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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Have you ever been afraid to post a topic on the forums in case of being judged, ridiculed, nervous or just waiting till someone else to come up with the idea.

Feel Free To PM topic you'd like to see discussed, within reason, I'll post to thread and maybe someone will take on board as a future thread.

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By *oc09Man
17 weeks ago

near u

Id never judge anyone on forms but would always speak my opinion if I had one there is to many people putting people down on this site it does need another one

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By *rthur GuinnessMan
17 weeks ago

Lucan

Great idea Lady. People over the age of 32 not included?? 🤔🤪🤣🤣

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
17 weeks ago

Lucan

I always wanted to start a thread about sexy men who were born in Leitrim. I was always just afraid that I'd be overwhelmed by all the ladies putting demands on me after it

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone


"Great idea Lady. People over the age of 32 not included?? 🤔🤪🤣🤣"

I may change that....

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
17 weeks ago

Portstewart

No never I've been ridiculed most of my life and it doesn't annoy me anymore lol we sometimes get told we're too honest. As far as we're concerned a spade is a spade and should be called as such lol

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By *og-ManMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere

I think people have misunderstood the thread

It's not really to say you can post about anything

It's about messaging the op with something you feel should be discussed but you'd be afraid or worried to start the thread

Like saying does anyone like small mickeys at all

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By *eroLondonMan
17 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Feel Free To PM topic you'd like to see discussed... ..."

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I may just PM you regardless. A handwritten note, scribed on parchment paper using squid ink, scented with the finest cologne and sealed using wax.

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By *og-ManMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere


"Feel Free To PM topic you'd like to see discussed... ...

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I may just PM you regardless. A handwritten note, scribed on parchment paper using squid ink, scented with the finest cologne and sealed using wax."

Is Squid Ink a thing...never heard of it ....every day a school day

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By *antra MassageMan
17 weeks ago

Galway

I used sealing wax once,on a letter. she was very impressed

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By *indenMan
17 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I’ve always wanted to post a thread about the use of squid ink on scented parchment containing the wax seal of Sydney University on its awards, but I’ve always been afraid……

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posted on Behalf of member.

I need a hug. I was at my respiratory consultant yesterday, doctor this morning for bloods. I'm fed up with all the respiratory medication I have to take but it does work. Just feel down and tired.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago


"Have you ever been afraid to post a topic on the forums in case of being judged, ridiculed, nervous or just waiting till someone else to come up with the idea.

Feel Free To PM topic you'd like to see discussed, within reason, I'll post to thread and maybe someone will take on board as a future thread.

"

You'll always get people on forums or situations, here & in the real world , that are just waiting to criticise BUT it's only their opinion , yes there are those , we've all met them , that need confrontation , bad news , in their life , they can't live unless they have it , people like those can be seen or heard in a few situations, then you know their behaviour , wether you choose to engage is totally up to yourself but to answer your question OP , yes , l'd maybe see a post & go to reply , or have a topic , have it written out & then say " nawww ..who needs the hassle " , everyone has their opinion , a person may not agree with it but a persons opinion should always , always , be respected

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By *uriousVoyeurMan
17 weeks ago

Northside


"Posted on Behalf of member.

I need a hug. I was at my respiratory consultant yesterday, doctor this morning for bloods. I'm fed up with all the respiratory medication I have to take but it does work. Just feel down and tired."

Sending a virtual hug to the member that sent this. It's a pain having to rely on meds to get through the day but the alternative would be so much worse. It's mentally draining but you're going in the right direction! All the very best...my inbox is always open if you need a ear or just a chat!

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posting on behalf of member

Bacterial Vaginosis

Cystitis

Prevention, management and treatment.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
17 weeks ago

West Dublin


"Posted on Behalf of member.

I need a hug. I was at my respiratory consultant yesterday, doctor this morning for bloods. I'm fed up with all the respiratory medication I have to take but it does work. Just feel down and tired.

Sending a virtual hug to the member that sent this. It's a pain having to rely on meds to get through the day but the alternative would be so much worse. It's mentally draining but you're going in the right direction! All the very best...my inbox is always open if you need a ear or just a chat! "

My inbox is open too. I have a serious long term illness and am a plethora of meds, in hosp frequently. Its draining and not fair. Im a good listener xx

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
17 weeks ago

Lucan


"Posting on behalf of member

Bacterial Vaginosis

Cystitis

Prevention, management and treatment.

"

Awww, poor liddle pussy!

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone


"Posting on behalf of member

Bacterial Vaginosis

Cystitis

Prevention, management and treatment.

Awww, poor liddle pussy! "

Seriously....and you wonder why people are hesitant to post.

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By *ohnsmithMan
17 weeks ago

South Tipperary

To the resptory medical needs person... a long soft warm hug to you... life is better with them.. keep them lungs full of warm air.. keeps the heart glowing...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
17 weeks ago

Lucan


"Posting on behalf of member

Bacterial Vaginosis

Cystitis

Prevention, management and treatment.

Awww, poor liddle pussy!

Seriously....and you wonder why people are hesitant to post. "

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By *ot so needyMan
17 weeks ago

Galway

Sometimes yeah.

But then I read the shite Bogman has put up and think if he can so can I.... 🤣🤣

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By *og-ManMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere


"Sometimes yeah.

