FabSwingers.com forum: Women of a certain age

By *arkside24 OP Man
5 weeks ago

monkstown

How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?

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By *tovenWoman
5 weeks ago

Neverland

I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

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By *mazingTimesMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Yep…definitely only in your head!

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By *elfbiMan
5 weeks ago

belfast/Down, but can travel.

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Definitely all in your head. You pics are great.

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

Co. Cork

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

The camera doesn't lie.📸😍

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By *agic mike1Man
5 weeks ago

around

We had a lady in work.

She was nicknamed kronenburg 1667, like the drink.

Couldn't understand why until a guy told me shd had the body of a 16 year old and the head of a 67 year old!!

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By *ustMe!Couple
5 weeks ago

co.down

I think as a woman we all go through stages of feeling like this.

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

What's an RWB or is it a typo

I'm thinking Ride with benefits

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
5 weeks ago

sligo

I've never felt attractive. And peri menopause doesn't help

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By *2357Woman
5 weeks ago

clonmel tipp

I definitely don't think I am attractive at all. And a few men on here has told me as well

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By *andrewsMan
5 weeks ago

Here and There

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Definitely in your head 😍 gorgeous pics!

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By *andrewsMan
5 weeks ago

Here and There

"I've never felt attractive. And peri menopause doesn't help"

Your pics are lovely 😍

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By *exyScientistsCouple
5 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'd say most people feel like this a lot of the time and it doesn't matter how many times you are told its not true you'll always have that tiny bit of self doubt

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By *reedy699Man
5 weeks ago

galway/mayo

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Most definitely in your head x

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By *rRiosMan
5 weeks ago

dublin

"I'd say most people feel like this a lot of the time and it doesn't matter how many times you are told its not true you'll always have that tiny bit of self doubt

i feel advertising and the beauty industry have a lot to answer for in regards to this

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By *tovenWoman
5 weeks ago

Neverland

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By *tevieobMan
5 weeks ago

Dublin

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Definitely none of the above judging by that profile!

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By *he KakapoMan
5 weeks ago

A nice rock

What's the certain age?

Everyone I think have times where they feel unattractive or not as good as others.

I do feel bad for those people who feel like this all or the majority of the time, male or female.

I've found from experience that no amount of positive affirmation from someone will change this.

That change needs to come from within and probably with some professional guidance

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By *avexxMan
5 weeks ago

cheshire

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

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,,, yep its all in your head

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By *eordie.Woman
5 weeks ago

The Sticks

"How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?"

From personal experience, 'women of a certain age' no longer give a fuck. They give up trying to fight the menopausal weight gain, finally accept the body that serves them well and couldn't give a hoot what you or anyone think about them.

Getting old is very liberating

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By *s LollyWoman
5 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?

Getting old is very liberating

Wise words from the menopausal cat woman 😅😅

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By *ozzlesMan
5 weeks ago

galway

"How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?

Getting old is very liberating

I get this. As a man of a certain age I'm a bit like, I couldn't give a flying fuck what ya think of me, and I'm certainly not going to try to change to suit anyone else's idea of what I should be.

Ya I'm a bit battered, creaking in a few places and cranky as feic but I'm styling it out

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

It's very rare that "men of a certain age", are expected to be remorseful of their aging process.

Female aging is so much more judged than male aging. Let's grow old(er) disgracefully. 😅😜

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

Co. Cork

"How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?

Getting old is very liberating

Equally liberating for men.

Age is an integral part of the human condition. It's more about attitude than arithmetic.

Embrace the advancement of time as it cannot be evaded.

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By *ozzlesMan
5 weeks ago

galway

"How many women consider themselves unattractive to men.

I have a rwb who is fantastic sexy and do adventurous and considers herself unattractive to men

Do other women feel the same and how can we help?

Getting old is very liberating

Equally liberating for men.

Age is an integral part of the human condition. It's more about attitude than arithmetic.

Embrace the advancement of time as it cannot be evaded.

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By *allfunguy400Man
5 weeks ago

Kildare

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Definitely in your head, stunning looking

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By *exesrangerMan
5 weeks ago

city

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Fat??? Christ on a bike , if your fat, what would you call the rest of us ?

