FabSwingers.com forum: Cousins and relatives

By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

OK... Ireland is a small place as we all know. Everyone is related to everything and everyone. It's said you need 7 degrees of separation in Ireland... Large families, leading out into more cousins uncles and aunts etc.... I'd be interested to know how people do their best to avoid arranging a coffee meeting with a cousin etc.... The embarrassing situation.

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By *unflowerWoman
6 weeks ago

Dublin

Ask for a face photo

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By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

Ya that's a good idea But you send it to your aunt....

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
6 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"OK... Ireland is a small place as we all know. Everyone is related to everything and everyone. It's said you need 7 degrees of separation in Ireland... Large families, leading out into more cousins uncles and aunts etc.... I'd be interested to know how people do their best to avoid arranging a coffee meeting with a cousin etc.... The embarrassing situation. "

We are all adults. This stuff doesn't need to embarrassing. We are all here for similar things

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By *om TangoMan
6 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

If you turn up to discover your cousin so be it. Simply another like minded person that you can be more open with. Have the coffee and chat and head off and put it down to an experience.

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By *agic mike1Man
6 weeks ago

around

"If you turn up to discover your cousin so be it. Simply another like minded person that you can be more open with. Have the coffee and chat and head off and put it down to an experience. "

And don't have banjo music playing in the background

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By *adger BrocMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I have met a few people on here that I also know in "real life". I operate on the basis that it is as much in their interest as it is in mine to be totally discreet.

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By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

I hope it never happens to me

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

There and Here

I've never come across a relative here in almost 6 years. Sure it could happen, but the chances are slim and I wouldn't allow the fear of that to curb my activities here.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
6 weeks ago

Cork

What are they gonna say? That they came on here to talk about golf? I wouldn't sweat nor think about it

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By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

"What are they gonna say? That they came on here to talk about golf? I wouldn't sweat nor think about it"
actually so trure

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By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything

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By *educing_EmCouple
6 weeks ago

Tipperary

"I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything "

Ummmm that's nice 😳

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Surely you ld just walk on, pretend you just randomly passed each other.

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By *a1970 OP Man
6 weeks ago

East cork

"Surely you ld just walk on, pretend you just randomly passed each other. "
I like this idea

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By *oshSardineMan
6 weeks ago

Castleknock

"I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything "

Is that not a bit weird that you think your cousins are hot? They are related to you somehow on your dads or mums side of the family or at least grandparents.

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By *allfunguy400Man
6 weeks ago

Kildare

We are all adults. This stuff doesn't need to embarrassing. We are all here for similar things

Exactly this

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By *adger BrocMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Cork

"I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything

Is that not a bit weird that you think your cousins are hot? They are related to you somehow on your dads or mums side of the family or at least grandparents."

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Hot is hot no matter who they are or how they are related to you....

Acknowledging that is not a problem......acting on it in an intimate way might be but the OP never suggested that.

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By *oshSardineMan
6 weeks ago

Castleknock

"I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything

Is that not a bit weird that you think your cousins are hot? They are related to you somehow on your dads or mums side of the family or at least grandparents.

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Hot is hot no matter who they are or how they are related to you....

Acknowledging that is not a problem......acting on it in an intimate way might be but the OP never suggested that.

Okay

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By *unwithcplsMan
6 weeks ago

cork

"Surely you ld just walk on, pretend you just randomly passed each other. "

Exactly this cuz….lol

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Like said above, all adults. Id prob have a laugh about it, and like that you have someone to chat to.

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By *1CorkCouple
6 weeks ago

Cork

OP doth protest too much.

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By *1CorkCouple
6 weeks ago

Cork

"I've one or two cousins quite hot.... But no before anyone says anything "

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By *arcelona30Man
6 weeks ago

Naas

Of course one would never be tempted ....would one?? 😉 😜

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

My little cousin has sent me messages and pics here. Nearly vomited - Ireland is definitely too small but also a reason why guys need to stop sending dic pics in an opening message.

I nearly vomited - it happened on my old profile and on this one. Both instant blocks. Haven't told him and don't intend to but he might figure out from this comment ha ha

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Dublin

Wouldn’t you have sent pics first? As someone said they are here for the same thing so why be ashamed

I actually had one of my neighbours message me to meet! He’s married and as much as martial status doesn’t bother me when it’s that close I had to say I knew him but left it there

I’ve had a manager in one of the bars I work in a lot message me here and we have been around each other alot since haha

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

Saw a woman on here who's husband worked for me at the time

Just blocked her

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"Saw a woman on here who's husband worked for me at the time

Just blocked her

That seems harsh no?

You could at least tell her why?

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
6 weeks ago

Belfast

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

"Saw a woman on here who's husband worked for me at the time

Just blocked her

That seems harsh no?

You could at least tell her why?"

Never had any dealings with her....just saw her photos and knew it was her....no harm done

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By *uest56789Man
6 weeks ago

dublin

Hard to come by my cousins here

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

There and Here

"Saw a woman on here who's husband worked for me at the time

Just blocked her

That seems harsh no?

You could at least tell her why?"

Why would you tell her? Its way more creepy if someone tells you they know you and then block you. If they just go ahead and block you, you're in blissful ignorance. A preemptive block in this instance is the exact opposite of harsh, it's allowing you and the other person to go about your business here privately

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By *ootinmanMan
6 weeks ago

derry

ran across my wife cousin ona different site. just moved on past. her business.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
6 weeks ago

Drogheda

Depends whether it's one of my hot cousins 🤷‍♀️

😂😂😂

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