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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

Oh, the classic "I will fill in later" on a profile. Really? If you had the energy to open Fab, upload a few photos, scroll through a bunch of profiles, surely you could have spared thirty seconds to say something about yourself. I mean, imagine walking up to someone at a party and saying, "Hi, Iā€™m ... well, Iā€™ll tell you later." Itā€™s almost like youā€™re creating an aura of mystery, except...no one is intrigued.

Whatā€™s worse, itā€™s everywhere. Itā€™s not unique or endearing, it just reads like, "I canā€™t be bothered." This could be your chance to stand out, to say something, to show youā€™ve put even a shred of thought into who you are or why anyone should care to message you.

Plus, letā€™s be real, the majority of people who say theyā€™ll "fill it in later" never come back to do it. So every time I see that blank space, all I can think is, "Oh, great, hereā€™s another one who canā€™t commit to even a couple of sentences!"

If you're going to be here, take five minutes, give us something. Because if "I'll fill in later" is the best you can do, this site is not for you.

Now, i feel much better šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

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By *ofusplusCouple
13 weeks ago

Limerick

I always assume they have nothing to say about themselves because there isn't much going on between the ears.

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

TLDR

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By *iscuits8Man
13 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Will read this thread later

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By *he KakapoMan
13 weeks ago

A nice rock

I'm just not sure why some random uncompleted profiles on a website would bother anyone enough to even post about it

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By *eckme70Man
13 weeks ago

Strabane

I think most of them are fake accounts!!

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

Because sometimes I skip breakfast and I get confused at lunch time because I don't know if I should tell my co workers that I am going for lunch of breakfast.

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By *indenMan
13 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Because sometimes I skip breakfast and I get confused at lunch time because I don't know if I should tell my co workers that I am going for lunch of breakfast. "

Brunch, problem solvedā€¦.šŸ‘

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

I know what you mean but I feel like i'm not posh enough to use that word

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By *he KakapoMan
13 weeks ago

A nice rock

Go woth supper and confuse the fuck out of them

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By *exesrangerMan
13 weeks ago

city

Most of these are female too from my experience.... actually hold on, that may not be entirely accurate since I don't check out guys profiles terribly often. No offence lads but good job

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

Maybe they have chronic procrasturbation?

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare


"Most of these are female too from my experience.... actually hold on, that may not be entirely accurate since I don't check out guys profiles terribly often. No offence lads but good job "

Nope..50/50 I reckon

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
13 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Yep quite a few messages from these kind of profiles. I've said 'your bio is a bit light' or 'message us when you've filled out your bio' OR I just can't be arsed (as there's alot) and ignore, delete or even block. Along with the blank profile pic ones. I mean would it kill them to put in a nice landscape or a picture if a sunset

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By *exesrangerMan
13 weeks ago

city


"Most of these are female too from my experience.... actually hold on, that may not be entirely accurate since I don't check out guys profiles terribly often. No offence lads but good job

Nope..50/50 I reckon "

I stand corrected

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"Oh, the classic "I will fill in later" on a profile. Really? If you had the energy to open Fab, upload a few photos, scroll through a bunch of profiles, surely you could have spared thirty seconds to say something about yourself. I mean, imagine walking up to someone at a party and saying, "Hi, Iā€™m ... well, Iā€™ll tell you later." Itā€™s almost like youā€™re creating an aura of mystery, except...no one is intrigued.

Whatā€™s worse, itā€™s everywhere. Itā€™s not unique or endearing, it just reads like, "I canā€™t be bothered." This could be your chance to stand out, to say something, to show youā€™ve put even a shred of thought into who you are or why anyone should care to message you.

Plus, letā€™s be real, the majority of people who say theyā€™ll "fill it in later" never come back to do it. So every time I see that blank space, all I can think is, "Oh, great, hereā€™s another one who canā€™t commit to even a couple of sentences!"

If you're going to be here, take five minutes, give us something. Because if "I'll fill in later" is the best you can do, this site is not for you.

Now, i feel much better šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

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...why do you let other people's profiles bother you...?

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

You can't really call them profiles now and why does anything bother anyone?

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"You can't really call them profiles now and why does anything bother anyone? "
....so what do you call them....?

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By *shornMan
13 weeks ago

s

Good you feel much better after your rant OP, Iā€™ll sleep better knowing that.

Why anyone feels the need to comment on someone elseā€™s profile is beyond me ! Itā€™s a hook up site not a flipping life story site !

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By *ilderMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

I'd prefer if the profile just said 'ah shure, you know yourself'...

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo

Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

"

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to.

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to."