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
5 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

What 'certain age' are you talking about?

These topics p!ss me off. Just sayin'.

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Blowing smoke up someone's arse doesn't really help anyone.

Having great pics and a fit and healthy body doesn't necessarily mean that person feels good about themselves and age has very little to do with it.

Some people, both men and women, are conditioned to feel unattractive and no amount of flippant patronising will change that.

As you get older it's easier to not give a fuck about other people's opinions but so many people can't get passed that voice in their head.

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By *tovenWoman
5 weeks ago

Neverland

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Fat??? Christ on a bike , if your fat, what would you call the rest of us ? "

I know I’m not. But that’s how I feel. It’s odd I know.

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By *exesrangerMan
5 weeks ago

city

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Fat??? Christ on a bike , if your fat, what would you call the rest of us ?

I know I’m not. But that’s how I feel. It’s odd I know. "

I suppose we can forgive this time since it's Christmas but don't let it happen again or we may have to pull out the whip

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By *rRiosMan
5 weeks ago

dublin

"Blowing smoke up someone's arse doesn't really help anyone.

Having great pics and a fit and healthy body doesn't necessarily mean that person feels good about themselves and age has very little to do with it.

Some people, both men and women, are conditioned to feel unattractive and no amount of flippant patronising will change that.

As you get older it's easier to not give a fuck about other people's opinions but so many people can't get passed that voice in their head."

It can be a mental health condition called body dysmorphia

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By *edknobsMan
5 weeks ago

mullingar

"I definitely don't think I am attractive at all. And a few men on here has told me as well "

All valid points and everybody might have concerns or doubts about a whole range of things, whether their hair is grey, their legs need shaving, their nose hair needs baling or whatever....and everybody tries to deal with their own insecurities in the best way that they can.... but there is no excuse for anybody coming onto this and throwing nasty judging comments about how somebody looks

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
5 weeks ago

sligo

"Blowing smoke up someone's arse doesn't really help anyone.

Having great pics and a fit and healthy body doesn't necessarily mean that person feels good about themselves and age has very little to do with it.

Some people, both men and women, are conditioned to feel unattractive and no amount of flippant patronising will change that.

As you get older it's easier to not give a fuck about other people's opinions but so many people can't get passed that voice in their head."

This 100%

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By *ant111Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin 6

Thought this was a travel advert for the Gambia when I first read..seriously though as others have said not about age at all... Greg Wallace letting his emotions getting away with him.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
5 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I have good days and bad days but then I just think there’s more to me than just how I look .

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By *eordie.Woman
5 weeks ago

The Sticks

"I have good days and bad days but then I just think there’s more to me than just how I look .

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you always look fabulous

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By *tovenWoman
5 weeks ago

Neverland

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

Fat??? Christ on a bike , if your fat, what would you call the rest of us ?

I know I’m not. But that’s how I feel. It’s odd I know.

I suppose we can forgive this time since it's Christmas but don't let it happen again or we may have to pull out the whip "

Don’t threaten me with a good time

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By *arcelona30Man
4 weeks ago

Naas

"Women of a certain age" are...........gorgeous!!

That's all I've got to say about that.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
4 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"I have good days and bad days but then I just think there’s more to me than just how I look .

you always look fabulous

Coming from you that’s high praise indeed

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Self confidence is something we probably all struggle with now and again. It's not something particular to "women of a certain age".

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By *ormsterMan
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

. Oh I feel your pain

Possible you need help

However all is not lost

Weekend with me in Portrush

Slowly I rebuild your confidence and self belief

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

Women of age, no prefer young, when Emily prefer men older lol

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"Women of age, no prefer young, when Emily prefer men older lol"

Dicke rotten x

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"Women of age, no prefer young, when Emily prefer men older lol

Dicke rotten x"

Dicke rotten x

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"Women of age, no prefer young, when Emily prefer men older lol

Dicke rotten x

Dicke totten x "

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By *oxic1998Woman
4 weeks ago

Belfast

Never really felt attractive ( not just an age thing)....and i know its all in my head. Always felt my pictures sell me better than in person

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By *itchIsBoredWoman
4 weeks ago

hormone city central

I think it comes down to self confidence

From experience as u get older u get self conscious for a while

Then you get the fuck it mentality

(I find women can be very critical of other women which baffles me)

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
4 weeks ago

sligo

"I think it comes down to self confidence

From experience as u get older u get self conscious for a while

Then you get the fuck it mentality

(I find women can be very critical of other women which baffles me)

I'm definitely at the age where the fuck it mentality has kicked in.

