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"I'll be judged for this and that's ok but .. People should know the difference between 'there', 'their' and 'they're' in their sentences. They have completely different meanings and yet they are used interchangeably. Honestly, I don't care if I'm judged for judging, I can take it... I think! Mrs xx " I think I came across wrong. I would love to be able to use correct words and punctuation, but I type and what I see or mean ,doesn't come out the way I mean. I am not trying to offend I promise | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" I’d say it depends whether it’s something you are genuinely bothered by yourself. If you are self conscious about it, perhaps pop it into one of the handy AI tools on the phone, or web, for a quick grammar and spell check before sending. Appreciate that may be overkill in the heat of the moment, but just a thought. But if you think people who over police spelling and grammar on here aren’t for you, think of it as a handy test to screen them before a meet | |||
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"I'll be judged for this and that's ok but .. People should know the difference between 'there', 'their' and 'they're' in their sentences. They have completely different meanings and yet they are used interchangeably. Honestly, I don't care if I'm judged for judging, I can take it... I think! Mrs xx I think I came across wrong. I would love to be able to use correct words and punctuation, but I type and what I see or mean ,doesn't come out the way I mean. I am not trying to offend I promise " The use of correct spelling, grammar and punctuation is important in the written word, but not so much it’s a matter of life or death. I have lost count of the number of emails and text messages I have received where I have struggled to make sense of what is being written due to incorrect spelling or grammar. Or even worse text speak. It just creates unnecessary confusion and make you question people who end up doubting that you believe or understand what they are saying. Grammarly is a good tool to use for checking your written word. There is a free version as well. | |||
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Don't worry about people blocking you because of the way you type or speak if English is not your first language as some have said
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I do like good grammar but hey, we are all human and not perfect and if spelling or grammar is your worst fault, don't lose sleep over it.
My sis in law is the worst ever to get a message from. My other half generally ignores her messages as her spelling etc leaves a lot to be desired. I can decipher it so all good lol.
She was a Senior Nurse for over 40 years but has a few anxiety issues now and her communication skills are just not as clear but who cares!
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"Meh.. I rcaell sieeng taht tinhg aoubt how our birans can raerrnage ltteers in wrods ocne the frsit and lsat are in the crrocet pcale so it doesn't overly bother me once I get the meaning from what people have written. Some people are better at spelling. Some are better at riding. I don't want to risk missing the good riders over a misspelling or two. " Weird I could read the start of that comment better that the last bit. I’m wired completely wrong lol | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" Short people do not have the ability to grow more, a 30 year old 5'8 man will only get shorter. On the other hand, you my friend have the ability to educate yourself, by whatever means you choose, it could be reading, it could be incorporating spell check more, grammarly or an AI to check your texts, you have the opportunity that the short guy doesn't. Communication on this site is difficult enough, but if you've misspelled or used the incorrect grammar, it tends to signify someone whom is either uneducated, or doesn't care. In saying this ,it is my personal opinion. You can learn to write correctly.. | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ? Short people do not have the ability to grow more, a 30 year old 5'8 man will only get shorter. On the other hand, you my friend have the ability to educate yourself, by whatever means you choose, it could be reading, it could be incorporating spell check more, grammarly or an AI to check your texts, you have the opportunity that the short guy doesn't. Communication on this site is difficult enough, but if you've misspelled or used the incorrect grammar, it tends to signify someone whom is either uneducated, or doesn't care. In saying this ,it is my personal opinion. You can learn to write correctly.." I have absolutely no idea what you mean and I've just mentally dismissed your entire post as the comma between "this" and "it" in the last line is in the wrong place. | |||
