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"A discussion with a fellow fabber has enlightened me to have a new perspective about how I may want to interact with those who wish to chat. No pics, just chat and find if that bit of chemistry and natural patter is there first and go from there. Anyone else feel this may suit them as a way to chat at first? Just asking out of interest to whether others do, not as a fishing mission by the way. " No public pics will instantly put you at a disadvantage. Personally it comes across as a complete lack of effort on that person's part. Public pics and bios are all we have to go on initially, so without those you have no way of standing out from others or selling yourself. | |||
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"A discussion with a fellow fabber has enlightened me to have a new perspective about how I may want to interact with those who wish to chat. No pics, just chat and find if that bit of chemistry and natural patter is there first and go from there. Anyone else feel this may suit them as a way to chat at first? Just asking out of interest to whether others do, not as a fishing mission by the way. No public pics will instantly put you at a disadvantage. Personally it comes across as a complete lack of effort on that person's part. Public pics and bios are all we have to go on initially, so without those you have no way of standing out from others or selling yourself. " Couldn’t agree more, if your not willing to show people who they’re talking to and make an effort to get verified what do they expect | |||
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"A discussion with a fellow fabber has enlightened me to have a new perspective about how I may want to interact with those who wish to chat. No pics, just chat and find if that bit of chemistry and natural patter is there first and go from there. Anyone else feel this may suit them as a way to chat at first? Just asking out of interest to whether others do, not as a fishing mission by the way. " ...you will struggle to get meets without pics...even a sex God like me who has pics, and can accommodate found it difficult to ahem..penetrate the fab lady bank. Thankfully that's in the past, and I have now a decent harem built up...ok...some of them don't know it yet,but that's totally beside the point...Show yourself..how difficult can it be? | |||
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"A discussion with a fellow fabber has enlightened me to have a new perspective about how I may want to interact with those who wish to chat. No pics, just chat and find if that bit of chemistry and natural patter is there first and go from there. Anyone else feel this may suit them as a way to chat at first? Just asking out of interest to whether others do, not as a fishing mission by the way. " Given that a bio is still present with details on height etc I fail to see how this would even work. The whole concept of 'is blind' is that you literally know nothing about a person before conversing. Also the type of chemistry expected would need to be clarified- primal, purely sexual, romantic- the concept is generally linked with romantic encounters is this what you want from your fab journey? Not passing judgement- I have found love here so it's very possible but it is important to know what your expectations are especially when introducing a new edge to it to ensure it aligns with the other participant. Hope that makes sense. Good luck | |||
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"I have been here before a couple of times, have been to the socials, clubs and parties, a vast array of photos. This time I just felt I wanted something different. Chatting to a female fabber who's profile was entirely intriging, we got chatting and found a connection through chatting which led to the thoughts I shared. I understand it is not for everyone but sure nothing is and I am not rubbishing or denegrating anyone who wishes to look in whatever way they choose. Just a post to see if anyone else had a similar outlook. " Was her profile blank also? | |||
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"I have been here before a couple of times, have been to the socials, clubs and parties, a vast array of photos. This time I just felt I wanted something different. Chatting to a female fabber who's profile was entirely intriging, we got chatting and found a connection through chatting which led to the thoughts I shared. I understand it is not for everyone but sure nothing is and I am not rubbishing or denegrating anyone who wishes to look in whatever way they choose. Just a post to see if anyone else had a similar outlook. " ...was her profile blank as well,and if so...how can you be sure you were chatting to a female..? | |||
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" Given that a bio is still present with details on height etc I fail to see how this would even work. The whole concept of 'is blind' is that you literally know nothing about a person before conversing. Also the type of chemistry expected would need to be clarified- primal, purely sexual, romantic- the concept is generally linked with romantic encounters is this what you want from your fab journey? Not passing judgement- I have found love here so it's very possible but it is important to know what your expectations are especially when introducing a new edge to it to ensure it aligns with the other participant. Hope that makes sense. Good luck " It certainly does make sense. My thoughts are that there are no expectations at all, just chat, see how it goes and decide together from there how you both wish to proceed. I fully get wishing to see photos first, everyone has their own perspective and wants from their journey here. | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance?" I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say. | |||
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"Absolutely not. I'm here for sex with people I like and find attractive. I don't have time to spend an infinite amount of time chatting to someone to ultimately find that either of us find the other physically unattractive. A good point has been raised though; do you only interact with blank profiles yourself?" Good on you, hope it is working well for you. That would be my intention yes. | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance? I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say." ...is her profile blank..? | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance? I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say." So reading between the lines you are claiming that you didn't look at her pics? | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance? I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say." But what causes you to look at that profile? | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance? I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say. But what causes you to look at that profile?" A catchy tagline on their profile generally. Just starting out with this approach. | |||
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"I personally think you're putting yourself at a disadvantage because blank profiles are a major filter for a lot of women on the site. Most women want some sort of physical attraction to start with in my opinion followed by personality and how they interact But do it your way and see if it works....good luck to you " Thank you | |||
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"I see where you are coming from and think it's an interesting approach. How is it working out? I'm guessing you can see the photos and bio of the women your talking to? Do they mind that imbalance? I have only in the last couple of days came to this conclusion and have only discussed it with that 1 person so far. If I look at a profile I skip to the write up and see what they have to say. But what causes you to look at that profile? A catchy tagline on their profile generally. Just starting out with this approach. " Good luck | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose... "Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. | |||
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"I personally think you're putting yourself at a disadvantage because blank profiles are a major filter for a lot of women on the site. Most women want some sort of physical attraction to start with in my opinion followed by personality and how they interact But do it your way and see if it works....good luck to you " I would see it this way also. A hidden profile has a creepy aspect to it IMO and most women have had a bellyful of creepy behaviour in their life | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. "...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman? | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. ...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman?"Just go with chat and take it from there. | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. ...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman?
