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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" ...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..? | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..?" Because people write about them on the forums Someone wrote that the male equivalent is called a dragon instead of a unicorn Haven't a clue if it's the correct term ...but it sounds cool  | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..?" Just from previous experiences. Some people will be all for it in the texting/organising then just go radio silence on the day. | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..? Because people write about them on the forums Someone wrote that the male equivalent is called a dragon instead of a unicorn Haven't a clue if it's the correct term ...but it sounds cool "...so anecdotal evidence only?....must be true then | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..? Just from previous experiences. Some people will be all for it in the texting/organising then just go radio silence on the day." ....were you part of a couple? | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..? Because people write about them on the forums Someone wrote that the male equivalent is called a dragon instead of a unicorn Haven't a clue if it's the correct term ...but it sounds cool ...so anecdotal evidence only?....must be true then "Yeah whatever you say ...enjoy your day | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?...how do you know there's lots of no show/ letdowns..? Because people write about them on the forums Someone wrote that the male equivalent is called a dragon instead of a unicorn Haven't a clue if it's the correct term ...but it sounds cool ...so anecdotal evidence only?....must be true then
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . " Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. " ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? | |||
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"I'm looking for the elusive shy Unihorn "🤣🤣👌😈 Brilliant 👏 | |||
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" I know dragons/unicorns who have been let down as much as I know couples who have. There's just a general issue with communication and respect on fab regarding people's personal time. I have booked babysitters, swapped access days etc for example only to be ghosted or let down at the 11th hour. This isn't unique to group activities- it's a horrible situation that exists across the board. " This is very similar to our experience. We've never sought a woman to join us and we've had a lot of meets with single men. But while it seems to be much easier to find men for threesomes/hotwife meets, we've had plenty of ghosts and late cancellations too and we've also been told by a fair few single guys how difficult it has been for them finding sound and reliable couples. After years, we finally started attending socials and events and it's so much better and more efficient to find lovely and respectful people of all genders and sexual interests 🥰😁 Good luck OP! 🙌 | |||
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"We* never had much trouble finding single guys to join us. Threesomes with bi guys was primarily our dynamic and we didn't ask for a social meet first. Obviously finding someone you fancy, whose vibe is right, and who's available when you are can be tricky, but that's the case across all demographics. We were pretty lucky to meet some fantastic guys, and we only had a couple of no shows over the space of 5 years. I think it's a bit like customer service - when it's good everyone just goes about their day but when it's not so great you're more likely to hear about it. *Yes, I was here as a couple and no, I can't provide scientific data, only empirical evidence " ...I concur...also here as part of two different couples...never had any problems sourcing any sexual dynamic really...mabye a little difficult getting times and dates to coincide, a little bit more difficult now....hahaha | |||
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"A question for the couples on here. We all know it can be tricky to find the female unicorn, but we live in hope! My question is, is there any scope for the male unicorn? I know most lads say they're all for it but there is a lot of no shows/let downs. I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" It just comes down to opportunity, circumstance and attraction. There's a lot you can do to improve the first two by being visible in it right place at the right time. On fab you can be visible with your profile, in the forum, on cams or at one of the many events. There's plenty of couples on fab looking for guys. The more that can see of you the better your chances are. | |||
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"Dragon was definitely made up by fellas. Why can't they be unicorns I mean the horn is already there!" Hornicorns maybe | |||
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"They're not unicorns because they're not hard to find. There are potential issues people run into. Flakiness of single men is mentioned - Plenty of people come here just as porn or entertainment, so they'll get excited to make plans but get cold feet on the follow through. Many men here are attached and here dishonestly so likely to drop out to avoid getting caught. Then, swinging for couples has this entirely different dynamic, but for single men it's not much different to a hookup. If you've never been in a swinging relationship, you might not be very good at navigating that. Some guys are weird about the other man on the room, and even try to freeze him out or push a cuck dynamic where it's not wanted. It's why most couples will say that the best "special guest star" in the bedroom is someone who's already part of a swinging couple. " The flakiness, wrong attitude and deceptive relationship statuses makes the true "special guest stars" who are genuinely singles - the male unicorns as it's much harder to find that one special fit than it is to find a bisexual woman, who will fit into FMF scenario. Only speaking from personal experience of course 😊 | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. " 100% our experience as well. | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then?" More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. " ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... " I didn't think a male Unicorn had to be Bi. But it was said above and that's fair enough. Different people have different definitions. I'd always considered it a 'third'. A guy who comes in to join a couple but not as a bull. No cucking. I've heard from a guy recently divorced and sworn off relationships that it's his preferred dynamic. He gets the best of all worlds. Welcomed in to another relationship with none of the hassle. A good male Unicorn for us is someone who us single, has a laugh with us, doesn't take himself or us too seriously, is open to kink things like rope tying or wax play, good with giving oral and really enjoys it, doesn't feel intimidated by another dick in the room, and prepared to keep going if he cums early. We also like a guy who has a flexible schedule because we don't and I know that's not fair but it's the way it is. Being Bi is a big bonus. Three way oral and play! And if he likes clean up duties even better. What doesn't matter (to us): Being hung. Don't care. Having ED...that's fine we like a lot of oral, and performance anxiety and stress can get to the best of us Age, within reason Size or weight, Vics loves a Dad