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By *uka007 OP   Man
23 weeks ago

All of Ireland, Truck Driver

Hi All,

I was working in a company for 21 months until I quit in late September 2023 due to workplace bullying by a person who hurt me so badly that I was forced to quit and I thought I had made good friends in this company until I heard back that some of them former work colleagues ring me every 2 to 3 weeks asking me how I am doing in the new company I’m working in and I just wanted to know news.

These work colleagues are running back to this company that I left with news that I tell them. Should I block all contact with them? Or should I just let their phone calls continue to ring and hoping they might stop ringing me.

Do you have trust in your work colleagues?

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By *og-ManMan
23 weeks ago

somewhere

They're not work colleagues

Drop contact

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By *radseman.jayMan
23 weeks ago

allover

Happened to me in a sports club I set up same shit. They only rang fishing for info let on they cared what I done was filled them with shit they soon tired and don't bother now. Real friends care how you are not who you are my advice is move on fuck them

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By *herest KhanMan
23 weeks ago

The Jungle

Just stop answering. Work colleagues are normally just that, colleagues, not friends.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
23 weeks ago

ireland

Block their numbers ,noone needs people in their lives like these tell tales !

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By *ictureperfectCouple
23 weeks ago

Kildare

I separate work and personal life. Work colleagues are just that, not friends. Drop contact. Even if they were 'friends', they sound like shitty ones. I'd still recommend dropping contact

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
23 weeks ago

sligo

Drop contact, and move on.

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By *antra MassageMan
23 weeks ago

Galway

They have lost your trust.

Move on, develop new friends.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
23 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"Hi All,

I was working in a company for 21 months until I quit in late September 2023 due to workplace bullying by a person who hurt me so badly that I was forced to quit and I thought I had made good friends in this company until I heard back that some of them former work colleagues ring me every 2 to 3 weeks asking me how I am doing in the new company I’m working in and I just wanted to know news.

These work colleagues are running back to this company that I left with news that I tell them. Should I block all contact with them? Or should I just let their phone calls continue to ring and hoping they might stop ringing me.

Do you have trust in your work colleagues?"

Well it absolutely sucks to know that people you are talking to aren't keeping your confidence. But it sounds like your old place of work was toxic and unfortunately they are still part of that.

If you don't want to hear from them anymore you have that power, ignore their calls, if you don't feed the drama you can move on with your fresh start, and they will lose interest and move on too.

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By *SydneyMan
23 weeks ago

Dublin/London


"Hi All,

I was working in a company for 21 months until I quit in late September 2023 due to workplace bullying by a person who hurt me so badly that I was forced to quit and I thought I had made good friends in this company until I heard back that some of them former work colleagues ring me every 2 to 3 weeks asking me how I am doing in the new company I’m working in and I just wanted to know news.

These work colleagues are running back to this company that I left with news that I tell them. Should I block all contact with them? Or should I just let their phone calls continue to ring and hoping they might stop ringing me.

Do you have trust in your work colleagues?"

Sorry to hear you went through that, sounds like a really tough time.

It sounds like your old colleagues aren’t your friends, and don’t have your best interests at heart. I imagine it might be better for you to simply block their numbers and try and move on as best you can, rather than have the numbers ring though unanswered, to remind you of this old company.

Best of luck no matter what you decide.

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By *ourtJesterMan
23 weeks ago

carlow

Do not drop contact.

You know they are fake, so feed them. Feed them with useless nonsense about how things have taken a turn for the better. Throw in a 100k+ lotto win. Anything, just make it seem like your doing well and happy even if you are not.

Them hearing you are happy will kill them inside

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By *ot so needyMan
23 weeks ago

Galway


"Hi All,

I was working in a company for 21 months until I quit in late September 2023 due to workplace bullying by a person who hurt me so badly that I was forced to quit and I thought I had made good friends in this company until I heard back that some of them former work colleagues ring me every 2 to 3 weeks asking me how I am doing in the new company I’m working in and I just wanted to know news.

These work colleagues are running back to this company that I left with news that I tell them. Should I block all contact with them? Or should I just let their phone calls continue to ring and hoping they might stop ringing me.

Do you have trust in your work colleagues?"

Just read your previous posts on different threads you created.

You seem to have no luck with people. Or maybe you are just a little bit too sensitive.

Why worry so much about what others think.👍

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By *aughty MilfCouple
23 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"Hi All,

I was working in a company for 21 months until I quit in late September 2023 due to workplace bullying by a person who hurt me so badly that I was forced to quit and I thought I had made good friends in this company until I heard back that some of them former work colleagues ring me every 2 to 3 weeks asking me how I am doing in the new company I’m working in and I just wanted to know news.

These work colleagues are running back to this company that I left with news that I tell them. Should I block all contact with them? Or should I just let their phone calls continue to ring and hoping they might stop ringing me.

Do you have trust in your work colleagues?

Just read your previous posts on different threads you created.

You seem to have no luck with people. Or maybe you are just a little bit too sensitive.

Why worry so much about what others think.👍"
noticed that to

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