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By *eckme70 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Strabane

Why do fella's feel the need to just Randomly send Girls Disgusting messages, Girl's they've never even spoken to!! Grow the Fuck up!! Do they not think they have feelings 🙄🤬 I'm no prude but Definitely not call for it!!!!!!

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin


"Why do fella's feel the need to just Randomly send Girls Disgusting messages, Girl's they've never even spoken to!! Grow the Fuck up!! Do they not think they have feelings 🙄🤬 I'm no prude but Definitely not call for it!!!!!!"

Because they can. It won’t change.

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By *eckme70 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Strabane


"Why do fella's feel the need to just Randomly send Girls Disgusting messages, Girl's they've never even spoken to!! Grow the Fuck up!! Do they not think they have feelings 🙄🤬 I'm no prude but Definitely not call for it!!!!!!

Because they can. It won’t change. "

True 🙄

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By *oredmarried2022Man
13 weeks ago

wicklow

Been on here a few years and no matter how many ladies I contact, fuck all replies too lol, never have I been rude or disrespectful, what’s the point, ignorance is just not acceptable

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By *eckme70 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Strabane


"Been on here a few years and no matter how many ladies I contact, fuck all replies too lol, never have I been rude or disrespectful, what’s the point, ignorance is just not acceptable "

100% mate

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin


"Been on here a few years and no matter how many ladies I contact, fuck all replies too lol, never have I been rude or disrespectful, what’s the point, ignorance is just not acceptable "

Not responding is not ignorance. I know it’s annoying.

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By *oredmarried2022Man
13 weeks ago

wicklow


"Been on here a few years and no matter how many ladies I contact, fuck all replies too lol, never have I been rude or disrespectful, what’s the point, ignorance is just not acceptable

Not responding is not ignorance. I know it’s annoying. "

To be fair, that’s not what I meant! I meant I would never be rude or disrespectful to someone who didn’t reply, not that they were ignorant for not doing so. If someone doesn’t reply, I’ve absolutely no problem with that.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
13 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Why do fella's feel the need to just Randomly send Girls Disgusting messages, Girl's they've never even spoken to!! Grow the Fuck up!! Do they not think they have feelings 🙄🤬 I'm no prude but Definitely not call for it!!!!!!"

I guess it's either out of frustration from not getting what they want, or out of misunderstanding what women are looking for.

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By *aybeLadyWoman
13 weeks ago

West Dublin

Or thinking that because its a sex site, normal morals, respect and communication do not apply as we are all just gaggin' for the ride.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😅😅

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By *oredmarried2022Man
13 weeks ago

wicklow


"Or thinking that because its a sex site, normal morals, respect and communication do not apply as we are all just gaggin' for the ride.🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️😅😅"

And they get to hide behind a keyboard!!

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
13 weeks ago

The West

At least it's s good way to get an insight into a person's mentality. They are telling you how they really think! Listen the first time!

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

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It is really sad that those type of messages make it tough for the decent guys on here. I would advise to try not take it personally if you don’t get a response to a message, it’s mostly a case of girls getting fed up with the nasty messages that they quite often stop opening any messages.

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By *antasyFrolicksWoman
13 weeks ago

Behind The Bales

I normally ignore messages like these and sadly they land into my inbox very often, I normally try not to let it get to me , but stupidly I have found myself getting upset or annoyed from reading silly, inappropriate or hurtful messages. Very simple , read and think before you send !

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By *aughty MilfCouple
13 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"Why do fella's feel the need to just Randomly send Girls Disgusting messages, Girl's they've never even spoken to!! Grow the Fuck up!! Do they not think they have feelings 🙄🤬 I'm no prude but Definitely not call for it!!!!!!"
Hence why they don't get many meets also

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By *otownkid1967Man
12 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I have seen some of the messages that men send to women on here....they are either mentally challenged or high as a kite.

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By *ot really famousMan
12 weeks ago

monaghan

I've met a good few people on here ,as a single guy, and as part of a couple. Never once has any woman/couple allowed me access to their account to read private messages. Is this a new phenomenon?

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By *he KakapoMan
12 weeks ago

A nice rock


"It is really sad that those type of messages make it tough for the decent guys on here. "

It honestly doesn't. If anything it makes it easier.

The bar of what constitutes a normal decent conversation on fab is seriously lowered. And sending a message that's even half coherent is usually recieved well.

So thank you angry, frustrated random single men.

It's also not gender exclusive.

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By *asual777Man
12 weeks ago

i travel all over

I think it’s hard to argue that a fab pm is sacrosanct

If it’s dumb, it might get discussed with friends absolutely

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By *he KakapoMan
12 weeks ago

A nice rock


"I think it’s hard to argue that a fab pm is sacrosanct

If it’s dumb, it might get discussed with friends absolutely "

I think this goes for any type of private message on any platform.

Never assume what you say in private will stay that way.

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By *ot really famousMan
12 weeks ago

monaghan


"I think it’s hard to argue that a fab pm is sacrosanct

If it’s dumb, it might get discussed with friends absolutely

I think this goes for any type of private message on any platform.

Never assume what you say in private will stay that way."

...I suppose you're right, it's extremely bad form to air something in public, that you've been told in private .

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By *he KakapoMan
12 weeks ago

A nice rock


"I think it’s hard to argue that a fab pm is sacrosanct

If it’s dumb, it might get discussed with friends absolutely

I think this goes for any type of private message on any platform.

Never assume what you say in private will stay that way....I suppose you're right, it's extremely bad form to air something in public, that you've been told in private ."

Meh depends on the context.

But even when it's something I'd perceive as bad form I've seen it happen. So I only say things in private I'd happily stand by in public

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By *ot really famousMan
12 weeks ago

monaghan


"I think it’s hard to argue that a fab pm is sacrosanct

If it’s dumb, it might get discussed with friends absolutely

I think this goes for any type of private message on any platform.

Never assume what you say in private will stay that way....I suppose you're right, it's extremely bad form to air something in public, that you've been told in private .

Meh depends on the context.

But even when it's something I'd perceive as bad form I've seen it happen. So I only say things in private I'd happily stand by in public "

...you don't have to look very far to see it happening tbh

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