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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 days ago

Naughty Lane


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there "

.....to satisfy my sexual needs...🫣 says it all🤣

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

Ooh your right very selfish sounding of me good catch thank

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 days ago

Naughty Lane

Sounds real bad for sure 🤣 sorry for being a bitch and pointing that out🤣

Couldn't help myself 🤭

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

I don’t think thats bitchy at all I didn’t mean it that way and I’m glad you pointed it out probably why it hasn’t been replied to and that’s not who I am I’m an equal opportunity sexual partner lol so thank you

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 days ago

Naughty Lane

It's all about the approach...🫣🤭

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 days ago

The West

We're all here to meet our needs OP. Best of luck in your search.

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

Thank you it’s surly noted to bad I can’t edit it

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 days ago

Northern Ireland

There is a general feeling with women that we don't want to be treated like sex dispensers, but I'm guessing there was genuine intent behind your post that was honourable enough, just worded badly.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 days ago

Naughty Lane


"There is a general feeling with women that we don't want to be treated like sex dispensers, but I'm guessing there was genuine intent behind your post that was honourable enough, just worded badly. "

And thats the reason I said about right approach 🤭

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

Yes for me it’s the connection but the initial way of contact was badly worded and misconstrued on my part looking over it ,it sounds bad which wasn’t the intent by no means I don’t objectify a woman I like to know a woman inside and out so embarrassed now lol

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
4 days ago

City Centre


"Yes for me it’s the connection but the initial way of contact was badly worded and misconstrued on my part looking over it ,it sounds bad which wasn’t the intent by no means I don’t objectify a woman I like to know a woman inside and out so embarrassed now lol "

Don't sweat it. We ALL have sexual needs. Finding a fwb can be very beneficial. Good luck in your search. Many want the same thing. 🍀

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin


"Yes for me it’s the connection but the initial way of contact was badly worded and misconstrued on my part looking over it ,it sounds bad which wasn’t the intent by no means I don’t objectify a woman I like to know a woman inside and out so embarrassed now lol

Don't sweat it. We ALL have sexual needs. Finding a fwb can be very beneficial. Good luck in your search. Many want the same thing. 🍀"

Thank you time will tell for me it’s a long journey thanks for the luck I’ll need it

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
4 days ago

Dublin

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By *rizzyyMan
2 days ago

Dublin


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there "

Hey bro you didn't do any wrong with your request please be free and post your desires. It's either they'll ignore you as most of them do or the person your request resonates with will gladly respond to you..Don't over think things and apologize for being you and your desires that's what the site is for..

The double standards on here is crazy ,the women are allowed to put up scrolls of wants and not wants but your approach becomes a problem?. Enjoy yourself and keep searching you will find . If anyone reads your messages and ignores you and not courteous enough to respond with a no I'm not interested block them asap.no time. Enjoy

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
2 days ago

Dublin


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there

Hey bro you didn't do any wrong with your request please be free and post your desires. It's either they'll ignore you as most of them do or the person your request resonates with will gladly respond to you..Don't over think things and apologize for being you and your desires that's what the site is for..

The double standards on here is crazy ,the women are allowed to put up scrolls of wants and not wants but your approach becomes a problem?. Enjoy yourself and keep searching you will find . If anyone reads your messages and ignores you and not courteous enough to respond with a no I'm not interested block them asap.no time. Enjoy "

Thanks I appreciate that

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
2 days ago

City Centre


""discreet man"

"Discretion is a must"

"discreet meet"

Mate, you sound married. Just saying."

And?

I believe in freedom of expression." Your words, or do they only apply to who you decide is allowed freedom to express themselves?

Why not let the OP seek what he wants without all the miss Marple nonsense. I do believe those that are interacting with the OP will have the ability to work out if they match in their wants, needs and desires all by themselves.

HNY.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
2 days ago

Drogheda

Not sure I said anything about OP not being able to say what he wants. Don't know where you got that.

Was pointing out to OP that he sounds married or involved. That may not be the vibe he wants to portray. If he is single then using different vocabulary might be an idea.

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By *ewcouple200Couple
2 days ago

dublin

If OP is married then he's probably not in the minority when it comes to single male profiles. I would suggest being upfront with anyone you chat with. It's not easy finding an FWB. Trust us. We've been looking.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
2 days ago

City Centre


"Not sure I said anything about OP not being able to say what he wants. Don't know where you got that.

Was pointing out to OP that he sounds married or involved. That may not be the vibe he wants to portray. If he is single then using different vocabulary might be an idea.

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It's written on your profile.

Maybe private message the OP and ask him if he's married or single and then you can advise him on what vocabulary you think he should use. Me, I don't think it's anyone's place to do that. I'm pointing out that it's not nice to throw negative spins about what it sounds like to you.

Apologies to the OP for derailing his thread. Sorry. x

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
2 days ago

Naughty Lane

Oh Jesus,lads!!!let's have a group hug🤣

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
2 days ago

City Centre


"Oh Jesus,lads!!!let's have a group hug🤣 "

We only came here looking for the ride 🤣

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By *anandJCouple
2 days ago

Citywest


"Oh Jesus,lads!!!let's have a group hug🤣 "

With you? Always

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
2 days ago

Naughty Lane


"Oh Jesus,lads!!!let's have a group hug🤣

We only came here looking for the ride 🤣

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Wanna ride?🤣🤣🤣

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
2 days ago

Naughty Lane


"Oh Jesus,lads!!!let's have a group hug🤣

With you? Always "

Our airbags would collide 🤣

❤️

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 days ago

Cork

Jeez that escalated quickly , where's the Xmas spirit

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By *amon.dMan
2 days ago

antrim

Feck I need a ride after reading that thread. Shish

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By *oldByMarCouple
2 days ago

playa de ingles / outa da west

The biggest problem here on fab is that some people are too quick to judge others and spit their comments on the forums instead of letting people do their own thing and if … as The pocket rocket 🚀 aka Tiny Delight said contact them privately if you want to know about them or their circumstances instead of trying to be the Big One stirring shite .

