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By *andisquirtz OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

town

So bi women are obviously in high demand on fab but from chatting to couples and I myself looking for a female to play with myself and another guy, it would seem almost impossible to find.

So ladies who are bi what would it take for you to meet a couple? Is safety an issue when meeting couples ? Do you prefer to only play with couples in clubs, parties etc? Do you prefer to meet at a social and then maybe meet a couple? What do ye think it's so hard to find the elusive unicorn?

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By *illow and FionnCouple
3 weeks ago

Cork

DM us. Today's your lucky day

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Well for a start from my own observations having been on the site for over 10yrs the majority of couples aren't couples it's either just a single guy thinking he will have more luck getting meets because he is part of a couple or else it's just 2 fuck buddies who have decided to join up and play as a couple neither of which I am looking for then you have the couples were one of the couple is only swinging because it's what the other one wants usually it's the woman trying to fulfil the man's fantasy and she just isn't into it then you have the couples were only one is allowed to play the other just watches usually that one is the female while the male is only allowed to watch most couples don't allow kissing which i couldn't do without as I love kissing and have been told i quite good at

Please bear in mind these are just my own personal opinions so don't berate me for having them each to there own and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

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By *effchileMan
3 weeks ago

drogheda


"So bi women are obviously in high demand on fab but from chatting to couples and I myself looking for a female to play with myself and another guy, it would seem almost impossible to find.

So ladies who are bi what would it take for you to meet a couple? Is safety an issue when meeting couples ? Do you prefer to only play with couples in clubs, parties etc? Do you prefer to meet at a social and then maybe meet a couple? What do ye think it's so hard to find the elusive unicorn?"

This happen not only in Fab but everywhere in the “swinger world” . Women are almost a myth when it comes to be the 3rd in a couple. My experience tells me that is no so easy to find it like this but, for example in places with parties, music and the “A side” . Its a lot easier to find.

Everytime I tried this in the past was the result of the heat of the moment, not because we were looking for it .

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By *panishRebelMan
3 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

As a correlating dynamic only, from a single straight guy: sex for me with couples has been at their instigation unless at a club/party where things kick off. I have made instigated contact. However I get the feeling that there is a distrust of single male contact (probably based on experience). Reading the threads, and tel I gram discussions, it seems many a couple has been led up the garden path.

So maybe this same dynamic of distrust is happening for single bi ladies.

Just a thought, definitely not an authoritative opinion.

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By *ild WomanWoman
3 weeks ago

Carlow

Yes lots of couple profiles are single males. But the couples have met have been nice. But all parties need to be on the same page. Guy from couple said was about him. So I walked away, if all parties are not allowed to enjoy meaning the female and get same enjoyment it won't be happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

From personal experience I have met with cpls who claim to have a bi female, in pretty much nearly all of those encounters the female isn't bi r bi curious she just wants to fulfill her partners fantasy, most times the male isn't allowed to join in, which wasn't expressed b4 hand. Sitting at the end of a bed watching is not what I went for.

So i tend to go for ff experiences

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By *oodgirlgioWoman
3 weeks ago

Mullingar


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone. "

This.. Never really liked the phrasing of unicorn at all

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
3 weeks ago

Portstewart

Personally speaking if we have met a lady socially or have had the honour of having said lady be naughty with us hubby has no problem with me having the lady back on her own for me only and we have done this on a few occasions the only catch is it must be at ours and the last couple of times hubby was still in bed sound asleep thank goodness for sleeping in separate beds

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By *eopard2000Man
3 weeks ago

Cobh

Not sure about the question asked I am a single male on fab it isn't easy but I'm not going to lie and pretend I'm a couple. Good luck looking for that bi female. There is a code amongst swingers that should be adhered to.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
3 weeks ago

Naughty Lane


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone. "

This...

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By *hivers2020Woman
3 weeks ago

lolli land


"From personal experience I have met with cpls who claim to have a bi female, in pretty much nearly all of those encounters the female isn't bi r bi curious she just wants to fulfill her partners fantasy, most times the male isn't allowed to join in, which wasn't expressed b4 hand. Sitting at the end of a bed watching is not what I went for.

So i tend to go for ff experiences "

Exactly this, and also I’m not here to be a test subject for someone else’s sexuality. The amount of messages I get saying the lady wants to “test out her bi side” and they usually have a rule about the male not being allowed to kiss me either. Why would I waste my time on that kind of experience?

