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By *imerick lady OP   Woman
1 day ago

suburbs

Hey ladies

I’ve recently had a change in cycle pattern . I’ve gone from having no period (due to contraceptive injection ) to having one almost every day for the last 4 weeks . Obviously I plan to see the doctor to get it checked out , but how do ladies with unpredictable cycles manage with meets on here. I don’t want to arrange a meet and have to cancel on the day because I’ve started bleeding (even though it’s only very light ) I don’t feel sexy having sex on my period so that’s not an option for me

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
1 day ago

There and Here

While peri-menopausal my cycle was very unpredictable. I just had to plan as best I could, but had to cancel a couple of times with profuse apologies. Truthfully, anyone worth their salt will understand and perhaps, if you're feeling up to it, you could suggest doing something else socially instead.

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By *astelloWoman
23 hours ago

Far far away

Cycles depend on where you in your hormonal journey. Unfortunately as you age, cycles fluctuate. I find mature men understand and being honest is the best policy. Definitely go to doctor to check hormone levels.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
23 hours ago

Hereabouts


"Hey ladies

I’ve recently had a change in cycle pattern . I’ve gone from having no period (due to contraceptive injection ) to having one almost every day for the last 4 weeks . Obviously I plan to see the doctor to get it checked out , but how do ladies with unpredictable cycles manage with meets on here. I don’t want to arrange a meet and have to cancel on the day because I’ve started bleeding (even though it’s only very light ) I don’t feel sexy having sex on my period so that’s not an option for me "

I get ya. That's unsettling. I've the coil now so it's not an issue. But in your shoes id probably just not arrange any meets til I saw the doc and it all settled down. Some guys would be fine with it all, and that's a comfort in itself, but if you feel out of sorts it would just be adding stress to have meets planned.

X

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
23 hours ago

My town

It's a pain well was I've not had a period in 3 yrs. But prior to it from being very clockwork, to it being the polor opposite. I had to cancell. But you do get impression your just fobbing off it's a easy excuse to use.... nothing worse the getting issues leading up to menopause with a regular cycle.

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By *imerick lady OP   Woman
22 hours ago

suburbs


"While peri-menopausal my cycle was very unpredictable. I just had to plan as best I could, but had to cancel a couple of times with profuse apologies. Truthfully, anyone worth their salt will understand and perhaps, if you're feeling up to it, you could suggest doing something else socially instead. "

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By *imerick lady OP   Woman
22 hours ago

suburbs


"Hey ladies

I’ve recently had a change in cycle pattern . I’ve gone from having no period (due to contraceptive injection ) to having one almost every day for the last 4 weeks . Obviously I plan to see the doctor to get it checked out , but how do ladies with unpredictable cycles manage with meets on here. I don’t want to arrange a meet and have to cancel on the day because I’ve started bleeding (even though it’s only very light ) I don’t feel sexy having sex on my period so that’s not an option for me

I get ya. That's unsettling. I've the coil now so it's not an issue. But in your shoes id probably just not arrange any meets til I saw the doc and it all settled down. Some guys would be fine with it all, and that's a comfort in itself, but if you feel out of sorts it would just be adding stress to have meets planned.

X"

Yeah I think it’s definitely adding stress trying to plan a meet and almost putting me off the process at the moment …. It’s a man’s world lol x

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By *exyScientistsCouple
19 hours ago

Castlebar


"Hey ladies

I’ve recently had a change in cycle pattern . I’ve gone from having no period (due to contraceptive injection ) to having one almost every day for the last 4 weeks . Obviously I plan to see the doctor to get it checked out , but how do ladies with unpredictable cycles manage with meets on here. I don’t want to arrange a meet and have to cancel on the day because I’ve started bleeding (even though it’s only very light ) I don’t feel sexy having sex on my period so that’s not an option for me "

I've been regular to within a few days for my while life so when things started to change last year it completely threw me mentally and physically. It wasn't much blood and I was meeting someone I knew well but it was an issue for me. And my mental state was affected due to the changing hormones which was almost harder to deal with.

I have cancelled meets when I've started earlier than expected. I couldn't feel comfortable about it even if they said no problem.

If it would just stop i'd only be thrilled

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
19 hours ago

Galway, Clare

Like I've said before.. Menopause is absolutely the gift that keeps on giving

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By *ornywife20Couple
17 hours ago

North Cork

It's hard to get a doctor to listen to you . Most female doctors say oh live with it or just get over it.

I found male doctors can be more sympathetic and more willing to help. Think finding a doctor that will listen and will tru to help is the main thing and the hardest thing.

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By *imerick lady OP   Woman
13 hours ago

suburbs


"It's hard to get a doctor to listen to you . Most female doctors say oh live with it or just get over it.

I found male doctors can be more sympathetic and more willing to help. Think finding a doctor that will listen and will tru to help is the main thing and the hardest thing. "

I’ve had the opposite experience with male doctors tbh . I’m sure I’m on the road to peri menopause 😫

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By *imerick lady OP   Woman
10 hours ago

suburbs


"It's a pain well was I've not had a period in 3 yrs. But prior to it from being very clockwork, to it being the polor opposite. I had to cancell. But you do get impression your just fobbing off it's an easy excuse to use.... nothing worse the getting issues leading up to menopause with a regular cycle. "

It’s a man’s world 🤪

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By *ild WomanWoman
8 hours ago

Carlow

Can be hard went on HRT beig mistake was exactly like when got periods as teenager was moody old cow and angry all the time. Stopped it and went different root all back to normal like was before found out was menopausal. But it been a couple of times been told I was that way then following test was told wrong. So I just do what I think is best for me and it works. Hopefully it will nit be such a problem for you and get right advice to move on.

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By *ATINE_SATINEWoman
7 hours ago

Kilbarrack

Just to help you with the actual question, you can buy a menstrual cup that allows you to have sex or a tampon that is actually a sponge you put in. In case you buy the sponge, I recommend the one with lub/moisturiser.

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By *acks the boy66Man
7 hours ago

limerick

It is natural for a lady

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By *ey hows it goingMan
5 hours ago

Terenure

I'll take a Look for you all and make sure everything is ok

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