Everyone to themselves..

married/single /attached whatever their situation.

Maybe it’s the ones that give the negative comments are the ones with something to hide and steer clear of .

Lots of genuine pleasant people in different situations

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
2 days ago

Dublin

Wow first off happy new years to everyone!!

Second everyone is entitled to their own opinion I don’t take offense to what people say or think it doesn’t bother me I feel we’re all here for the same thing if people want to get in the way I wish you well and best of luck to you .

Can’t we all just get along if I see you all I invite you to a drink .

My Opinion “You get out of it what you put into it”

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

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By *asuallyChilledMan
2 days ago

Drogheda

It's funny when people criticise others claiming they are being too critical.

Not once in my comment did I say anything about OP. I let him know that the words he used are associated with a married men on here. Nothing more.

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 days ago

The West


"It's funny when people criticise others claiming they are being too critical.

Not once in my comment did I say anything about OP. I let him know that the words he used are associated with a married men on here. Nothing more."

Your response to the OP was judgemental and intended to have a negative impact and as he didn't ask for feedback on his profile, against forum rule's.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
2 days ago

borderarea


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there "

I too am looking for an FWB and wouldn't approach a profile that over uses the word discreet.

Side note (not to op) it amazes me when a guy can say something and a women yet it's the guys comments that are seen as negative- yet people talk about double standards???

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 days ago

The West


"It's funny when people criticise others claiming they are being too critical.

Not once in my comment did I say anything about OP. I let him know that the words he used are associated with a married men on here. Nothing more.

Your response to the OP was judgemental and intended to have a negative impact and as he didn't ask for feedback on his profile, against forum rule's.

No such intention but I'm glad you can read people's minds. Must make life easy."

I don't have to be able to read minds to be able to read the rules

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By *umpelstiltskinIVMan
2 days ago

Somewhere

This like everything these days is turning into a woke leftist argument. Unfair expectation of so called "correct" speech. Just calling it out. The op and responders can say what they want.

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By *og-ManMan
2 days ago

somewhere


"The biggest problem here on fab is that some people are too quick to judge others and spit their comments on the forums instead of letting people do their own thing and if … as The pocket rocket 🚀 aka Tiny Delight said contact them privately if you want to know about them or their circumstances instead of trying to be the Big One stirring shite .

Everyone to themselves..

married/single /attached whatever their situation.

Maybe it’s the ones that give the negative comments are the ones with something to hide and steer clear of .

Lots of genuine pleasant people in different situations

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Could I ask is it the female or male of your profile that writes on the forums

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By *obbie092666 OP   Man
2 days ago

Dublin

This seems to be less about me and more about the situation thanks guys.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
2 days ago

Drogheda


"It's funny when people criticise others claiming they are being too critical.

Not once in my comment did I say anything about OP. I let him know that the words he used are associated with a married men on here. Nothing more.

Your response to the OP was judgemental and intended to have a negative impact and as he didn't ask for feedback on his profile, against forum rule's.

No such intention but I'm glad you can read people's minds. Must make life easy.

I don't have to be able to read minds to be able to read the rules "

No rule broken. As the OP is seeking a female FWB, it was relevant to the thread to let him know that he uses vocabulary that may be hindering his search due to females thinking he is attached and presenting as single.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
2 days ago

Cork


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there

I too am looking for an FWB and wouldn't approach a profile that over uses the word discreet.

Side note (not to op) it amazes me when a guy can say something and a women yet it's the guys comments that are seen as negative- yet people talk about double standards??? "

Totally agree, it always amazes me when you see a lady on a single lady profile whose married looking for fun gets inundated with messages yet male in a similar position gets called out regularly on here for it. Judging people is a disgusting trate to have, but it's a regular one on here.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
2 days ago

borderarea


"Hey all

Just on here looking for a connection to satisfy my sexual need would love to chat lots of messers on here genuine discreet man looking for his FWB are you out there

I too am looking for an FWB and wouldn't approach a profile that over uses the word discreet.

Side note (not to op) it amazes me when a guy can say something and a women yet it's the guys comments that are seen as negative- yet people talk about double standards???

Totally agree, it always amazes me when you see a lady on a single lady profile whose married looking for fun gets inundated with messages yet male in a similar position gets called out regularly on here for it. Judging people is a disgusting trate to have, but it's a regular one on here."

Well I do judge those who are here married playing without permission who don't make it known - male or female. I have it clearly stated on my profile I don't want to meet attached yet the amount of 'chancers' who slide into my inbox trying to be the exception to the rule is ridiculous.

Male or female- it would make no difference to me. Discreet is now an alarm bell for me due to the amount of people who actively lie about their status even when asked.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

2 days ago

O o O oo


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No rule broken. As the OP is seeking a female FWB, it was relevant to the thread to let him know that he uses vocabulary that may be hindering his search due to females thinking he is attached and presenting as single.

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Hdidn't ask for a profile critique or ask for help in finding a meet, so it is against rules to discuss a profile in that situation.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

2 days ago

O o O oo

OK as always, if someone puts up a meet request , unless you are interested in the meet then please leave the thread and how a OP words a post alone please.

To the OP if you want to start another thread I will make sure it stays on track. Please remember you can write the post how you want and don't need to write it how others think it should be written.

Good luck

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