Bod. | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... " In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". " ...read the last paragraph... | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... I didn't think a male Unicorn had to be Bi. But it was said above and that's fair enough. Different people have different definitions. I'd always considered it a 'third'. A guy who comes in to join a couple but not as a bull. No cucking. I've heard from a guy recently divorced and sworn off relationships that it's his preferred dynamic. He gets the best of all worlds. Welcomed in to another relationship with none of the hassle. A good male Unicorn for us is someone who us single, has a laugh with us, doesn't take himself or us too seriously, is open to kink things like rope tying or wax play, good with giving oral and really enjoys it, doesn't feel intimidated by another dick in the room, and prepared to keep going if he cums early. We also like a guy who has a flexible schedule because we don't and I know that's not fair but it's the way it is. Being Bi is a big bonus. Three way oral and play! And if he likes clean up duties even better. What doesn't matter (to us): Being hung. Don't care. Having ED...that's fine we like a lot of oral, and performance anxiety and stress can get to the best of us Age, within reason Size or weight, Vics loves a Dad Bod. " ....the connotations of arranging letters are enormous...FFM MFM MMF..etc....enough to make your eyes water...hahaha | |||
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" In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". ...read the last paragraph..." And the answer is yes | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". ...read the last paragraph..." I read the whole post, which finished with this, "I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". ...read the last paragraph... I read the whole post, which finished with this, "I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" " ...you're missing the bit where he's man bashing other guys to big himself up to womenon here...but in fairness to him....it worked with you | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". ...read the last paragraph... I read the whole post, which finished with this, "I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" ...you're missing the bit where he's man bashing other guys to big himself up to womenon here...but in fairness to him....it worked with you " 🤣🤣🤣 It's easy to see you don't know me at all, but we'll leave it - and your big spoon - there | |||
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"A Dragon has to be Bi as he plays and pleasures both partners. A threesome with a Bi-Couple and a Dragon is VERY different to a threesome with three straight people. If you know you know. All the issues people described above seem to be exclusively with single straight guys. These are not Dragons. A willingness to fuck someone's wife doesn't make you a Dragon." ...who makes up your rules..?.where can I obtain a copy of the Dragon handbook? | |||
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"Presumably the male unicorn plays with both halves of the couple ? As opposed to a bull for example . Not necessarily. A Bi male Unicorn may play with both halves though. It's just a 3some. Not a cuck thing with a bull. Yes I can say in our experience very difficult to find a male Unicorns/Dragon. In our case a Bi one which adds to the difficulty. It's a small pool and then you have to find mutual attraction. Lots of married ones (no go for us) and then the ones happy to go to socials first. Most seem to want to go straight to it. ...so not really a case of no shows/letdowns then? More a case of all chat no follow through. Or an expectation to jump straight into bed with us. Or they are actually married when they say they aren't. ...ok...as another couple said, it's a different dynamic than meeting up with another couple,some exceed expectations, others don't live up to them. I just find it strange that a single guy would start a thread about single guys not showing up...mabye it's just me... In fairness to the OP I think his post was more "are there couples who seek single guys?". ...read the last paragraph... I read the whole post, which finished with this, "I suppose I'm asking, do may couples seek the extra male to join them?" ...you're missing the bit where he's man bashing other guys to big himself up to womenon here...but in fairness to him....it worked with you 🤣🤣🤣 It's easy to see you don't know me at all, but we'll leave it - and your big spoon - there " .."I know most lads are all for it, but there are a lot of no shows/let downs"...have a lovely evening | |||
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"A Dragon has to be Bi as he plays and pleasures both partners. A threesome with a Bi-Couple and a Dragon is VERY different to a threesome with three straight people. If you know you know. All the issues people described above seem to be exclusively with single straight guys. These are not Dragons. A willingness to fuck someone's wife doesn't make you a Dragon....who makes up your rules..?.where can I obtain a copy of the Dragon handbook?" There's actually a huge amount written about it - the term comes from the poly community and has moved into the swinging community. | |||
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"A Dragon has to be Bi as he plays and pleasures both partners. A threesome with a Bi-Couple and a Dragon is VERY different to a threesome with three straight people. If you know you know. All the issues people described above seem to be exclusively with single straight guys. These are not Dragons. A willingness to fuck someone's wife doesn't make you a Dragon....who makes up your rules..?.where can I obtain a copy of the Dragon handbook? There's actually a huge amount written about it - the term comes from the poly community and has moved into the swinging community. " ...I was being facetious...I have zero interest in labels | |||
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"A Dragon has to be Bi as he plays and pleasures both partners. A threesome with a Bi-Couple and a Dragon is VERY different to a threesome with three straight people. If you know you know. All the issues people described above seem to be exclusively with single straight guys. These are not Dragons. A willingness to fuck someone's wife doesn't make you a Dragon....who makes up your rules..?.where can I obtain a copy of the Dragon handbook? There's actually a huge amount written about it - the term comes from the poly community and has moved into the swinging community. ...I was being facetious...I have zero interest in labels " So why get involved with a post that is about labels then 🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄 | |||
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"A Dragon has to be Bi as he plays and pleasures both partners. A threesome with a Bi-Couple and a Dragon is VERY different to a threesome with three straight people. If you know you know. All the issues people described above seem to be exclusively with single straight guys. These are not Dragons. A willingness to fuck someone's wife doesn't make you a Dragon....who makes up your rules..?.where can I obtain a copy of the Dragon handbook? There's actually a huge amount written about it - the term comes from the poly community and has moved into the swinging community. ...I was being facetious...I have zero interest in labels So why get involved with a post that is about labels then 🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄" ...is that what this post is about...? | |||
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