Can't understand why people are do critical of others especially women. Way I see it, let people live their lives how they want along as they not hurting anyone, it's noones business

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By *ormsterMan
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

As my late MOTHER SAID

( Still miss her big C 5 years ago ) and in her 80s still looked fantastic.

THERE NO UGLY WOMEN.

OR MEN

JUST LAZY PEOPLE

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By *ormsterMan
4 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"I think it comes down to self confidence

From experience as u get older u get self conscious for a while

Then you get the fuck it mentality

(I find women can be very critical of other women which baffles me)

I'm definitely at the age where the fuck it mentality has kicked in.

Can't understand why people are do critical of others especially women. Way I see it, let people live their lives how they want along as they not hurting anyone, it's noones business "

Just good night yep it's after 3

Queen Meadbhh

Wow read your profile and you have me

Sad am outside your parameters

So all I say take a hug and kiss

A guy in Belfast .

Ps am not totally pissed .

Making tea toast now.

Pps wainting taxi in Belfast

Sober you up

Pps wish you nothing but

Happiness in life .

Ppps toast ready now

Thank you xxx

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

No amount of affirmations here will change the internal dialogue. Fab can be brutal to the confidence as it's externally focused. The old adage "beauty is only skin deep" resonates with me. I'd prefer my headstone to say "good mother" not " good model".

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

I ve never noticed a headstone to say either of those things, and they don't have to be mutually exclusive. A woman can be both a mother and a model or neither and each option is fine.

I don't think it's healthy to rate women like that.

Let's accept women for their natural selves, who will naturally age, such is life.

Women are not ornaments to provide entertainment, we are not all here to be rated and compared and contrasted. Women of a certain age are not low lying fruit for easy attention.

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By *elticCockMan
4 weeks ago

Galway

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By *undtigerMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin

All women are beautiful 😍

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By *itty4061Couple
4 weeks ago

stillorgan

"I definitely don't think I am attractive at all. And a few men on here has told me as well "

Sorry to hear that anyone ever disrespected you like that. Assholes everywhere unfortunately.

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By *unsigntwoCouple
4 weeks ago

athlone

"I'd say most people feel like this a lot of the time and it doesn't matter how many times you are told its not true you'll always have that tiny bit of self doubt

I suffer this to a lot

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By *elle111Woman
4 weeks ago

A lot of people men and women feel like this not confident, not attractive and afraid of rejection and my last social interaction in Limerick was an eye opener for me after a conversation (u know who u are). Because I give off a confident air I then seem stand offish I now know but my trick is throw myself on the dance floor where no one approaches me lol. Last social I went up to bed half way through and had to talk myself back downstairs. Terrified of rejection but loved that my portrayal meant everyone thought I was upstairs having sex with a hottie lol instead of on the bed in PJs with a timer set for an hr. But also meant that I missed out on a really great session because people think I’m not interested. Note to self no more holding back when I like the vibe of someone and want the hot fun just say it!

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

"A lot of people men and women feel like this not confident, not attractive and afraid of rejection and my last social interaction in Limerick was an eye opener for me after a conversation (u know who u are). Because I give off a confident air I then seem stand offish I now know but my trick is throw myself on the dance floor where no one approaches me lol. Last social I went up to bed half way through and had to talk myself back downstairs. Terrified of rejection but loved that my portrayal meant everyone thought I was upstairs having sex with a hottie lol instead of on the bed in PJs with a timer set for an hr. But also meant that I missed out on a really great session because people think I’m not interested. Note to self no more holding back when I like the vibe of someone and want the hot fun just say it! "

The old adage "fake it til you make it". Confidence is a tough thing to master. But self love is critically more important. Rare to master it, but it's okay to be kind to yourself and yes hot fun us definitely worth asking for.

