FabSwingers.com forum: Girls into Daddy's

By *ouse4545 OP Man
18 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Any one on that would like daddy type.

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By *laudiaHynesTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes, all the time. But I'm a cd

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

Is a daddy a sugar daddy or just an older man

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By *ednuts101Man
18 weeks ago

Northside

A Daddy is an older guy

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
18 weeks ago

Cork

My father was a good man

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By *olfhunterMan
18 weeks ago

Magic place

Term Daddy

Daddy is a wide-ranging term used across many different sexual situations and sexualities to describe a dominant partner in a relationship. Daddy is most commonly used in a power exchange relationship, where one partner identifies as submissive to the dominant Daddy. A Daddy can be stern or caring, can inflict punishment and provide rewards and can assume that role during sex and in real life, depending on the relationship. In most instances, Daddy refers to a male partner, though the term can also be used by anyone who wants to adopt a Daddy persona. Daddies can be found in many different relationship structures and the term is not limited to any specific sexuality.

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
18 weeks ago

Home

All I know is the term "daddy" gives me a cold shiver down my spine when I hear it.

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By *avexxMan
18 weeks ago

cheshire

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By *otownkid1967Man
18 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"All I know is the term "daddy" gives me a cold shiver down my spine when I hear it."

Same here, real turn off tbh

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
18 weeks ago

Cork

"All I know is the term "daddy" gives me a cold shiver down my spine when I hear it."

Do you prefer father?

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By *p4fun678Couple
18 weeks ago

Town

"All I know is the term "daddy" gives me a cold shiver down my spine when I hear it.

Same here, real turn off tbh"

This! Don't get it at all. Last thing I want to be hearing about when we're up to no good 😂

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By *ezabelle200Woman
18 weeks ago

down town

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

Lol, I'm not going to lie but I have a serious fantasy about being "bought" & owned & having to do anything my "owner" wants... but as for all things... sometimes fantasies should be left as just that.. fantasy is like in the movie indecent proposal, or even pretty woman. where the millionaire was kind of hot... reality would be he would pig ugly & rotten...

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By *s SingletWoman
18 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I've had a daddy and I've been a brat and enjoyed the experience

I'd be happy to have a similar situation again but it's so hard to get past the wannabe doms and find the right guy

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By *otownkid1967Man
18 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Had a couple of messages last night from a lady giving out that I ripped into the OP with my comment. This lady who doesn't post in forums was in full Helen mode giving out about the forums and people who post.

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

"Had a couple of messages last night from a lady giving out that I ripped into the OP with my comment. This lady who doesn't post in forums was in full Helen mode giving out about the forums and people who post."

Is it not a Karen...never heard of a Helen

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role and for the sub allows transferral of most power and decision-making and so can be very effective for sub play. It's not really what most people fear it is.

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By *acob12369Man
18 weeks ago

URPANTS

Fine as long as it's not their own

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By *otownkid1967Man
18 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Is it not a Karen...never heard of a Helen "

Yup you are right

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
18 weeks ago

From a galaxy far far away

This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.

This...

For me....with no parental issues or trauma... it's a recognition of their guiding hand, experience and my respect of them, when used in a power exchange relationship. I've had beautiful relationships in the past where I've consulted my "Daddy" on my career, professional development, relationship and life goals. My "Daddy" is usually mature, professional, extremely well educated and knowledgeable and its his life experience that lends me to affectionately call him "Daddy"

Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.

It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.

Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.

So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related

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By *ezabelle200Woman
18 weeks ago

down town

"This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.

This...

Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.

It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.

Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.

So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related

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By *j47Man
18 weeks ago

limerick

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

So how much are we talking

Asking for a friend

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
18 weeks ago

Lucan

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

So how much are we talking

Asking for a friend

Ah howya daddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

For me i like the idea calling him daddy. Its really a turn on. 🤤

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By *oxylovettTV/TS
18 weeks ago

waterford

Would love a hot daddy

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By *ezabelle200Woman
18 weeks ago

down town

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

So how much are we talking

Asking for a friend

Would depend on how hot daddy was 😂😂😂

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By *teph102Woman
18 weeks ago

Derry

I’ve always wanted a daddy with sugar lol

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By *mazingTimesMan
18 weeks ago

Dublin

Come say hello!

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By *iresmillyWoman
18 weeks ago

Stillorgan

I’m a submissive with a Daddy Dom- but I’m also more kinkster than swinger. Probably not something that most swingers are really into. There is nothing as sexy as asking “Daddy, fill me”. Now the Marilyn Monroe documentary did give me the ick hearing her say Daddy all the time TBH, but she had Daddy issues.

