FabSwingers.com forum: Age restrictions on parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

Why do some club hosts put an age restriction on single men …. 24 -45 … thats so unfair and against the essence of what fab is all about ….. older guys can fuck as good as younger ones … or am i delusional 🙈

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By *eekyNerdMan
11 weeks ago

Portarlington

How long is a piece of string?

Personal preference?

Likelyhood that people in those age ranges are actually single with other commitments?

Quantity over quality for a party?

Who knows, maybe asking the hosts dorectly themselves would clear up the whys...

As for exclusion, I wouldn't be feeling left out. It's their party, their rules.

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By *iscuits8Man
11 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Sometimes life isn't fair 🙂

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

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By *ustBoWoman
11 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I agree with a poster above where quite simply it's their party and their rules. So they get to choose who attends.

I don't see how it goes against the essence of fab at all. People will only meet those they want to meet anyhow.

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By *oo32Man
11 weeks ago

tipperary

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

Because its their party and they want people in that age bracket

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By *electableicecreamMan
11 weeks ago

The West

Is it unfair if someone has an age range of 25 to 45 on their profile?

If there's thirty or forty profiles like that and someone decides to organise an event for them is it still unfair to have the same age range?

It's just curating

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

That was helpful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

My bad … it’s totally up to the event hosts , I guess my point is no restriction on couples and single females …. Seems a bit off … but the previous chap says I’m delusional 🤷‍♂️… lol

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

I presume you're mixing up club hosts with play party hosts

Clubs generally restrict according to the sex of the person and not the age

Socials are normally open to all ages but again as others have said its down to the organiser

Let's be honest there's women that want younger men only and anyone over 45 is just a preference

Then others(including me )

Who wouldn't like to meet anyone under that age

Swings and roundabouts

Find your tribe ....thats part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"I presume you're mixing up club hosts with play party hosts

Clubs generally restrict according to the sex of the person and not the age

Socials are normally open to all ages but again as others have said its down to the organiser

Let's be honest there's women that want younger men only and anyone over 45 is just a preference

Then others(including me )

Who wouldn't like to meet anyone under that age

Swings and roundabouts

Find your tribe ....thats part of the fun "

Thanks bogman…..

yes , I was referring to play parties at organised club events …. I know I’m not missing out , just questioned the single guys only rule …. I’ll find my tribe

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
11 weeks ago

Lisburn

I get pissed off at restrictions especially ones where you have to be a certain level of prettiness, fitness level and age (young) as a female. There was a Greedy Girl event where I was simply too old and too fat (I'm still pretty though! - well beauty is in the eye of the beholder) and I feel that's very shallow.

But...

It is an event holders perogative.

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

thats me fucked

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By *ionycusMan
11 weeks ago

Babylon

If Disney were remaking it you could just say you feel 25 again, and then you would be allowed. Or that you feel thin and fit and sane thing. If you feel it and believe it,who's to say your not.

Just yesterday I was spiderman, today I think I'll be Batman.

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions.

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions."

He's also in another country

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

"
... thats lovely thank you

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions."
...

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions.

He's also in another country

But it's not the end of the world.

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By *aid backMan
11 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

A long long time ago on a different site I found it difficult to get invited to parties too. But I came up with a novel idea and I started hosting them myself I set the criteria etc. so I'd suggest if you don't like the age limits set for parties have one yourself with your own criteria

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
11 weeks ago

From a galaxy far far away

This.....

Did the same and now Host under the Moresumbisum profile and The Viper Rooms on F3tlife and Fab.

People will always moan.... so do your own...

Hosts have criteria for reasons... usually due to experiences or preferences.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
11 weeks ago

Maynooth

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

It's always party o'clock somewhere. I'm sure you would qualify for most parties agewise. Chalk it up as a loss for them and give your attention to people who want to include you.

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By *iery FemaleWoman
11 weeks ago

Drogheda

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

He is not 64yrs!!! No way.

Is he Benjamin Button??

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

He is not 64yrs!!! No way.

Is he Benjamin Button?? "
... i am 64 i wished i wasnt ive always been sporty from a young man still work out every week and kept my shape x

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

He is not 64yrs!!! No way.

