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"Anyone else find people describing themselves as 'professional' a bit cringe or off putting? Like are the rest of us mere mortals lower down the pecking order? The bin man, the girl in Centra are all professionals too. What exactly are they trying to say? They obviously see themselves as somehow superior to a lot of other fabbers or am I reading too much into this? " your 100% right | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. " so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that | |||
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"Capris were a sexy car though" agree | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that " Yes that's what I'm saying. Anyone caught wearing a tracksuit is very unprofessional and should report to HR immediately. Unless they are grey sweat pants. Those are cool now. | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that Yes that's what I'm saying. Anyone caught wearing a tracksuit is very unprofessional and should report to HR immediately. Unless they are grey sweat pants. Those are cool now." the grey sweat pants are the worst all they do is cause a mountain of grey fluff | |||
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"Capris were a sexy car though" Who was coolest Boody or Doyle | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that Yes that's what I'm saying. Anyone caught wearing a tracksuit is very unprofessional and should report to HR immediately. Unless they are grey sweat pants. Those are cool now.the grey sweat pants are the worst all they do is cause a mountain of grey fluff " But can give a very good idea of the package underneath  lol | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that Yes that's what I'm saying. Anyone caught wearing a tracksuit is very unprofessional and should report to HR immediately. Unless they are grey sweat pants. Those are cool now.the grey sweat pants are the worst all they do is cause a mountain of grey fluff " Only the cheap ones, I wouldn't meet someone wearing cheap grey sweatpants... Wait have we cracked where the professional line is | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they "I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine. | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job ""Used to" So your saying you have the time now..... | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine."Omg do you have a Honda civic too  | |||
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"Anyone else find people describing themselves as 'professional' a bit cringe or off putting? Like are the rest of us mere mortals lower down the pecking order? The bin man, the girl in Centra are all professionals too. What exactly are they trying to say? They obviously see themselves as somehow superior to a lot of other fabbers or am I reading too much into this? " You can't tell if the profiles describing themselves as 'professional' isn't a bin man or someone working in centra? | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine.
Omg do you have a Honda civic too "Subaru... | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. so are you saying a person who wears a tracksuit is unprofessional. I'd be fairly sure sports people would disagree with you on that Yes that's what I'm saying. Anyone caught wearing a tracksuit is very unprofessional and should report to HR immediately. Unless they are grey sweat pants. Those are cool now.the grey sweat pants are the worst all they do is cause a mountain of grey fluff Only the cheap ones, I wouldn't meet someone wearing cheap grey sweatpants... Wait have we cracked where the professional line is" no we are having an argument about grey sweat pants 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job
"Used to" So your saying you have the time now....."Now I'm just a professional at sucking dick | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine.
Omg do you have a Honda civic too
Subaru..."Is there a word I can use to communicate my desire to avoid Subaru drivers? | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine.
Omg do you have a Honda civic too
Subaru..."Dissapointing | |||
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"Most likely reading too much into it. Answers will range from Notions to it being a way to communicate that they feel discretion is required because of their profession. Or maybe they just don't meet people who wear tracksuits. Or a way to signal social strata and a desire to meet similar. " In other words fellow snobs only,so much for non judgemental lol | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine.
Omg do you have a Honda civic too
Subaru...
Dissapointing "Notions! | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO." Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they "Given unemployment stats in Ireland we can safely assume that 97% of fabbers are working. | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. " They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job "Most people who work very hard in Tesco don't have time for that either in fairness | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. " You'd be very surprised | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job
Most people who work very hard in Tesco don't have time for that either in fairness "If you bring your clubcard you may find out differently | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really." That's Limerick cittaaayyyy | |||
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"Anyone else find people describing themselves as 'professional' a bit cringe or off putting? Like are the rest of us mere mortals lower down the pecking order? The bin man, the girl in Centra are all professionals too. What exactly are they trying to say? They obviously see themselves as somehow superior to a lot of other fabbers or am I reading too much into this? You can't tell if the profiles describing themselves as 'professional' isn't a bin man or someone working in centra? " I'd guess their jobs are not as productive as the bin man or breakfast roll maker in fairness | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job
"Used to" So your saying you have the time now.....
