FabSwingers.com forum: Requesting meets through the forums? Does it work?

By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

Even if they don't work at least the person posting is getting their name out there which isn't a bad thing

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
3 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

Never Fails !!! All the ladies love public displays of affection from potential suiters. Tongue and cheek I'm afraid, never tried ! But I can say presence on the forums and how you contribute will be noted, and used against or in your favour.

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

The people I had seen posting the threads, I don't see their names pop up in the day to day general threads so I don't think that they are getting their name out for the right reason....

But that's just my opinion. Maybe they are posting elsewhere.

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By *s LollyWoman
3 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If the post is from a male id imagine not, if the post is from a female im sure her inbox would be full with suiters 😂

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"If the post is from a male id imagine not, if the post is from a female im sure her inbox would be full with suiters 😂"

That is so true. I do t remember seeing any from a lady. If I remember right, all of them have been males!

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I've never done it or posted a meet anywhere on here, whether that be through a status or the meet section so I've no idea if it works or not.

My local updates used to be full of women posting meets one day and complaining they couldn't get anyone decent the next day.

Not sure how they were going to decide suitability in such a short space of time.

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

It's a double edged sword also in that if something if off with your profile it will come back and haunt you with the answers

So you better have a thick skin

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

Oh yeah, the status too. You have a fair point on them.

But in those cases, I would assume the person is looking for a once off not a person to meet again.

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By *ymbunny2016Man
3 weeks ago

Bangor

Surely posting in the meets/events would be more appropriate. I am yet to see it, but I’d bet ladies and couples would get an overwhelming response mind you!

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"Surely posting in the meets/events would be more appropriate. I am yet to see it, but I’d bet ladies and couples would get an overwhelming response mind you!"

True, I would think that would be a better place. But then again, the amount of guys Vs ladies/couples in that meets section when you go into each area tends to be huge.

Oh, to the guys who have listed meets on the forums, I'm in no way judging you, was interested to see if the approach actually worked or not and how it was perceived by others.

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

It's rare to see a forum post getting traction for a meet but then we don't know if people get in touch with lads when they do post.

A lot of posts like that are pretty low effort but then you'll get others that are sincere and will get a response.

Most recently a gentleman posted about visiting Cobh and got a great response and I've no doubt he made a few local connections.

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere

I never look at the meets section so tried it just now

You either pick a county or any

I assumed "any" meant the 26 counties actually Listed

But it lists all The UK

That would be a gigantic pain in the arse unless I'm doing it wrong

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By *s LollyWoman
3 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"It's rare to see a forum post getting traction for a meet but then we don't know if people get in touch with lads when they do post.

A lot of posts like that are pretty low effort but then you'll get others that are sincere and will get a response.

Most recently a gentleman posted about visiting Cobh and got a great response and I've no doubt he made a few local connections."

Did ye see his profile 🥵🥵😈😈

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
3 weeks ago

Back End of Beyond

"It's rare to see a forum post getting traction for a meet but then we don't know if people get in touch with lads when they do post.

A lot of posts like that are pretty low effort but then you'll get others that are sincere and will get a response.

Most recently a gentleman posted about visiting Cobh and got a great response and I've no doubt he made a few local connections.

Did ye see his profile 🥵🥵😈😈"

O yes he was hot hot

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By * BlackMan
3 weeks ago

Laois/ Dublin

Each to their own in the pursuit of happiness, the forms on help a fabber out can be very informative and good craic as well.

Attending socials and events and getting to know people saves a lot of time.People generally need to know people for repeat meets, as the dynanic involves more than play.

Navigating the lifestyle is a learning for us all. Enjoy it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I think you can look at the forums as a way to get to know people that you think you might like. Then there is the opportunity to maybe take thins further. It's not quite as simple as making a request and someone accepting

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By *ornyandniceMan
3 weeks ago

Norwich/ Dublin

Don’t know but im in Dublin and only Northern Ireland and add profile so to speak so if outside of fab uk area you have no option but to try the forum

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

Hmm as pointed out, a person from out side the area could benefit by posting on the forums, but the ones I had seen where (lads) looking for meet ups in their own areas (profile says the are from Dublin and they are looking for meets in the same area).

The meets section is a pain, it's setup for UK and not Ireland specific so you do have to select each county and sees who's there.

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By *he KakapoMan
3 weeks ago

A nice rock

I dont see any issue with posting on the forum looking for meets.

It definitely works too.

As usual on here women will be applauded for their initiative in going after what they wanted and lads will be ripped apart as easy targets by people looking to be gatekeepers for the "lifestyle" and the ladies.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

I've never requested a meet via the forums in any shape or form. 'Convenience meets' hold little mystique for me.

I have, however, had socials and dalliances on the back of my forum presence when a woman has messaged me, but those engagements were months after the initial message.

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By *rown PrismWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?"

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁"

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

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By *rown PrismWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm."

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

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By *adger BrocMan
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I am meeting some fabbers on a walk in Cork tomorrow and I will ask the question about seeking meets through the forums.

It will be mostly ladies....(not the usual male majority that a lot of fab events seem to attract)....so the answers may have a somewhat female bias.

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self.

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By *rown PrismWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self."

some questions won't be answered

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self.

some questions won't be answered "

You do it first from a female perspective 🤣

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By *rown PrismWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self.

some questions won't be answered

You do it first from a female perspective 🤣"

hahaha I won't get sucked into this... I'm not interested in the answer to this question... and I can't write that I want to meet anyone if I don't want to meet just anyone...it must be someone special

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By *eekyNerd OP Man
3 weeks ago

Portarlington

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self.

some questions won't be answered

You do it first from a female perspective 🤣

True, actually that might be one of the reasons most people don't do it. They are looking for someone special or someone to connect to.

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By *rown PrismWoman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

"So, does requesting meets through the forums actually work?

Since I've joined 6ish months ago, I've seen threads weekly on a person (mostly a guy) saying that they are available on such a date/time at whatever location for a meet.

Then....no replies, one maybe if they are extremely lucky.

But that doesn't mean that they aren't getting private messages.

So the question,do these thread actually work or do other people tend to avoid them?

maybe you'll get the best answer if you post such a thread on the forum yourself? 🤣🤗😁

Cheeky! I could do.... Hmmm.

go for it... go for it... for science...

later you'll tell me what the effect was haha 🤣🤣🤣

For me, a loss of self.

some questions won't be answered

You do it first from a female perspective 🤣

True, actually that might be one of the reasons most people don't do it. They are looking for someone special or someone to connect to."

hahaha I have a lot of laundry to do...

... may you find the answer to your questions 🤗🤗🤗

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