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"There's only going to be be more woman on these types of sites than men. Currently 67 ladies online and over 300 guys. But you'll see the same great lovely guys on Fab getting meets they've gone to socials they've made efforts for coffee socials drinks etc they've made effort with profiles and pictures and with messages. The ratio won't affect them as much as it will for the blank siloutte unverified profiles sending meet now and suck me off messages. " Your words are as great as your body   | |||
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"The simple fix is to ignore it." This......why would it bother you how many women are online or how many men What does fixing it even mean | |||
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"There's only going to be be more woman on these types of sites than men. Currently 67 ladies online and over 300 guys. But you'll see the same great lovely guys on Fab getting meets they've gone to socials they've made efforts for coffee socials drinks etc they've made effort with profiles and pictures and with messages. The ratio won't affect them as much as it will for the blank siloutte unverified profiles sending meet now and suck me off messages. " This exactly! Its actually easy on here for single men. In reality, there are a number of men on here that get it! They're social, attend events, have built up a network/friendships with lots of people over time. The ratio is irrelevant to them. If your coming on with a blank profile, hoping that sending out hundreds of random messages will get you lucky, then the ratio is a really big deal, because your part of it and the cause of it. | |||
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"There's a really good article about this on the Freaksexual Blog if you search for 'non-monogamy for men - the big picture'. Basically The Valley of the Dolls theory, why women adopt a defensive stance from the get go. " I read it but jesus it's long. The theory is pretty sound but man he's hard on guys. The general vibe is fairly pessimistic and almost everything is presented as a challenge with very little discussion about opportunities. | |||
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"There's only going to be be more woman on these types of sites than men. Currently 67 ladies online and over 300 guys. But you'll see the same great lovely guys on Fab getting meets they've gone to socials they've made efforts for coffee socials drinks etc they've made effort with profiles and pictures and with messages. The ratio won't affect them as much as it will for the blank siloutte unverified profiles sending meet now and suck me off messages. " Spot on. Nice guys never get short of meets. | |||
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"There's only going to be be more woman on these types of sites than men. Currently 67 ladies online and over 300 guys. But you'll see the same great lovely guys on Fab getting meets they've gone to socials they've made efforts for coffee socials drinks etc they've made effort with profiles and pictures and with messages. The ratio won't affect them as much as it will for the blank siloutte unverified profiles sending meet now and suck me off messages. Spot on. Nice guys never get short of meets." | |||
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"Not always true , it’s hard for nice guys to get meets too even if we’ll verified and aren’t socials , as lots don’t reply or instantly blocked after messaging. So it’s fair to say woman can’t really say what it’s like for guys, violin plays
There's only going to be be more woman on these types of sites than men. Currently 67 ladies online and over 300 guys. But you'll see the same great lovely guys on Fab getting meets they've gone to socials they've made efforts for coffee socials drinks etc they've made effort with profiles and pictures and with messages. The ratio won't affect them as much as it will for the blank siloutte unverified profiles sending meet now and suck me off messages.
Spot on. Nice guys never get short of meets."Thoughts and prayers for all the single men here | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid " Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot "Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone "Stone* | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone "Even better a Wankathon | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot " needy or greedy??
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone
Even better a Wankathon "As long as biscuits are not involved | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone
Even better a Wankathon
As long as biscuits are not involved "If biscuits isn't invited I'm boycotting | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone
Even better a Wankathon
As long as biscuits are not involved "Who doesn't love a Soggy Biscuit | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone
Even better a Wankathon
As long as biscuits are not involved
If biscuits isn't invited I'm boycotting "Your solidarity is noted and appreciated 🫡 | |||
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid Ladies please donate a blow job or even a handjob to the needy men of Fab.Give a little it could help a lot
Hold on, why can't the men just sort each other? Two birds, one tone
Even better a Wankathon
As long as biscuits are not involved
If biscuits isn't invited I'm boycotting
Your solidarity is noted and appreciated 🫡"✊️ | |||
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"I think the last time this was brought up we agreed we'd divvy the men up between us "Tbf if all us guys broke into small groups I can only see everyone being happier lol | |||
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"It’s clear the ratio of single men compared to women and couples on here is crazy. Wondering what caused this and what would fix it" • It occurred during the formation of the cosmos and the coalescing of the Fab stars, many eons ago. Ratios only affect those who are susceptible to such metrics and feel that it hampers their Fab experience. | |||
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"If you account for personal preferences, lunatics and the position of the sun, moon and earth the ratio is close to 1:1 "This is so true...there are actually very few sane genuine single men who ACTUALLY want to meet. When you actually find them they are so busy having the time of their lives it's hard to meet them!
