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Drogheda

A female friend recently told me that she was SHOCKED by how unkept, and often unclean (🤢), guys seem to be. I know she was specifically talking able single males but I have had one or two encounters with attached guys and wondered about there lack of grooming.

Personally, I like to have my balls clean shaven (and down and around) but leave my below abdomen area at a one blade.

What's your approach to or thoughts on make grooming?

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By *addyseeds.ieMan
6 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

I shave on my torso/pecs area, sometimes I trim a bit pubic hairs, rarely shaved my balls. Most important for me is to keep my private area always clean.

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

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By *he KakapoMan
6 weeks ago

A nice rock

Grooming and hygiene are two completely different topics tbh

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
6 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I've never met anyone who was unclean or unkempt on a meet from here

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I don't shave or shape any hair below my neck.

I do shower though.

Not sure of the relationship between those things.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
6 weeks ago

Cork

Being unkempt and being unclean are quite different.

Just because someone isn't groomed doesn't mean they're unclean...unless they're obviously not washing themselves and that's just nasty!

I'd prefer someone au natural, or at least tidy, over someone all stubbly because they haven't shaved properly.

Needless to say there is no excuse for not washing!

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By *enitMan
6 weeks ago

Galway

Always keep things well washed and clean.

I have sac and shaft waxed,main bush trimmed.

Underarms are also waxed.

Waited a long time to build up a bit of chest hair and definitely hanging on to that

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By *iscuits8Man
6 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

The old trusty Philips OneBlade over the wee pubies for 5 minutes pre-shower, once every couple of weeks... that's the height of my grooming

And a shower minimum once a day

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By *asuallyChilled OP Man
6 weeks ago

Drogheda

Just to say, I never said grooming and hygiene were the same thing. I just don't wonder about hygiene as it seems fairly straightforward - you wash. However, there could be a plethora of ways to groom. Which is what I wondered about 😊

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

"Just to say, I never said grooming and hygiene were the same thing. I just don't wonder about hygiene as it seems fairly straightforward - you wash. However, there could be a plethora of ways to groom. Which is what I wondered about 😊

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How people choose to groom is a personal choice.

'Ukempt' is a derogatory criticism that's really just another person's opinion.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
6 weeks ago

Cork

I have often found for men, it really takes someone saying it for a guy to notice. I was told I had bad breath once and I've kept a close eye on it since.

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By *he KakapoMan
6 weeks ago

A nice rock

"I have often found for men, it really takes someone saying it for a guy to notice. I was told I had bad breath once and I've kept a close eye on it since.

Meh I'm aware my balls are hairy. I just don't care

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By *adger BrocMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Cork

With regards to personal grooming having less hair on top I now have more time to spend on other areas.

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By *ildGroverMan
6 weeks ago

rathfarnham

What difference does it make whether you are unkempt??

Men have always been less susceptible to "having" to be groomed and I'd say she watches too much porn if she's shocked that some men are hairy

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By *ourtJesterMan
6 weeks ago

carlow

I keep the garden around the tree trunk well mown. Not only is it better for lady companions but it makes the tree look a little bigger 😉

The balls now, that's a different story. I limit the times I shave near there and usually only do it before I know I'm meeting someone. I find I get a lot of razor cuts and my ball sac looks like it's wearing camo by the time I'm finished.

But I took a year off before and the entire thing looked like pinoccio was doing an audition to play gandalf the grey from lord of the rings it got that long.

So anyone who has tips that won't have my sac looking like something out of a chucky horror film I'm open

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By *agic mike1Man
6 weeks ago

around

I'm always freshly shaven, showered and smell good when I'm meeting anyone.

It's a trait some people should learn.

Met one lady years ago and you could smell the BO as soon as she sat down.

Made my excuses and left

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By *om TangoMan
6 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’d had used the old-school method of a cutthroat razor, but as you can imagine, this was a tricky and delicate operation, and to make matters worse, it was difficult to get into a comfortable position in the chair at my local Barbers. The barber said enough was enough of looking up my whizzer every Saturday at 11:30 and was putting him off his lunch,

He did not want to leave me in the lurch. He told me about Veet for men and suggested I give it try. so I got a tube of the veet and applied it around the wood stick area if u know what I mean. Within minutes there was foul stench of dissolving melting hair. Next searing pain began and me sitting on the deck chair in the garden. All I could think of was the deep freezer in the house and I took off like fuck heading for that freezer. Before I knew it was i

Had my todger in the arse end of a frozen chicken, but I must say I was impressed with the sight of of my butt hole flashing like the rear of a chereau fridge trailers brake lights as I passed the large hall mirror. I defrosted that chicken faster than any microwave

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By *attooed.dadbodMan
6 weeks ago

centre

I can't do my own back other than that I keep myself trimmed all over trying to stay as masculine as possible

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

I'm a fan of hairy faces, backs and chests. Not a fan of hairy nether regions - on guys more so.