Just go with chat and take it from there. ".. it's up to you how you run your profile. Personally I'd be very wary of a profile who identifies as a woman, who has no pics, and I'm guessing no verifications. But as other people have said. Good luck | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. ...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman?"In fairness unless you meet someone how can you be sure any profile that's unverified or cam verified is a woman Isn't one of the problems on fab ghost profiles being operated by some wanker of a bloke pretending to be a woman or a couple | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. ...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman?
In fairness unless you meet someone how can you be sure any profile that's unverified or cam verified is a woman
Isn't one of the problems on fab ghost profiles being operated by some wanker of a bloke pretending to be a woman or a couple "....isn't that what I just said...? | |||
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"Still wondering if her profile is also blank... one of life's great mysteries I suppose...
Yes it is blank, it was something she said in her profile and the subsequent chat that struck me. ...okay...now we're getting somewhere....next question...how can you be sure she's a woman?
In fairness unless you meet someone how can you be sure any profile that's unverified or cam verified is a woman
Isn't one of the problems on fab ghost profiles being operated by some wanker of a bloke pretending to be a woman or a couple "Ah Bogman, no spoilers please, I'm invested now. | |||
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"Sounds like you're really invested in this experiment. There's a plethora of profiles which love to talk, with very little or nothing written in there bio's and have no pics. Let us know how it goes. 🍀" I wanted to try find something so why not try. Will do. | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. " Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached! | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!" Sorry, what?!?!? How in the world do you figure that?? ° ♂️♀️⚧️🐉🦄🌈 | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!" ....does that mean you are..? | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!" Im not sure that you can accurately tell if someone is playing away by pictures or lack thereof. It can form part of a suspicion alongside other signs also. It's definitely not true to say that "most guys" who have pics are playing away. | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached! Sorry, what?!?!? How in the world do you figure that?? ° ♂️♀️⚧️🐉🦄🌈" Feedback! | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached! Im not sure that you can accurately tell if someone is playing away by pictures or lack thereof. It can form part of a suspicion alongside other signs also. It's definitely not true to say that "most guys" who have pics are playing away. " Did I say that? | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached! Im not sure that you can accurately tell if someone is playing away by pictures or lack thereof. It can form part of a suspicion alongside other signs also. It's definitely not true to say that "most guys" who have pics are playing away. Did I say that?" ...yeah..you did | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..?" Why would it mean that? | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..? Why would it mean that?" ...most guys who have pics...don't you have pics? | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached! Im not sure that you can accurately tell if someone is playing away by pictures or lack thereof. It can form part of a suspicion alongside other signs also. It's definitely not true to say that "most guys" who have pics are playing away. Did I say that?...yeah..you did " Read my comment again! | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..? Why would it mean that?...most guys who have pics...don't you have pics?" My point is that most guys on Fab are married or attached whether they have pics or not. Married or attached does not mean playing away! | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..? Why would it mean that?...most guys who have pics...don't you have pics? My point is that most guys on Fab are married or attached whether they have pics or not. Married or attached does not mean playing away!" ...so which are you? | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..? Why would it mean that?...most guys who have pics...don't you have pics? My point is that most guys on Fab are married or attached whether they have pics or not. Married or attached does not mean playing away!...so which are you?" I'll leave you to your assumptions! | |||
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"Most guys that have no pix are married or attached and think it's ok not to have nothing on there profile. Reality check; most guys 'who' have pix are also married or attached!....does that mean you are..? Why would it mean that?...most guys who have pics...don't you have pics? My point is that most guys on Fab are married or attached whether they have pics or not. Married or attached does not mean playing away!...so which are you? I'll leave you to your assumptions!" ...nah....feedback...  | |||
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