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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " not weird at all. Can honestly say I was the same receiving. Maybe like me you lacked the confidence or experience to let the giver know what does it for you. Am not saying you need to give instructions just subtle hints like oh yes or fuck yes that’s good. Just saying  . Hope it improves for you. Its worth it !!! | |||
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"I used to be like that too OP. Id be getting bored and restless. Speaking for myself, it was my own psychology getting in the way though. For all sorts of reasons we can find relaxing and receiving uncomfortable. Once I trusted that the man I was with really enjoyed it, and was so considerate of wanting me to enjoy it, I eventually relaxed and let them go for it. In those circumstances I do find it really pleasurable now. " This is the same with me. It was s psychology issue when I was younger. I wouldn't let myself go. Now thou, I love it and I won't have sex without it now. I soak the place too. It's the same with anal. Before I wouldn't let anyone there even my partner. Now if I don't get it I'm not fully satisfied. All it takes is a shift in mindset and one can really get to know what they really like  | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " | |||
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"It’s most likely psychological, as either never got it or never had anyone who was any good at it. I’ve been with many woman who had partners who didn’t like giving it or didn’t know how. So I was very happy to introduce them to how oral shud be and I wear my skills crown with pride ! I esp like they a gal says “oh I’m hard work “ as they eat there words later 😈" You know what they say about the ones who blow their own trumpet 
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " It sounds like you are getting most of your thrills from giving pleasure rather than recieving it. That's great if it makes you happy go for it! How do you normally cum though? Like when you're on your own, or when you're with a man? Perhaps you need some kind of penetration in which case you can mix the tongue on your clit with a toy inside you, or fingers? Or maybe in combination with some roleplay or dirty talk. Maybe you're being watched or maybe restrained. Sometimes these things need a little experimentation | |||
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" I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " Far from weird, we all get stimulated in different ways which what makes sex so amazing trying to find that winning combination 🫂 Suggestion💡 Maybe add in use of a blindfold, with some sensual slow kissing all over your body, including some naughty whispered description of what may come next as a way of building up expectations before commencing the oral and clit rubbing.. Sometimes a more scenic route to the same destination makes for a better journey for everyone 😊 | |||
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"It’s most likely psychological, as either never got it or never had anyone who was any good at it. I’ve been with many woman who had partners who didn’t like giving it or didn’t know how. So I was very happy to introduce them to how oral shud be and I wear my skills crown with pride ! I esp like they a gal says “oh I’m hard work “ as they eat there words later 😈 You know what they say about the ones who blow their own trumpet
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 It sounds like you are getting most of your thrills from giving pleasure rather than recieving it. That's great if it makes you happy go for it! How do you normally cum though? Like when you're on your own, or when you're with a man? Perhaps you need some kind of penetration in which case you can mix the tongue on your clit with a toy inside you, or fingers? Or maybe in combination with some roleplay or dirty talk. Maybe you're being watched or maybe restrained. Sometimes these things need a little experimentation" You're right, it is about figuring out what does it for me. Guess Im just used to more selfish lovers tbh so I figure time on me is wasted 😒 | |||
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" I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 Far from weird, we all get stimulated in different ways which what makes sex so amazing trying to find that winning combination 🫂 Suggestion💡 Maybe add in use of a blindfold, with some sensual slow kissing all over your body, including some naughty whispered description of what may come next as a way of building up expectations before commencing the oral and clit rubbing.. Sometimes a more scenic route to the same destination makes for a better journey for everyone 😊" Good suggestion, thanks. Im more of a sensual person anyway. Love being blindfolded and teased. | |||
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"Not blowing my own trumpet ! But I know what I’m good at. It’s just 2025 let’s keep the Toxicity and negativity to a minimum
No Negativity or Toxicity intended whatsoever
I could say I’m good at giving BJs But that would only be my self belief…..
it’s the person receiving that’s the one who decides….. good/bad
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It’s most likely psychological, as either never got it or never had anyone who was any good at it.
I’ve been with many woman who had partners who didn’t like giving it or didn’t know how.
So I was very happy to introduce them to how oral shud be and I wear my skills crown with pride !