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By *illythefish17Man
18 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

As in my profile name I do love a bit of being called daddy. Not about an age thing at all it is just a very hot thing to hear. I like to gently be in control and let the boundaries look after themselves.

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By *j47Man
18 weeks ago

limerick

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

So how much are we talking

Asking for a friend

Ah howya daddy!

Now that reminds me of Ash

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By *j47Man
18 weeks ago

limerick

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

So how much are we talking

Asking for a friend

Would depend on how hot daddy was 😂😂😂"

Quickly searches for a pic of George Cloney on the internet

Well we are negoiating I am just trying to give my friend the best possible starting point

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Who’s your Daddy!

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By *uietcuriousMan
18 weeks ago

Drogheda

Is the female equivalent a mammy?

Asking for a friend!

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By *ano53Man
18 weeks ago

Wicklow

Being called Daddy turns me on .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Is the female equivalent a mammy?

Asking for a friend!"

Yes. A lot of sub guys are into this.

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By *oresumBisumCouple (FF)
18 weeks ago

Sexyvilla

Is the female equivalent a mammy?

Asking for a friend!

Usually "Mommy" can also be "Mommy Dommy"

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By *reative ideasMan
18 weeks ago

Next door

"This is something I / we have experience of and find a turnon. It's really an extension of normal Dominant/submissive play with an emphasis on a nurturing/caregiving Dominant role.

This...

Once that term is acceptable to both it can be fun and beautiful and in exchange to be someone's "Little One" is also a beautiful thing.

It's mainly used in the Kink World as other realms sometimes do not fully understand those alternative names or deep relationships.

Again, it's not referring to the person's actual parent.... if it is....that's a whole different kink.

So if you are a Daddy being called that by a Daddy's Girl or Mommy...being called that by a Mommys Boy... its a whole different dynamic...and not usually Swinging related

I knew you'd have the best response!

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By *ot so needyMan
18 weeks ago

Galway

I had the same views about this as most here that dont understand it.

People think this is something it most definitely isn't.

I have experienced this lately and have to say when I knew before I did it and understood what it is about I really enjoy it.for me its a protective role minding and making sure she enjoys and get what she is looking for out of the situation. Its mostly built on trust.it is just two people in a dom sub relationship where the Dom is called Daddy instead of Sir and the punishment is less severe.

Maybe people should look it up and understand better before they kink shame and Diss what others are into.

Thank for reading my opinionated shite...

Lot of Love

Daddy xxx

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

To be fair I don't think anyone is kink shaming here (yet). It's ok to not be into stuff that other people are.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
18 weeks ago

Belfast

In BDSM/kink community a D/s relationship (Dom/sub) is very common and some are part time (kept in the bedroom only) or when the couple are together alone or within understanding arenas for example at kink events and socials. Some D/s is full time 24/7 and this is often called TPE (Total Power Exchange).

There is a sliding scale of types of discipline and styles. At its harshest the dynamic is baddie owner and willing degraded sl-ve. At its most caring it is Pleasure Dom and Princess. And everything in between.

Daddy fits in to that probably one up from Pleasure Dom. A Daddy (or even a MommyDom) will be a caring figure who puts their Sub at the centre of play. It is often Male Dom and Female Sub but not always. There may be an element of DDlg in it. Daddy Dom/little girl. This is age play but not to be confused with the 'p..o' word. Everyone has discussed and consented.

There is no coercion or abuse of a sub, because they really hold the power. They want to be submissive. They want to give up the adulting. They want someone to make them hot chocolate and change the tyre and put up with them acting in a bratty way that will get them spanked. They want the spanking.

Bratting is a whole sub category. The opposite of bratting is being good, compliant and well behaved. Some Doms are Brat Tamers, they love the back and forth challenge of a bratty sub, and they make firey couples who are a lot of fun to hang out with.

And all any person has to do is say 'stop' (or an agreed safe word) and it comes to an end.

Communication is key in D/s. Much deeper exploration of wants, desires, limits and boundaries than there is in vanilla relationships.

Vics (f)

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By *electableicecreamMan
18 weeks ago

The West

Some women have no interest or knowledge of kink or Dom/sub dynamics at all and just like to say Yes Daddy when told their beimg a good girl because it's hot for them.

It's just another vibe. In my experience it's the more common one too but I'm not engaged with the the kink scene at all.

