FabSwingers.com forum: That 1st kiss

By *erfectpussy4u OP Woman
1 week ago

mybed

Is it just me that can't go any further if it's crap?. I get messages here from couples who say we can have sex but no kissing. Maybe it's just me but I can't do it. A kiss is really what turns me on.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
1 week ago

Galway, Clare

Not just you!! If the first kiss doesn't work then there won't be a second, or anything else

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
1 week ago

Naughty Lane

"Is it just me that can't go any further if it's crap?. I get messages here from couples who say we can have sex but no kissing. Maybe it's just me but I can't do it. A kiss is really what turns me on. "
if im meeting for a first time,kissing is definitely wanted/needed...if I don't like the kiss,my "engine" won't be purring 🤣 if I meet regularly,sometimes I get too excited,that forget kissing bit🤭

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By *ubadubdubWoman
1 week ago

Hereabouts

Not just you.

Incompatible kissing suggests incompatible sex. So it's a dead end.

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By *ionycusMan
1 week ago

Babylon

The build up is ..........🔥🔥🔥

Then you kind of get to know something by it, it's either better than you expected or worse.....

Mostly better 💋

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By *rown PrismWoman
1 week ago

Dublin

Kissing is very important, especially the first kiss... it can awaken a real flame of passion. It's like a fuse that creates sparks that revive fire and desire... Without sparks there will be no fire, even if it's a prince from a fairy tale, without kissing the spell is broken... I'm leaving... it's not my fairy tale ...

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By *aybeLadyWoman
1 week ago

West Dublin

Kissing is key for me. This is why I always ask a guy how he feels about it.

I could kiss all the time as much as possible during foreplay, sex and after. I cant have sex without it.

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By *ramerMan
1 week ago

You're so right a kiss 💋 is like the match to a firework if it's not right it won't light and go boom 🎆

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By * BlackMan
1 week ago

Laois/ Dublin

No kissing, no playing

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
1 week ago

Lucan

Kissing is great and I love it. However, if there's a no kissing rule sure isn't it a good excuse for a bit of doggy style mounting.

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By *adger BrocMan
1 week ago

Co. Cork

Even for experienced lip sharers a first kiss can sometimes be awkward, hesitant or overly anticipated by one or both parties leading to an unsatisfactory outcome.

It is often only with repeated lip contact, and a perhaps a little tongue teasing, that proper passion may be aroused.

The first cut may be the deepest, and the first kiss may indeed be the sweetest, but true passion can often required time to develop.

💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋😘😜

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

This may sound kinda bad but I like to try to sneak a kiss after a good coffee/ social meet. I find a kiss super exciting and if its good makes me really want more. If its not so good then.... its hard to get excited about meeting again. Thankfully I've not had too many bad ones of late

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By *electableicecreamMan
1 week ago

The West

It's all in the kiss. If it's not there it's not going to happen.

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By *rMotivator2.0Man
1 week ago

Donegal

Kissing is good very good, trying to eat the person you're kissing is bad very bad

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By *agic mike1Man
1 week ago

around

Watching too much Pretty Woman!

No kissing sounds like a business transaction???

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
1 week ago

There and Here

I don't kiss someone to find out if there's a spark. For me that spark has to be already ignited. If I'm kissing you, I really really fancy you - there's no kiss test here.

While I was here with E and meeting as a couple, it was my choice to generally not kiss other people. I didn't want to, and it was an intimacy I only wanted to share with him.

