FabSwingers.com forum: fantisis and time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hello my fab friends me and me misses are on this a while now have came across numerous women that we wanted to meet talked on the phone and what not but they just back out we are a genuine fun couple and photo verified after a bi fem but there just full of shit any other couples have this problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

plus if any bi girls that like couples and have met couples have any tips on what to watch out for time wasters or girls who just wind u up be much appriciated thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give it time u have only been on a short time also if not verified by meeting we dont meet(harsh for newbies)but at least u know they have turned up at least once lol.also if its a cpl or bi f need to speak on phone or quck cam to ensure it is a fem.also use the chat room get to know people properly and u will soon spot the dreamers a mile off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an awful lot of also's inlast message sorry but im on the vino lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

she has spoke on the phone to females and they back out plus were photo verified which i think is more genuine then the green tick as it could be any one doin another a favour with a verication so frustrating thanks for the feed back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt think there were any timewasters on here as every single profile says they're genuine....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

easy to say lol but thats all wev come across ah sure time will tell any one know of any other sites to find what were after and god no not pof !! lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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But surely they are allowed to back out any time they want are they not. Doesn't make them time wasters, chatting dosent make it a commitment! or maybe they are a bit intimadated by your profile and afriad they may not meaure up!! just a view point.

If they arranged to meet and didnt turn up then they would def be time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes agreed we are far from pushy but this girl impaticular has messed us about twice my misses was excited both times only to be let down ah sure not to worry im sure wel find what were looking for some how some time

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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"yes agreed we are far from pushy but this girl impaticular has messed us about twice my misses was excited both times only to be let down ah sure not to worry im sure wel find what were looking for some how some time

if it is the same one, just let her go! it isnt worth you getting upset and spoiling fun you could have, just ignor her or block, but do move on and have the fun you want for you both with someone that will show xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But surely they are allowed to back out any time they want are they not. Doesn't make them time wasters, chatting dosent make it a commitment! or maybe they are a bit intimadated by your profile and afriad they may not meaure up!! just a view point.

If they arranged to meet and didnt turn up then they would def be time wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

plus the arrangment was they meet not even me for a coffee it wasnt just straight to d sack so my frustration is why chat on the phone talking dirty for a week arrange a coffee with the female part of the couple then just back out ? after seeing us both ?? understand were we are coming from

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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we have had let downs, some people i believe get a kick outta messing with people !!! for some messing is as good for them as sex! nature of the beast, people have different kinks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The talking dirty was your hint that it was a messer. For lots of people on here this is nothing more than a porn site, a place to jack off. So they love to look at pics (see how many friends invites you get from folk that never email you) or they want to talk dirty in email or on the phone.

There is a strong risk that if you get the "what will you do to me when we meet " brigade that's what they are on for, not to meet but to wank off talking and talking.

Not everyone who discusses meets in detail is a messer, but if the person is talking endlessly about the detail of the meet, you should be on alert.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well very true thanks for the feed back im sure the right one will come along seems all the genuine ones here are not meeting new couples or are busy ah well the waiting game it is so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

agreed tom plus she was really pushy then bang nutin lol ah well lesson learnt and real girls after a real meet hit us up ya can meet me missus in person first no bother thanks again for the advice fabber

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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"The talking dirty was your hint that it was a messer. For lots of people on here this is nothing more than a porn site, a place to jack off. So they love to look at pics (see how many friends invites you get from folk that never email you) or they want to talk dirty in email or on the phone.

There is a strong risk that if you get the "what will you do to me when we meet " brigade that's what they are on for, not to meet but to wank off talking and talking.

