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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

So went on this social 2 weeks ago and hit it of from the moment we met never a dry moment conversation flowed the whole night over a couple of drinks. So fast forward we decided to the bank holiday weekend and same got alone really well and one thing lead to another and we're back in mine having fun the lot great night really enjoyed the night but 2 days later she's still there and the only way I could get her out was by saying I'm in work and have to go did that ever happen anyone else on this and would it turn u of the girl cause it kinda gave me a red flag

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

Did you ask her to leave or assume that she would

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By *he KakapoMan
4 days ago

A nice rock

Strange woman wouldn't leave house for 2 days and it "kinda" gave you a red flag 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

Maybe in the heat of the moment you asked her to move in and have just forgotten 🤔

Guys say all sorts when they are in the throws of passion?

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

Maybe she heard East 17 playing on Spotify

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
4 days ago

Cork

This wouldn't be a red flag for me. This would be a TVs RGB being all R and my eyes being glued open. I don't think this would be considered as funny if the sex were reversed.

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By *affa31Woman
4 days ago

Galway

Kinda a red flag??

Christ I’d be changing the locks.

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

Like at the end of the day sex was amazing so didn't say nothing but if that was me I'd be gone the next morning I just wouldn't be that type of guy to say get out 😂

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 days ago

The West

Did you ask her to leave?

Like I've no problem rolling over after a cuddle and telling someone this isn't a sleep over if that wasn't already clear and it's not what I want. Not that it happens often but it's easy enough to do if your rolling home from the pub after a night on the town.

I'm just wondering if she thought wow this guy's just so nice...

I'm also wondering why you didn't ask her to leave.

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By *he KakapoMan
4 days ago

A nice rock

OK so that's kind of different to get her to leave you had to stop having sex with her and ask her to leave.

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By *ot so needyMan
4 days ago

Galway

Probably not into one night stands so dragged it out over a few days.

So while she was there were ye together all the time or did she just do her own thing?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

If you like someone it's difficult to ask them to leave. That's why it's always a risk bringing someone back to your house. She clearly thought you wanted her to stay? Also there are lots of excuses you can use in a 2 day period to hint politely that they might need to leave...

Do you need a lift somewhere?

My Mum is popping over in 20mins?

Etc...

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
4 days ago

Cork


"Like at the end of the day sex was amazing so didn't say nothing but if that was me I'd be gone the next morning I just wouldn't be that type of guy to say get out 😂"

That makes it a bit of a difference. Still 2 days is something, staying on till the evening would be my limit. You're not a dickhead if you want to set boundaries, it's usually dickheads that try to break boundaries.

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

Like I said I'm not that type of guy who tell a girl to leave unless things got weird id just assume they would 😂

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 days ago

There and Here

Maybe there was mixed messages going on and she thought you enjoyed having her there. Maybe she thought she was there for the weekend. It's difficult for us to know.

Perhaps make sure going forward that you're clear about things like this. Saying you didn't want to seem mean asking her to leave then suggesting publicly she's perhaps a bunny boiler because she didn't leave isn't really fair

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By *affa31Woman
4 days ago

Galway

Did she say at any stage that she should prob head off and you dragged her back to bed? Did you never leave bed?

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By *affa31Woman
4 days ago

Galway

Also, is she from fab? If so, she’s probably going to see this

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

Did you say come over for the bank holiday weekend or at the bank holiday weekend? Also people hear what they want to hear.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
4 days ago

City Centre

Did you try untying her?

Is she one of those without electricity?

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 days ago

The West

Are you that good that she just couldn't get enough?

What's your secret?

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

I assume she's on here and can read this thread which is a bit of a problem to be fair to her

If ye were both having a good time over the weekend and you didn't feel threatened then chalk it down to a communication breakdown

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
4 days ago

City Centre

You fed her didn't you? Rookie mistake.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar

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By *OLIDAYFUNCPLCouple
4 days ago

dundrum


"So went on this social 2 weeks ago and hit it of from the moment we met never a dry moment conversation flowed the whole night over a couple of drinks. So fast forward we decided to the bank holiday weekend and same got alone really well and one thing lead to another and we're back in mine having fun the lot great night really enjoyed the night but 2 days later she's still there and the only way I could get her out was by saying I'm in work and have to go did that ever happen anyone else on this and would it turn u of the girl cause it kinda gave me a red flag "

Was her name Cora or Nicky??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan

Was her name Bridie and did she have 19 brothers and a couple of ponies?