I can guarantee there was nothing business-like or transactional about our meets with others - there are many many ways to stoke the fire without kissing someone on the lips.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

Yeah I won't just kiss anyone. There has to be an attraction and then if it's bad it really disappointing but I couldn't take it any further however much I fancied them. And when you kiss a guy and he gets hard, and you get wet and you know it's mutual 😈

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By *irishladMan
1 week ago

Malahide

I'm a firm believer in the kiss test, obviously there has to be inital attraction there for either to be interested but if the kissing is not mutually enjoyable then no point in going any further, IMHO

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By *wbert43Man
1 week ago

Dublin 13

A kiss is a powerful form of intimacy. In swinging, it can signal genuine interest and chemistry, helping foster a sense of comfort and trust.For some, it’s a form of emotional or romantic connection that enhances the experience, while others might place less emphasis on it.A sensual, well-timed kiss can be an excellent way to gauge compatibility, as it reveals whether you and a partner have that intangible spark.Physical cues such as how the kiss is initiated, the level of passion, and mutual reciprocation can offer insight into how the rest of the interaction might unfold.

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By * DareCouple
1 week ago

Donegal and Galway generally

The kiss is everything!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
1 week ago

Belfast

For me kissing determines intensity and gives be a good read on how into me someone is.

I remember kissing someone and it was always like a chase with them pulling away mid kiss and it was horrible.

It was cold and limp and did nothing for me at all.

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By *eanRMan
1 week ago

ballymun

Kissing is always a good way to start

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By *oodgirlgioWoman
1 week ago

Mullingar

I absolutely love seeing himself kissing but the horn kicks in and I want my own with her 😂😂😮‍💨

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By *man1044Man
1 week ago

North Galway

If the kissing goes well you probably be opening the bra !!

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By *illow and FionnCouple
1 week ago

Cork

No kissing is madness

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
1 week ago

Dublin

Kissing is absolutely everything

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
1 week ago

Portstewart

Kissing is very important it gives that extra rush of blood to your head and makes your senses tingle

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
1 week ago

There and Here

It's weird that no-one questions anyone's boundaries...until it comes to kissing 🤷

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
1 week ago

Portstewart

"It's weird that no-one questions anyone's boundaries...until it comes to kissing 🤷"

We talk to people about there boundaries during the social meet we have with anyone before it gets to a fun meet stage.

And honestly if someone wouldn't meet us for a social meet we wouldn't have them in our bed

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By *oserMan
1 week ago

where the wild roses grow

Best 1st kiss I've ever had was with a fabber from the midlands when we were saying goodbye after a social meet.

Honestly the chemistry was electric and when we kissed I melted

Thankfully that led to a more intimate meet where many more kisses were shared

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By *eremy44Man
1 week ago

Wicklow

How can somebody say no to kiss those lips of yours…? 🤔🤷🏼‍♂️

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By *otoffunCouple
1 week ago

Dublin

Kissing is a major yes factor for us ... I wouldn't expect a car to start without turning the key in it first!!!

apart from that kissing is a really enjoyable past time

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By *astelloWoman
1 week ago

Far far away

Kissing is bliss.

But often underrated...

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By *onguentasticMan
1 week ago

Ballymoney

I 100% agree here and have turned some lovely genuine folk away after the first kiss as it was that bad if a kiss is no good it's a no from me lol

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By *onguentasticMan
1 week ago

Ballymoney

"I don't kiss someone to find out if there's a spark. For me that spark has to be already ignited. If I'm kissing you, I really really fancy you - there's no kiss test here.

While I was here with E and meeting as a couple, it was my choice to generally not kiss other people. I didn't want to, and it was an intimacy I only wanted to share with him.

I can guarantee there was nothing business-like or transactional about our meets with others - there are many many ways to stoke the fire without kissing someone on the lips. "

Oh I totally agree here there has to be a attraction before a kiss normally is on a social meet i would kiss if the social has went well

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By *ogladyWoman
1 week ago

The bog

"This may sound kinda bad but I like to try to sneak a kiss after a good coffee/ social meet. I find a kiss super exciting and if its good makes me really want more. If its not so good then.... its hard to get excited about meeting again. Thankfully I've not had too many bad ones of late"

This is also me..

