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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I thought the clicking I had become aware of on fab might just be my old arthritic bones cracking and creaking. But it could well be the sound of insular, insecure people tut-tutting because outsiders are attempting to join their tight knit groups. Their behaviour is possibly prompted by their fear of being out shone and therefore outfabbed.

The same insecurities may well be present throughout the swing lifestyle where the element of comparison and competition are likely to be present.

But I want to assure any of those involved in fab related cliques that I totally and absolutely acknowledge their right to interact with whoever they feel comfortable in engaging with.

We all eventually find our own tribe and hopefully enjoy walking with them on our fab journey.

🦡

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Unfortunatrly I don't have the smarts to know how to post on threads after they have passed 175....

If those that do want to let the rest of us into their little secret we would be most grateful.

Or do you just need to click your fingers in a certain way to get access to closed threads.

Asking for lots of friends.....

😉❓

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
3 weeks ago

Cork

I don't blame you for how you feel Badge, I think there might be some truth to it. Whether or not it's intentional or accidental, I couldn't say for sure.

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

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By *reyingbeardMan
3 weeks ago

city

In again

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

Ya what now?

Is the Badger... baiting?

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it. "

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

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By *ubadubdubWoman
3 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"Unfortunatrly I don't have the smarts to know how to post on threads after they have passed 175...."

I don't either, but sure cant we just watch and enjoy it for the messing that it is 🤷🏻

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By *eestar10Man
3 weeks ago

cavan


""Unfortunatrly I don't have the smarts to know how to post on threads after they have passed 175...."

I don't either, but sure cant we just watch and enjoy it for the messing that it is 🤷🏻 "

I was confused lol sooo many forums

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Ya what now?

Is the Badger... baiting?"

....

Would that not be akin to turkeys voting for Christmas.

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part...."

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself."

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer"

There was already a part 2 running before you replied here.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
3 weeks ago

Cork


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer"

That makes way more sense

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
3 weeks ago

nearby

There's too many to mention!! One or 2 very strong Candidates do!

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer

There was already a part 2 running before you replied here."

The OP's part 2 was posted while I was composing my thread. It was only when I posted mine that I say his second thread was available for me to post on.

My bad if it took me 4 minutes to type my post...

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer

There was already a part 2 running before you replied here.

The OP's part 2 was posted while I was composing my thread. It was only when I posted mine that I say his second thread was available for me to post on.

My bad if it took me 4 minutes to type my post..."

..* that I saw....

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By *ealitybitesMan
3 weeks ago

Belfast


"I feel I'm missing something here but in regard to posting after the 175 it has something to do with keeping a browser page open for a specific thread.

Not something I've ever done or been inclined to do but then again I'm not that insecure to worry about it.

.....

Not in the slightest bit worried and more curiosity than insecurity on my part....

The second post is curious. The first.... well you know yourself.

The first post was in reply to a privately asked question in the previous thread which had closed before I had the opportunity to post my public answer

There was already a part 2 running before you replied here.

The OP's part 2 was posted while I was composing my thread. It was only when I posted mine that I say his second thread was available for me to post on.

My bad if it took me 4 minutes to type my post...

..* that I saw...."

Take as long as you like. As I said I obviously missed something

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I will not be posting further on this thread as I do not want to in anyway attempt to hijack the original thread.

If you have any further questions please ask me in private on Bogmans thread and I will be happy to answer them in public.

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I’ll going to wait for about 157 more posts before I say I’m in…….

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West


"I’ll going to wait for about 157 more posts before I say I’m in……."

Not if I get there first.

Or last?

I'm so confused

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Just on a side note, with 100% honesty, I can say that I wasn’t told how to post on a thread after it was closed, nor have I told anybody else how to do it, just in case anyone thinks there’s some sort of inner circle of people who know how to do it.

Honesty I just thought it was a bit of a laugh occasionally in a shitty auld world sometimes……

I didn’t realise it gave such an insight into me, good to know….

I now realise how my posting on a thread after it’s closed may be interpret differently by people so I will of course continue to do it so the analysis may continue, please PM me your findings, therapy is expensive and I need all the help I can get…..

It’s just a bit of a laugh, if it bothers people that much, well, I’ll probably still do it…….

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By *affa31Woman
3 weeks ago

Galway


"Just on a side note, with 100% honesty, I can say that I wasn’t told how to post on a thread after it was closed, nor have I told anybody else how to do it, just in case anyone thinks there’s some sort of inner circle of people who know how to do it.

Honesty I just thought it was a bit of a laugh occasionally in a shitty auld world sometimes……

I didn’t realise it gave such an insight into me, good to know….

I now realise how my posting on a thread after it’s closed may be interpret differently by people so I will of course continue to do it so the analysis may continue, please PM me your findings, therapy is expensive and I need all the help I can get…..

It’s just a bit of a laugh, if it bothers people that much, well, I’ll probably still do it……. "

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By *electableicecreamMan
3 weeks ago

The West

I also figured it out for myself and have never told anyone how it works. I only cared enough because I wanted to one up Linden.

My day will come.

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By *indenMan
3 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

I only know because I asked Bill Gates how to do it after Biscuit was offered as a prize for the last post on an auction thread……..

Clearly I lied in my previous post, and I’m not a bit sorry, he’s worth it……

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
3 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't remember my dreams but himself definitely has very vivid dreams that I enjoy being told about

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
3 weeks ago

Belfast


"I don't remember my dreams but himself definitely has very vivid dreams that I enjoy being told about "

Wrong thread

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By *eralt80Man
3 weeks ago

cork

Ooh, one more and I’ll have bingo

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