If so, you might be married now. That caravan that mysteriously appeared in the back garden is just Mammy and Pappy arriving for the summer.

Congratulations.

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere


"So went on this social 2 weeks ago and hit it of from the moment we met never a dry moment conversation flowed the whole night over a couple of drinks. So fast forward we decided to the bank holiday weekend and same got alone really well and one thing lead to another and we're back in mine having fun the lot great night really enjoyed the night but 2 days later she's still there and the only way I could get her out was by saying I'm in work and have to go did that ever happen anyone else on this and would it turn u of the girl cause it kinda gave me a red flag

Was her name Cora or Nicky??"

Over a full weekend I bet he used more than 2johnnies

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Like I said I'm not that type of guy who tell a girl to leave unless things got weird id just assume they would 😂 "

Never assume..

You know what they say 😊

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

She's not on this site if she was on here do u really think I'd be putting up this publicly I'm not that type of guy I was just seeing what other people's opinions were on it

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Like I said I'm not that type of guy who tell a girl to leave unless things got weird id just assume they would 😂

Never assume..

You know what they say 😊"

I won't be again lol

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Was her name Bridie and did she have 19 brothers and a couple of ponies?

If so, you might be married now. That caravan that mysteriously appeared in the back garden is just Mammy and Pappy arriving for the summer.

Congratulations. "

I have a caravan and 4 horses what u applying by that

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Like I said I'm not that type of guy who tell a girl to leave unless things got weird id just assume they would 😂

Never assume..

You know what they say 😊 I won't be again lol "

Send us the eircode. Maybe you live in a mansion. We'll all visit for the next long weekend 😎 🥳

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By *ady ChatterleyWoman
4 days ago

Athlone

Maybe She's Still Without Electricity. Could be just using you for the cuppa.

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"You fed her didn't you? Rookie mistake."
Jesus never thought of that should of said no food in the house but then she probably would of said I'll do the food shopping with u 😂😂

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Maybe She's Still Without Electricity. Could be just using you for the cuppa."

I think he warmed her up in other ways 🥵

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Like I said I'm not that type of guy who tell a girl to leave unless things got weird id just assume they would 😂

Never assume..

You know what they say 😊 I won't be again lol

Send us the eircode. Maybe you live in a mansion. We'll all visit for the next long weekend 😎 🥳"

told u all it's a caravan just of the cappagh back road

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
4 days ago

City

Maybe she loved the curtains, and she was waiting till you were gone to take them?

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Maybe She's Still Without Electricity. Could be just using you for the cuppa.

I think he warmed her up in other ways 🥵"

body heat is always the best way

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By *s LollyWoman
4 days ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Id a hotel booked for two night's i did say to him there was no need to rush off the next morning as i was staying an extra night, he never left and i hadn't the heart to ask him to go so he staying both nights ....🙈

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Id a hotel booked for two night's i did say to him there was no need to rush off the next morning as i was staying an extra night, he never left and i hadn't the heart to ask him to go so he staying both nights ....🙈"
so it does happen 😂😂

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere

Wonder what's the normal etiquette

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Wonder what's the normal etiquette "

I find that when I untie them they usually run 🏃‍♀️ 😏

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"Wonder what's the normal etiquette "

Same as with mice and things, when they get hungry they'll leave.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Wonder what's the normal etiquette

Same as with mice and things, when they get hungry they'll leave. "

Or they eat what they can find and make babies

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By *enitMan
4 days ago

Galway

Better watch out for the making babies!

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

I'll set the traps next time so 😂

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By *hy tradieMan
4 days ago

Dublin

Somethong similar happened me but then i realised i was married to her

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By *enitMan
4 days ago

Galway


"Somethong similar happened me but then i realised i was married to her"

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Somethong similar happened me but then i realised i was married to her"

Yeah they are harder to get rid of then that's for sure

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
4 days ago

sligo

Red flag alert.

