FabSwingers.com forum: Dining in the Dark

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You may have heard of Dining in the Dark. A concept started around food. The idea was to enhance the culinary experience by removing the distraction of the visual.

What if you were invited to a Playing in the Dark event, would you go?

A room. Wall to wall cushioned out room. Soft, sensual surrounds. 12 people of mixed gender. All naked. No light whatsoever. Just hands, mouths, and sexual organs.

Would you throw hesitation to wind? Would you do something you'd never thought of doing before. Would you care whose mouth was on your privates?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

No. I don't think not knowing who it was would be a turnon for me. I like the chase and the flirt and finding someone I have a connection with.

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By *ustBoWoman
4 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope the idea would not appeal to me at all.

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By *s LollyWoman
4 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Nope not a hope, wouldn't appeal to me in the slightest im all for vibe and attraction.....

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By *og-ManMan
4 weeks ago

somewhere

Would like to do the dining in the dark thing

If a group of friends got together that normally play together I could see the attraction even for a laugh of play in the dark

I did it once with a couple at a house party but we had met at the party a few hours previously and spoken...so not complete strangers

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

I was going to say not a chance because I'm straight and therefore want to know exactly who's touching me.

Thinking about it though I'd still say not a chance even if I was the only man in a room full of women because there are lots of woman I wouldn't want touching me either.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
4 weeks ago

Naas

Be a good laugh to throw a sheep in for the craic !!!

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By *hellybellsWoman
4 weeks ago

tullamore

Not a chance

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 weeks ago

The West

Nope.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
4 weeks ago

Naas

But seriously , with strangers no way, multiple previous buddies I might take a bit on convincing but I am known for my rubber arm.@!!

But one on one would be 100 percent as long as the other person knew LOL, nothing like getting rid of one of your senses to highten the rest !!!

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By *otownkid1967Man
4 weeks ago

Portlaoise

There are clubs in UK with dark rooms and they seem very popular but in all honesty, wouldn't be my sort of thing tbh

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
4 weeks ago

ireland

Nooooo wayyyy!

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By *iCuri0Man
4 weeks ago

Shannon

Big no for me. Something might happen that I'm not comfortable with

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
4 weeks ago

South Down

"Be a good laugh to throw a sheep in for the craic !!!"

🤣🤣🤣

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
4 weeks ago

South Down

I'd rather gouge my eyes out with a rusty spoon. The same applies for the food thing as well - the thought of eating something I can't see is proper panic inducing for me

The only way I could maybe get on board is if I knew and actually fancied those involved but then again, sight and sound are huge factors in my arousal so 🤷‍♀️

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By *eckme70Man
4 weeks ago

Strabane

Not a chance!! It would be total madness, it like posts where you see No Talking, Kissing just cum n go! I definitely wouldn't.

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By *itlbeeCouple
4 weeks ago

Nope. Just feels so unsafe.

Went in a darkish room in a club in Spain with my partner once. Trying to be open minded, but as soon as a felt a strange hand plunge into my underwear trying to finger me I had to get out of there. Left me far more rattled than I had expected to be...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"There are clubs in UK with dark rooms and they seem very popular but in all honesty, wouldn't be my sort of thing tbh"

We've been in a club where there was one, but didn't go in. It seems like a bit of a consent nightmare. Does going in mean you you consent to be touched by anyone in any way they like?

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
4 weeks ago

Funville

" Would you care whose mouth was on your privates?"

Yes, for sure I care 👀

Saving Privates Mine 🪖

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

Like the food challenges in I'm a celebrity get me outta here. I ain't putting stuff in my mouth that l don't know what it is.

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By *eckme70Man
4 weeks ago

Strabane

"Like the food challenges in I'm a celebrity get me outta here. I ain't putting stuff in my mouth that l don't know what it is.

Nor me either lol.

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
4 weeks ago

Funville

"Like the food challenges in I'm a celebrity get me outta here. I ain't putting stuff in my mouth that l don't know what it is.

Listen there is some ⭐️'s to be won. You might just have to take one (or many) for the team 😁

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By *astelloWoman
4 weeks ago

Far far away

I'd prefer to go hungry... or unsatisfied.

As for team work... could be a dream or a nightmare.

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
4 weeks ago

Funville

"I'd prefer to go hungry... or unsatisfied.

As for team work... could be a dream or a nightmare. "

Just say the words, "I'm a swinger,get me out of here" and a team of Fabsters will be on hand to pull you out 😊

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By *ubadubdubWoman
4 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Nope, I just imagine too many accidental headbutts or getting elbowed

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
4 weeks ago

borderarea

So my initial reaction would absolutely be the consent issues - mostly centered around condoms - but take it to a fantasy level and yes - I can imagine how absolutely mind blowing tings could get. I've always wanted a 4/6 hand massage and quite like blindfolds. The right circumstances would be difficult to find BUT given the right circumstances i absolutely could see the appeal of this.

