with a woman who cancelled two hours before because she fell down the stairs and bruised her coccyx. We met up a week later and she still couldn't sit comfortably! I had been sure she made it up | |||
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"Usually we just got ghosted. I think there was one where he said he was too tired and just gonna watch tv or something" some ppl are born stupid and just grow into it lol , their loss | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though. Teh thread is about worst excuses for cancelling, if the above it true I think being hospital-bound after a fall is a fairly reasonable excuse myself 🙃" I sympathise if that's the case. But if there was someone I was to meet, and for some mad reason I couldn't. I'd be rearranging as soon as possible. | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though. Those in the Fab universe must not be very H&S aware, a single lady I had arranged to meet informed me 30 minutes before the meeting time that her husband just fell down the stairs and was waiting for an ambulance to arrive 👀🚑" 🤔🤕🤥 | |||
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"So far I was pretty lucky from this point of view 😁 If there's something organised, I always double check with 2-3 hours in advance if the plan stands out. If there's no reply within an hour then I send a text back politely that is no point to waste anyone's time and everything is cancelled. Always expects nothing and zero harm 😊" When the single blokes that didn't meet me didn't reply to my messages I knew something was up...so knew it was either a bullshit profile or just a genuine bullshitter!! I'm only thankful I didn't actually arrange a time an place an go out... an allow them to be no shows! | |||
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"Half way through the 80km journey to meet her, she messaged saying she fell at work and had to go to hospital. Her partner later messaged saying she is concussed, and bed rest for a week. She never tried to rearrange though. Teh thread is about worst excuses for cancelling, if the above it true I think being hospital-bound after a fall is a fairly reasonable excuse myself 🙃 I sympathise if that's the case. But if there was someone I was to meet, and for some mad reason I couldn't. I'd be rearranging as soon as possible. " A steel shutter came down on top of me and I ended up in hospital. I'll ensure next time I'm concussed I have the coffee then seeing as it was an excuse to you  | |||
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"Drove an hour to their house, was on the street and the husband messages that he forgot to tell his wife I was coming and she was away to bed but would I like a handjob in the car from him. I did not " Hahahah, the old wife's asleep story... | |||
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"Had been in conversation with a couple for a while, even friended one another. Then it turned out we were travelling to the same city for the weekend and arranged to meet, even texted one another along the way. Upon arrival everything went quite, after a number hours eventually got a message to say the lady was too d*unk, bummer. Doesn't end there. Some time later our paths crossed in person at a long weekend Fab event, turns out that maybe it was good we did not meet as they were the life of the party not and did not socially engage with others. (They're no longer on Fab do can talk about it now) " it takes all kind really on here | |||
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"Half hour before a meet many years ago this couple told us his girlfriends family baught her a hair salon and tonight is the opening night. But he is willing to come on his own. Some people "Ahh the ol' " I'll save the night " from the guy ...some people is right 🫣🫣🫣 | |||
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"With today's technology it would be very easy to minimise no shows. Very easy for the software engineers to built it into the fab site. Organise a meet on fab, let all parties to the meet confirm the location on a map, check in on arrival and have a report button stating someone didn't turn up. Which can be confirmed by them not allowing fab to see their location or them not showing up. Then have a warning visible on the profile that this account was a previous non runner and didn't turn up, all the dreamers would think twice about arranging or agreeing to meet. Twice I have this happen, a couple who just ghosted me when I got to the location, and also a female, they just block you then, another issue here is bad reviews aren't displayed or left I'd imagine. We only see the good ones and you can't edit or remove afterwards." Totally agree with you I just had 2 meets today not happen it's getting redicliciois now on fab my sub is up in 2 days and I am fuked if I am renewing it the administrator doesn't give a toss just wants your money time wasters should be reported and if you can provide evidence with screenshots of messages etc they should be banned and if they set up another account report it and ban it again the site would be a better place then | |||
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