FabSwingers.com forum: Locals blocking ya

By *arl2020 OP Man
4 weeks ago

ENNISKILLEN

Does this happen to anyone else are is it just me it gets annoying u get chatting to plp near by are maybe the next town away they ask for pics which I've no problem sharing I always do then bang it's a block are your not my type then a block I'm discreet as it comes I'm not going to shout from the roof tops who on here and who not but it gets annoying and very childish in my eyes anyhow rant over 😊

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By *addyIrishMan21Man
4 weeks ago

cavan

"Does this happen to anyone else are is it just me it gets annoying u get chatting to plp near by are maybe the next town away they ask for pics which I've no problem sharing I always do then bang it's a block are your not my type then a block I'm discreet as it comes I'm not going to shout from the roof tops who on here and who not but it gets annoying and very childish in my eyes anyhow rant over 😊 "

Happened me more than once.

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By *arl2020 OP Man
4 weeks ago

ENNISKILLEN

It's aload of bollocks isn't it very childish I think

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By *aid backMan
4 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Its to protect privacy.

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By *indenMan
4 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Absolutely ridiculous, people having preferences…..

Notions…..

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
4 weeks ago

Cork

It's probably not your intention, but this just makes it look like they were right to block you.

It happens all the time, it's water off your back unless you want to make it worse

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By *arl2020 OP Man
4 weeks ago

ENNISKILLEN

I get what ya saying but u took me up wrong I'd see into it been blocked if I was been a wanker are nasty but it's abit petty abd childish they look for a pic then block ya some off them reply no thanks your 2 local and then block ya it can be annoying that's all

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By *sBossWoman
4 weeks ago

Cork

Possibly a bit of panic setting in if they felt you were too close to home for them

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By *arl2020 OP Man
4 weeks ago

ENNISKILLEN

Yeah maybe so but it's abit harsh blocking me i think, I'm on here and been discreet were all on fab fir the same reasons

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By *om TangoMan
4 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Don’t think I’ve been blocked yet by locals. I could be wrong. But if I am blocked by locals I fully understand and respect their decision.

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By *mmmm300Woman
4 weeks ago

cork

"Yeah maybe so but it's abit harsh blocking me i think, I'm on here and been discreet were all on fab fir the same reasons "

I guess they don't know for sure you are discreet, plenty on fab not discreet and happy to spill the beans on people's lives,

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
4 weeks ago

There and Here

Why is it a problem exactly that someone who doesn't want to meet you blocks you?

I mean, in what does them blocking you impact upon your experience?

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By *ionycusMan
4 weeks ago

Babylon

Are you complaining because they don't share their pictures with you after you shared yours?

Do you think that possibly you might know each other already, even maybe being related, or had some previous encounters?

Maybe you need to look at how you share and what you expect, before you share.

There have been countless treads about people feeling insecure that someone local has contacted them due to recognizing something from a picture. You seem to have the opposite opinion and send pictures of yourself to locals , which you are entitled to, but if they haven't offered the same , you can't expect sympathy on here.

Just my opinion from what you've shared here.

Plus any post that complains on here without completing self reflection gets pretty much hammered.

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By *aughty MilfCouple
4 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

You never blocked anyone you knew ?? For no reason

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
4 weeks ago

sligo

"Yeah maybe so but it's abit harsh blocking me i think, I'm on here and been discreet were all on fab fir the same reasons

I guess they don't know for sure you are discreet, plenty on fab not discreet and happy to spill the beans on people's lives, "

This

I block locals, no interest in meeting anyone local. Have had a few messages from local profiles saying they recognise me and seen me in a local shop. Not creepy at all.

Thank theirs the married guys who reckon they are discreet , looking for a fwb , no interest in been a married guys bit on the side

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
4 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"I get what ya saying but u took me up wrong I'd see into it been blocked if I was been a wanker are nasty but it's abit petty abd childish they look for a pic then block ya some off them reply no thanks your 2 local and then block ya it can be annoying that's all"

You got a reply from them saying 2 local? Well that's more than I would have given I wouldn't have given you a reply. If I recognised you or discovered you lived very close by (Fermanagh is a big county) I'd just hit the block button.

It's not personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Don't give face pics without receiving..... Or

Maybe if they are that closed minded, it's a lucky escape. Maybe they are a bad ride 🤣🤣

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's not childish to block people local to you that you aren't interested in meeting

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By *ot so needyMan
4 weeks ago

Galway

I see nothing wrong with blocking.

It's everyone individual choice.

Some people worry about privacy and get nervous when the other person is from the locality.

So dont take it as a reflection on you just move on..

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By *og-ManMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere

Complaining about being blocked makes their decision the correct one in the first place

As someone once sang in a Disney movie

Let it go

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
4 weeks ago

Home

Ya all the time. I've ever been blocked by people I've never messaged.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
4 weeks ago

kinkytown

Will never understand why people complain about being blocked. You're an adult. Build a bridge and get over it.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
4 weeks ago

Home

"Will never understand why people complain about being blocked. You're an adult. Build a bridge and get over it. "
I don't think anyone is really complaining we are just replying ya it happens to be honest I couldn't care less if you block me just move on to the next one.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
4 weeks ago

borderarea

It isn't facebook - I don't want locals perving my nipples here then making me a breakfast roll in central saying keep the change with a wink and a wank.

People block for lots of reasons.

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By *om TangoMan
4 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

"It isn't facebook - I don't want locals perving my nipples here then making me a breakfast roll in central saying keep the change with a wink and a wank.

People block for lots of reasons. "

I’m local and have been perving your nipples. Lucky enough I don’t work in your local deli😂😂. So no need to block me💋

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
4 weeks ago

Portstewart

Is it possible that from the pics you sent that the person/persons have actually had an interaction with you in real life like work or wherever. They are just doing it to protect their and your privacy. Sometimes people don't want to meet anyone within a certain radius of their house as a safety buffer

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
4 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Anybody can block anybody for any reason without having to give a reason.

If people aren't mature enough to be ok with that, then maybe they shouldn't be here at all.

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By *b220Man
4 weeks ago

limerick

Have come across 1 or 2 people that I know personally while on here before. Normally would just let them know that I possibly know them a then block

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I block locals, it's nothing personal but it's just too close to home for me to feel comfortable

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
4 weeks ago

Cork

"Don't give face pics without receiving..... Or

Maybe if they are that closed minded, it's a lucky escape. Maybe they are a bad ride 🤣🤣"

Being devils advocate, how many people write to send a face Pic in the first message?

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By *a1970Man
4 weeks ago

East cork

This is a free country last time I checked. If someone feels the need to block.... Respect it and move on

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By *harliexBrownMan
4 weeks ago

claremorris

Has happened me twice this week alone. All chat till I asl for a face pic. You first they say and never reply. Hard get any new verifications

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