FabSwingers.com forum: Guys would u mind looking at my profile and give me pointers please

By *ehh2024 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Hey guys

If any kind soul had 5mins to spare could u give me an honest opinion.on.my profile..

I havnt a clue what im doing lol

Guys iv no idea what im doing, won't lie, I'm terrible at signing up and no patience lo

I wont go into soppy storys as to why im on here coz everyone has a story and mine is full of tragedy and bad luck...

I need too change that and put it behind me coz I know iv a lot too offe,

my story is crazy and people do kinda like too hear how I'm still smiling and gives people hope that if i can face that and turn it possitive, so can they

I turned anger into empathy and laugh at every stuggle life throws coz iv took on worse and won,

That\'s why I want too give this a try , I used too be soo permisicous and confident but put my life on hold for others..

Now I want it back and IM nervous but I'm def not scaired...

Please I really need a helping hand or a good kick in the hole, eathers fine coz it couldn\'t be worse than my attempt lol

I really want too prove myself and goto some of ur nights out but don't know where I'm going wrong..

I dont know anyone on this too ask so any help will be amazing xx

Sorry for the double page spread ther...I just really wana give this everything for the new year xx

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

It's a small thing but there are a lot of spelling errors and such. People do notice stuff like that.

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By *andrewsMan
2 weeks ago

Here and There

Well lad.. it looks good to me.. my advice would be.. be patient.. there are tonnes of lads on here. Way more than women so there is a lot of choice for them. Engage in the forums and chat to people.. expect ALOT of no responses to messages and dont take it to heart..

Also try and get to coffee socials.. they are a fantastic way to get to meet people from the site..

This is a slow process being on the site but when you get going on here and get to socials and events its such a brilliant community

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By *electableicecreamMan
2 weeks ago

The West

You could very easily just copy your bio into chatgpt and and tell it to correct for spelling, grammar and punctuation.

Not everyone writes the same way but you might as well have a clean a bio as possible as small things count against you in a see of men

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By *addyseeds.ieMan
2 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

Profile looks ok to me, consider to ad some other public pics (no dick pics).

Verification will help, look for social meets if there is anything organised around your area, there is a tread “help a fabber”, post there so you have more chances to get verified. Remember that there are so many single guys compared to women and couple so be patient.

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By *ehh2024 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Belfast

Thank you soo much guys

I know my grammar is terrible, believe, that was me bloody trying lol

Nahh I know i get carried away and type pure nonsence..but its because I don't know what too say lol

Ex criminal, with a bad reputation, that gave away everything for my son, bankrupt twice fighting in court just soo authority's would keep an eye on him..

fought for 10years and humanity really has no morals when it comes too using kids as weapons

My son.passed away 5 years tomorrow of cancer..and right til the very end, I was the only one who truely was ther for him.

And all the bad things that was said about me, I made sure I would prove them wrong..

Now I help alot of guys in need and ud be surprised how many people struggle..

This year I did quite a lot of changes and def I want my confidence back..

I'm happy for how I'm known now, and just coz that's my past, never ever judge, it's easy too get a bad reputation, bloody harder too get a good one..and keep it

Share a pic with u guys, if thers any travilers, show this too ur mothers or grandmother's..

My eyes are normally bright blue and brown/green..really stand out at times..

Traviling older people sware it's a sign of luck and empathy having 3 colours..

Yet I got a pic taken and ther was one eye half brown half grey and the other half blue half green..

Well fuck me my phone never stopped all night..

So if it is good luck..il pass it onto u lot and urs for over xmas xx

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By *chochamberWoman
2 weeks ago

Munster

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By *chochamberWoman
2 weeks ago

Munster

More pics,

Less life story.

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By *affa31Woman
2 weeks ago

Galway

It reads like a dating profile and doesn’t tell us anything about what you’re looking for.

Keep things positive and keep the life story for when you get to know people. Not to be harsh, but no one is here for a pity fuck so the life drama and oversharing should be kept for future conversations if personal circumstances come up.

Take more well lit, clear pics. People want to see what you look like. Women will window shop your profile before deciding to engage so make them want to engage.

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By *revaunanceCouple
2 weeks ago

Exeter

In the first line you state your age is 39, but the age on your profile is 41. Either you have aged 2 years in the 3 weeks you have been on here, or your telling a porky pie somewhere. Straight away that calls into question how reliable the rest of your profile might be, so we didn't bother looking any further.

It may seem harsh, but that's how things work on here, first impressions are very quickly made or lost. Good luck

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