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By *radseman.jayMan
1 week ago

allover

Started with a kiss i never tought it would come to this

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By (user no longer on site)
1 week ago

There won't be any play without a "first kiss" for me. Simply, is no connection if is no desire to devour the partner, starting with the foreplay

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By *ohn heaneyMan
1 week ago

kildare

No ur not alone, kissing is a major factor, if the kiss isn't right either will the sex,

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By *elfastblondMan
1 week ago

Belfast

I love kissing for me it's the 2nd stage of foreplay and if it doesn't get the juices flowing to the right places then nothing will

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By *he Pilot69Man
1 week ago

kerry

Attraction first, then if the kiss is great there’s chemistry, but if it’s not enjoyable then no point going any further for me 🤷🏻‍♂️…

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
1 week ago

East / North, Cork

The kiss test is crucial for me. One particular time I remember having a 1st coffee 1 on 1. Beautiful girl, great conversation over an hour or so, lots of flirting, then before we parted we had a kiss, and I swear she was trying to eat me. All slobber and teeth. That's a no from me thx.

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By *alwayguy2020Man
1 week ago

Dunmore

I couldn't do it, Id have to be able to kiss the lady I'm with, grab her throat,push her against the wall feels her whole tounge explore the inside of my mouth and visa versa. Without it it's just not compatible

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

"The kiss test is crucial for me. One particular time I remember having a 1st coffee 1 on 1. Beautiful girl, great conversation over an hour or so, lots of flirting, then before we parted we had a kiss, and I swear she was trying to eat me. All slobber and teeth. That's a no from me thx."

She sounds keen 🤣😜

Some points for enthusiasm maybe 🤔

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By *eckycd41TV/TS
1 week ago

Navan

Kissing is essential

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By *iresmillyWoman
1 week ago

South Dublin

Kissing is the ultimate part of sex. One lad I was with from here had a very rigid hard tongue kiss- awful (personal preference). But I love that part where your lips are just about to touch and your eyes are just closed and you breathe in to smell them- heaven. Soft lips, soft wet tongue, amazing. A little lip nibble- electric!

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By *ethmeonfireMan
1 week ago

Dublin

Dua Lipa has a bloody song about this.

One Kiss is All it Takes.

It can’t be more official than that as to why kissing is so important 🤣

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By *lim ShaddyMan
1 week ago

City

Yeah kissing is so important.

If the chemistry is there from the kiss it often translates.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
1 week ago

Castlebar

"Dua Lipa has a bloody song about this.

One Kiss is All it Takes.

It can’t be more official than that as to why kissing is so important 🤣"

She is the fountain of all knowledge tbf 🤣

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By *avexxMan
1 week ago

cheshire

kissing its a MUST

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By *anandJCouple
1 week ago

Citywest

Kissing is essential.

But it’s not why we wouldn’t playboys the people who have „no kissing” condition.

Why? Because it’s shows that there is a trust issue. No kissing, usually comes from - „it’s too personal”. If one is afraid of a kiss then sex definitely should be of the card…

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By *evin86Man
1 week ago

South Dublin

I feel kissing makes the whole experience way more sensual, I've been with people where kissing was off the table, it hasn't been a problem but the meets with kissing, especially a good kisser we're much more enjoyable. Kissing forms a bond and sex that follows us always better

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By *ofusplusCouple
1 week ago

Limerick

"Kissing is essential.

But it’s not why we wouldn’t playboys the people who have „no kissing” condition.

Why? Because it’s shows that there is a trust issue. No kissing, usually comes from - „it’s too personal”. If one is afraid of a kiss then sex definitely should be of the card… "

Controversial

But I tend to agree. We'd have no interest in meeting couples with that boundary

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By *ocal studMan
1 week ago

A town near you

Definatly agree with you.i love kissing and good kissing really turns me on and sex Is ses but if sex has no passionate kissing it's going to be mediocre in my opinion

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
1 week ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

That particular moment when the kissing intensify, my hand lands over her thighs and they unconsciously spread clearing the way to her treasure … is my special Heaven.