Now I'm just a professional at sucking dick "That's what it should mean on fab in fairness lol | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy" we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job
Most people who work very hard in Tesco don't have time for that either in fairness "Cambridge dictionary says professional "is a person who has a job that needs skill, education, or training" So that's applies to everyone who works be in bin man or solicitor or Tesco workers. At the brief time I had professional in my profile I was working in hospitality. | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's " Very professional. The only Audi's and BMW's around where I grew up in Limerick were burned out. | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's Very professional. The only Audi's and BMW's around where I grew up in Limerick were burned out." taken from the lovely country people | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's Very professional. The only Audi's and BMW's around where I grew up in Limerick were burned out." Lol | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's Very professional. The only Audi's and BMW's around where I grew up in Limerick were burned out. Lol" townies | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine."A lovely horse that goes in the lift?? 🤔 | |||
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"We have professional in ours, we don't see ourselves as more superior. Like someone said it's a way of saying our jobs are quite public so we need to be guaranteed discretion. We are absolutely not full of our own importance. Reading too much into it IMO. Literally everyone one of us wants to be discreet. Even the lad who repairs your car. They like Honda Civic's. There's nothing more to be said really. That's Limerick cittaaayyyy we like Audi and BMWs in the county and some of us like Ford's Very professional. The only Audi's and BMW's around where I grew up in Limerick were burned out. Loltownies " How superior of you | |||
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"I used to have it on my profile when I first started on Fab . To me at that time it meant I was busy working professional so no didn't have time to suck off random person passing nearby as I havd this annoying thing called a job " | |||
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"It's just another word in a bio along with lots of others In fairness nobody is going to put common as muck on the dole on their bio are they
I did consider adding 'there's a horse outside' to mine.
A lovely horse that goes in the lift?? 🤔" | |||
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"Think they’re saying they done want a scrote rocking up with his bin bag looking jacket and and a bang of amberleaf off him " Lol you seem nice | |||
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"It's a word. If someone using that word on their profile bugs you then cool, they obviously aren't for you. These threads usually produce lots of posts assuming many things about those using the word professional, judging them and their opinion of "us mere mortals", all the while oblivious to their own vitriol and judgement 🤷" Haven’t seen much vitriol on here particularly in the Irish forum. Plenty of interesting viewpoints and every day is a learning day. | |||
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"I’m going to maintain my amateur status till my game improves…… It’s just a word, I doubt people who have it on their profile gave it near as much analysis or thought as it has received here, doesn’t bother me, it’s their profile, what can put whatever they want, it neither attracts me or puts me off a person or profile, it suggest nothing about the profile to me. We all have standards/filters/preferences, I haven’t gotten down to the nitty gritty of particular words in a profile triggering me or putting me off in any way. Maybe they use it as a filter for people who don’t like the word or phrase……." Filter that can work both ways | |||
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"It's a word. If someone using that word on their profile bugs you then cool, they obviously aren't for you. These threads usually produce lots of posts assuming many things about those using the word professional, judging them and their opinion of "us mere mortals", all the while oblivious to their own vitriol and judgement 🤷" 👏👏👏 | |||
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"I would take it to mean that that basically wear clean clothes at work. I wouldn't read much more than that into it tbh. It wouldn't bother me one way or another. " Actually they don't have to wear a suit or clean clothes. Some do 100% So professionals are in 5 distinct categories. 1.White collar Solicitors,accountants, ceo (etc) consultants, IT 2. Blue collar Architect, crain ops, mechanics, electricians, maintenance tech 3. Clinical Docs, nurses, therapists, social workers, lab techs, vets 4. Support Pharmacy, engineers, revenue, medical industry 5. Management Hr, operations, payroll, trainers, marketing Some clean some not. So some have skills, knowledge and or training, not just higher level education but also real life. Takes all sorts to make our life work. Still don't think 1 person is above anyone else or should be. Just my 2 cents worth. | |||
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"I like fine bone China cup saucer What's that make me " Lonely? | |||
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"Is almost a bad ppl saying they are "friendly and interesting". Like no one is gonna say "were door mat boring and very standoffish" I've absolutely no issue with ppl using whatever language they want to put in their profile. I think it was the man called Bog that said its just a turn of phrase. If it irritates ppl then I'd probably just say, get over it. The Monday blues are in full swing now so excuse me " Lots of couples actually say "shy at first" and "quiet" etc as they are trying to truthfully describes themselves so people know what to expect. I've seen people say "friendly" but never saw a couple describe themselves as "interesting " That's for others to decide | |||
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