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By *ionycusMan
4 weeks ago

Babylon

"I'd prefer to go hungry... or unsatisfied.

As for team work... could be a dream or a nightmare.

Just say the words, "I'm a swinger,get me out of here" and a team of Fabsters will be on hand to pull you out 😊"

😂

I'd phone a friend too .

As for the joining the room not for me , it makes me think about the analogy of falling into a barrel of tits and sucking your thumb, although it could end up worse.

I imagine there are lots of people that it would appeal to as many of them message me asking to do crazy stuff with my butthole 😂😂😂.

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By *eckme70Man
4 weeks ago

Strabane

"Nope, I just imagine too many accidental headbutts or getting elbowed

Or fall into the wrong hole 🤷‍♂️🙈

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By *akedandhappyCouple
4 weeks ago

Cork

We went into a dark room in a club in PDI, the club was quiet at the time and we doubted if there was anyone in the room but obviously couldn’t be certain.

When we went in we both felt very uneasy and left quite quickly. There was something very unsettling about it. Suppose it was the complete lack of control on both our parts. Seeing each other enjoying ourselves is aloso big part of the experience for us. We chalked that one down in the “try anything once but never again” box.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
4 weeks ago

Naas

Apologies, I was assuming, as a group the participants were all in before the lights were turned off !!!!

I can't even walk up me stairs with the lights off !!!!

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By *exyScientistsCouple
4 weeks ago

Castlebar

"No. I don't think not knowing who it was would be a turnon for me. I like the chase and the flirt and finding someone I have a connection with. "

This every time

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
4 weeks ago

sligo

God no,

Attended one party and while there was 4 of us on the bed , a couple joined us and all I thought was if the guy touches me I will be outta there.

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By *exesrangerMan
4 weeks ago

Jameson main bar

No not for me either. I like to see and appreciate who I'm touching and who's touching me.

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By *aseylee324Couple
4 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

The idea gives me the creeps tbh

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By *clcCouple
4 weeks ago

Athlone/Dublin

There used to be a club in Limerick with a dark room , but can’t remember ever seeing any one go in to the room

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By *dfabMan
4 weeks ago

Dunboyne

What if it was people you met during the night and all had clear STI certs to be there

All agreed upon condom usage for any PIV/A fun but everything else was free roaming?

Limit of 10 people all met and known to each other for over an hour in advance.

Then I'd be up for it

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By *dfabMan
4 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"What if it was people you met during the night and all had clear STI certs to be there

All agreed upon condom usage for any PIV/A fun but everything else was free roaming?

Limit of 10 people all met and known to each other for over an hour in advance.

Then I'd be up for it

even. Not

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By *1CorkCouple
4 weeks ago

Cork

"Would like to do the dining in the dark thing

If a group of friends got together that normally play together I could see the attraction even for a laugh of play in the dark

I did it once with a couple at a house party but we had met at the party a few hours previously and spoken...so not complete strangers "

We’d like to try it with a group we’re already familiar with. We’ve run the gauntlet in dark rooms in PDI and Fata, but the unknown of having any sexual attraction to the owners of those hands touching us was too much.

If we knew participants, and knew there was a gender balance, it would certainly be something to give a go.

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By *ambsfunMan
4 weeks ago

visiting

"So my initial reaction would absolutely be the consent issues - mostly centered around condoms - but take it to a fantasy level and yes - I can imagine how absolutely mind blowing tings could get. I've always wanted a 4/6 hand massage and quite like blindfolds. The right circumstances would be difficult to find BUT given the right circumstances i absolutely could see the appeal of this. "

Am thinking this conceptually could be very exciting but very difficult to make sure everyone is ok with it all

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By *asty and temptingMan
4 weeks ago

Everywhere and anywhere

This reminds me of the Animaniacs show section. Good idea/Bad idea.

Sorry but meeting in the dark is given a bad idea from me.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I think this kinda plays into the misunderstanding that people who swing are happy to have sex with anyone. It's very rarely the case. Just because you are in a room with another swinger doesn't mean that you want to have sex with them.

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By * Bit of DivilmentCouple
3 weeks ago

Dublin

We were in a club at the weekend. We had been before but we spotted a room we hadn't noticed previously. Walked in and it was a dark room. It was pitch dark, we could only just about make the outline of someone in the corner. It felt so creepy. We both went nope and we just walked straight back out. The thoughts of a random shape in the dark touching either of us was so off-putting.

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