When it comes to going down on women, the hair parts along with the labia majora so there's no big issue there regarding hair when you want to access the playground.

However with guys... there's no way of avoiding hair if it hasn't been removed or we'll trimmed. As a fan of sucking on the odd ball or two I shy away from the hair ball inducing ones these days having come in contact with a few guys who's hair got caught in my throat- that was before any deep throat attempts!

Essentially yeah - each to their own in how you want to keep your own garden - it's absolutely a person's own personal choice.

It's also a personal choice to choose between a deciduous or an evergreen.

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By *igMartyRebelMan
6 weeks ago

East Cork

A shower a day does the trick.

Although I’ve a hairy face I keep the nether regions well groomed. I use Veet in that area every week so always smooth

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
6 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Clean is something everyone should be regardless. If I was meeting someone straight after work I'd have a shower at theirs first before anything would happen.

If someone tried to tell me how I should keep MY public hair they wouldn't get very far

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By *ucumberPumpMan
6 weeks ago

Waterford

Always shaven and moisturised. Love the silk purse feel....

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

"A shower a day does the trick.

Although I’ve a hairy face I keep the nether regions well groomed. I use Veet in that area every week so always smooth

Veet really is the bomb - i used to shave and found it caused way too many it grown hairs. Veet on the other hand so easy to apply and gets those areas razers can't easily reach. Love it. 6 mins and sorts out all the stragglers.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

"Clean is something everyone should be regardless. If I was meeting someone straight after work I'd have a shower at theirs first before anything would happen.

If someone tried to tell me how I should keep MY public hair they wouldn't get very far "

This

Pubes are about as divisive as infidelity on Fab 😂

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By *alkingbootsMan
6 weeks ago

cavan

I have a hairy chest so can’t shave my pubes as it would look stupid, I trim them short and shave around my balls and ass hole

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

If someone doesn't like my hairy balls we'll then they're not for me and I am not for them.

My grooming is limited down there. However in summer yes, the last two years I trim them as short as possible and shave the chest too. But it's more to do with climate! Spain gets hot. This time of year, I just let it grow.

As to being clean, that's just a given. The closest shaved dick could still be manky if not washed.

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By *urious249Man
6 weeks ago

Newry

I keep down there completely shaved as I prefer it that way. It's also better knowing if someone is going to be putting my dick and/or balls in their mouth they're not going to be fishing pubes out of their mouth afterwards because nobody likes a stray pube in the mouth lol

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By *adger BrocMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Cork

"Clean is something everyone should be regardless. If I was meeting someone straight after work I'd have a shower at theirs first before anything would happen.

If someone tried to tell me how I should keep MY public hair they wouldn't get very far

This

Pubes are about as divisive as infidelity on Fab 😂"

.....

So intimate shaving is kinda like cheating.....🤔

Pretending something isn't how it really is...😱

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
6 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

F here, I prefer a man trimmed but not shaven as I find it can be rough stubble sometimes. Just a tidy up.

I keep myself trimmed but not completely off either.

But...I feel mostly that if a person wants to be this way or that way and they feel sexy, then I'll go with that. I'm not that bothered.

Clean is a given.

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By *rim22Man
6 weeks ago

navan/trim

Always keep smooth ad 4 skin showered every nite when showering every nite it very important hate sweat smell from m/f

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By *iscuits8Man
6 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Always keep smooth ad 4 skin showered every nite when showering every nite it very important hate sweat smell from m/f"

Brilliant stuff this... a fella from Trim in a thread about grooming 🪒🤌

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By *hris 1000200Man
6 weeks ago

kells

Body wise ,I'm well groomed ,down below I like to be smooth,love the feel of it

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By *avexxMan
6 weeks ago

cheshire

always nice and neat oh and always smell lovely

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By *allDarkHandsome101Man
6 weeks ago

City

As Manscaped always says. Trim the grass to make the yard look bigger

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

There and Here

I'm not really too bothered these days. If I'm into the person enough to have sex with them, their personal grooming choice isn't going to be a deal breaker.

