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By *ergalCool OP   Man
5 days ago

Dublin

Anyone in a house share situation where you're actually sex friends too ? Does it work living together? Renting together etc? I'm looking to rent a place or move in with a woman or couple who are open to the idea of a regular man living with them and playing together. Just wondering if anyone on here doing this? Or knows anyone that might be interested?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
5 days ago

East / North, Cork

There are two different questions here really. There is living with someone you are casually fucking... and then there is being in a 24/7 sub/Dom situation.

It all depends on your relationship. How well do you know each other? How long are you together? What's your situation been so far? Are you looking for a long term thing or a casual thing?

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By *ustBoWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I can't think of anything worse if I'm honest.

I could see it getting very messed up and then you are stuck living in the same house and not being able to get out or worse get them out of your house.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
5 days ago

There and Here


"I can't think of anything worse if I'm honest.

I could see it getting very messed up and then you are stuck living in the same house and not being able to get out or worse get them out of your house. "

Yup. I think I'd want to know them very well before it would even be a consideration.

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By *ig_specsWoman
5 days ago

Kilbarrack


"There are two different questions here really. There is living with someone you are casually fucking... and then there is being in a 24/7 sub/Dom situation.

It all depends on your relationship. How well do you know each other? How long are you together? What's your situation been so far? Are you looking for a long term thing or a casual thing? "

Very valid input

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By *ig_specsWoman
5 days ago

Kilbarrack


"Anyone in a house share situation where you're actually sex friends too ? Does it work living together? Renting together etc? I'm looking to rent a place or move in with a woman or couple who are open to the idea of a regular man living with them and playing together. Just wondering if anyone on here doing this? Or knows anyone that might be interested? "

This gives terrible predator vibes. In addition to a men who doesn't want to actually assume a relationship or is mature enough to commit with a person and just see others as sex toys. Rethink your life.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
5 days ago

kinkytown


"Anyone in a house share situation where you're actually sex friends too ? Does it work living together? Renting together etc? I'm looking to rent a place or move in with a woman or couple who are open to the idea of a regular man living with them and playing together. Just wondering if anyone on here doing this? Or knows anyone that might be interested?

This gives terrible predator vibes. In addition to a men who doesn't want to actually assume a relationship or is mature enough to commit with a person and just see others as sex toys. Rethink your life. "

Glad I'm not the only one to think that

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
5 days ago

East / North, Cork

Eeek I just read the profile

"I wish full submission without question"

That's a nope!

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 days ago

Belfast

Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

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By *ustBoWoman
5 days ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women? "

Yep looking now that's exactly who it is back again. I don't think it was offending tho more scary the mindset that was shown then.

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By *ergalCool OP   Man
5 days ago

Dublin


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women? "

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

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By *ig_specsWoman
5 days ago

Kilbarrack


"Eeek I just read the profile

"I wish full submission without question"

That's a nope!"

OP is a walking red flag

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 days ago

The West


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

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I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

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By *ergalCool OP   Man
5 days ago

Dublin


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?"

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this...

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 days ago

The West


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this..."

So sex? Is that all? I always thought having a full time Dom would have involved a lot more than that.

You might be surprised that you are not the only person on fab with an interest in power exchange.

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By *ergalCool OP   Man
5 days ago

Dublin


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this...

So sex? Is that all? I always thought having a full time Dom would have involved a lot more than that.

You might be surprised that you are not the only person on fab with an interest in power exchange."

No not just sex complete submission covers everything... its a lifestyle choice.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 days ago

The West


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this...

So sex? Is that all? I always thought having a full time Dom would have involved a lot more than that.

You might be surprised that you are not the only person on fab with an interest in power exchange.

No not just sex complete submission covers everything... its a lifestyle choice."

You only listed sexual activities though?

That's what I'm asking. What else does it include?

How do you support your subs?

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By *ergalCool OP   Man
5 days ago

Dublin


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this...

So sex? Is that all? I always thought having a full time Dom would have involved a lot more than that.

You might be surprised that you are not the only person on fab with an interest in power exchange.

No not just sex complete submission covers everything... its a lifestyle choice.

You only listed sexual activities though?

That's what I'm asking. What else does it include?

How do you support your subs?"

Not getting into all that here I'm just looking for people who have already done this and how it worked out for them....

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 days ago

The West


"Would I be correct op in remembering some threads on a previous profile regarding your thoughts on being a Dom that offended a lot of women?

Nope this is my only profile on here .

I was asking in anyone was actually living with their doms, subs,sex friends or whatever, I was just wondering if this dynamic actually would work out. Obviously you would have to know each other extremely well over a long time and know each other intamitly,and be mature enough to make it work. I have the opportunity at the moment to make this a reality and I was just looking for input from people who may have been there already....

I'm curious what your subs get out of it in a dynamic like that. You say what you want but not what you bring to the table. What do you offer that would be appealing to someone looking for a live in situation like that?

I'm on a fetish website and plenty of women, men, and couples love the idea of being subs full time. Their dom being integrated I to their daily routine. Hotwifing, cuckold play,thrupple type stuff, obviously not every day of the week, like any kinky role play scenarios you set rules and boundaries etc...maybe a swingers website is a bit too vanilla for fetish topics like this...

So sex? Is that all? I always thought having a full time Dom would have involved a lot more than that.

You might be surprised that you are not the only person on fab with an interest in power exchange.

No not just sex complete submission covers everything... its a lifestyle choice.

You only listed sexual activities though?

That's what I'm asking. What else does it include?

How do you support your subs?

Not getting into all that here I'm just looking for people who have already done this and how it worked out for them...."

My apologies I thought you were looking for people who were interested too. Must have read you wrong.

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