I esp like they a gal says “oh I’m hard work “ as they eat there words later 😈
You know what they say about the ones who blow their own trumpet
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"The only real solution here is a double blind research study group. We blindfold you and go two at a time." Now there is a good suggestion also 😅👍 | |||
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" Guess Im just used to more selfish lovers tbh so I figure time on me is wasted 😒" You've wasted enough time on selfish partners. Put that behind you and demand someone who prioritises you. Anything less is completely unacceptable. Good luck! | |||
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" I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 Far from weird, we all get stimulated in different ways which what makes sex so amazing trying to find that winning combination 🫂 Suggestion💡 Maybe add in use of a blindfold, with some sensual slow kissing all over your body, including some naughty whispered description of what may come next as a way of building up expectations before commencing the oral and clit rubbing.. Sometimes a more scenic route to the same destination makes for a better journey for everyone 😊" Totally agree with you 💯 % Over the mountains and into the valleys with the odd bump and grind along the way Sure the motorway gets boring after a few minutes | |||
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" Guess Im just used to more selfish lovers tbh so I figure time on me is wasted 😒 You've wasted enough time on selfish partners. Put that behind you and demand someone who prioritises you. Anything less is completely unacceptable. Good luck!" Like the use of the word 'demand'. Yes sir!! 😅 😘 | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " No, not weird at all. Not mad about it myself TBH. May aswel be licking my armpits, but give me anal or breast pain and I’m soaked. It’s different strokes for different folks! I’m also not mad about doing it to other women- it doesn’t really taste that great IMO- but I love giving oral to men. | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " I have feeling that it could all change if you met the person that you actually want to be full time with... But you can't pretend and guys out to prove their skills won't work .. For me I love a BJ on me but I have never cum from it. It's as much the pleasure I see being had my a lady sucking as the feeling that I like. But if their is nothing further* would be very disappointed. That said I love kissing and tasting a woman all over.... But with you if I found you didn't like it, then I would automatically not like it as much. It's the mutuality that I love. | |||
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"Genuine question, how do you feel about fingering? " Love it. | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " I love giving oral to a woman it's amazing | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " Not weird at all - sounds like you prefer a 69 experience and that's absolutely fine. I don't mind being sucked off while trying to stimulate a woman to squirt on my face. The wetter the better😊 | |||
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"Nothing for me, like practically 0. Am I odd??😏 I will start of by saying that this is 'probably' due to the fact that I survived a 18yr relationship without it! The only way I get a mild satisfaction from it is if the guy is licking me from behind or I face sit. But even at that its like a 20-30% satisfaction. All the guys talk about their oral skils and love to do it but I just get bored and want to give him a bj. I'm weird, right?!!! 😅😅 " You’re far from weird…. Everyone has their own likes / wants / needs and it’s all about communication and letting him know what does get you off. Nothing worse than someone just going thru the motions just to keep the other person happy. That said…. Wow what a gorgeous profile…I’d love you to sit on my face | |||
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"I've a similar issue. It's not psychological at all for me. I like the idea, and I like watching people go down on me. I think I've a very sensitive clitoris, because it often feels uncomfortable, like a painful tickle, particularly when people rub my clit directly, it seems to hate friction. I know it's me, because I've seen guys use the same technique on me and other women at parties, and other women love it. " Can I recommend a 90 degree change here. I have been with some women who had a similar sensitivity feature (I don't believe it should be referred to as a problem/ issue as it's just how the DNA landed for you and there shouldn't be any negativity in regards to this) Anyway, I found that approaching the vulva from the side changed things considerably for these women. Instead of circling/up & down motion, which regularly contacted the clitoris in the usual position, the sideways position meant it was over the hood of the clit, rather than directly on it. Circling motions were also across the labia and Mons Venus, rather than just under the clit head and over it. They certainly enjoyed and found oral orgasm much more reachable and pleasurable. Also a hand with gentle pressure above the vulva and a finger or two stimulating the G spot during this will greatly increase the chances of orgasm, possibly even experiencing the joy of a blended one. Hope it's of some use | |||
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I also have friends who just do not enjoy oral on them and one who experienced squirting once and never wants that to happen to her again!!! I guess just keep enjoying what you like and don't push things you don't enjoy xxxx | |||
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"....does nothing to me...but...sex without head,is like a sandwich without bread...🤭 love giving!🤤" Same as me | |||
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