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By *ano53Man
1 week ago

Wicklow

"That particular moment when the kissing intensify, my hand lands over her thighs and they unconsciously spread clearing the way to her treasure … is my special Heaven. "
I think that's everyone's special heaven ...

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By *ardyboy54321Man
1 week ago

Fermanagh

Hard ta bate an aul shift boys

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By *s LollyWoman
1 week ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Love loooooooove kissing 💋 but unfortunately ye have to kiss alot of frogs 🐸 before the right one comes along and sets ye on fire 🔥

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
7 days ago

City Centre

I start with "Let's do this" and finish with a high five. Kissing is so unhygienic.

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By *ewbie006Man
7 days ago

Kilkenny

Totally agree with OP.. a kiss is what turns me on the most.. can’t get any better than a sensual sexy kiss.. wud love to spend a lot of time kissing

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By *ellinixxMan
7 days ago

Kildare

I kiss you anytime, kissing gets me going also.

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By *amon.dMan
7 days ago

antrim

"Love loooooooove kissing 💋 but unfortunately ye have to kiss alot of frogs 🐸 before the right one comes along and sets ye on fire 🔥 "

Ribbet, ribbet 🐸

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By *amon.dMan
7 days ago

antrim

I believe the young ones call it 'shifting' now.

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By *ea ShellsWoman
7 days ago

Sligo

"Yeah I won't just kiss anyone. There has to be an attraction and then if it's bad it really disappointing but I couldn't take it any further however much I fancied them. And when you kiss a guy and he gets hard, and you get wet and you know it's mutual 😈"

What H says. Agree 100% with this.

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By *udding RoseWoman
7 days ago

Somewhere out there

Kissing is important for me, it absolutely won't go any further if it's not good. Xx If the coffee meet goes well, I have to kiss and if it's good, I mean really good, you want to kiss them again and again and never stop!! I'm all about the passion!!

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By *udding RoseWoman
7 days ago

Somewhere out there

This is soo how it should!!!

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By *oldByMarCouple
7 days ago

playa de ingles / outa da west

It all started with a kiss 😘

Remember that song

Can’t beat a bit of tonsil hockey 😉😉

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By *oldByMarCouple
7 days ago

playa de ingles / outa da west

This is soo how it should!!!

Hard & Wet is a recipe for ⛈☄️💥💥💫

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By *attooed.dadbodMan
7 days ago

centre

Can't beat a good snog

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By *ot so needyMan
7 days ago

Galway

Yes the first kiss tells alot.

I love the electric feeling of the first kiss.

If it's the right person it feels like that everytime you meet 😈

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By *ustMe!Couple
7 days ago

co.down

Kissing is a huge must for me, as it’s what really gets me going at the start xx

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By *ancy38Woman
7 days ago

galway

When I first started out I didn't want to kiss others because I wanted to keep that between me and my partner. But now I have to kiss when playing. It just makes it so much better. I don't think I could have sex now without kissing included.

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By *man1044Man
7 days ago

North Galway

A nice kiss under the Spanish Arch Nancy

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By *inkywife1981Couple
7 days ago

A town near you

We both love kissing and for us it's an essential part of sex

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By *elfastDMan
7 days ago

belfast

A good kiss can really do things to me

I cannot be held responsible for my actions if your kiss turns me on

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By *osBeautifuksCouple
7 days ago

Dublin (sometimes London)

It can make or break the best and worst of connections.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
7 days ago

Lurgan

We used to have no kissing as a boundary, then one meet we decided it would be ok to try it and see, so C kissed the fella…so so sexy for her and for me to watch. Needless to say that boundary is no longer for us

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By *la57Man
7 days ago

Antrim co Antrim

Love kissing but respect boundaries

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By *erfectpussy4u OP Woman
3 days ago

mybed

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By *erfectpussy4u OP Woman
3 days ago

mybed

"When I first started out I didn't want to kiss others because I wanted to keep that between me and my partner. But now I have to kiss when playing. It just makes it so much better. I don't think I could have sex now without kissing included. "

I was the same.

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