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Imagine if you ld only 20 years left, what would you get up to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

I ve a very strong sense of mortality and my view is, we are all just tourists passing through.

This explains some of my life choices, and I LOVE that I ve had the freedom to explore some interests whilst young enough to really enjoy them. I love a daytime party on a naked beach. I ll deffo be doing that many more times.

So, if we all thought we only had 20ish years left, what would we do to knock the fun out if them?

Beach, pool and foam parties for me, for sure. I literally cannot think of anything I enjoy more. Dancing and moderate boozing always makes me smile.

[obviously family come first, but I m thinking of personal freedoms at the moment].

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

I have less than 20 years left in me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Surely you ll get to 79!! Zimmerframe at RVC

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By *adger BrocMan
11 weeks ago

Co. Cork

For me that's the reality....

I intend to live every day as if there is no tomorrow.

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan


"For me that's the reality....

I intend to live every day as if there is no tomorrow. "
...and one day you will be right..

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

crumbs i will be 84

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By *ather DougalMan
11 weeks ago

Craggy Island

One go around the track..

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By *ozzlesMan
11 weeks ago

galway

I don't know what I'm doing in 20 minutes never mind 20 years. I do tend to pick the fun option when I have a choice to make so I suppose my attitude is live life to its fullest as much of the time as possible without hurting anyone else.

What the heck is a naked beach party and where do you keep your phone and keys?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

You buy a water wallet, which goes around your neck on a string, and you keep your valuables in there 😉.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
11 weeks ago

Cap d adge

PDI, naked beach.

I ll have to find more.

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
11 weeks ago

Galway

That's kind of where we're at. Not that we have just 20 left, likely more, but we're definitely in "leave nothing behind" mode. Hence why we're here amongst other things.

We had the luck to find each other early and always lived to enjoy our time together, so should the end come early, there'd be few regrets. But with the years having started to build up, we're more keenly aware that some things still on the bucket list would be better explored while the bodies are still in shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

It's not imagined in my case , I will be lucky to see 20 years, I'm living my best fabswingers and private life I can

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By *MAsMan
11 weeks ago

Craigavon

Travel the world and have lots of sex

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By *asual777Man
11 weeks ago

i travel all over

I think about the concept of a legacy all the time as a parent , employee and friend

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By *asual777Man
11 weeks ago

i travel all over


"I think about the concept of a legacy all the time as a parent , employee and friend "

Fun yes , but a sense of purpose too

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By *nribanMan
11 weeks ago

Sligo

Since hitting my 50's an intuitive sense of the last bell has resonated.

If i get 20yrs, I'd be amazed.

Bucket list, in no particular order,:

- make amends with all those I love and respect but hurt and let down

- play my guitar (competently) on stage in public

- Free Palestine

- attend some orgies

- visit Beirut, Ho Chi Minh City, Beijing

- explore sexual encounters that hither to were never considered

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By *habMan
11 weeks ago

Boomtown

I'm definitely at the age where 20 years will bring me to the limits, but hopefully not.

Since turning 60, life has dramatically improved especially emotionally and acceptance.

Most importantly I have made peace with people around me.

So for the next 20 years I want to continue the Tantric journey of self exploration and all it encompases

Travel to the Hindu temples of Asia and the odd Tantric retreat along the way

As Joe Crocker sang "Who knows what tomorrow brings"

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
11 weeks ago

ireland

Hopefully we will get at least another 20 years ,and aslong as we are still fit and able we will continue to enjoy life and whatever it has to offer .Personally I'd love to travel more !

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
10 weeks ago

sligo

Recently watched a tikto where a guy talks about having less days left than he's been al8ve.

So yes I'm 50 and I'm realistic I've been alive longer than I've left to live.

It's scary as hell

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By *astelloWoman
10 weeks ago

Far far away

I think about this regularly. I've less ahead than behind now. To find a life's purpose is truly important.

The fragility of life is everywhere.

I want to explore myself and the world.

To laugh more

To discover a new hobby

To give back

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By *aseylee324Couple
10 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I'm very happy to continue as we are, with more time to travel once we retire.

Family history would suggest another 35 years or so, maintaining health, healthy relationships and interest is key!

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By *aid backMan
10 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

20 years ? I'd keep living the life I have.

Terminal or short time left? I've always said I'd take a few dickheads with me without fear of life in prison

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By *oo32Man
10 weeks ago

tipperary

More time with people who deserve it

Visit Thailand,alaska and a few other spots

Keep doing what I'm doing work wise,get healthier/fitter

Save..

Tell more people where to go

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By *izandpaulCouple
10 weeks ago

merseyside

I'd carry on exactly as I am.

I have a wonderful life and want to carry on as normal.

Had cancer last year and it makes you think of your life.

People said about bucket lists, no thanks, don't need one, I'll just take more of the same.

Bit of advice, say yes to everything, if you don't like it, pack it in and say no to it next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Spend the next 20 years trying to remember what the question was lol

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