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By *eordie.Woman
3 weeks ago

The Sticks


"From personal experience I have met with cpls who claim to have a bi female, in pretty much nearly all of those encounters the female isn't bi r bi curious she just wants to fulfill her partners fantasy, most times the male isn't allowed to join in, which wasn't expressed b4 hand. Sitting at the end of a bed watching is not what I went for.

So i tend to go for ff experiences "

Interesting

My own experience of meeting couples has been with females who were indeed very bi (even if they weren't too sure before the meet) so it was a lot of ff interaction. This is exactly what I wanted however and wasn't too fussed if the male half joined in or not.

I do prefer an ff meet but they are very hard to arrange, particularly if looking for someone to make a whole evening experience of it - I want to wine and dine and woo....and be wooed!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"From personal experience I have met with cpls who claim to have a bi female, in pretty much nearly all of those encounters the female isn't bi r bi curious she just wants to fulfill her partners fantasy, most times the male isn't allowed to join in, which wasn't expressed b4 hand. Sitting at the end of a bed watching is not what I went for.

So i tend to go for ff experiences

Exactly this, and also I’m not here to be a test subject for someone else’s sexuality. The amount of messages I get saying the lady wants to “test out her bi side” and they usually have a rule about the male not being allowed to kiss me either. Why would I waste my time on that kind of experience? "

Exactly this with some of the messages I get I feel like they are ringing in a delivery for Just Eat come over and eat the missus out and I'll have a wank looking at you both in action but you'll get nothing in return she's just curious.

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By *ionycusMan
3 weeks ago

Babylon

The whole just eat side of it can be very appealing for me sometimes meeting couples with a bi male, feed away ya kinky fucker....

Sometimes we just need a release.

I sometimes feel a little sorry for ladies as they have extra things to fear , but makes posing as couples , what the fuck is wrong with them.

Just so you all know , I'm posting here because right after I cum , for 5 minutes I identify as a lesbian and would relish the chance to scissor all you ladies ✂️✂️✂️

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By *udding RoseWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

For me, I like to chat with the couple for a bit on fab!! If the couple decides they want to meet, I like to meet them both together!!

I like to discuss what they're wants and needs are!! With some couples, they play separately, I like to know from the female half that it's ok for me to meet the male half on his own. I like to hear it from her in person rather than through messages on fab.

The kissing is important with both sides that needs to happen on first coffee meet that way you have a better idea if you're going to gel in more ways than one!!!

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By *lternative lifestyleCouple
3 weeks ago

Louth

Having read down the thread everyone has their own experiences, positive and negative. I'm no different. FF play outside of socials or Playparties is none existent. Then even "trying" to meet couples as the 3rd party is a disaster. 20% are successful, wasted so much time on failed meets I will never attempt them again. Only advice OR observation i can give is go to playparties and try there. I've jumped in and joined plenty of couples. Seen other girls doing likewise. Good luck in your searches. Xx

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By *eijaWoman
3 weeks ago

City Centre


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone. "

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x

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By *ATINE_SATINEWoman
3 weeks ago

Kilbarrack


" I’m not here to be a test subject for someone else’s sexuality. [...] Why would I waste my time on that kind of experience? "

That's exactly on point

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By *andisquirtz OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

town


"Well for a start from my own observations having been on the site for over 10yrs the majority of couples aren't couples it's either just a single guy thinking he will have more luck getting meets because he is part of a couple or else it's just 2 fuck buddies who have decided to join up and play as a couple neither of which I am looking for then you have the couples were one of the couple is only swinging because it's what the other one wants usually it's the woman trying to fulfil the man's fantasy and she just isn't into it then you have the couples were only one is allowed to play the other just watches usually that one is the female while the male is only allowed to watch most couples don't allow kissing which i couldn't do without as I love kissing and have been told i quite good at

Please bear in mind these are just my own personal opinions so don't berate me for having them each to there own and all that "

You make some really good points

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x"

So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

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By *eijaWoman
3 weeks ago

City Centre


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x

So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience "

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x

So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx"

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

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By *eordie.Woman
3 weeks ago

The Sticks


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x

So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience "
I'm game

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By *eestar10Man
3 weeks ago

cavan

Enough toys for everyone in audience ??

Ryan tubridy will never be gone!!!