Pure distraction to be honest.I appreciate you letting me know. šŸ˜

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Sometimes time I think why I bothered to fill in , when only one of the couple hundred reads it. And if even read it not respected my boundaries, then they are not happy because I donā€™t want to meet

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
13 weeks ago

Funville

I'd say the percentage of people who just read a profile only and then decide to contact someone based on what they read must be low, say less than 10%? šŸ¤”

This is a very visual based site I would have thought šŸ¤”

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"I'd say the percentage of people who just read a profile only and then decide to contact someone based on what they read must be low, say less than 10%? šŸ¤”

This is a very visual based site I would have thought šŸ¤”"

....I don't agree...I think people read profiles...it saves time...for all concerned...

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to.

Pure distraction to be honest.I appreciate you letting me know. šŸ˜

"

...meanwhile you're telling everyone how to run their profile...?...hilarious

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to.

Pure distraction to be honest.I appreciate you letting me know. šŸ˜

...meanwhile you're telling everyone how to run their profile...?...hilarious "

Who is telling everyone how to run their profile?

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By *ofusplusCouple
13 weeks ago

Limerick


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to.

Pure distraction to be honest.I appreciate you letting me know. šŸ˜

...meanwhile you're telling everyone how to run their profile...?...hilarious

Who is telling everyone how to run their profile? "

The fella is obviously trolling. Just ignore him, he might just piss off. It's a good thread

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

There and Here

It's an easy filter for me OP.

If they can't be bothered, neither can I

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By *hewestswingMan
13 weeks ago

Ballydeknob


"Oh, the classic "I will fill in later" on a profile. Really? If you had the energy to open Fab, upload a few photos, scroll through a bunch of profiles, surely you could have spared thirty seconds to say something about yourself. I mean, imagine walking up to someone at a party and saying, "Hi, Iā€™m ... well, Iā€™ll tell you later." Itā€™s almost like youā€™re creating an aura of mystery, except...no one is intrigued.

Whatā€™s worse, itā€™s everywhere. Itā€™s not unique or endearing, it just reads like, "I canā€™t be bothered." This could be your chance to stand out, to say something, to show youā€™ve put even a shred of thought into who you are or why anyone should care to message you.

Plus, letā€™s be real, the majority of people who say theyā€™ll "fill it in later" never come back to do it. So every time I see that blank space, all I can think is, "Oh, great, hereā€™s another one who canā€™t commit to even a couple of sentences!"

If you're going to be here, take five minutes, give us something. Because if "I'll fill in later" is the best you can do, this site is not for you.

Now, i feel much better šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

"

I've got a brilliant answer to this topic, I'll fill it in later

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"Iā€™d call them placeholders, not profiles. If thereā€™s no info, itā€™s just an empty shell, not something anyone can actually connect with.

If you use the reply and quote option people will have a better idea who you are speaking to.

Pure distraction to be honest.I appreciate you letting me know. šŸ˜

...meanwhile you're telling everyone how to run their profile...?...hilarious

Who is telling everyone how to run their profile?

The fella is obviously trolling. Just ignore him, he might just piss off. It's a good thread "

...what's good about it..?.the op is whinging about what other people put on their profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I would just scroll on to the next profile, it's only FS after all...par for the course!

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Dundalk


"Good you feel much better after your rant OP, Iā€™ll sleep better knowing that.

Why anyone feels the need to comment on someone elseā€™s profile is beyond me ! Itā€™s a hook up site not a flipping life story site ! "

Er its a swinger site, not a hook up site, there is a big difference. The social side is just as important as the sex.

There is still quite a bit of ignorance about the swinging lifestyle. If its just sex people want there are apps for that.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Dundalk


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place."

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree."

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

"

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before.

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
13 weeks ago

Dundalk


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before. "

Yet you have the same thing written on your profile......

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before. "

Right, I clearly hit a nerve so I'm going to leave it like that as I would hate to upset you even more. (šŸ¤ž Hopefully, with this message i'll even score more brownie points with the ladies and possibly some men as well)

Take note and learn as I won't be around forever.šŸ’

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By *ot really famousMan
13 weeks ago

monaghan


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before.

Right, I clearly hit a nerve so I'm going to leave it like that as I would hate to upset you even more. (šŸ¤ž Hopefully, with this message i'll even score more brownie points with the ladies and possibly some men as well)

Take note and learn as I won't be around forever.šŸ’

"

...I don't think there's much you could teach me to be honest....but keep believing..

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
13 weeks ago

Sligo


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before.

Right, I clearly hit a nerve so I'm going to leave it like that as I would hate to upset you even more. (šŸ¤ž Hopefully, with this message i'll even score more brownie points with the ladies and possibly some men as well)

Take note and learn as I won't be around forever.šŸ’

...I don't think there's much you could teach me to be honest....but keep believing.. "

šŸ˜˜

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By *reyingbeardMan
13 weeks ago

city


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before.