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"I take it you already know Of tough and bough and cough and dough? Others may stumble, but not you, On hiccough, thorough, lough and through? Well done! And now you wish, perhaps, To learn of less familiar traps? Beware of heard, a dreadful word That looks like beard and sounds like bird, And dead: it's said like bed, not bead For goodness sake don't call it deed! Watch out for meat and great and threat (They rhyme with suite and straight and debt). A moth is not a moth in mother, Nor both in bother, broth in brother, And here is not a match for there Nor dear and fear for bear and pear, And then there's dose and rose and lose Just look them up and goose and choos And cork and work and card and ward, And font and front and word and sword, And do and go and thwart and cart -Come, come, I've hardly made a start! 🫤🫤🫤🫤🫤 " Don’t forget donkey, pronounced don-key and monkey which sounds like mun-key | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ? Short people do not have the ability to grow more, a 30 year old 5'8 man will only get shorter. On the other hand, you my friend have the ability to educate yourself, by whatever means you choose, it could be reading, it could be incorporating spell check more, grammarly or an AI to check your texts, you have the opportunity that the short guy doesn't. Communication on this site is difficult enough, but if you've misspelled or used the incorrect grammar, it tends to signify someone whom is either uneducated, or doesn't care. In saying this ,it is my personal opinion. You can learn to write correctly.. I have absolutely no idea what you mean and I've just mentally dismissed your entire post as the comma between "this" and "it" in the last line is in the wrong place. "Over their with you 💋 | |||
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"I take it you already know Of tough and bough and cough and dough? Others may stumble, but not you, On hiccough, thorough, lough and through? Well done! And now you wish, perhaps, To learn of less familiar traps? Beware of heard, a dreadful word That looks like beard and sounds like bird, And dead: it's said like bed, not bead For goodness sake don't call it deed! Watch out for meat and great and threat (They rhyme with suite and straight and debt). A moth is not a moth in mother, Nor both in bother, broth in brother, And here is not a match for there Nor dear and fear for bear and pear, And then there's dose and rose and lose Just look them up and goose and choos And cork and work and card and ward, And font and front and word and sword, And do and go and thwart and cart -Come, come, I've hardly made a start! 🫤🫤🫤🫤🫤 Don’t forget donkey, pronounced don-key and monkey which sounds like mun-key" ☹️😖😕 it's like black magic for me... even google translate, which I never part with, can't handle it 🤣🤣🤣 dot? full stop? the end? or finish? 😵💫😵💫😵💫 | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma?" I've seen those English dramas too, they're cruel. | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma? I've seen those English dramas too, they're cruel." | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" Haha if they block or correct you shows more about them and their personality than anything else. So much judgement about nothing. We are all adults and are aware people have different abilities writing into a screen should never be judged. Personally I have a lot of education 10+ years but am also dyslexic so my writing can be like a riddle at times. Thank goodness for autocorrect. I can’t see how what we type has anything to do with our personalities or whether people will click or gel together on a meet
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"I don’t care when it’s just text speak. In my working world it really matters. But here, I don’t worry about the Oxford comma, their there they’re- I’m here for sex. Even I’m not that uptight "What the hell is an Oxford comma  | |||
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"I don’t care when it’s just text speak. In my working world it really matters. But here, I don’t worry about the Oxford comma, their there they’re- I’m here for sex. Even I’m not that uptight
What the hell is an Oxford comma "I googled it | |||
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"I don’t care when it’s just text speak. In my working world it really matters. But here, I don’t worry about the Oxford comma, their there they’re- I’m here for sex. Even I’m not that uptight
What the hell is an Oxford comma
I googled it "Ya just did there, my Brian is melting | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma?" I LOVE the Oxford comma but, as it's more of a stylistic choice, I don't judge those who don't use it. Much.  | |||
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"I love the written word. Grammar, punctuation, syntax, and spelling are important to me personally. It's been instilled in me from a young age, and I'm learning all the time. I've always tried to ensure my children have a good grasp of it. I'm not perfect, nor do I expect perfection in others. Here though? I need to understand what someone is trying to convey. What they write is more important to me than how it's written. After all, it's more likely we'll be communicating face to face, not submitting essays to one another. If there's wit and wisdom behind the words, that's good with me. And I even managed to shoehorn an Oxford comma in there "It is really quite sexy. , ;! 😁 | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma?" Wooooooosh | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma? I LOVE the Oxford comma but, as it's more of a stylistic choice, I don't judge those who don't use it. Much. "So if there's any other way To spell the word, it's fine with me | |||
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"Who gives a fuck about an Oxford comma? I LOVE the Oxford comma but, as it's more of a stylistic choice, I don't judge those who don't use it. Much.
