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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." Yes we get asked this a lot, it can be frustrating at times  | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this... Yes we get asked this a lot, it can be frustrating at times "Very! | |||
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"I say it to myself all the time Usually when I'm half way up the stairs and I think What am I looking for "You and me both! 😂 | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." There is literally a section on everyone's profile that is called 'Looking for'. Between that and the 'interests' section and the profile bio that generally additionally outlines what someone does and does not want, it can't be any easier to figure out what someone wants in here... I spend more time reading and ruling out messaging someone than I do actually messaging these days..😬 | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." Use it as a filter, if they can’t be bothered to read your profile to find out then they will likely be lazy about other areas too. Unless of course your profile doesn’t give them any idea then it’s a reasonable question. | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this... Use it as a filter, if they can’t be bothered to read your profile to find out then they will likely be lazy about other areas too. Unless of course your profile doesn’t give them any idea then it’s a reasonable question. " Fair point. Until recently I had a detailed bio filled out, numerous verifications showing, a few more pics etc. Alas, I just got sick of the place and deleted/hid them all. Hasn't made much difference either way! 😂 That question though? Seriously 🤣 | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." 'What are you looking for,' is the Fab equivalent of 'so... how about the weather?'
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this... Use it as a filter, if they can’t be bothered to read your profile to find out then they will likely be lazy about other areas too. Unless of course your profile doesn’t give them any idea then it’s a reasonable question. Fair point. Until recently I had a detailed bio filled out, numerous verifications showing, a few more pics etc. Alas, I just got sick of the place and deleted/hid them all. Hasn't made much difference either way! 😂 That question though? Seriously 🤣" Yes it’s a lazy question too lol Maybe I’ll test a few varied opening questions to see what works best | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." Most men here are cheap and lazy. I am honestly not here to make their lives easier. I am here to make MY life more fun. So I have a carefully written profile bio and I expect the same. If a lazy dick head doesn't do their job, I simply ignore it. | |||
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"This site is for swingers so it’s obvious what we looking for a fb or gangbang i think some here think its first dates or just out walking the dog." I hate seeing comments like that. Yes the site is for real swingers. Unfortunately thanks to the media making out we all fuck like rabbits we now have fake swingers that believe the media and thinks this lifestyle is about putting keys in a bowl. | |||
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"This site is for swingers so it’s obvious what we looking for a fb or gangbang i think some here think its first dates or just out walking the dog." Suggest doing a little research on swinging. It includes all of what you think it doesn't ... dating and dog walking included 
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"This site is for swingers so it’s obvious what we looking for a fb or gangbang i think some here think its first dates or just out walking the dog. Suggest doing a little research on swinging. It includes all of what you think it doesn't ... dating and dog walking included
Gangbangs too "Does this mean see-saws are part of swinging too? | |||
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"This site is for swingers so it’s obvious what we looking for a fb or gangbang i think some here think its first dates or just out walking the dog." This might be what you're looking for, and that's valid, however what others are looking for is often much more varied. For example, I can't think of anything worse than a gangbang so I'm definitely not looking for that, nor an FB particularly. Assuming that everyone here wants the same thing isn't a great starting point and I think I'd much rather someone ask than assume. | |||
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"This site is for swingers so it’s obvious what we looking for a fb or gangbang i think some here think its first dates or just out walking the dog. Suggest doing a little research on swinging. It includes all of what you think it doesn't ... dating and dog walking included
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Does this mean see-saws are part of swinging too?"No, but swings may be | |||
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"I’m guilty of asking and also guilty of not knowing what I am looking for myself "Well it's kinda handy that you have some helpful topics of interest wrote all over your body in your most recent pic... 👀😃🤣 | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." What is it you think you are missing ? | |||
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"I’m guilty of asking and also guilty of not knowing what I am looking for myself "I do understand the OP and couples and women obviously get the bulk of messages and it must be a pain but there’s hardly 2 couples that want the exact same thing from fab experiences.. so I do think its a legitimate question for anyone on here.. and also it shows they’re asking so they can assess whether they’re a good fit. Swings and gangbangs included.. | |||
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It is pretty common with guys that have never participated in this sw world | |||
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"...or is the following the most asked yet most ridiculous question on here! 'what are you looking for'? Am I missing something? 🤔 😂 I'm very interested to hear others opinions on this..." Why are these ridiculous questions?.... please explain! | |||
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"We don't really have issues with bein asked this question because we have everything we are looking for outlined clearly in our bio 😉" I didn’t get past the “Not looking for single guys” bit…….
Being honest, it barely got past the pictures…..🥵😬
I think if people haven’t said much in their bio they should probably expect to be asked, but if they’ve clearly stated their preferences, and particularly if you’re not it, it’s a bit of a redundant question, but I think some will just use it as a generic icebreaker…… | |||
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