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By *ichael00300 OP   Man
6 days ago

Cork

5 is mine

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
6 days ago

Home

Probably about 10 due to playing forum games

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By *og-ManMan
6 days ago

somewhere

In how long a period

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By *lassicpMan
6 days ago

Kerry

One a month sad face

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By *ichael00300 OP   Man
6 days ago

Cork

When you logged in one day what was the most

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By *igglefunWoman
6 days ago

Cork

164 at the minute

Can't be arsed reading them

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By *eanRMan
6 days ago

ballymun

About 3 once

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 days ago

Belfast

2 or 3 max

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By *og-ManMan
6 days ago

somewhere


"164 at the minute

Can't be arsed reading them "

165

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By *he KakapoMan
6 days ago

A nice rock

I like to mark mine unread before I SS my profile so I look popular as fuuuuuuck

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By *s LollyWoman
6 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Joined first those many years ago set no filters and had in the space of 2 or 3 day's about 1500+ i screen shot it cause i was totally shocked 😂

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By *ickedtiesWoman
6 days ago

limerick

108 since Friday...I deleted about 300 of them Friday...I can't keep up!!

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By *og-ManMan
6 days ago

somewhere

The pressure running a secret message thread

About 50 but max of 10 unopened at a time

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By *inaraWoman
6 days ago

close to you

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By *inaraWoman
6 days ago

close to you

1200 messages , at the moment unopened is 618

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
6 days ago

sligo

2 or 3 at most

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By *D666KellyTV/TS
6 days ago

Dublin

4 or 5 a day, mostly right after I login

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

I'm on Fab too much so I'm always going through them. Never counted. No idea could be 2 could be 42...

If I didn't want them I'd set the filters...

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By *om TangoMan
6 days ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Zero from females and couples. Maybe 2-3 a week from blank male profiles that want to do all sorts with me.

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By *ustBoWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

A couple of hundred within an hour when I first joined then I discovered filters and tightened them up tighter than a ducks ass. Now I rarely get any messages and I'm fine with that,I don't see the point in getting a load that I won't want to answer or even look at,it saves me time and saves people writing messages that won't get a reply to.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 days ago

The West

Why are ducks asses so tight?

I didn't have this question before I joined fab.

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By *rRiosMan
6 days ago

dublin

6. Mostly men, the rest politely answering questions I asked

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By *ustBoWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Why are ducks asses so tight?

I didn't have this question before I joined fab."

So they don't fill up with water when swimming of course

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar


"Why are ducks asses so tight?

I didn't have this question before I joined fab.

So they don't fill up with water when swimming of course "

Like a natural butt plug?

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By *ustBoWoman
6 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Why are ducks asses so tight?

I didn't have this question before I joined fab.

So they don't fill up with water when swimming of course

Like a natural butt plug? "

Exactly like that 😀

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By *xplorerMan28Man
6 days ago

Coleraine

Now I know that, sending messages to women makes no sense

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
6 days ago

Galway, Clare

And then there's the people who don't set the filters so when someone starts a forum thread like this they get to say "Oh I've got 937". Yaawn!!

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
6 days ago

Funville

1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
6 days ago

Louth


"Zero from females and couples. Maybe 2-3 a week from blank male profiles that want to do all sorts with me. "

no more mail from us so

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By *s LollyWoman
6 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬"

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really...

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By *inaraWoman
6 days ago

close to you


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬"

I won’t mind, but I have lots of filters too

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By *inaraWoman
6 days ago

close to you


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really..."

I have lots of filters applied, still getting a lot of messages

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By *eestar10Man
6 days ago

cavan


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really...

I have lots of filters applied, still getting a lot of messages "

Doesn’t help when ya have an ass like yours lol

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By *Sparkie.Man
6 days ago

Ratoath

Currently 4 unopened, 1 fem 3 guys but I find when I upload a pic I gets lots of mail from guys even though my profile says straight,so I can only imagine how many women get, the most I get is on a day I've the who's near on, especially if its late at night, the horn does be strong in straight lads messaging looking to suck

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By *og-ManMan
6 days ago

somewhere


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really...

I have lots of filters applied, still getting a lot of messages "

If it helps you could block all messages and any profile that catches your eye you could message them

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By *ustMe!Couple
6 days ago

co.down

Currently sitting with 148 unopened. And iv been on and off today going through them x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 days ago

Castlebar


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬"

I couldn't be arsed. Why would you bother even going through them...I'd need a week off for that shit. And if you aren't interested delete and block or they just repeat message. It's the same ones every week then. Pretty easy to do I'd have thought.

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
6 days ago

shankill

From one person about 20. From individuals, I’d say about 10

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By *ice guy 8Man
6 days ago

Fermanagh

Gets lots every week from men and 4/5 from what am looking..Go to PDI for a week and you could have 15.. 20 everyday lol, spoilt for choice, big reality check when you get home, lol 😆

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really...

