FabSwingers.com forum: Honest

By *ublinguy83 OP Man
11 weeks ago

south dublin

is honesty the best policy ?

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
11 weeks ago

There and Here

It depends.

I'm not a fan of nastiness or hurtfulness delivered in the name of honesty.

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan

"is honesty the best policy ? "
...in what context...?

No guard..I haven't had a drink tonight or..

I promise...I won't cum inside you?..

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By *arty centralMan
11 weeks ago

Tallaght

Depends on the situation really

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By *ublinguy83 OP Man
11 weeks ago

south dublin

"is honesty the best policy ? ...in what context...?

No guard..I haven't had a drink tonight or..

I promise...I won't cum inside you?.."

When it comes to what you put on your profile!?

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"is honesty the best policy ? ...in what context...?

No guard..I haven't had a drink tonight or..

I promise...I won't cum inside you?..

When it comes to what you put on your profile!?"

Presume it's because you have married on your profile

You'll be at an immediate disadvantage because people don't want to get involved with men cheating on their wife

Then there's also people that don't care and you'll have to find those people which makes it harder for you

Either way it's really up to you but in my opinion the very least anyone that's married should do is to tell someone that they're chatting with a view to a meet and let them decide if you're for them or not

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By *asuallyChilledMan
11 weeks ago

Drogheda

Yes. It is always best to be honest. You don't need to be brutal with the truth but the truth is best.

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan

"is honesty the best policy ? ...in what context...?

No guard..I haven't had a drink tonight or..

I promise...I won't cum inside you?..

When it comes to what you put on your profile!?"
...you didn't say...

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By *ozzlesMan
11 weeks ago

galway

I wouldn't lie but I might withhold some information until I saw a need to disclose it or I was asked.

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By *hewestswingMan
11 weeks ago

Ballydeknob

"is honesty the best policy ? "

Not all the time. But I stick with it.

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By *iresmillyWoman
11 weeks ago

South Dublin

When it comes to relationships, then yes, no matter how hard, uncomfortable or difficult, yes. Other stuff- generally I omit to tell people things.

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By *2357Woman
10 weeks ago

clonmel tipp

For me honest is the best policy. I don't like to be lied to. It is a big thing for me. Happened in my last relationship and I got hurt very badly because of it. So definitely honestly is the best policy

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By *ingetMan
10 weeks ago

West Cork

Just to change the subject a little, my profile is honest,and just wondering,mainly for ladies with profiles saying no married or attached men, is this not a swingers site where attached people want to meet other attached people?

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
10 weeks ago

sligo

Yes please.

If your married just be honest with the person your chatting to. Than it's their choice to continue or not.

I was lied to by a guy on ger, told me he was a widower. We had met few times, he'd been in my home, had taken a fab break for him too. It didn't work out as he said the distance made it hard.

No the fact he was married all along made it hard.

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By *indenMan
10 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Just to change the subject a little, my profile is honest,and just wondering,mainly for ladies with profiles saying no married or attached men, is this not a swingers site where attached people want to meet other attached people?"

Permission, knowledge, consent…..

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By *aybeLadyWoman
10 weeks ago

West Dublin

For me, its for moral personal reasons I state no attached men.

Some are upfront. Some tell me if I ask. Some I suspect have lied.

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By *ingetMan
10 weeks ago

West Cork

I do get the honesty bit bit but still can not understand All of the profiles that say no married or attached, are most Swingers not married or attached or is this just a simple dating site?

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
10 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"I do get the honesty bit bit but still can not understand All of the profiles that say no married or attached, are most Swingers not married or attached or is this just a simple dating site?"

They mean the cheating on their poor spouses single profiles. Its a deal breaker for us

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By *ingetMan
10 weeks ago

West Cork

Lying and cheating are completely the opposite to being honest, and being truthful on your profile saying that you are married and attached dose not mean you are cheating, it clearly says you are being honest.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
10 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

If someone is honest about being married and they are on Fab behind their partners back, then they are being dishonest to their loved one. Which says a lot about their character. So no thanks.

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By *ingetMan
10 weeks ago

West Cork

Who is saying their partner dose not know,this is not a religious cult where people are judging, it is a swingers site where people want to meet others who wish to have sex outside of their relationships, please tell me I am wrong and gladly leave the site.

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By *indenMan
10 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Who is saying their partner dose not know,this is not a religious cult where people are judging, it is a swingers site where people want to meet others who wish to have sex outside of their relationships, please tell me I am wrong and gladly leave the site."

But some will not know, and some people may have previously been cheated on and don’t want to be any part of it, some won’t mind, but I’d say most just don’t want the risk or complication it may bring if a souse isn’t aware…….

You’re trying to convince people someone who is cheating on their spouse is honest because they’re telling the person they’re cheating with that they’re married………

I’m not judging anyone, easy to their own, everyone has a story, but that story is a bit of a stretch…….

And that’s an interesting definition of a swingers site……

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By *ingetMan
10 weeks ago

West Cork

Curiosity, what is your definition of a swingers site,dose it mean you have sex out side of your loving relationship?

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By *indenMan
10 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Curiosity, what is your definition of a swingers site,dose it mean you have sex out side of your loving relationship?"

I’m single so obviously couldn’t comment with any accuracy or experience……

Like everything else it’s open to interpretation and may identify as it wishes….

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By *anandJCouple
10 weeks ago

Citywest

"Curiosity, what is your definition of a swingers site,dose it mean you have sex out side of your loving relationship?"

Ethical non monogamy- ethical- no cheating.

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By *lutterFlyWoman
10 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

"Lying and cheating are completely the opposite to being honest, and being truthful on your profile saying that you are married and attached dose not mean you are cheating, it clearly says you are being honest.

If you say on your Fab profile that you are married AND your partner does not know then you are being honest with whoever reads your profile but dishonest to your partner.

If you say on your Fab profile that you are married AND your partner does know then you are being honest with whoever reads your profile and honest to your partner.

If you say your partner knows you are meeting on a swingers site, but really doesn't, then you are not being honest to anyone including yourself.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

You are wrong. Off you pop

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By *ustMe!Couple
10 weeks ago

co.down

To me honesty and openness is a massive thing, due to bad experiences in the past all I ask for is honesty and respect x

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By *ot really famousMan
10 weeks ago

monaghan

Think mushroom...

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
10 weeks ago

City Centre

Informed decisions. Let me make them.

Let me make my own mind up about wanting to meet someone who is attached, married or has a partner or couples profile.

Withholding or being economical with the truth is shitty.

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By *alvin.Man
10 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

I can Judge.

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