FabSwingers.com forum: Let’s be honest here…

By *uest56789 OP Man
22 weeks ago

dublin

Is swinging a male fantasy ? I hear so many stories of husbands having to talk their wives into it… not a single husband needing to be talked into it. Any stories out there of women who love having sex like us men ? Or ladies if you find the right guy meeting your criteria would you still swing ?

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By *ramerMan
22 weeks ago

"Is swinging a male fantasy ? I hear so many stories of husbands having to talk their wives into it… not a single husband needing to be talked into it. Any stories out there of women who love having sex like us men ? Or ladies if you find the right guy meeting your criteria would you still swing ?"

Great post, Intrested to hear replies

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By *antra MassageMan
22 weeks ago

Galway

Yes, I think it is a male fantasy. But I've never met a swinging couple, where the woman wasn't enthusiastic.

It may also be a female fantasy, too. I've had great conversations with swinging women, who said the lifestyle added to their relationship. I've seen threads here where the male partner is asking for ideas as to how to persuade( coerce?) his wife to swing.This doesn't sit well with me, his fantasy, not hers. Essentially , men and women are much the same when it comes to sex, although we express our sexuality in different ways. We all have desires, fetishes, kinks, fantasies.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
22 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's a choice for horny and experimental individuals both male and female. I don't feel it's the men leading the reluctant women

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By *he KakapoMan
22 weeks ago

A nice rock

I've definitely hear of women being the one leading the move into swinging.

I don't think it's a gender specific fantasy, I'm male and I've no interest in swinging and there is plenty of evidence on here that it is a fantasy of alot of women

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By *ealitybitesMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm almost 9 years here I can think of only a couple of times where I've chatted to a male led couples profile.

99 percent have been led by the woman.

I've also chatted to a handful of well verified couples where not only does the hubby not take part in the conversations but the wife has admitted that he no longer meets apart from maybe socially.

In two cases I can remember, I was told the hubby doesn't actually exist but having a couples profile felt like a safer way of approaching fab.

Saying all that, I've never actually met any of those couples so how they interact in person I've no idea.

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By *iresmillyWoman
21 weeks ago

Stillorgan

My ex husband wouldn’t hear of it!!! ! I’ve upgraded now to an amazing person who understands my needs.

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By *dfabMan
21 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Ridiculous question.

Look at the single women profiles with plenty of multiple partner videos n pics.

Read My Secret Garden and see the many varied fantasies of women.

They are our sexual equals and driven by the same urges as men, likely with some difference in outcomes at times, but I'd never say that women don't want/like to swing as much as men.

This is not carte blanch and many have no interest in swinging, much like many men don't.

We're the human race.

There's as many varieties of sexual preferences/desires as the colours in the old Sony add with the thousands of coloured balls going down the street.

As long as everyone is enjoying what they're doing, their partner is loving it and their doing it as much as they desire, then

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By *uest56789 OP Man
21 weeks ago

dublin

"Ridiculous question.

Look at the single women profiles with plenty of multiple partner videos n pics.

Read My Secret Garden and see the many varied fantasies of women.

They are our sexual equals and driven by the same urges as men, likely with some difference in outcomes at times, but I'd never say that women don't want/like to swing as much as men.

This is not carte blanch and many have no interest in swinging, much like many men don't.

We're the human race.

There's as many varieties of sexual preferences/desires as the colours in the old Sony add with the thousands of coloured balls going down the street.

As long as everyone is enjoying what they're doing, their partner is loving it and their doing it as much as they desire, then

❤️"

Thanks for speaking up for the women. Not sure that looking at single women’s profiles with videos of multiple partners tell me anything of whether the woman in a couple was talked into swinging or whether it was her idea.

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
21 weeks ago

Louth

Every couple has had hundreds of chats as their journey progresses through here or other sites. Your wants and needs alter, not sure if your post is positive or negative. But not sure any guy could make me do something I didn't want to do. Hopefully most girls here are likewise. Of course things change with time, money, energy, free time. Even sex drive.

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By *uest56789 OP Man
21 weeks ago

dublin

"Every couple has had hundreds of chats as their journey progresses through here or other sites. Your wants and needs alter, not sure if your post is positive or negative. But not sure any guy could make me do something I didn't want to do. Hopefully most girls here are likewise. Of course things change with time, money, energy, free time. Even sex drive. "

I guess I could revise my wording, I can say for certain, the questions I asked were not trying to stir negativity.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
21 weeks ago

Portstewart

It was boobs who suggested we look into the swinging lifestyle and she was very correct lol

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By *uest56789 OP Man
21 weeks ago

dublin

"It was boobs who suggested we look into the swinging lifestyle and she was very correct lol "

Thanks for your input, quite refreshing to hear an honest opinion

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