I have lots of filters applied, still getting a lot of messages

If it helps you could block all messages and any profile that catches your eye you could message them "

If can block or put filter for other countries not message me or filter just for messages “Hi”

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

Any one can keep the volume of messages wayyyyyy down with filters it's just wanting to really...

I have lots of filters applied, still getting a lot of messages

Doesn’t help when ya have an ass like yours lol"

I would say so too 😂

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬

I couldn't be arsed. Why would you bother even going through them...I'd need a week off for that shit. And if you aren't interested delete and block or they just repeat message. It's the same ones every week then. Pretty easy to do I'd have thought. "

System deleting for me, I just don’t touch them, I chat with who I want. I don’t bother let them write if they want the chance of being opened and read quiet slim.

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By *oodieMan
5 days ago

Mayo


"1200+ messages??? 👀😲

Seriously, how do people even manage an inbox with that level of messages and what's the point in even trying to contact women on here when competing against those numbers 😬"

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By *evin86Man
5 days ago

South Dublin

Ahhh this thread is a nice little insight into the reason that 99% of the messages I send go unread then eventually get deleted. No matter how taughtful or how much effort I put in I used to send alot of messages on here but now realise in reality there's not much point. Now I only message if someone really takes my fancy but I'm trying to adapt a different approach now like attending events and being more active in the forums. But up to now I probably get around 20-30 messages per year 🫣

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By *rish sissy cum slutTV/TS
5 days ago

cork

I got a thousand or more in a day when on the main hotlist

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By *affa31Woman
5 days ago

Galway

I tend to have 6-10 sitting unread that I keep meaning to reply to…will I? Probably not 🙈

I open and delete new messages whenever I’m online which is a lot tbf.

I don’t understand why you would leave 100s unread. Just bulk delete.

Any woman posting pictures regularly or meets or veris or on cam will get lots of messages, it’s part and parcel of it. It means fuck all.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
5 days ago

Portstewart

When we first joined before knowing about filters etc the most messages we ever got was after we uploaded some public pics and that was 400ish

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By *rystalsswingCouple
5 days ago

Galway / Midlands / West

From the people we want them from???

Zero 🙄

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
5 days ago

Lucan


"From the people we want them from???

Zero 🙄"

Sorry about that

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By *s LollyWoman
5 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄

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By *outhDublinMan86Man
5 days ago

shankill


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄"

It’s like announcing your deleting or removing your account. Fab isn’t an airport love you don’t need to tell everyone where you’re going

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
5 days ago

East / North, Cork


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄"

I don't mind this because it basically saying if anyone sent them a message then it's not even looked at so don't take an unread delete personally

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By *s LollyWoman
5 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄

It’s like announcing your deleting or removing your account. Fab isn’t an airport love you don’t need to tell everyone where you’re going"

Haha exactly this 🤣

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By *s LollyWoman
5 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄

I don't mind this because it basically saying if anyone sent them a message then it's not even looked at so don't take an unread delete personally "

Come on now your on fab long to know that's isn't the reason 😂😂

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By *s. DevineWoman
5 days ago

Dublin

When I first joined, my inbox was flooded and it was impossible to read everything. Now my filters are set and I’ve learned the power of the block button, so the repeat dick pic and ‘Hi’ offenders are gone.

On average, I would now get 2-8 messages/day. Totally manageable and I read and reply to each of them, even if it’s a ‘no thanks’.

Just to say though, even when there are a lot of messages coming in, the ones where the guy has gone to a bit of effort always stands out and they are the ones that wil always get a reply.

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄"

I am delighted to put it on status, I don’t get the new ones anymore, the system deletes what I am not interested, I use only friends chat what is much easier for communicate with who I really want. So nothing to cry about in my status on all fab it’s honest request

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄

I don't mind this because it basically saying if anyone sent them a message then it's not even looked at so don't take an unread delete personally "

💯

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By *iscuits8Man
5 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"164 at the minute

Can't be arsed reading them "

152 of those are mine... sorry about that

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 days ago

Castlebar


"It's the ones that have to status update they have to bulk delete or state how many they have, just delete ffs why do ye need to tell the whole of fab it's kinda cringy to be honest 🙄

I don't mind this because it basically saying if anyone sent them a message then it's not even looked at so don't take an unread delete personally

Come on now your on fab long to know that's isn't the reason 😂😂"

🤣🤣🤔

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By *igglefunWoman
5 days ago

Cork


"164 at the minute

Can't be arsed reading them

152 of those are mine... sorry about that"

I told u before stop harassing me

All gone through now

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By *s LollyWoman
5 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

For the white knights dms on your horse 🐎 and gallop the fuck on don't make me status update ye 🤭🫣😂

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By *adger BrocMan
5 days ago

Co. Cork

I much prefer to get massages rather than messages.

