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Edging, a question for the men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago

Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
5 weeks ago

City

Always down for something new I guess!

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By *arry700Man
5 weeks ago

cork


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "
can be really intense.. be careful.... you could Finnish him too soon trying to edge him..its a find line lol

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By *uest56789Man
5 weeks ago

dublin


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

It’s quite intense and the pressure is very real, what one wants and what they are able for could be two different things. I would love to be edged for the whole hour session. But it’s an experience in the realms of fantasy for me. Just saying

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

A proper honest to god pure edging session isn't something I've ever experienced and is one of the few things left on my bucket list.

I came close recently by virtue of being restrained hand and feet and blindfolded. It wasn't quite edging but I did end up begging a little.

The 'please' just escaped my mouth as a whisper quite unbidden and totally outside my control. It was in fact, in her control.

So yes. I'd love to try edging with someone who had the skill to pull it off.

*all puns intended

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By *illow and FionnCouple
5 weeks ago

Cork

1 million percent

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By *illow and FionnCouple
5 weeks ago

Cork


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

Can I DM you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks

Can I DM you?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

Replying to my own post as I think I didn't make it clear, sorry 😅

I'm looking for tips, from a guys perspective, as to how you'd like to be edged/what has worked for you, not over hours or days but in a relatively short session.

I'm not offering to do it to you. Sorry for any confusion

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

You mean I swallowed this Viagra for nothing? 😭

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago


"A proper honest to god pure edging session isn't something I've ever experienced and is one of the few things left on my bucket list.

I came close recently by virtue of being restrained hand and feet and blindfolded. It wasn't quite edging but I did end up begging a little.

The 'please' just escaped my mouth as a whisper quite unbidden and totally outside my control. It was in fact, in her control.

So yes. I'd love to try edging with someone who had the skill to pull it off.

*all puns intended "

Nobody involved in this instance has any skill so need advice 💖

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
5 weeks ago


"You mean I swallowed this Viagra for nothing? 😭"

😏 Well you're only a 5 hour drive. That's edging right? Your mickey rubbing off your trousers on the drive down?

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By *he_Bad_BunnyMan
5 weeks ago

Mayfield

The trick is knowing your partners body signals, kind when you push and when to back off, as stated it can be very intense and keeping it at the point before orgasim can build to one of the most pleasurable feeling anyone can get, man or woman but back to the start you need to know your partners body signls

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By *r.JizzMan
5 weeks ago

cork

Best to wank and suck and start and stop just before orgasm. When u see lots of precum then u know it's working. Prepare for a great cumshot then.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West


"You mean I swallowed this Viagra for nothing? 😭

😏 Well you're only a 5 hour drive. That's edging right? Your mickey rubbing off your trousers on the drive down? "

Give me the edge of an orgasm over the edge of my car seat any day of the week.

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By *onny17Man
5 weeks ago

city

Where do I sign up

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By *idnightcowboy69Man
5 weeks ago

ciren

Far too long

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By *attooed.dadbodMan
5 weeks ago

centre

Love to be edged on all fours ...the best

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By *r.AnonymousMan
4 weeks ago

all over munster


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

Don’t give me ideas 😈😈😈😈

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By *dfabMan
4 weeks ago

Dunboyne

It's been quite a while but a fwb knew exactly how to edge me.

Lots of giddy foreplay and I would usually make her cum first through oral, after some teasing but never moving further away than labia majora or she would lose the build up.

Then she would go down on me in the usual manner but once she knew I was getting anywhere close, then the teasing began.

Licking rather than sucking, fluttering her tongue under the glans without touching the frenulum. Using her fingernails on my scrotum and shaft as her tongue was just pressed on the tip of my cock. Tickling between my balls and ass, circling my ring with the tip of a nail as she gripped my shaft and flicked her tongue over the underside of my cock.

When I could take no more, she would grab my scrotum and pull it downwards gently as she engulfed me, sucking hard as the rougher back of her tongue ran up and down my frenulum!

Yes it was an explosive and amazing orgasm every time, with little variations on the path each time, a finger being included occasionally.

I did learn to edge her a little more over time but nothing like she could do to me.

Ah the memories 😍

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By *dfabMan
4 weeks ago

Dunboyne

Hope that helps and he appreciates it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"The trick is knowing your partners body signals, kind when you push and when to back off, as stated it can be very intense and keeping it at the point before orgasim can build to one of the most pleasurable feeling anyone can get, man or woman but back to the start you need to know your partners body signls"

This. Edging is all about reading the body language of your partner. It's less about what sex acts you're doing and more about knowing the times you need to slow or stop. This is far easier with someone who you know well and with whom you have good communication. Good edging is when the recieving partner is giving the signs needed to know when the build up is there, and they are getting close. Some receivers won't clearly differentiate in the body language between different stages in buildup to orgasm and so they will make edging difficult. Good sex in general is about giving and taking feedback and this is never more true than in a good edging session.

