FabSwingers.com forum: Why do we bother

By *elfastSteamWhistle OP Man
9 weeks ago

bangor

A story as old as time itself,

A couple message A single lad, oh we would be interested in meeting you here's a photo of us together, here's a couple of nudes and these are the dates we are available.

Oh good we don't know each other and the dates you picked are good for me too.

Cool we will send you our telephone number the night before and we can chat better and give you the address.

Casual messages back and forward.......

Couples profile deleted.

I'm not the first I won't be the last, and I know the drill shrug your shoulders and move on, but.... grrrr

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By *asual777Man
9 weeks ago

i travel all over

The initial message sounds too good to be true if I am honest

So it’s not a shock it turns out to be not genuine

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By *he KakapoMan
9 weeks ago

A nice rock

Well I know the answer to the why do ye bother part......

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By *elfastSteamWhistle OP Man
9 weeks ago

bangor

Haha yeah fair enough.

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By *ileen_cdTV/TS
9 weeks ago

Dublin

From this day forward, I swear not to engage in discussions for any potential meetings with people who are not fully meet verified or do not show their verifications. There are too many wankers who create a profile just to pursue some fantasy but bail in the last possible moment.

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By *asual777Man
9 weeks ago

i travel all over

I do ask for temporary unveiling of veris actually

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By *iresmillyWoman
9 weeks ago

Dublin

I don’t show my veris anymore. One of them

Is just too “detailed”

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

"I do ask for temporary work unveiling of veris actually "

Same. And it's never been a problem for those who really want to meet.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
9 weeks ago

City Centre

"I do ask for temporary unveiling of veris actually "

I would too. There has to be some sort check list or due diligence if you like, when taking steps to meet someone.

OP I feel really bad for you. But at least you're not out of pocket booking hotels or taking time off to meet. It's a few years since you were last verified, maybe take a coffee first before diving into the excitement of sexual promises with nudes.

All the best. 🍀

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By *ot really famousMan
9 weeks ago

monaghan

"I do ask for temporary work unveiling of veris actually

Same. And it's never been a problem for those who really want to meet."
...my veris are my business...so anyone who asks for them gets a polite myofb...

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By *asual777Man
9 weeks ago

i travel all over

"I don’t show my veris anymore. One of them

Is just too “detailed”

I then licked her clitoris which is of above average size and pinker than usual

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
9 weeks ago

There and Here

"I don’t show my veris anymore. One of them

Is just too “detailed”

I then licked her clitoris which is of above average size and pinker than usual "

I actually spluttered out my tea at that

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By *iresmillyWoman
9 weeks ago

Dublin

"I don’t show my veris anymore. One of them

Is just too “detailed”

I then licked her clitoris which is of above average size and pinker than usual "

Eh nope

but I’ve seen a few badly packed kebabs on this site though.

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
9 weeks ago

Funville

Eh nope

but I’ve seen a few badly packed kebabs on this site though. "

Well that's doner kebab off the takeaway list anytime soon 🤢👀

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By *xplicitMan
9 weeks ago

donegal

“… her pussy presented a conundrum, like a wizards pocket it was guesswork discovering the opening that contained the flower..”

.. sorry, probably was too detailed when I think about it

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By *umpUpTheJamMan
9 weeks ago

dublin

The whole opening of that first message is a red flag for me single males always have to send face photos first and still a lot of times don’t get one in return lol

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By *ucka39Man
9 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hiya op

You should be lucky that you didn't have a unpleasant time travelling back and forth

think of the positives

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By *iresmillyWoman
9 weeks ago

Dublin

"“… her pussy presented a conundrum, like a wizards pocket it was guesswork discovering the opening that contained the flower..”

.. sorry, probably was too detailed when I think about it

Dying

like wizards sleeve- is also a good one

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By *eehornyWoman
9 weeks ago

Mayo

"I do ask for temporary work unveiling of veris actually

Same. And it's never been a problem for those who really want to meet....my veris are my business...so anyone who asks for them gets a polite myofb...

Everyone is allowed to privacy and to use fab as they so wish but as a single lady I use veris as security to verify that they are the person they're portraying and that they have met people with various other veris. My personal rule is that their veris show they know a couple people I trust... but each to their own

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By *om TangoMan
9 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Much easier to meet up with people you have met at a social. Thank fuck I’ve yet to me stood up

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By *ionycusMan
9 weeks ago

Babylon

"I don’t show my veris anymore. One of them

Is just too “detailed”

I then licked her clitoris which is of above average size and pinker than usual "

"The moose knuckle looked like it was dragged through a frosty ploughed field on a Sunday morning when I was finished with her"..... That type of stuff 😂😂😂

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By *ensualnFunCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

"I do ask for temporary work unveiling of veris actually

Same. And it's never been a problem for those who really want to meet....my veris are my business...so anyone who asks for them gets a polite myofb...

Agree 100%. Too many fakes and messers on Fab. If people don’t want to show me/us their veris, then we assume they are fake and move on.

No veris = no meet from our single profiles, and no party invites from our couple profile

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By *ensualnFunCouple
9 weeks ago

Midlands

OP sorry this happened to you, unfortunately so many messers on Fab.

Not counting anymore the last minute cancellations, no shows and ghosting… much better to meet at parties or socials and create opportunities from there.

Mrs

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By *elfastSteamWhistle OP Man
9 weeks ago

bangor

Thanks for the support. Just to clarify a few bits, the first message wasn't as crude or forward as I made it out there was a bit of chat first while we felt each other out, but I didn't want to bore anyone with that lol.

I'm not naive, I know I've not been verified on here much myself so that's a amber flag for most. So I just try to be as genuine as I can be.

I was disappointed, and annoyed cause it FELT genuine. People have all sorts of reasons for deleting their profile and cancelling shit (my old profile was deleted because of a poor back mail attempt).

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