As for me, I swing between shaved, full bush and everything in between but trimmed is my usual choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I find being trimmed or shaved invites more enthusiasm, hence that has been my go-to style.

It also helps keep things clean easily of course.....

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Oh god I wish more men would wax instead of shave. The chafing is real!!! The skin around my mouth is always red for 2 days after I spend quality time giving a nice sloppy one. I love doing it, but look ridiculous!!!

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Normally I fresh shave my jaw before a meet so I don't chaf the calf etc when I inspect.

Just wondering if a trim, works for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Normally I fresh shave my jaw before a meet so I don't chaf the calf etc when I inspect.

Just wondering if a trim, works for you?"

As long as it doesn’t cause chafing and doesn’t look like the Amazon jungle, it work for me

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Normally I fresh shave my jaw before a meet so I don't chaf the calf etc when I inspect.

Just wondering if a trim, works for you?

As long as it doesn’t cause chafing and doesn’t look like the Amazon jungle, it work for me

While I do love all things wild, I am a keen gardener and know how to give a good cut!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Normally I fresh shave my jaw before a meet so I don't chaf the calf etc when I inspect.

Just wondering if a trim, works for you?

As long as it doesn’t cause chafing and doesn’t look like the Amazon jungle, it work for me

While I do love all things wild, I am a keen gardener and know how to give a good cut!"

Lucky woman who gets to experience that.

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"A complete Hollywood waxing for me

Found someone else to do it recently apart from my normal go to beautician and can honestly say it's pain free

Normally I fresh shave my jaw before a meet so I don't chaf the calf etc when I inspect.

Just wondering if a trim, works for you?

As long as it doesn’t cause chafing and doesn’t look like the Amazon jungle, it work for me

While I do love all things wild, I am a keen gardener and know how to give a good cut!

Lucky woman who gets to experience that. "

A man's life would be dull if there was no place experience things!

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
6 weeks ago

ireland

Aslong as the guy was clean and I was attracted to him ,it wouldn't matter if he was or wasn't waxed to an inch of his life !

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By *edserMan
6 weeks ago

City Centre

I shave below every week but Veet seems interesting hadn't heard of it

Any information on it welcome

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By *ickyoudry69Man
6 weeks ago

omaghish

look into nutcare for men, fantastic stuff if you follow the instructions, no burn 👍

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

"I shave below every week but Veet seems interesting hadn't heard of it

Any information on it welcome "

Read the instructions and set a timer or god help you.

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"I shave below every week but Veet seems interesting hadn't heard of it

Any information on it welcome

Read the instructions and set a timer or god help you."

I'd imagine there'd be no nuts left if forgotten about! 🙈

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

"I shave below every week but Veet seems interesting hadn't heard of it

Any information on it welcome "

I used veet on all my hairy bits- i use the purple maroon bottle for professionalism care. Essentially I start applying it to the least sensitive areas first - legs, arms, under arms etc then the more sensitive areas. It needs to be fairly thick and if you wear jewelry like rings make sure to take them off before applying.

Once I am done applying to my more sensitive areas I set a timer for a mins. The max is 6 mins. Once I get to 4 I jump onto the shower and use cold water and the spatula provided to scrape the cream off. This is much better than trying to simply rinse it off. I then finish with the genital area. Once the cream is removed I use a gentle shower gel and gentle cloth to wash all over and remove any stray hairs.

I tend to air dry and wait a few hours before moisturising as that can sting after.

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By *edserMan
6 weeks ago

City Centre

Scary stuff

Will stick to shaving

But thanks anyway

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By *oorslightMan
6 weeks ago

Strabane

Nutcare sounds amazing

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By *tagNvixen69Couple
6 weeks ago

belfast

I use hair removal cream on me balls and butt craic, #3 shaver on the rest of the pubes and under arm pits, I don't have a hairy back and not much chest hair. But jeez we've seen some real whacky scary bushes on some guys

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Always clean finger nails ,

Smell good , am shaved Always down below ,

Good shoes , jeans or trousers. Put effort in for the fab woman ,

They do for us

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By *astelloWoman
6 weeks ago

Far far away

I actually don't mind hair on the man bits. Nothing worse than razer nicks and red raw skin on the poor ball sack. Once cleanliness is maintained, l don't mind a man rug. Handy in the winter time.

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By *acd03Man
6 weeks ago

Naughtyville

" l don't mind a man rug. Handy in the winter time. "

Handy in the winter time

Tis one way of saving the planet I suppose

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