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By *kinnyDippersCouple
3 weeks ago

Dublin

We have been looking for the legendary unicorn for a long time and have given up (please do PM us if interested). Couples with a bi female are now more our thing though it’s difficult to find a situation where all 4 feel attraction. Socials & parties are definitely the way to go.

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By *odkaandredbullCouple
3 weeks ago

Antrim

We have met a few unicorns but tbh prefer a bi female in a couple so much better

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By *owwow909Woman
3 weeks ago

La La Land

So, I am bisexual. I love being with ladies and I have also met numerous couples in the past.

More recently I have noticed as mentioned above, many couples are not couples or they want you to play out a scenario they have in mind etc. I don’t want to be a little play thing for a couple, I don’t want to please some man or give him his fantasy either. Also few men can totally satisfy 2 women and it ends up a disaster. In my experience it got too messy and I had enough of the drama.

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By *eijaWoman
3 weeks ago

City Centre


"Just my own personal experience as a single girl here few years. A lot of us hate being referred to as unicorns as we don't want to be hunted. I've met and played with amazing couples but it was mutually satisfying for all 3 people not just me being there to tick something off the fuck it list for someone.

Exactly this I know and have played with some amazing couples but now only play on occasion with couples at parties.

Couples dynamics can be difficult and a minefield at times. Some couples are really here for all the wrong reasons. You soon find out the secure couples who are here for the right reasons.The couples that are both on the same page are the ones that work.

I hate being called a Unicorn and its a major ick for most single females.

The amazing couples I have met it is all about everyones pleasure. No one should be made feel left out or made feel like you are a tick box exercise.

B x

So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories…. "

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx"

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that….

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By *og-ManMan
3 weeks ago

somewhere


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that…. "

Or your member out

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that….

Or your member out "

That would be a given…..😲🥵😬

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By *eordie.Woman
3 weeks ago

The Sticks


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that…. "
I've the perfect chair to tie you to

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that…. I've the perfect chair to tie you to"

I’m the perfect chair for you to sit on……..

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"So can we round up all the retired unicorns for an all girl orgy. I've enough toys for everyone in the audience

Rosy you have enough toys for the whole site 😈😈🤣🤣🤣

B xx

And I have a camera if you’re looking to save some of the memories….

Course you do Linden course you do

B xx

Apparently there’s going to be an audience so being honest I’d be happy just being a member of that…. I've the perfect chair to tie you to

I’m the perfect chair for you to sit on…….. "

*I’ve*, feckin autocorrect……..

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Jeez! Sounds like couples just try use you as playthings as opposed to individual people with your own sexual needs that should be met during threesomes also.

Does your experiences not put you off even trying to find a couple that suits you? It reminds me slightly of when we had the M filter on at the very start, the messages we received instantly had me turned off the idea and I don’t think I’ll ever be convinced to try again. “Mostly” they only ever addressed Nuts and I was just there to please if we met.

Maybe if a threesome party was organised for bi F and MF but there was secretly two stages. Starts with an early social and as the couples revealed their threesome red flags they get knocked off the list for the second stage. Whoever is left then gets to stay for the second stage, the play party.

By sounds of it it’d just end up turning into a bi F orgy though 🤭 …but atleast everyone would be satisfied

-Mrs

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By *andisquirtz OP   Woman
3 weeks ago

town


"Yes lots of couple profiles are single males. But the couples have met have been nice. But all parties need to be on the same page. Guy from couple said was about him. So I walked away, if all parties are not allowed to enjoy meaning the female and get same enjoyment it won't be happening. "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Jeez! Sounds like couples just try use you as playthings as opposed to individual people with your own sexual needs that should be met during threesomes also.

Does your experiences not put you off even trying to find a couple that suits you? It reminds me slightly of when we had the M filter on at the very start, the messages we received instantly had me turned off the idea and I don’t think I’ll ever be convinced to try again. “Mostly” they only ever addressed Nuts and I was just there to please if we met.

Maybe if a threesome party was organised for bi F and MF but there was secretly two stages. Starts with an early social and as the couples revealed their threesome red flags they get knocked off the list for the second stage. Whoever is left then gets to stay for the second stage, the play party.

By sounds of it it’d just end up turning into a bi F orgy though 🤭 …but atleast everyone would be satisfied

-Mrs"

Bi f orgy wld be delightful

But being treated as a test dummy feels quite degrading, just going by personal experience xx

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