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"Is it possible to mix the 2 worlds openly?.. Is sexual freedom a threat to vanilla people? Just curious..." I'd say yes it is. You can call it sexual freedom but ultimately its jealousy. I think that maybe most people have an underlying believe that monogamy is the only way to have real feelings with someone. N | |||
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"The vast majority of men outside fab that I’ve told about fab have at some stage been weird about it. Either intimidated that I’m more experienced than them or assume I’m a 24/7 nympho. There’s been a few exceptions but not many " Did you tell them it's 24/6 and everyone gets a day off? 🤪 | |||
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"For vanilla men... is it immasculating thinking their gf may be with others?..big threats to their own insecurities?" Honestly yes. I'm on here if I'm single and not interested in anybody. There's enough attached people on here going behind backs. If a girlfriend knew of this and wanted to do it, I'd probably be hesitant. | |||
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"The vast majority of men outside fab that I’ve told about fab have at some stage been weird about it. Either intimidated that I’m more experienced than them or assume I’m a 24/7 nympho. There’s been a few exceptions but not many Did you tell them it's 24/6 and everyone gets a day off? 🤪" Nah I fully break their hearts and tell them that I’m just not that arsed about sex most of the time. They get this amusing confused look then…makes my day. | |||
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"The vast majority of men outside fab that I’ve told about fab have at some stage been weird about it. Either intimidated that I’m more experienced than them or assume I’m a 24/7 nympho. There’s been a few exceptions but not many " It surprises me actually.. the offer to have them try the scene and not accept .. I'll not be as forthcoming with the info again to a vanilla guy... It's wonderful for those that don't hide this side. I do applaud you. I'll keep to here... its safer | |||
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"In my opinion you can be both. I can be in a D/S Relationship and if same time a vanilla. When both parts are happy. " Both parties are always aware? | |||
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"In my opinion you can be both. I can be in a D/S Relationship and if same time a vanilla. When both parts are happy. Both parties are always aware?" Yes , was started D/S and be in Vanilla. So many option and fun | |||
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"For vanilla men... is it immasculating thinking their gf may be with others?..big threats to their own insecurities? Honestly yes. I'm on here if I'm single and not interested in anybody. There's enough attached people on here going behind backs. If a girlfriend knew of this and wanted to do it, I'd probably be hesitant." So you would feel threatened by others?.. is that in satisfying said girlfriend ( hypothetically) | |||
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"It works for me. I meet people through fab and I meet people on vanilla dating apps and in every day life. I'm completely open with everyone that I'm ENM and lean poly. The transparency has served me well and I don't feel like I'm living two lives. My family and friends know. It's not a problem" I do have vanilla friends that know about ne on here.. and I have great friends here... I wondering if a relationship between both worlds can be successful... and why would acceptance change? | |||
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"Why do we need to mix the two worlds, though? We kind of enjoy the taboo and general secrecy! The majority of vanilla people out there are aware of the various sexualities, sexual preferences and kinks. We have plenty of friends who would openly chat about these. Whether they indulge or not, I don't know. It's none of my business. We like to mind our own business. Everybody doesn't need to know everything about you. " Lesson learned...no.. not everyone has to know all about you. I was just wondering... N'er the twain shall meet.. again... exclusivity is not for all | |||
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