Not everyone who discusses meets in detail is a messer, but if the person is talking endlessly about the detail of the meet, you should be on alert. "

have to say that prety much sums up most of our time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know your profile says NO COUPLES quite clearly but in my past experience as part of a couple you'd often find that a couple aren't necessarily in a relationship and the woman may be quite willing to meet you both another time on her own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a single gal on here I dont value the green tick at all .. id never meet anyone who wasnt verified in person by someone else and well most of us gals are in contact with each other.. Couples seem to be very quick to judge others as timewasters ..Ok thats generalising but its something I have noticed.. I agree with what someone else said here "is opting out not an option ??" .. I've been lucky enuf to have an mff here with two well verified singles on here .. But as yet I am still reluctant to meet couples as on the most part they seem to get a lil pushy .. are always wanting to see face pics etc off the bat without first doing it .. and quiet often the male wants a meet without the fems knowledge .. Not something I'd feel comfortable with .. Anywho rant over lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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"Speaking as a single gal on here I dont value the green tick at all .. id never meet anyone who wasnt verified in person by someone else and well most of us gals are in contact with each other.. Couples seem to be very quick to judge others as timewasters ..Ok thats generalising but its something I have noticed.. I agree with what someone else said here "is opting out not an option ??" .. I've been lucky enuf to have an mff here with two well verified singles on here .. But as yet I am still reluctant to meet couples as on the most part they seem to get a lil pushy .. are always wanting to see face pics etc off the bat without first doing it .. and quiet often the male wants a meet without the fems knowledge .. Not something I'd feel comfortable with .. Anywho rant over lol

very good points however i see as more single guys are ready to class people as time wasters becase they dont want to meet, i had a guy message me/us wanted to meet from first message, i told him it didnt work that way, he sent a face pic! now i state on my profile i do not ask for nor send face pics, anyway before i got a chance to say sorry not our type he messaged againg sayin right i sent you a face pic now i want one before we meet lol he was told there would be no meet! the abuse i got was unreal i blocked and reported, it didnt end there he over the next few years done the same, guess it take all sorts, but if i was to ask for a face i would have one to send i dont do either

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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i should state he opened new profiles over the next few years, not one got verified x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i should state he opened new profiles over the next few years, not one got verified x

I hear ye me dear .. altho I was directing my comment at couples in this post Id have the same experience with immature single males here too .. People tend to forget they are dealing with real people here sometimes and get down right abusive and nasty

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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"i should state he opened new profiles over the next few years, not one got verified x

oh i know and am with you, i have seen plent of winging lol so i agreed with what you said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well to clear things up fabbers we are in a relationship non pushy and love each other very much andextremely far from pushy and would never meet alone i let my girlfriend handle it in all cases i just give her number if my girls attracted to them and we always send face pics first but can see what yous are saying

as u said i let the girls handle it as that is the deal wit me and my misses to begin with its a treat for me yes but she talks to them and does be willing to meet alone for a coffee first witout me there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice would be to get yourselves to a meet and greet, there's one coming up in a week or so I believe, you can't go wrong there as you get chatting face to face with people on here. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thats a great idea i suppose we could prove our selfs to be real and genuine is that the one in the forums??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of worrying stuff in here. Ok so the single girls chat to each other and you don't trust green ticks. Everybit of information is useful. Verifications are an excellent start to know if someone has met before. Chatting to others is an excellent way of getting feedback on a potential meet.

But neither is foolproof. I have had verified people who have fucked me about goodo. And I have met women who were badmouthed by people on here only to find the badmouther was the one with the problem.

There is nothing to beat your intuition. If it feels wrong, then this isn't harmony dot com , just walk away.

But for gods sake if the bad feeling is just before an organised meet, at least be adult enough to tell the poor prick you are not going to show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thats a great idea i suppose we could prove our selfs to be real and genuine is that the one in the forums??"

Yep it is indeed, just message the thread op explaining your position and I'm sure they could do something about putting your names on the list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing to beat your intuition. If it feels wrong, then this isn't harmony dot com , just walk away.