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"Feck the people in LA that lost their houses and everything in the fires Bono and Bob need to organise a Fab-Aid " Love this 🤣🤣🤣 B x | |||
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"The ratio problem, fake profiles, and scammers are the same across all these websites. Women can afford to be selective because they’re inundated with options, many of which are low-quality. Men, on the other hand, have to put in significantly more effort—hunting, competing, and often facing frustration. That’s just the reality, and men have to accept it. If they’re not getting any traction, they’re approaching it the wrong way. Success comes down to strategy, improving their approach, and understanding how the dynamic works. " I don't accept that men have to either hunt or compete. If you really understand the dynamic you'd realise that fab isn't a competition and that's where most go wrong. | |||
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"The ratio problem, fake profiles, and scammers are the same across all these websites. Women can afford to be selective because they’re inundated with options, many of which are low-quality. Men, on the other hand, have to put in significantly more effort—hunting, competing, and often facing frustration. That’s just the reality, and men have to accept it. If they’re not getting any traction, they’re approaching it the wrong way. Success comes down to strategy, improving their approach, and understanding how the dynamic works. " Exactly. Have a strategy that works. Adapt regularly. It's the key to meeting people on Fab. | |||
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"There's a really good article about this on the Freaksexual Blog if you search for 'non-monogamy for men - the big picture'. Basically The Valley of the Dolls theory, why women adopt a defensive stance from the get go. " Thank you so much for the call out. A really really interesting read. I'd highly recommend any man wanting to interact with women sexually to ready. The amount of times I've been abused here because I'm picky is astounding - I'm almost 50 therefore I should be grateful that any man wants to fuck me. Thus, open your legs and be grateful you have a generous cock inside of you  | |||
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"There's a really good article about this on the Freaksexual Blog if you search for 'non-monogamy for men - the big picture'. Basically The Valley of the Dolls theory, why women adopt a defensive stance from the get go. Thank you so much for the call out. A really really interesting read. I'd highly recommend any man wanting to interact with women sexually to ready. The amount of times I've been abused here because I'm picky is astounding - I'm almost 50 therefore I should be grateful that any man wants to fuck me. Thus, open your legs and be grateful you have a generous cock inside of you "I would highly recommend anyone reading about the valley of the doll's to theory to also read a few articles that critique it. I'm not saying it's totally wrong but it is of its time and feminism has come a ways since the 60's. The article posted above is particularly pessimistic from the man's point of view and I feel it's that kind of pessimism that bears the seed of incel culture. It doesn't always have to be hard and it doesn't always have to competitive. When you rise above that sort of nonsense Fab becomes a much friendlier place altogether . | |||
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"There's a really good article about this on the Freaksexual Blog if you search for 'non-monogamy for men - the big picture'. Basically The Valley of the Dolls theory, why women adopt a defensive stance from the get go. Thank you so much for the call out. A really really interesting read. I'd highly recommend any man wanting to interact with women sexually to ready. The amount of times I've been abused here because I'm picky is astounding - I'm almost 50 therefore I should be grateful that any man wants to fuck me. Thus, open your legs and be grateful you have a generous cock inside of you
I would highly recommend anyone reading about the valley of the doll's to theory to also read a few articles that critique it.
I'm not saying it's totally wrong but it is of its time and feminism has come a ways since the 60's.
The article posted above is particularly pessimistic from the man's point of view and I feel it's that kind of pessimism that bears the seed of incel culture.
It doesn't always have to be hard and it doesn't always have to competitive. When you rise above that sort of nonsense Fab becomes a much friendlier place altogether ."It's not really of its time when it's many women's lived experience now. So yes balance is great and definitely look up opposing articles. But women still have good reason to be defensive. One day's worth of Fab messages is proof. | |||
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"There's a really good article about this on the Freaksexual Blog if you search for 'non-monogamy for men - the big picture'. Basically The Valley of the Dolls theory, why women adopt a defensive stance from the get go. Thank you so much for the call out. A really really interesting read. I'd highly recommend any man wanting to interact with women sexually to ready. The amount of times I've been abused here because I'm picky is astounding - I'm almost 50 therefore I should be grateful that any man wants to fuck me. Thus, open your legs and be grateful you have a generous cock inside of you
I would highly recommend anyone reading about the valley of the doll's to theory to also read a few articles that critique it.
I'm not saying it's totally wrong but it is of its time and feminism has come a ways since the 60's.
The article posted above is particularly pessimistic from the man's point of view and I feel it's that kind of pessimism that bears the seed of incel culture.
It doesn't always have to be hard and it doesn't always have to competitive. When you rise above that sort of nonsense Fab becomes a much friendlier place altogether .
It's not really of its time when it's many women's lived experience now. So yes balance is great and definitely look up opposing articles. But women still have good reason to be defensive. One day's worth of Fab messages is proof. "Without dismissing the lived experience of women today I'd still argue it's dated. The original theory oversimplifies women's struggles, painting them as passive victims dependent on men and pills. It ignores the agency women have and the progress they've made. Plus, it's a very narrow view, mostly focusing on white, middle-class women and overlooking the intersectional struggles of others. It needs a more nuanced understanding of the pressures women face today. | |||
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