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To spell the word, it's fine with me"I enjoy languid oral, sensual touch, and a good hard smack on the arse  | |||
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"I'll be judged for this and that's ok but .. People should know the difference between 'there', 'their' and 'they're' in their sentences. They have completely different meanings and yet they are used interchangeably. Honestly, I don't care if I'm judged for judging, I can take it... I think! Mrs xx " Agreed..its important to know your homophone from your homophobe. As long as you don't stray into being a pedant.. yes I said a pedant. | |||
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"I'll be judged for this and that's ok but .. People should know the difference between 'there', 'their' and 'they're' in their sentences. They have completely different meanings and yet they are used interchangeably. Honestly, I don't care if I'm judged for judging, I can take it... I think! Mrs xx Agreed..its important to know your homophone from your homophobe. As long as you don't stray into being a pedant.. yes I said a pedant." You can call me Pat. | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" I'm Dylexic and find a lot of people questioning my spelling and grammar. They feel like shit when I tell them, that's if the conversation gets that far. They should be more understanding over people disabilities and think before they mention anything. | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" Keep trying and treat your self to a paper dictionary and learn a common word every day. Oxford English is the way to go. 'Can we eat Nan?' versus 'Can we eat, Nan?' Grammar is important on paper, but can't be heard when spoken. There are loads of infographics and charts on Pinterest that list the common mistakes, have a look and see what helps. | |||
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"Hi all, just a question. Should we be punished for bad grammar? I wasn't great at school and found somethings hard to understand. I am successful in my job,which is management. But get in trouble for my email writing. This happens here alot too. People use it as a reason to stop talking to me or correct me and block me then. I don't purposely do it. Or am I wrong and should I give up on here ?" I wouldn't give up. First of all I'm a qualified voluntary literacy tutor. I did this to overcome and understand my own problems. What I learned was that I was not alone, but online it looks like you are. Believing you have bad literacy skills puts you in a prison, feeling judged keeps you there. A simple fact is in the Munster region alone, 50,000 people can not read or write, or both. 50,000. I learned I still make mistakes. I learned I was literate, but was missing a few things. Things that should have been done but was not for various reasons. I was born in a very disadvantaged area riddled with crime on a scale that was in the Sunday World week in, and we out. My address meant I could not get a job in the 80's. My grammar and spelling issues certainly did not help. I left school without qualifications. I was scared of the tests. I was scared. If you met me in life, you'd never guess, considering what my career actually is. I went to a CBS. They failed kids. They beat them. I was one of them. I refused to learn as a way of rebelling. I am no better than anyone else, but I'm equally not lesser regardless of those problematic early years. It took me years to not only learn that, but to accept it and I decided to do something about it. I wanted to understand it. I did. I learned, and I grew. I learned tolerance, patience, and a listening ear. I learned to allow people to make mistakes because before I was judging them for it, when really I was angry at myself. So this goes out to anyone who suffers. If it means nothing to anyone but one person, then it was worth it. There is a way out. Contact your local ETB for courses or guidance. Anyone looking to study or receive help with it can find free places. DM if you want, I will provide contacts, anon no problem | |||
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"You shouldn't be reprimanded for bad grammar, illiteracy or dyslexia. However, there is no excuse for laziness or juvenile 'text speak', incomprehensible slang or unnecessary abbreviations, including insincere remarks. For example if you're going to apologise then do so, properly, don't give me a "soz". " Oops, soz bbz. | |||
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"I'll be judged for this and that's ok but .. People should know the difference between 'there', 'their' and 'they're' in their sentences. They have completely different meanings and yet they are used interchangeably. Honestly, I don't care if I'm judged for judging, I can take it... I think! Mrs xx Agreed..its important to know your homophone from your homophobe. As long as you don't stray into being a pedant.. yes I said a pedant. You can call me Pat." Patricia the Pedant it is so | |||
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