FabSwingers.com forum: Ireland too small

By *astello OP Woman
31 weeks ago

Far far away

Is Ireland too small for the swingers scene?

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By *electableicecreamMan
31 weeks ago

The West

To small, no. Too conservative, maybe.

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By *aptainpuffinMan
31 weeks ago

Ballincollig

I thought Ireland was a lot smaller before the motorways were built, but that’s just my opinion?

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By *astello OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Far far away

As long as you pay the toll

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

In my opinion it is…

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By *og-ManMan
30 weeks ago

somewhere

Depends on how open you are

Some people attend parties and socials without ever posting on the forums

Some couples only meet other couples or single men / women and are very much hidden

It's the forums that people are recognised except if you just see an eye .....not easy to find someone based on an eyeball

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"To small, no. Too conservative, maybe."

Well said

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
30 weeks ago

sligo

Don't think so, maybe too judgy or not as open minded as we'd like to think

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By *astello OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Far far away

"Depends on how open you are

Some people attend parties and socials without ever posting on the forums

Some couples only meet other couples or single men / women and are very much hidden

It's the forums that people are recognised except if you just see an eye .....not easy to find someone based on an eyeball

But when the eyeballs are so exquisite they're worth finding 🤣

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By *aptainpuffinMan
30 weeks ago

Ballincollig

That’s always a toll too be paid

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By *og-ManMan
30 weeks ago

somewhere

"Depends on how open you are

Some people attend parties and socials without ever posting on the forums

Some couples only meet other couples or single men / women and are very much hidden

It's the forums that people are recognised except if you just see an eye .....not easy to find someone based on an eyeball

But when the eyeballs are so exquisite they're worth finding 🤣"

And even having a drink with

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple
30 weeks ago

Dundrum

No country or area is too small for swinging as it’s a wish or desire for many people. Probably less or no more than 3% of population but still a good few people to make apps etc viable..

Clubs we found them too small compared to our swinging club scene in Paris clubs and saunas and our favourite Fun4Two in NL. So maybe not big enough to have regular clubs like Sunday afternoon in Fun4Two

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
30 weeks ago

Belfast and Tyrone

I think the reality is if you live outside of the major population areas, you start running out of locals real quick. Although there's something to be said about avoiding too local.

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By *nemorelight24Man
30 weeks ago

castlebar

I think it also depends on the part of Ireland you are in. If you're in Dublin or a city you have better chances of meeting people

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By *astello OP Woman
30 weeks ago

Far far away

Obviously the larger cities have a more diverse population. But essentially the swing scene is small in Ireland. Agree that conservatism has a large role too. I wonder what would bring it into more mainstream arena. Other than the 2 Johnny's 😅

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By *a1970Man
30 weeks ago

East cork

I personally think it's too small. Irish families were huge with a very wide relation base spread across the country..... You have to do a bit of chatting to rule out the possibility of bumbling into a cousin etc....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Is Ireland too small for the swingers scene?

Discuss."

No. If you're open about this stuff then you've nothing to hide and no reason to be concerned about being seen.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Obviously the larger cities have a more diverse population. But essentially the swing scene is small in Ireland. Agree that conservatism has a large role too. I wonder what would bring it into more mainstream arena. Other than the 2 Johnny's 😅"

Individuals can make choices for themselves. The mainstream doesn't matter. They can keep their shame. Liberation happens on an individual level person by person.

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By *r.AnonymousMan
30 weeks ago

Tipperary

It’s a massive difference in the swing scene compared to UK or the US, the difference being Ireland is a bit more conservative compared to the other countries

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"To small, no. Too conservative, maybe."

I agree too conservative

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Only a big parish really. Most only one degree of separation between most of us if we delve in to it properly

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By *earuisceMan
30 weeks ago

south sligo

"I think it also depends on the part of Ireland you are in. If you're in Dublin or a city you have better chances of meeting people "
I agree. Rural areas appear to be less populated with swingers

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I think it also depends on the part of Ireland you are in. If you're in Dublin or a city you have better chances of meeting people I agree. Rural areas appear to be less populated with swingers "

Rural areas are less populated by everybody

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By *ngus99Man
30 weeks ago

southdown

"I personally think it's too small. Irish families were huge with a very wide relation base spread across the country..... You have to do a bit of chatting to rule out the possibility of bumbling into a cousin etc.... "

Ah sure never worry about that, sure we have been shagging our cousins for years lol

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By *adger BrocMan
30 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Whatever about an eyeball it is virtually impossible to recognise anyone in public from a dic pic.

I guess the reason most guys use one is to be discreet rather than to advertise their assets. 🍆😎🙈

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I don't think so but I wouldn't be classed as a swinger anyway. There's a very healthy scene and I enjoy the crossover for more niche proclivities too, which I really enjoy. I think if you're willing to cast the net far and wide in your mindset and interactions, the scene can be immensely rewarding.

I don't think keeping to one group or one type of event appeals to me. It can become a little bit of a cesspit if you keep visiting the same pool if you get me. I always think there's room for more and those that try and facilitate events here in Ireland should be supported.

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By *argus12Man
30 weeks ago

meath dublin

Not small giving rural Ireland. Let’s face it someone living deep in the country is hardly gonna bump into anyone from Dublin. And with the location setting you’ll know quickly enough if your country neighbour is on fab. Definitely still to conservative

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I tend to agree.

Same people at the same socials leaving the same veri’s doesn’t particularly help.

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