'Who's your daddy' is a joke with an edge that's very much in the mainstream and I think while it all has it's roots in kink it's come to the wide world via American porn.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I don't think you necessarily need knowledge and understanding of BDSM in order to get that subby thrill that some get from this kind of thing. Oftentimes people don't really understand their own urges and just go with what feels good without the analysis. I think it's often rooted in the same stuff though

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By *carlett_xWoman
18 weeks ago

West cork

I had a few Daddy/kitten experiences. It was fun at the time. I enjoyed the sexual attention I got with a caring Daddy. The spanking I got when I stepped out of line was delicious tho

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
18 weeks ago

Belfast

"I don't think you necessarily need knowledge and understanding of BDSM in order to get that subby thrill that some get from this kind of thing. Oftentimes people don't really understand their own urges and just go with what feels good without the analysis. I think it's often rooted in the same stuff though "

I agree that to start with you can with what feels natural. But then I think it's a good idea to do some research because it will be good inspiration and maybe even open the doors to more possibilities.

I also think it's good to know about certain red flags and how to learn to negotiate properly. But that can come in time if the couple wants to go down that route.

Fet is full of 22 year old Masters and fake Doms who say subs shouldn't have any boundaries. So education is important too.

Also D/s is generally within the context of a relationship and not pick up play due to the amount of trust needed.

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By *uietcuriousMan
18 weeks ago

Drogheda

"Is the female equivalent a mammy?

Asking for a friend!

Usually "Mommy" can also be "Mommy Dommy""

The dynamic sounds interesting and worth exploring. But the tags could make some shiver!

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By *abygravyMan
18 weeks ago

Dublin

I have a couple of suger babies who are in their mid twenties. We chat and I mentor them, buy them gifts etc and we are intimate, always on their terms. I really enjoy it, and presume they do too (or they wouldn't stay in touch). We have great fun. Well worth it!

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By *rish_vixenWoman
18 weeks ago

kerry

Absolutely love Daddy’s!

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By *rish_vixenWoman
18 weeks ago

kerry

(As in roleplay)

It’s a dominance thing for me.

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By *abygravyMan
18 weeks ago

Dublin

.... always more room on my roster...

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By *rishCouple90Couple
17 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Absolutely

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By *mazingTimesMan
17 weeks ago

Dublin

Any sugar babies in this morning??

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By *attooYouMan
17 weeks ago

just about northside

Oh I been called 'Daddy' a few times here. If used way too early in the conversation then I know they have no clue. Used correctly and it's opens a whole new world.

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By *ano53Man
17 weeks ago

Wicklow

It's such a turn on when I get called Daddy ..

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By *ionycusMan
17 weeks ago

Babylon

I like when they call me Papi 😂

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By *ano53Man
17 weeks ago

Wicklow

"I like when they call me Papi 😂"
lol

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By *iSi74Man
17 weeks ago

Drogheda, Meath, Dublin, Santry

"Yes, all the time. But I'm a cd"

CD = Completely desirable!

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Luv an older daddy

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By *adger BrocMan
17 weeks ago

Co. Cork

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

I have met one or two women over the years who have a daddy fixation. Very enjoyable for all concerned.

Always open for a new one.

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By *ddcoupleCouple
17 weeks ago

wex kilkenny waterford

Well what to say my girl calls me daddy all the time at first was bit weird but is just used for fun not in public but during play she often says it so we say before she might say it during is just her thing along with biting she does that in public when frustrated but is all in gd fun nothing else

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
17 weeks ago

City

My dad left me (Can’t say I blame him) will you play catch with me instead? Or is this only for women?

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By *Clem-Fandango-Woman
15 weeks ago

Yarm

Great response. I was in a dynamic for 2 years ( high protocol with a Daddy) and although I do miss it greatly, it's just too hard to come by and put the energy into for someone to not match the effort.

I would love a Daddy again, just can't find someone who can match my busy schedule

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By *arbles00Man
15 weeks ago

Area 54

It's a term alot of people don't like. I'm currently being called daddy and I'm very much enjoying it.

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By *ark_2009_1Man
15 weeks ago

tullamore

Well explained

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By *ark_2009_1Man
15 weeks ago

tullamore

"Term Daddy

Term Sugar daddy

a wealthy man who spends freely on a younger person, generally a woman or a gay man, in return for companionship or sexual intimacy.

And yes myself are a Daddy Dom/ Pleasure Dom.. With a Dadbod Build

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By *iSi74Man
15 weeks ago

Drogheda, Meath, Dublin, Santry

"Yes, all the time. But I'm a cd"

Sexy as hell also..

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
15 weeks ago

Dungannon/Belfast

"Luv an older daddy "

likewise, very unique dynamics

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Love a good role play but perhaps I'm still too young to be a Proper Daddy! Does turn me on to be called Daddy. Think it's a power thing. Best not to think about it too much and enjoy.

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By *rezMan
15 weeks ago

Claregalway

Who's Your Daddy

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By *estroneMan
15 weeks ago

enfield

I dont mind been a daddy lol

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By *d d3Man
15 weeks ago

Fairview

Hey, anyone know of some daddy/admirer WhatsApp groups? Would love to be added

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