If I stayed at a guys id be gone by morning. And if a guy stays at mine. I'd expect him to leave after some cuddles.

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Red flag alert.

If I stayed at a guys id be gone by morning. And if a guy stays at mine. I'd expect him to leave after some cuddles. "

better give a long oral session first so get the night out of it 😂😂

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"Wonder what's the normal etiquette

Same as with mice and things, when they get hungry they'll leave.

Or they eat what they can find and make babies "

Mice just fucking know what's important in life.

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By *antra MassageMan
4 days ago

city

Maybe she's from Leitrim, and needed a shower, warm house, clean sheets, and internet, and electricity.

You're so kind.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"Maybe she's from Leitrim, and needed a shower, warm house, clean sheets, and internet, and electricity.

You're so kind. "

You may not be wrong. Still no power in parts of the fair county

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By *eralt80Man
4 days ago

cork


"Maybe she's from Leitrim, and needed a shower, warm house, clean sheets, and internet, and electricity.

You're so kind.

You may not be wrong. Still no power in parts of the fair county "

Because of the storm or in general?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"Maybe she's from Leitrim, and needed a shower, warm house, clean sheets, and internet, and electricity.

You're so kind.

You may not be wrong. Still no power in parts of the fair county

Because of the storm or in general?"

Because of the storm in 1839

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere


"Wonder what's the normal etiquette

Same as with mice and things, when they get hungry they'll leave.

Or they eat what they can find and make babies "

Or eat the babies

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
4 days ago

sligo


"Red flag alert.

If I stayed at a guys id be gone by morning. And if a guy stays at mine. I'd expect him to leave after some cuddles. better give a long oral session first so get the night out of it 😂😂"

Oh don't worry both parties be well satisfied, I just prefer to starfish alone.

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By * DareCouple
4 days ago

Donegal and Galway generally


"So went on this social 2 weeks ago and hit it of from the moment we met never a dry moment conversation flowed the whole night over a couple of drinks. So fast forward we decided to the bank holiday weekend and same got alone really well and one thing lead to another and we're back in mine having fun the lot great night really enjoyed the night but 2 days later she's still there and the only way I could get her out was by saying I'm in work and have to go did that ever happen anyone else on this and would it turn u of the girl cause it kinda gave me a red flag "

Awk…..

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By *oxic1998Woman
4 days ago

Belfast

Did bring enough clean clothes for a couple of days?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 days ago

Castlebar


"Did bring enough clean clothes for a couple of days? "

Clothes?

Where she's going they don't need clothes...

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
4 days ago

villiage

Maybe she just liked your company

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan

Op, are you sure it wasn't your wife?

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By *ubadubdubWoman
4 days ago

Hereabouts


"Maybe she just liked your company "

That's what I was thinking. She was enjoying hanging out with you, had no other plans and you weren't giving her a clear heave-ho. Why would she leave🤷🏻 Two single people enjoying a weekend together isn't unheard of. If you didn't want it you could have said you needed you recovery time or whatever

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By *ataWoman
4 days ago

Neverland


"Did you try untying her?

Is she one of those without electricity?"

I’m in tears with the untying comment 😂

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By *ub100400Man
4 days ago

Dublin

😂😂😂😂

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By *ataWoman
4 days ago

Neverland


"You fed her didn't you? Rookie mistake."

Your comments are the best

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By *oy3333Man
4 days ago

lucan

As Buff Egan would say out out out

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 days ago

Naughty Lane

Great read...🤣

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
4 days ago

Galway, Clare

So are you going to see her again??

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By *rystalsswingCouple
4 days ago

Galway / Midlands / West


"You fed her didn't you? Rookie mistake."

🤣🤣🤣

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
4 days ago

Lucan


"So are you going to see her again?? "

When she gets in from work

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By *M316Man
4 days ago

Dublin


"Maybe there was mixed messages going on and she thought you enjoyed having her there. Maybe she thought she was there for the weekend. It's difficult for us to know.