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By *heckingin69Man
4 weeks ago

mayo

Depends really on the man, for me definitely with fingers around the shaft, however, most seem to like on the back of it But if you stay there too long and without proper lube can become quite sensitive and sore.. so a good mix of bj and hand play with teasing helps to prolong the pleasure/edge

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By *ionycusMan
4 weeks ago

Babylon

Imagine a guy rubbing and fingering a dry pussy, that's the unfortunate thing that also happens to the top of a cock that is being played with too forcibly or too dry, take your time, don't be robotic or too repetitive, and please to not ignore the balls, the butthole or the space between. Then understanding your partner and their movements plus clear communication will get you going , the number one thing is be firm but not rough, we are sensitive there too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
4 weeks ago

This is great info, thanks so much guys! Appreciate the help

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By *attooed.dadbodMan
3 weeks ago

centre

I love a good ending session trick is to let the cum come out with out squeezing ....fuuuuck

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By *ike124369Man
3 weeks ago

carrigallen

Love edging. Its all about body language. My best is 40 mins. Need to keep the shaft lubricated or its can get sore. Would love to no more about this

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By *rish_vixenWoman
3 weeks ago

I travel.

What about the gals!

I love being edged!

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By *eestar10Man
3 weeks ago

cavan


"What about the gals!

I love being edged!"

Works both ways In my opinion

Build up is unreal

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By *astCoastTallGuyMan
3 weeks ago

Dublin, Meath, Louth

In my own experience the female can’t control it enough to make it last. There’s a very fine line that even I find hard to judge at times. But when it works - it’s like what I’d imagine the feeling of the first time doing heroin 🥵👌

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By *ung4SlutMan
3 weeks ago

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By *ex coupleCouple
3 weeks ago

wexford


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

Well tell your friend they better have a bucket at the ready

As in normal situations it’s a lot of baby gravy that cums splurging out

But after an hours toying around there would be a woeful load

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By *aterpillar69Man
3 weeks ago

newry

Can i pm u

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By *aterpillar69Man
3 weeks ago

newry

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
3 weeks ago

Lucan

I'm more of a "just fucking get on with it" type but sure I'll take what I can get.

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By *obdub4Man
3 weeks ago

dublin

I have a friend who would love it...!!

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By *ano53Man
3 weeks ago

Wicklow


"I have a friend who would love it...!!"
My friend told me I haven't lived ... until I try some edging

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By *elseyoscarMan
3 weeks ago

midleton

Start off by putting him in a chastity cage and teasing him

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By *dfabMan
3 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"What about the gals!

I love being edged!"

Only possible if the woman is vocal during enjoyment or body is easy to read.

Easier after familiarity in bedroom together

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By *aybeLadyWoman
3 weeks ago

West Dublin

I'd love to do this with a guy. Get to know his body & edge him for ages.

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By *ionycusMan
3 weeks ago

Babylon

Once a lady was doing it to me for a long time and something weird happened, I came but didn't, in that I started to ejaculate ,and definitely started, but was immediately hard,never lost it , and then as she kept playing with me , came again a few minutes later.

Only time I ever came twice off the one erection.

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By *otwifeforlife99Woman
3 weeks ago

Dublin

My favourite thing to do when there is time...and someone willing

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By *ionycusMan
3 weeks ago

Babylon


"My favourite thing to do when there is time...and someone willing"

🙋

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By *m hungMan
3 weeks ago

near a town


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "
interesting question . When playing alone I’d edge for an hr or more . With the opposite sex hasn’t really happened . My hands would have to be tied so I could start playing with it myself lol

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By *m hungMan
3 weeks ago

near a town


"What about the gals!

I love being edged!"

can I help u edge

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

I do this a lot, be great to find help

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"My favourite thing to do when there is time...and someone willing"

I’m willing! Could try extreme edging in the sauna lol

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago


"I'd love to do this with a guy. Get to know his body & edge him for ages. "

Yes!!!!

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By *dfabMan
3 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"My favourite thing to do when there is time...and someone willing"

Willing here and vocal

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By *dfabMan
3 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"I'd love to do this with a guy. Get to know his body & edge him for ages. "

I've limited time and "ages" makes me fear blue balls

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By *uriousramblerMan
2 weeks ago

Kildare


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

Sensual massage with plenty of teasing to build by the suspense. Plenty of oral and withdrawal just to tease and nipple and ear sucking.

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By *upermanslovechildMan
2 weeks ago

Glasnevin

Haven't tried it but have always wanted to. I've been with three women that were a fan of it themselves and it worked out well

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
2 weeks ago

Funville


"Guys, how would you like to be edged by somebody in an hour long session ... Asking for a friend thanks "

I never relinquished control for long enough to experience this as I've always taken the lead and been more the edger rather than the edgee 😎

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago


"I'd love to do this with a guy. Get to know his body & edge him for ages. "

Yes please 👋

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By *a1970Man
2 weeks ago

East cork

Sounds fantastic

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