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A WOMAN'S SEX DRIVE AFTER 40...

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By *easingTim OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

Now I don't go looking for this chat but have managed to become embroiled in it a few times. A few female (non-fab) friends have said that their sex drive has totally shot up in their 40's

One theory is that it's natures way of getting a woman to "pop out one more baby" and so oestrogen and progesterone levels change

I'm sure there's other factors but would love to know what your take and experience is on this??

(...and lads, can we sit back on this one, thanks )

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Yes, it's pretty common for women s libido to surge, just before their fertility takes a nose dive.

At 45, I would say my libido is healthy enough. Fluctuates with monthly cycle though, and as the cycles go a bit haywire, that creates issues with sex, hard to predict the timing of your cycle.

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By *teve02Man
13 weeks ago

enniscorthy

The best way to increase libdo after 40s,,don't start HRT,start with homeremdies, Ashwaganda, black chocolate,,increase the intake of garlic in diet,,,oyester will be a good option

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
13 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's also very common for libido to drastically decrease around this time.

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By *easingTim OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

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By *aybeLadyWoman
13 weeks ago

West Dublin

It depends also if you are perimenopausal or not.

Or if you are in a bloody medically induced menopause like me 🤬

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
13 weeks ago

sligo


"It's also very common for libido to drastically decrease around this time. "

My libido is long gone, I'm hoping she's on a beach in bora bora.

The thought of going bear any guy makes me wretch yet I'm craving intimacy

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By *ollybirdWoman
13 weeks ago

east Cork

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By *ollybirdWoman
13 weeks ago

east Cork


"The best way to increase libdo after 40s,,don't start HRT,start with homeremdies, Ashwaganda, black chocolate,,increase the intake of garlic in diet,,,oyester will be a good option "

Ever since I started HRT, mine has shot up 😉

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

That ll be the testosterone

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I ld really hate to lose my libido, imagine not wanting a fun, giggly ride, and skin on skin touch. It's sad.

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By *owdyBoobyMan
13 weeks ago

limerick

Dont all women loose their libido.

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By *ozzlesMan
13 weeks ago

galway


"It's also very common for libido to drastically decrease around this time.

My libido is long gone, I'm hoping she's on a beach in bora bora.

The thought of going bear any guy makes me wretch yet I'm craving intimacy"

Stuck between a rock and a hard place I guess.

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By *rown PrismWoman
13 weeks ago

Dublin

My libido has definitely increased, increased, increased only "bloody days" stop me 🤣🤣🤣

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By *edlace321Woman
13 weeks ago

Cavan/Meath


"The best way to increase libdo after 40s,,don't start HRT,start with homeremdies, Ashwaganda, black chocolate,,increase the intake of garlic in diet,,,oyester will be a good option

Ever since I started HRT, mine has shot up 😉"

I agree with this. Loving life in the menopause

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By *aybeLadyWoman
13 weeks ago

West Dublin


"The best way to increase libdo after 40s,,don't start HRT,start with homeremdies, Ashwaganda, black chocolate,,increase the intake of garlic in diet,,,oyester will be a good option

Ever since I started HRT, mine has shot up 😉

I agree with this. Loving life in the menopause "

Sucks when you cant take HRT though 😒

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By *dfabMan
13 weeks ago

Dunboyne

My other half has completely lost her libido in late forties so it's not the same for ever woman unfortunately.

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By *easingTim OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Loughlinstown


"Yes, it's pretty common for women s libido to surge, just before their fertility takes a nose dive.

At 45, I would say my libido is healthy enough. Fluctuates with monthly cycle though, and as the cycles go a bit haywire, that creates issues with sex, hard to predict the timing of your cycle. "

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Was aware of the first point, the rest is a new learning. Thanks

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By *iresmillyWoman
13 weeks ago

South Dublin


"

Yes, it's pretty common for women s libido to surge, just before their fertility takes a nose dive.

At 45, I would say my libido is healthy enough. Fluctuates with monthly cycle though, and as the cycles go a bit haywire, that creates issues with sex, hard to predict the timing of your cycle.

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Was aware of the first point, the rest is a new learning. Thanks "

I think you need to continue taking advantage of my surging libido before I reach the mid 40s going by these comments Tim!!

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By *ancy38Woman
13 weeks ago

galway

Mines has risen ten fold since I turned 40. I'm just a different person sexually now than to what I was when I was younger.

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By *londegem75Woman
13 weeks ago

city

I'm 50 in March. And so far iv had no issues no symptoms of menopause . So I hope she forgot to tell me and passed to the next lady .

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By *carlettlady69Woman
13 weeks ago

city

Never mind at 40 mine shot up after reaching 60

Sex definitely better now than ever before

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By *aughty MilfCouple
13 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

Mines definitely shot up 😂

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By *ushin realityCouple
13 weeks ago

swords

So you have experienced menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Oh absolutely. It’s like a switch flipped when I turned 40! I can’t seem to get enough and always craving more and more sex. And I’m 47. I’m really enjoying it though 😈

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By *urker6969Man
13 weeks ago

Dublin

This thread gives me hope for the future. My wife’s libido went through a steady decline through her thirties and is now completely out of commission. I’m hoping there’s a revival in her 40s - that there’s something for us to look forward to on that front, because the alternative is quite grim.

Sincere question for any of the women on here: when you say your libido increased around 40, what was it like beforehand? Did you find yourself losing interest in the years before things surged? Or was it more like it was always healthy and then became extra strong in your 40s?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Dipped then revived. So yes, it can come roaring back.

Lots of factors : hormones, young kids, work stress, health in general. Just lightening the fuck up. I think it ebbs and flows for lots of people.

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By *mazingTimesMan
13 weeks ago

Dublin

Any 40+ ladies fancy a chat!!

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By *igtasty121!Man
13 weeks ago

funtown


"Oh absolutely. It’s like a switch flipped when I turned 40! I can’t seem to get enough and always craving more and more sex. And I’m 47. I’m really enjoying it though 😈"

That’s amazing.. and definitely hot that the need has cranked up a level..

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By *ub23Man
13 weeks ago

wandering

Can I ask how it has risen ? Like are you easier turned on ?

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"This thread gives me hope for the future. My wife’s libido went through a steady decline through her thirties and is now completely out of commission. I’m hoping there’s a revival in her 40s - that there’s something for us to look forward to on that front, because the alternative is quite grim.

Sincere question for any of the women on here: when you say your libido increased around 40, what was it like beforehand? Did you find yourself losing interest in the years before things surged? Or was it more like it was always healthy and then became extra strong in your 40s?"

I always had a healthy libido. Now I’m a borderline nympho - it’s a struggle to meet all my needs

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Can I ask how it has risen ? Like are you easier turned on ?"

I’m always turned on. To the point that I’d have sex everyday and masturbate of available. It’s not all fun though. It’s had its ups and downs.

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By *ub23Man
13 weeks ago

wandering

What’s the downside do you mind me asking ?

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By *rystalsswingCouple
13 weeks ago

Galway / Midlands / West

No complaints here 😎😎

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"What’s the downside do you mind me asking ?"

Sex not being readily available 😂

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By *igtasty121!Man
12 weeks ago

funtown


"What’s the downside do you mind me asking ?

Sex not being readily available 😂"

I think your not on your own there…

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