Right, I clearly hit a nerve so I'm going to leave it like that as I would hate to upset you even more. (šŸ¤ž Hopefully, with this message i'll even score more brownie points with the ladies and possibly some men as well)

Take note and learn as I won't be around forever.šŸ’

...I don't think there's much you could teach me to be honest....but keep believing..

šŸ˜˜"

Guys just get a room šŸ¤Ŗ

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By *og-ManMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere


"Actually, you've got it wrong. This isnā€™t just a hook-up or ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ site. Itā€™s a swinger site. That means people here are generally looking for meaningful connections with other like minded, consenting adults, and profiles are meant to reflect that. The lack of detail in some profiles is a problem because it makes it hard to know what people are actually looking for, which isnā€™t the point of being here. So if all you want is a quick hookup, you might be in the wrong place.

I replied before reading your message, but totally agree.

A lot of people, especially men, stumble onto Fab thinking itā€™s some kind of ā€œdial-a-fuckā€ service, assuming every woman or couple here is eager for a quick fling. But thatā€™s really not the case. Fab is a swinger community, designed for adults who want real, meaningful connections with like-minded, consenting people. Setting up a profile isnā€™t a golden ticket to instant hookups, itā€™s meant for folks who are actually interested in sharing what theyā€™re looking for, finding compatibility, and connecting beyond just a quick encounter.

....fab is many things to many people, please stop trying to score brownie points with the ladies...its not a good look.

Besides...everyone and their mother has heard this spiel before.

Right, I clearly hit a nerve so I'm going to leave it like that as I would hate to upset you even more. (šŸ¤ž Hopefully, with this message i'll even score more brownie points with the ladies and possibly some men as well)

Take note and learn as I won't be around forever.šŸ’

...I don't think there's much you could teach me to be honest....but keep believing..

šŸ˜˜

Guys just get a room šŸ¤Ŗ"

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By *ubzrMan
13 weeks ago

Dublin


"Oh, the classic "I will fill in later" on a profile. Really? If you had the energy to open Fab, upload a few photos, scroll through a bunch of profiles, surely you could have spared thirty seconds to say something about yourself. I mean, imagine walking up to someone at a party and saying, "Hi, Iā€™m ... well, Iā€™ll tell you later." Itā€™s almost like youā€™re creating an aura of mystery, except...no one is intrigued.

Whatā€™s worse, itā€™s everywhere. Itā€™s not unique or endearing, it just reads like, "I canā€™t be bothered." This could be your chance to stand out, to say something, to show youā€™ve put even a shred of thought into who you are or why anyone should care to message you.

Plus, letā€™s be real, the majority of people who say theyā€™ll "fill it in later" never come back to do it. So every time I see that blank space, all I can think is, "Oh, great, hereā€™s another one who canā€™t commit to even a couple of sentences!"

If you're going to be here, take five minutes, give us something. Because if "I'll fill in later" is the best you can do, this site is not for you.

Now, i feel much better šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

"

Absolute ridiculous post.

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By *ot really famousMan
12 weeks ago

monaghan

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By *oody BondĀ OPĀ Ā Ā Man
12 weeks ago

Sligo


"Oh, the classic "I will fill in later" on a profile. Really? If you had the energy to open Fab, upload a few photos, scroll through a bunch of profiles, surely you could have spared thirty seconds to say something about yourself. I mean, imagine walking up to someone at a party and saying, "Hi, Iā€™m ... well, Iā€™ll tell you later." Itā€™s almost like youā€™re creating an aura of mystery, except...no one is intrigued.

Whatā€™s worse, itā€™s everywhere. Itā€™s not unique or endearing, it just reads like, "I canā€™t be bothered." This could be your chance to stand out, to say something, to show youā€™ve put even a shred of thought into who you are or why anyone should care to message you.

Plus, letā€™s be real, the majority of people who say theyā€™ll "fill it in later" never come back to do it. So every time I see that blank space, all I can think is, "Oh, great, hereā€™s another one who canā€™t commit to even a couple of sentences!"

If you're going to be here, take five minutes, give us something. Because if "I'll fill in later" is the best you can do, this site is not for you.

Now, i feel much better šŸ¤£šŸ¤£

Absolute ridiculous post. "

Well, I guess you're just voicing your opinion and that's ok. YOU find it ridiculous, just because YOU find it ridiculous doesn't mean it actually is.

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
12 weeks ago

Dublin

Generally the ones they never read a profile before messaging a copy and paste boilerplate or a banal ā€œheyā€, equally as guilty as the ā€œā€¦.ā€ crowd

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