FabSwingers.com forum: Phrases you see on fab you don’t understand the meaning of

By *asual777 OP Man
16 weeks ago

i travel all over

Wanking gloves

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By *ork_LangerMan
16 weeks ago

Cork

Frotting

Docking

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere

Meet

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By *ide n ShineMan
16 weeks ago

Ballydeknob

The one I don't understand is. "No thanks" lol

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By *huCullainMan
16 weeks ago

Rathowen

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Straight

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
16 weeks ago

City Centre

Playing.

Are you playing? Were you playing? Would you like to play with me?

Weird. 😏

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By *eestar10Man
16 weeks ago

cavan

"Playing.

Are you playing? Were you playing? Would you like to play with me?

Weird. 😏"

I think they want you to play a ball sport ??

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
16 weeks ago

City Centre

"Playing.

Are you playing? Were you playing? Would you like to play with me?

Weird. 😏

I think they want you to play a ball sport ??"

I'm good at those, football and handball in particular. 😋

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By *eestar10Man
16 weeks ago

cavan

"Playing.

Are you playing? Were you playing? Would you like to play with me?

Weird. 😏

I think they want you to play a ball sport ??

I'm good at those, football and handball in particular. 😋"

Seee

They might of heard of ur hidden talents lol

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By *ifty Fifty 22Couple
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"Playing.

Are you playing? Were you playing? Would you like to play with me?

Weird. 😏"

Playing is the lifestyle term for sexual interaction between two or more people.

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
16 weeks ago

London

Sounding. And I Google it and wished I didn't every time.

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By *ifty Fifty 22Couple
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"Meet "

A meet is a "date" arranged between singles or cpls.

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By *s LollyWoman
16 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Blue waffle 😲

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By *amelaPamCDTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"HEY"

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By *izzKathrynWoman
16 weeks ago

Drogheda

**Straight** verified by 12 men by meet

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
16 weeks ago

Home

A hape of stuff

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By *itlbeeCouple
16 weeks ago

I've often saying profiles saying things like "clean".

And I'm never certain what they are refering to?

do they mean - clean as in freshly showered?, drug free, STI Free, Clean shaven pubic region....?

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West

"I've often saying profiles saying things like "clean".

And I'm never certain what they are refering to?

do they mean - clean as in freshly showered?, drug free, STI Free, Clean shaven pubic region....?"

This!

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By *ealmc1973Man
16 weeks ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

'Looking for professionals'...

'Professional couple...'

'Professional...' in any sentence

Still unsure if it's plumber, doctor, or gigolo needed

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By *ex coupleCouple
16 weeks ago

wexford

"**Straight** verified by 12 men by meet

lol

Or straight guy wanting to suck cock lol

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By *urfdudeMan
16 weeks ago

WEXFORD

“Wanting more” on a verification

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By *ethmeonfireMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin

HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬"

And what is it? 🙈

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

And what is it? 🙈"

Happy n hairy ???

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

And what is it? 🙈

Happy n hairy ???"

Horny n helpless??

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

[Removed by poster at 30/10/24 17:07:08]

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

And what is it? 🙈

Happy n hairy ???

Horny n helpless??"

I think I'm all 4 of those right now 😊😇

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By *s LollyWoman
16 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬"

High n Horny?🤔

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By *eestar10Man
16 weeks ago

cavan

Horny an happy lol

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Horny an happy lol"

I know that's you, but is that what it means?

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By *eestar10Man
16 weeks ago

cavan

"Horny an happy lol

I know that's you, but is that what it means?"

Cheeky lol

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬"

Is it not drugs

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By *ethmeonfireMan
16 weeks ago

Dublin

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

Is it not drugs "

Yep

I wish it was something nicer as suggested by the SexyScientists

But unfortunately it is not

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By *exyScientistsCouple
16 weeks ago

Castlebar

I'm so 😇

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By *og-ManMan
16 weeks ago

somewhere

"I'm so 😇"

There's no halos in your pictures Mr's....I should know I've just examined them closely again

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
16 weeks ago

Galway

"Well groomed".

Showering regularly? Clean shaven & smelling of aftershave? No pubic hair? Full body wax?

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By *attooYouMan
16 weeks ago

just about northside

“Straight Acting” really haven’t a clue what that’s suppose to mean

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

I find some of the words connected to people's sexuality or definitions of their relationship to be very confusing but at the same time educational. Its a whole new vocabulary. Polyamourous was just the beginning, "non-committed sideways humping, only on a Wednesday, single file please gang-banger" type of thing. Each to their own but not everyone understands this language. Every day is a School day and the urban dictionary is a great help.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
16 weeks ago

Drogheda

My language and words:

Polyamorous - I am capable of being in romantic love with more than one individual at a time.

Polypartner - An individual whom you have an ongoing romantic relationship with that would appear to the world as a bf/bf bf/gf or gf/gf relationship. You may have more than one polypartner and each polypartner may have different Polypartners. The boundaries and "rules" of the relationship are defined by the individuals with not strict rules pre-existing.

Polysexual - I am not monogamous and enjoy sex with multiple overlapping and ongoing partners.

Pansexual - Gender is irrelevant to me and I can find attraction (physical, sexual, romantic, intellectual etc.) in anyone. I generally require a genuine connection for that attraction to develop.

Sensualist - With regard all interactions with a partner or play mate, my focus is on their pleasure and enhancing their enjoyment as much as possible. I obtain tangible pleasure from making others happy, especially physically.

