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"Hey Guys Feel free to debate or give an opinion. Would you date a fab user. As in full on relationship? " Why not? I'd be interested to know your reasoning for starting the thread  | |||
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"Hey Guys Feel free to debate or give an opinion. Would you date a fab user. As in full on relationship? If you already have has it worked out or is it a never again?" I would not issue, at leat we would have that in common as well | |||
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"Where better, would any of you want to go back to trad relationship styles? I met my partner on Fet, but our first kiss was at a Swinger Social " I’m sure at the end of the day. As long as both parties agree and are open and honest through the whole thing. I would be open to it but it would be something I’d exclusively chase. Id be happy with getting a few meets under my belt first | |||
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"Where better, would any of you want to go back to trad relationship styles? I met my partner on Fet, but our first kiss was at a Swinger Social I’m sure at the end of the day. As long as both parties agree and are open and honest through the whole thing. I would be open to it but it would be something I’d exclusively chase. Id be happy with getting a few meets under my belt first "I'm getting hints that you'd want monogamy from a relationship and would want to leave the scene, would I be right? Nothing wrong with that as long as that's what she wanted too. | |||
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"In a near 3 year relationship with Toxic 1998 and we met on fab We chatted on the forums then met at a social in Belfast but it took another couple of weeks and another two socials before we finally stayed the night together We go on holidays together to PDI weekends away and socials 3rd Christmas together at this stage " Aw that's lovely ❤❤❤ | |||
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"In a near 3 year relationship with Toxic 1998 and we met on fab We chatted on the forums then met at a social in Belfast but it took another couple of weeks and another two socials before we finally stayed the night together We go on holidays together to PDI weekends away and socials 3rd Christmas together at this stage " So lovely for you 🥰 and great when it works out like that. It certainly seems to for some people | |||
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"Had a past relationship here but he turned out to be chasing women here behind my back. Then met Jay after a different relationship split and despite him being an asshole he's now my asshole engaged 7 years thanks to fab"Very HAPPY FOR YOU BOTH XX | |||
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"In a near 3 year relationship with Toxic 1998 and we met on fab We chatted on the forums then met at a social in Belfast but it took another couple of weeks and another two socials before we finally stayed the night together LUST = POTENTIAL = LOVE ? We go on holidays together to PDI weekends away and socials 3rd Christmas together at this stage Aw that's lovely ❤❤❤" | |||
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"In a near 3 year relationship with Toxic 1998 and we met on fab We chatted on the forums then met at a social in Belfast but it took another couple of weeks and another two socials before we finally stayed the night together We go on holidays together to PDI weekends away and socials 3rd Christmas together at this stage " ♥️ Love this | |||
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"Absolutely. Swinging and kink is my way of life. And So long as they didn’t want a Monogamous relationship, and our needs and wants were aligned why not. But OP why did you ask that question? " Sometimes there's a hint of sex shaming with this question. When I first joined Fet I got involved with a guy who, in bed, told me he'd fuck someone from the scene but he'd not want to date someone from the scene. His date should have to be low body count to be the type of woman he'd want kids with. (He was early 20's) I thought what a cheek, double standards or what! He never saw me again. Women who are sex positive and own what they want, like and are prepared to assert their boundaries are simply low value in some misogynists minds. But if they only knew. We are better communicators, have a more profound bond, will adventure with them and they will always be excited to come home to us. So their loss. Vics (F) | |||
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"Absolutely. Swinging and kink is my way of life. And So long as they didn’t want a Monogamous relationship, and our needs and wants were aligned why not. But OP why did you ask that question? Sometimes there's a hint of sex shaming with this question. When I first joined Fet I got involved with a guy who, in bed, told me he'd fuck someone from the scene but he'd not want to date someone from the scene. His date should have to be low body count to be the type of woman he'd want kids with. (He was early 20's) I thought what a cheek, double standards or what! He never saw me again. Women who are sex positive and own what they want, like and are prepared to assert their boundaries are simply low value in some misogynists minds. But if they only knew. We are better communicators, have a more profound bond, will adventure with them and they will always be excited to come home to us. So their loss. Vics (F) " Love your take V xx | |||
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"Absolutely. Swinging and kink is my way of life. And So long as they didn’t want a Monogamous relationship, and our needs and wants were aligned why not. But OP why did you ask that question? Sometimes there's a hint of sex shaming with this question. When I first joined Fet I got involved with a guy who, in bed, told me he'd fuck someone from the scene but he'd not want to date someone from the scene. His date should have to be low body count to be the type of woman he'd want kids with. (He was early 20's) I thought what a cheek, double standards or what! He never saw me again. Women who are sex positive and own what they want, like and are prepared to assert their boundaries are simply low value in some misogynists minds. But if they only knew. We are better communicators, have a more profound bond, will adventure with them and they will always be excited to come home to us. So their loss. Vics (F) Love your take V xx" V said what I was thinking. There can be double standards and I feel that’s where the OP was going with the question. Good enough to Fuck but not good enough to date. Please OP correct me if I’m wrong | |||
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"And to follow up from that, for 11 years I was married to someone who would not open up our marriage. I stayed faithful The whole time even though I was yearning for other contact and excitement and change. It was only after we separated I found out he had opened up our marriage but hadn’t told me. " I'm so sorry | |||
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"And to follow up from that, for 11 years I was married to someone who would not open up our marriage. I stayed faithful The whole time even though I was yearning for other contact and excitement and change. It was only after we separated I found out he had opened up our marriage but hadn’t told me. " Surely that's not an open marriage. That's called cheating as I understand it. Either there's an agreed mutual agreement and genuine or not at all. | |||
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"Honestly, it's what I'm looking for on here. I can't go back to monogamy. I love the scene I'm heavily involved in events and the community and I love my lifestyle, I'd love to find someone who fits into that. I would love to find what other couples have on here. It's wonderful meeting so many people and making so many friends, group play and being a unicorn for other couples and enjoying their company, but I find myself watching them enjoying all of this together and I have a pang and a yearning for that with a partner. I really hope I do find it. In the meantime I'm loving all the experiences I've had over the last 2 years on here and wouldn't go back! " Now this has certainly got my attention - definitely along the same line of thinking and seeking as myself. Would love to discuss further. | |||
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"And to follow up from that, for 11 years I was married to someone who would not open up our marriage. I stayed faithful The whole time even though I was yearning for other contact and excitement and change. It was only after we separated I found out he had opened up our marriage but hadn’t told me. Surely that's not an open marriage. That's called cheating as I understand it. Either there's an agreed mutual agreement and genuine or not at all." I was being sarcastic. Yes he was cheating the whole time. | |||
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"Honestly, it's what I'm looking for on here. I can't go back to monogamy. I love the scene I'm heavily involved in events and the community and I love my lifestyle, I'd love to find someone who fits into that. I would love to find what other couples have on here. It's wonderful meeting so many people and making so many friends, group play and being a unicorn for other couples and enjoying their company, but I find myself watching them enjoying all of this together and I have a pang and a yearning for that with a partner. I really hope I do find it. In the meantime I'm loving all the experiences I've had over the last 2 years on here and wouldn't go back! " This! I can’t imagine myself anymore in vanilla monogamous relationship. I’m kinky and more interested in having partner in crime to explore and experiment than just a wousewife in pants. | |||
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