But for gods sake if the bad feeling is just before an organised meet, at least be adult enough to tell the poor prick you are not going to show!"

well see that's where that goes wrong with guys , gals and couples on here ..why would anyone lead another on to the point of a meet and then not show .. Ive been let down an awful lot by lads who at the very end get cold feet .. and then continue chatting away as if nothing has happened lol .. But sometimes its the other person being the fantasist . Quiet often u can be chatting to someone and there is a presumption there that there's going to be a meet on their part.. or they are messaging in detail about what they will or wont do to u when you have never agreed to meet them ..and somehow they feel wronged when a meet was never discussed ... Time wasted? But whos lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

also i would like to point out that on not one occasion have i asked to meet any fems alone nor has my better half and wev texted all genuine fems here and would welcome any one to prove me wrong just a lil point i wanted to trow out im loyal to her as she is me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ooohla well to break it down you are and i can tell a genuine girl here time would of been wasted had my girl not text the other yesterday about the coffee meet this mornin which was arranged last week then sleep over friday but she recieved a text back saying ah im goin out not meeting any one monday morning when it was her suggestion and my misses would of missed her gym and had to rush then rush back to pick her kids up from school now this girl is new here and i spotted here a mile off as we got chatting on a diffrent site she was shocked when i knew her name and she said she was thinking bout us bla bla had shit goin on at d time but do

ne d exact same thing here

so thats what annoyed us both any ways

all we can do is wait i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"also i would like to point out that on not one occasion have i asked to meet any fems alone nor has my better half and wev texted all genuine fems here and would welcome any one to prove me wrong just a lil point i wanted to trow out im loyal to her as she is me

See your one of the gudduns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why thank you ooohla and we shall soldier on on here till we get that bloody 3sum lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why thank you ooohla and we shall soldier on on here till we get that bloody 3sum lol

they are not called the elusive 3sum for nothing .. and the single bi gals are unicorns lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

lol haha well the "ELUSIVE" 3SUM THEN WE SHALL WAIT FOR IF YOUR AFTER ONE WINK WINK INBOX US LOL BUT RULES ARE YOU TALK TO HER NOT ME LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters aren't just single males or single females or even couples. It's across the board. I have on my profile that I am here wasting time my own though not anyone else's and in that way I have cut down a lot of the grief that gets thrown if I decide I don't want to meet some. See thats the thing with free will it's not dependant on other peoples wants or needs. I arranged last week to win the lotto just by doing it but goddamn luck let me down again!!! May pick meself up and try again next week. If at first u don't "suckseed" try try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Time wasters aren't just single males or single females or even couples. It's across the board. I have on my profile that I am here wasting time my own though not anyone else's and in that way I have cut down a lot of the grief that gets thrown if I decide I don't want to meet some. See thats the thing with free will it's not dependant on other peoples wants or needs. I arranged last week to win the lotto just by doing it but goddamn luck let me down again!!! May pick meself up and try again next week. If at first u don't "suckseed" try try again

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lololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure ur a time waster if you don't meet after first mail

Which is generally lets fuck.

If heaven forbid you reply with NO. Or delete

Get called a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well wev never been pushy nor rude to any one here and thats FACT!!! but have got abuse feom a couple of girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure ur a time waster if you don't meet after first mail

Which is generally lets fuck.

If heaven forbid you reply with NO. Or delete

Get called a time waster. "

haha I know, I hate the mails that start with, So, how you finding fab? I find there's a lot of fakes and timewasters but I'm not one of them,' Instant delete. There must be some default message templates people use on here, same shit different day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well wev never been pushy nor rude to any one here and thats FACT!!! but have got abuse feom a couple of girls

It happens us all just got to smile block and move along. It's one of the beautiful things about the block button. Just wish real life came with one. Closest I've come to it is a concrete block and most don't like to be hit with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure ur a time waster if you don't meet after first mail

Which is generally lets fuck.

If heaven forbid you reply with NO. Or delete

Get called a time waster.

Message templates lol. I've had a few different profiles on here over time and I had one guy in particular message me on each profile with the exact worded message as before. So I finally replied this profile and said to him just a tip here huni try to be a little more original next time nobody likes copy and pasting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" hello my fab friends me and me misses are on this a while now have came across numerous women that we wanted to meet talked on the phone and what not but they just back out we are a genuine fun couple and photo verified after a bi fem but there just full of shit any other couples have this problem

id never swap numbers or chat on the phone unless i had an interest in meeting sumone,cant understand why ppl wud do tht!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

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id never swap numbers or chat on the phone unless i had an interest in meeting sumone,cant understand why ppl wud do tht!"

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