🙌

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By *inaraWoman
5 days ago

close to you

Well maybe update your status may you will attention that you are so desperate for. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭

Thank goodness I deal with men who not exaggerating or imagining

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By *antra MassageMan
5 days ago

city

I used get quite a few every week. I'm more popular with the men, for some reason. I've adjusted my filters, so now it's down to a few a week.

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By *otownkid1967Man
5 days ago

Portlaoise

Probably 10 or 11 after posting in the forums.

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By *otownkid1967Man
5 days ago

Portlaoise


"1200 messages , at the moment unopened is 618 "

600 of those are mine

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
5 days ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Right,here we go ...

Pinky finger to lips

Best Dr. Evil voice

" 1 million messages "

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By *herry...Woman
5 days ago

Somewhere

About 10 to 15 a day, like other women when I joined it was in the hundreds, again found filters so it helps reduce the amount of messages received

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By *0ndayMan
5 days ago

Newcastle

I only get the odd message a few times a year. "Thanks for becoming a site supporter"

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By *agicMxlMan
4 days ago

Only out the road

I had 2 once! Got very excited lol. Keep sending nice polite messages in the hope I get a nice reply and I do sometimes. Patience is key I guess and obviously people need to be so careful

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By *oey3Man
4 days ago

galway

Can a person get messages on here.

Never knew that ..

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By *oodgirlgioWoman
4 days ago

Mullingar

Right now I have 39 🫣 but I find myself spending more time deleting than responding at times. I don't want to filter any age out to message me because of making friends of all ages at socials. I would love if there was an auto delete for "Hi", "Hi sexy", or the likes. I try to have conversations I engage with but lads don't make it easy! And for me personally, if there's no profile Pic I auto delete it myself

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By *eremy44Man
4 days ago

Wicklow

1 in months…

Got one yesterday and was very exited who could possibly text me until I opened it and it was actually from Fabswingers saying my site support running out 😀

Not exited anymore 😀

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By *ionycusMan
4 days ago

Babylon

Imagine you could set a filter that blocked out the "hi", "hey" "great tit's/ass/pussy" "how's you" , messages, I wonder how many would you get then.?

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By *oodgirlgioWoman
4 days ago

Mullingar


"Imagine you could set a filter that blocked out the "hi", "hey" "great tit's/ass/pussy" "how's you" , messages, I wonder how many would you get then.?"

A whole lot more quality over quantity anyways!

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By *eremy44Man
4 days ago

Wicklow


"Imagine you could set a filter that blocked out the "hi", "hey" "great tit's/ass/pussy" "how's you" , messages, I wonder how many would you get then.?

A whole lot more quality over quantity anyways!"

100%

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By *odkaandredbullCouple
4 days ago

Antrim

The amount of decent messages or shit talk messages lol

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By *reetogoodhomeMan
4 days ago

Hereandthere

At one time ??..3...& All by ladies that made time to reply...random or out of the blue ones drop in now & again .

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By *oshSardineMan
4 days ago

Castleknock

One or two. It is what it is really.

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By *oshSardineMan
4 days ago

Castleknock


"One or two. It is what it is really. "

I should have said mostly Tuesdays when I get them as I get a few private ‘Titty Tuesday’ pics, well when I say a few, it’s two max

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere


"One or two. It is what it is really.

I should have said mostly Tuesdays when I get them as I get a few private ‘Titty Tuesday’ pics, well when I say a few, it’s two max "

Is that two titties or two titty pics

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By *oshSardineMan
4 days ago

Castleknock


"One or two. It is what it is really.

I should have said mostly Tuesdays when I get them as I get a few private ‘Titty Tuesday’ pics, well when I say a few, it’s two max

Is that two titties or two titty pics "

Two titties

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By *ozzlesMan
4 days ago

galway

1 usually when Fab want some money but I live in hope 🙏 is

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By *eroLondonMan
4 days ago

Mayfair

Since the start of the year? About 200.

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By *tevieobMan
4 days ago

Dublin

Just the one usually

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By *acob12369Man
4 days ago

URPANTS

3, and 2 of those from admin

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By *averickABCMan
4 days ago

cavan

Agree with Deestar10 Rinara, it’s that ass that’s causing the problem!

Being honest, as a single male, seeing 1 unread causes excitement. And that’s nearly always a reply to one of a number of sent msgs.

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By *iscuits8Man
4 days ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

4 or 5 is probably the most unread I've had at a time. Would be for the likes of forum games... or in one case the Boobies for Biscuits thread of yesteryear, the greatest day of Fab there ever was and ever will be

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By *ophiee500Woman
4 days ago

North

500

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By *inaraWoman
4 days ago

close to you


"Agree with Deestar10 Rinara, it’s that ass that’s causing the problem!

Being honest, as a single male, seeing 1 unread causes excitement. And that’s nearly always a reply to one of a number of sent msgs. "

That ass cost some very embarrassing moment for some men in real life 🤣 🤭 never mind all the messages I get. I love reply to guys who put an effort into their messages

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By *lueeyedbrunetteWoman
4 days ago

Wirral

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