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By *lim Shaddy OP   Man
2 weeks ago

City

Am I the only one who looks at winks?

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By *s LollyWoman
2 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I just delete them without looking who winked 🙈

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By *og-ManMan
2 weeks ago

somewhere

Sure you have to get winks in the first place

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By *radseman.jayMan
2 weeks ago

allover

I do but it's always empty

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By *eus17Man
2 weeks ago

belfast

I love it when a girl sends a lil wink,makes my day,guess im easy pleased lol

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I look at them cause I'm curious but then just delete.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
2 weeks ago

Castlebar

I look 👀

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I rarely look at winks, if at all. I don't send them or expect them.

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By *iscuits8Man
2 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Oh yeah, they're fairly rare so I notice immediately when that home screen changes from 'No new winks' to '1 new wink' 🥲

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By *otownkid1967Man
2 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I suppose as a fella ,getting winks will have you looking. More often than not its a fella

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast

The only time I check them is when someone starts a thread about them. Just had a look and I've had half a dozen in the last 3 or 4 months. Hadn't seen any of them until now.

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"The only time I check them is when someone starts a thread about them. Just had a look and I've had half a dozen in the last 3 or 4 months. Hadn't seen any of them until now. "

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Those were probably from me when you created that thread ages ago asking to befriend any "classy" and "urbane" men. Platonically, of course. 😉

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"The only time I check them is when someone starts a thread about them. Just had a look and I've had half a dozen in the last 3 or 4 months. Hadn't seen any of them until now.

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Those were probably from me when you created that thread ages ago asking to befriend any other "classy" and "urbane" men. Platonically, of course. 😉"

Fixed that for you😁

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By *scouple07Couple
2 weeks ago

louth, Ireland

We look at them and we do send them aswell

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By *odkaandredbullCouple
2 weeks ago

Antrim

We both look but don’t get point some one winks at you you wink at them nothing ever evolves from it lol

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair


"The only time I check them is when someone starts a thread about them. Just had a look and I've had half a dozen in the last 3 or 4 months. Hadn't seen any of them until now.

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Those were probably from me when you created that thread ages ago asking to befriend any other "classy" and "urbane" men. Platonically, of course. 😉

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Fixed that for you😁

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ㅤㅤ

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By *ananaskinMan
2 weeks ago

Tandragee


"I just delete them without looking who winked 🙈"

lol I tried sending you a wink… but was denied haha 😜

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By *hy tradieMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

I have to admit i probably have a wank everyday............oh sorry you said winks.....dam

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
2 weeks ago

Dublin

I look at them from time to time

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 weeks ago

Cork

Jeez looks like we're in the minority in returning a wink with a hi message, maybe we view it as a way of being nice and mannerly to people who've taken the time to read our profile.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
2 weeks ago

belfast

I do look at them and generally reply. But I honestly can’t think of a single occasion where it’s led to anything. I usually find that where someone’s first contact is by wink, they’re utterly hopeless at messages and most of the time don’t even reply when I send them a message in response to the wink.

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By *ealitybitesMan
2 weeks ago

Belfast


"Jeez looks like we're in the minority in returning a wink with a hi message, maybe we view it as a way of being nice and mannerly to people who've taken the time to read our profile. "

I used to get winks and friend requests every week from women competing for fabs on hot pics. I'd never spoken to any of them.

I ignore any friend requests from anyone I haven't been chatting to for a while but I've had dozens of winks over the years that I've responded to only to be ignored and get no reply so I decided it was just lazy people chancing their arm.

No point winking someone if you aren't prepared to chat when they return your wink.

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
2 weeks ago

Ennis

We don't really look at them. Life is busy enough and answering messages already takes time.. don't need winks on top of that. We also state in our profile that we don't look at them so it's a good indicator for who read the profile and who didn't.

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By *oshSardineMan
2 weeks ago

Castleknock


"Am I the only one who looks at winks?"

It’s the Fab equivalent of what used to be a Facebook ‘poke’, you’re just telling them you are still about or here I am.

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By *ast_jjMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin and London

I've had some fantastic meets that all started with a wink.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
2 weeks ago

ireland

We pay no heed to winks unless its in a forum thread challenge !

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By *hris 1000200Man
2 weeks ago

kells

On the rare occasion I get them ,,I always look,,,,it be rude not too

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By *oorslightMan
2 weeks ago

Strabane

I would normally look at winks & check out who sent them. If I like them I may wink back or message them. I see a wink as green light to come on

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I absolutely never look at winks unless I receive them and never ever send them unless I like a profile but think I've no chance with them. But apart from that, I never use the wink feature and feel it's a totally pointless feature to have on a social site.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
2 weeks ago

kinkytown

No we look at them. Very rarely reply to them however

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By * DareCouple
2 weeks ago

Donegal and Galway generally

We do look at them, it’s sometimes a good way to start chatting

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By *alted!Man
2 weeks ago

Cork

If you send me a wink I'll be looking and replying. That said I might get 1 every 2 years or so.

Funny enough I did get one today, but it was some dude. So yeah ill be giving that one a miss.

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By *ella.Woman
2 weeks ago

Longford


"I just delete them without looking who winked 🙈"

This!

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By *eroLondonMan
2 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've mentioned this in similar threads - I just interpret winks as some perfunctory action. I don't send winks. Indeed I haven't sent one for over three years, other than those which are part of a forum game or a challenge (an equally pointless exercise).

I've sat next to 'women friends' at a social who have shown me their 'wink tally', with the number varying between 350 and 600++ winks. A wink sent from a single man, no matter how well-intentioned with all the airs and graces, will simply languish like an abandoned child in some obscure orphanage.

No woman of substance has the time or the wherewithal to sift through an ever-increasing mountain of winks. Hence their limited use. In fairness they are useful to a small minority. I've heard that they seem to work well for Couples...

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By *lirtyfemaleWoman
2 weeks ago

town

I delete here too

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By *tevieobMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

I wink. If someone winks back then it’s a green light to send a message, I don’t like sending unsolicited face pics

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By *rystalsswingCouple
2 weeks ago

Galway / Midlands / West


"We do look at them, it’s sometimes a good way to start chatting "

This!

Also send them sometimes in appreciation of a great profile or pics 🤩

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By *wingme22Man
2 weeks ago

Galway

I always thought of them as an ice breaker, you wink at someone that catches your eye if they like your profile wink back you mail them thanking them for returning wink.

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