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By *aughty MilfCouple
4 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

"I definitely don't think I am attractive at all. And a few men on here has told me as well "
you are beautiful. Some males on here haven't a clue

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
4 weeks ago

ireland

Once upon a time I would have given "a fuck" but as I've gotten older and realised beauty is in the eye of the beholder and im constantly looking in the mirror ,I think I'm fabulous and that's good enough for me !!

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By *adger BrocMan
4 weeks ago

Co. Cork

.......

"Be your own best friend".

Only then can you be who you want to be with others in your life, vanilla or fab.

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By *ucumberPumpMan
3 weeks ago

Waterford

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By *ucumberPumpMan
3 weeks ago

Waterford

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

??? At 47 your unreal

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By *radseman.jayMan
3 weeks ago

allover

I think all women and men are beautiful attractive beings their is beauty inside each and everyone one of us. In my opinion been beautiful comes from the inside and radiates out. It's a horrible trait to be shallow and to be honest their the unattractive people x

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By *on Draper2.0Man
3 weeks ago

Maynooth

I think that every person has someone who will find them attractive. The problem is finding mutual attraction. On a place like this, it isn't easy.

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By *ogladyWoman
3 weeks ago

The bog

I don't find myself attractive or ugly I consider myself average, no better or no less that anyone else here..

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By *elfbiMan
3 weeks ago

belfast/Down, but can travel.

"I don't find myself attractive or ugly I consider myself average, no better or no less that anyone else here.. "

I looking at your pics, I would say your way above average.

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By *oughal23Man
3 weeks ago

Dungarvan

"I feel unattractive, fat, ugly, and old often. But I know that’s all in my head

No way in a hells chance are you any of those. You look amazing. Unfortunately I am outside you age range

Have an amazing Christmas

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By *enitMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

"I've never felt attractive. And peri menopause doesn't help"

Totally gorgeous

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By *enitMan
3 weeks ago

Galway

"What 'certain age' are you talking about?

These topics p!ss me off. Just sayin'."

👍

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

Some of the most attractive women to me are those that are not considered attractive in this modern world. I can’t stand the obsession with lips and makeup these days. Give me a natural, caring, beautiful personality any day over someone made up to look commercially attractive.

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By *ustMe!Couple
3 weeks ago

co.down

I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x

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By *man1044Man
3 weeks ago

North Galway

We are all human be nice to others and treat them with respect. That is my motto

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

"I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x "

You must shy away a lot K

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By *razygoalsMan
3 weeks ago

Dundalk

In 36, was on a plane to Portugal recently, was sat beside a woman, having the craic for the flight..

Sexy woman, good laugh, had to get her number by the end..she has aged well but even so,she was 74.

Now I like older but that's normally well out of my range but what I'm saying is sexy comes from within a person, it's nothing to to with phyiscal attributes

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By *ustMe!Couple
3 weeks ago

co.down

"I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x

You must shy away a lot K

Why do you say that lol xx

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By *aughty MilfCouple
3 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

"I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x "
your absolutely stunning xx

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By *ormsterMan
3 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"Once upon a time I would have given "a fuck" but as I've gotten older and realised beauty is in the eye of the beholder and im constantly looking in the mirror ,I think I'm fabulous and that's good enough for me !!"

I want you in my Christmas

List

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By *elfastDMan
3 weeks ago

belfast

"I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x

You must shy away a lot K

Why do you say that lol xx "

You must get a lot of compliments, if not I’m going to start regularly complimenting you, just to get you more comfortable with them of course

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By *ustMe!Couple
3 weeks ago

co.down

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By *ustMe!Couple
3 weeks ago

co.down

"I certainly don’t find myself overly attractive. And I shy away from compliments x

You must shy away a lot K

Why do you say that lol xx

You must get a lot of compliments, if not I’m going to start regularly complimenting you, just to get you more comfortable with them of course

Your such a smooth talker

I will let you talk to me every day

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By *uest56789Man
3 weeks ago

dublin

Then there is a man … the smaller head just takes over the thinking … and boom 🤣

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