Is he Benjamin Button?? ... i am 64 i wished i wasnt ive always been sporty from a young man still work out every week and kept my shape x"

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

Dave

If you ever come to Ireland and get the ride

You owe me a pint

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By *avexxMan
11 weeks ago

cheshire

"Dave

If you ever come to Ireland and get the ride

You owe me a pint "
,,, i sure will

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By *itlbeeCouple
11 weeks ago

Your profile is 3 months old and has no verifications, and your complaining about "the essence of what Fab is about".

A lot of people expect Fab to be something that suits them, and makes all their fantasies come true. It's not.

Swinging isn't a free for all, and works almost exactly like conventional dating. Personal preferences are paramount and should be respected.

As younger swingers, we absolutely looked for parties and events that cater to our age range, as did many of our swinging pals. So there is absolutely a demand for it.

We've seen a lot of men over time ignore our age preferences and assume all women are into older men when we're not.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
11 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

What do you think the essence of fab is all about?

Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself.

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By *he KakapoMan
11 weeks ago

A nice rock

On a side note essence of fab is now available in all good perfumers...

It's absolutely rank tho

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan

"thats me fucked

I'd say you're the best kept 64 yr old on the site in fairness

Is he really 64?... I need to change my age restrictions."
...please do...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Your profile is 3 months old and has no verifications, and your complaining about "the essence of what Fab is about".

A lot of people expect Fab to be something that suits them, and makes all their fantasies come true. It's not.

Swinging isn't a free for all, and works almost exactly like conventional dating. Personal preferences are paramount and should be respected.

As younger swingers, we absolutely looked for parties and events that cater to our age range, as did many of our swinging pals. So there is absolutely a demand for it.

We've seen a lot of men over time ignore our age preferences and assume all women are into older men when we're not. "

I am verified …. Can’t see your profile …. But thanks for your comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP
11 weeks ago

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

What do you think the essence of fab is all about?

Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself. "

Of course I have preferences, We all do, My point is lost with you

How can a 60+ couple getting an invite , a single female get an invite no age restriction.. A single male is pigeonholed .. that’s it really … Its more of an observation ….. I know certain club hosts are in it for the money …. So I’ve factored that in too ….. money talks

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By *ot really famousMan
11 weeks ago

monaghan

"Any feedback on this one guys …. And girls

What do you think the essence of fab is all about?

Preferences are a pretty big thing here. I'm sure you have preferences yourself.

Of course I have preferences, We all do, My point is lost with you

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
11 weeks ago

ireland

Good morning everyone

I believe this post is about a status on my personal page (XXlalaXX) looking for single horny men aged between 25-45 for flame events

. I would just like to clarify a few things before I get anymore abusive messages telling me how crap my club is and I’m ageist etc etc .

Firstly nowhere on my club page or my personal page have I ever mentioned any restrictions of any kind for anybody attending anything I’m hosting . If u took a moment to read the verifications on the page you would see how diverse the attendees are.

Secondly

My status is there for a specific reason . Let me explain the most common question I get asked (specifically by “single men”) what’s the ratio of men to women . I’m sure most event organisers would agree with me . It’s annoying . What they fail to understand there could be 1 guy and 30 women at an event and still not “score” (their terms not mine.

So my most recent event a little under half the “single male” quota were no shows having purchased tickets, no messages saying sorry I can’t make it . Nothing no shows .

From my own personal experience on fab as a single woman , I would say at least 80% of “single male profiles” are not “single male profiles” they are attached and are not going to risk attending any public social gathering at risk if being “caught” but will still purchase tickets join the chat and just no show.

Allll I am simply trying to do is filter this out and find the genuine single guys that will actually turn up. That’s all

No discrimination

Or ageist actions here

I’m simply trying to find a solution to a problem I’ve experienced.

If anybody has anything else they want to know please get in touch .

Thanks for reading

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

So you're saying there's a chance ....by the way the op left the site anyway

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By *lameclubnightsWoman
11 weeks ago

ireland

"So you're saying there's a chance ....by the way the op left the site anyway

It doesn’t matter that he left I just wanted to explain to anybody else that would presume the same thing .

You are welcome anytime u know that

I actually think I might finally get to meet u on the 30th of November .

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"So you're saying there's a chance ....by the way the op left the site anyway

It doesn’t matter that he left I just wanted to explain to anybody else that would presume the same thing .

You are welcome anytime u know that

I actually think I might finally get to meet u on the 30th of November . "

I'll save you a donut

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

ageism and ignorance,oh and of course the liars who put down their age sometimes 20 or more years younger

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