But then I read the shite Bogman has put up and think if he can so can I.... 🤣🤣"

Exactly I'm a very low bar in fairness

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
17 weeks ago

City


"

Like saying does anyone like small mickeys at all "

Thanks for bringing this to the forefront bog, if anyone does like topic above please give me a shout

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
17 weeks ago

City


"Posting on behalf of member

Bacterial Vaginosis

Cystitis

Prevention, management and treatment.

"

BV,

The doctors can provide Prescription, and there’s also over the counter gel / pessaires you can use for treatment. Usually a 7 days course.

It can also form Thrush.

For prevention, safe sex, regular washing.

Cystitis. I don’t know. Some ladies on here might help.

Nothing to be ashamed of or anything. As a swinging site we should be uplifting and talking about sexual health.

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By *affa31Woman
17 weeks ago

Galway

Re cystitis, make sure you pee after sex. Some women are more prone to it than others, depending on the tilt of their pelvis.

You can also take D-Mannose supplements to help prevent them. I have also found that the bio-kult pro-cyan supplements can nip one in the bud if you feel cystitis starting.

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By *affa31Woman
17 weeks ago

Galway

Also, you can become more prone to cystitis and UTIs in perimenopause and menopause. Vaginal oestrogen can help with that.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
17 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Also, you can become more prone to cystitis and UTIs in perimenopause and menopause. Vaginal oestrogen can help with that. "

Menopause.. the gift that keeps on giving

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed

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By *og-ManMan
17 weeks ago

somewhere


"Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed "

The only advice I could give you is are you prepared to lose everything when it's gone on for a longer time period

If you're 100% certain that they will walk then is it better to pull the plaster now rather than wait when your feelings are deeper

I don't see what the problem is in developing some feelings for someone you're seeing and having sex with ...in fact I'd think it's normal

if the feelings develop into one sided love then it's a problem

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
17 weeks ago

My town


"Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed "

why not tell her. If your both single , then it coukd Be the icing on the cake. If one of you or both of you attached that's the problem. But I think you gotta be honest. More so to protect you if she does run for the hills.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
17 weeks ago

My town


"Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed why not tell her. If your both single , then it coukd Be the icing on the cake. If one of you or both of you attached that's the problem. But I think you gotta be honest. More so to protect you if she does run for the hills. "

him or her . I was presuming it was a female.

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By *ollyballsMan
17 weeks ago

Carlow


"Have you ever been afraid to post a topic on the forums in case of being judged, ridiculed, nervous or just waiting till someone else to come up with the idea.

Feel Free To PM topic you'd like to see discussed, within reason, I'll post to thread and maybe someone will take on

board as a future thread.

"

Often wanted to ask help with writing the perfect message..... can someone run a workshop

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posting For Member

My post would be about celebate husbands looking for fun.

As an older man it’s very tough.

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posting for Member

Fell head over heels in love with a lady l met here, we're not together now , absolutely ripped me to bits , it's a long story, one l certainly won't bore you with but when " feelings " develop...& It doesn't work out ....that's 4 years ago , not a day goes by that l dont think about her ..." Feelings "....boy ..never knew what feelings could do ..but l found out ...boy ..did l find out ..

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By *ing PaddyMan
17 weeks ago

South County Dublin

Many thanks for all hugs and thanks lady Chatterley for posting

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone


"Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed "

Myself and my FWB did develop feelings. I think we both knew for a while but it was hinted at and not discussed for a period of time. I didn't want to admit it and tried to ignore it. But things ended soon after anyway and it makes no difference when it ends it still hurts and by addressing it you might find you get what you want out of it. That's if you know what you want. If it's a "proper" non fab relationship or a fab fwb but with feelings, and no demands. Or just carry on as you are. Be sure you know what you want. Just be honest. Maybe start with a comment about a thread you saw and take it from there...

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone


"Posted For Member

I was lucky to find a FWB. Lately I've discovered that I've developed stronger feelings for this person. We are 6 months on this journey and I know that if I tell them, it will ruin everything. We were very clear from the beginning our path, so I know I'll loose everything if I bring it up.

Has anyone ever developed feelings for their FWB and how did you proceed

Posted on behalf of member

Myself and my FWB did develop feelings. I think we both knew for a while but it was hinted at and not discussed for a period of time. I didn't want to admit it and tried to ignore it. But things ended soon after anyway and it makes no difference when it ends it still hurts and by addressing it you might find you get what you want out of it. That's if you know what you want. If it's a "proper" non fab relationship or a fab fwb but with feelings, and no demands. Or just carry on as you are. Be sure you know what you want. Just be honest. Maybe start with a comment about a thread you saw and take it from there...

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
17 weeks ago

Dublin

Cystopurin is supposed to be good but I have never suffered with it tbh. Hope all of you suffering with medical conditions feel better though

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By *ady Chatterley OP   Woman
17 weeks ago

Athlone

Posting For Member

Love your post on the forum good on you, I'm terrified to walk away from my marriage I'd be the first to walk away in my family , I'm just not in love with him and hand on heart I never was, good and hard to say it

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
17 weeks ago

Home

Unfortunately some people will block you if they are against your opinion in a topic. A little sad if you don't agree with them they block you.

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By *obbym522000Man
17 weeks ago

Galway

jaf, do you know if men can get any of those things

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