Perhaps make sure going forward that you're clear about things like this. Saying you didn't want to seem mean asking her to leave then suggesting publicly she's perhaps a bunny boiler because she didn't leave isn't really fair"

Suggesting?……

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By *rmrs1234Couple
4 days ago

Waterford

this is literally like reading a post on AITA lmao

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 days ago

East / North, Cork

How did you let it go to two days before figuring out a way to get her to leave. You could have made up any number of excuses far before it got to two days!

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By *M316Man
4 days ago

Dublin

She left her house to go on a second date and went home two days later…..

Does she always bring a few pairs of fresh knickers and socks, toothbrush and the likes?

Please tell me she had a shower in yours? 🤢

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere


"this is literally like reading a post on AITA lmao"

Love them on Twitter

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By *ogladyWoman
4 days ago

The bog


"So went on this social 2 weeks ago and hit it of from the moment we met never a dry moment conversation flowed the whole night over a couple of drinks. So fast forward we decided to the bank holiday weekend and same got alone really well and one thing lead to another and we're back in mine having fun the lot great night really enjoyed the night but 2 days later she's still there and the only way I could get her out was by saying I'm in work and have to go did that ever happen anyone else on this and would it turn u of the girl cause it kinda gave me a red flag "

Maybe her water and electricity wasn't back yet

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By *heMilkMan92Man
4 days ago

dublin

How did it take 2days for a red flag to be raised.. let’s call a shovel a shovel here

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"Did bring enough clean clothes for a couple of days? "
didn't need clothes it was bed shower eat bed shower eat and repeat 😂😂

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u


"So are you going to see her again?? "
might do but it be a hotel next time 😂

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By *og-ManMan
4 days ago

somewhere


"So are you going to see her again?? might do but it be a hotel next time 😂"

Get a good weekend rate

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By *oc09 OP   Man
4 days ago

near u

She can feed me next time 😂😂

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By *lyingsoloireMan
4 days ago

mytown


"Did bring enough clean clothes for a couple of days? didn't need clothes it was bed shower eat bed shower eat and repeat 😂😂"

There's the problem. All she wanted was for you to sleep with her as promised 😴 and you didn't!!

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By *erfectpussy4uWoman
3 days ago

mybed

I had a similar experience. I was away and staying in a house for work for a few weeks. Had a socal from fab. Really hit it off. 1st meet was in a hotel. Went really well. Next time I invited him to mine. The following day I got up for work and he said he would lock up on his way out. I didn't mind as work had rented the house and there wasn't much in it. I came home that evening to him sitting in the kitchen. He cooked dinner for both of us. I thought kinda sweet and kinda creepy at the same time. I thanked him for cooking, we ate the dinner and I said I'm heading for a shower so I guess you better get going. He replied I had one earlier and used your tooth brush I hope you don't mind. I was standing there and said yah i kinda do. I had to text a male friend from work who was staying close by to come over and pretend he was my husband. Needless to say it was my first and last time to invite anyone over.

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By *rRiosMan
3 days ago

dublin


" I said I'm heading for a shower so I guess you better get going. He replied I had one earlier and used your tooth brush I hope you don't mind. I was standing there and said yah i kinda do. I had to text a male friend from work who was staying close by to come over and pretend he was my husband. Needless to say it was my first and last time to invite anyone over. "

Used your toothbrush?

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By *Sparkie.Man
3 days ago

Ratoath

Had she an overnight bag with her? Spare underwear, toothbrush etc,2 days is a long time without a change of clothes?

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By *erfectpussy4uWoman
3 days ago

mybed


" I said I'm heading for a shower so I guess you better get going. He replied I had one earlier and used your tooth brush I hope you don't mind. I was standing there and said yah i kinda do. I had to text a male friend from work who was staying close by to come over and pretend he was my husband. Needless to say it was my first and last time to invite anyone over.

Used your toothbrush? "

Yep. Needless to say it went straight in the bin.

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
3 days ago

sligo


"Kinda a red flag??

Christ I’d be changing the locks. "

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