Dragon - I play in group situations with attached partners of differing sexes where I enjoy pleasuring all partners regardless of gender.

♂️♀️⚧️🦄🐉🌈

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

So a straight single person just playing the field is a solo-polysexual, and a bi person playing the field is a solo-pansexual ?

It just seems like labels for the sake of it sometimes.

But each to their own 🫵🏻😘🤘🏻

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By *asuallyChilledMan
16 weeks ago

Drogheda

Bisexual and Pansexual are not the same. But please, be incredibly insulting because you don't understand the terminology.

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

Incredibly insulting for not understanding, that's not very understanding. An insult is either sustained or destroyed, not by the disposition of those who insult, but by the disposition of those who bear it.

Maybe acceptance and inclusion are just words bandied to suit.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
16 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Bisexual means you are attracted to a gender that may be male or female or non binary (and includes trans males and trans females) because you are attracted to them as humans AND because of whatever gender they are, present as or even choose to cast off the label of gender as a consious act.

Pansexual means you are blind to their gender. It's not relevant. You find them attractive because of the human.

I'd say I lean Pan but I regularly call myself Bi. And that's because someone being hyper female presenting or male presenting is sexy to me. Like girly girls and gruff men. But romantically I could see myself falling for a personality over gender.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
16 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

And I'm aware the previous post is my take on it and I don't claim any level of expertise.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
16 weeks ago

Drogheda

"Incredibly insulting for not understanding, that's not very understanding. An insult is either sustained or destroyed, not by the disposition of those who insult, but by the disposition of those who bear it.

Maybe acceptance and inclusion are just words bandied to suit. "

"It just seems like labels for the sake of it sometimes"

Is that an inclusive comment?

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

Peace ✌🏻

I cum in peace.

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West

Maybe acceptance and inclusion are just words bandied to suit.

"It just seems like labels for the sake of it sometimes"

Is that an inclusive comment?"

It's just an opinion. Hardly an insult. And to be fair. History will look back on this decade as the age of labels

Kind regards

A cis het white solo poly ethically non monogamous demi sexual ND single parent of a bisexual trans fem non binary demi boy.

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By *usicman1982Man
16 weeks ago

Coalisland

"Blue waffle 😲"

That’s just nasty. Why would you do that to people?

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By *usicman1982Man
16 weeks ago

Coalisland

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬"

I’m guessing Hung and Horny?

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By *arquisDeSadeCouple
16 weeks ago

"Happy fabbing "

A polite way of telling someone to go away. You’ve no interest.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
16 weeks ago

Drogheda

Maybe acceptance and inclusion are just words bandied to suit.

"It just seems like labels for the sake of it sometimes"

Is that an inclusive comment?

It's just an opinion. Hardly an insult. And to be fair. History will look back on this decade as the age of labels

Kind regards

A cis het white solo poly ethically non monogamous demi sexual ND single parent of a bisexual trans fem non binary demi boy.

And how do you feel about racial labels?

Are you as happy using them?

Do the KKK just have an opinion?

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West

Maybe acceptance and inclusion are just words bandied to suit.

"It just seems like labels for the sake of it sometimes"

Is that an inclusive comment?

It's just an opinion. Hardly an insult. And to be fair. History will look back on this decade as the age of labels

Kind regards

A cis het white solo poly ethically non monogamous demi sexual ND single parent of a bisexual trans fem non binary demi boy.

And how do you feel about racial labels?

Are you as happy using them?

Do the KKK just have an opinion?"

I'm not going to get into a back and forth about labels. It's not something worth getting all het up about.

You can't police words. People use them how they see fit and that's ok.

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By *akedandhappyCouple
16 weeks ago

Cork

"HnH

Took a while to figure out it wasn’t a sex position 😬

And what is it? 🙈

Happy n hairy ???

Horny n helpless??

I think I'm all 4 of those right now 😊😇"

We’ve a new one so

“HnHnHnH”

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
16 weeks ago

borderarea

So this thread was meant to be about people explaining terms that people may not understand and turned into an exchange about 'labels for labels sake'.

It us an insult when that's the reaction someone has towards a person explaining terms and taking time out to do that. That's what the thread was for.

I really don't get why these exchanges have to and continue to happen more and more lately. It just seems to be a race for the person to pull apart people's comments lately.

I'm pan, also poly - I sometimes say bi because of the eye roll and I get tired trying to educate past the eye roll. I applaud those with more energy.

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By *ionycusMan
16 weeks ago

Babylon

Tomato tomAto

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By *electableicecreamMan
16 weeks ago

The West

"So this thread was meant to be about people explaining terms that people may not understand and turned into an exchange about 'labels for labels sake'.

It us an insult when that's the reaction someone has towards a person explaining terms and taking time out to do that. That's what the thread was for.

I really don't get why these exchanges have to and continue to happen more and more lately. It just seems to be a race for the person to pull apart people's comments lately.

I'm pan, also poly - I sometimes say bi because of the eye roll and I get tired trying to educate past the eye roll. I applaud those with more energy. "

Ah cmon. It's an over reaction. We went from a flippant comment about labels to INSULTS to the KKK.

It's easy to see where the escalation originated

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By *rRiosMan
16 weeks ago

dublin

Question for pansexuals: do find you get turned on in the cookware section of ikea?

This is a joke, I don’t think anyone was purposefully being insulting in this thread

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
16 weeks ago

Galway

Considering how intimate and personal the topic is, we see it as natural empathy to try and understand what the people we meet mean by the terms they choose to describe themselves.

And well, we're not even quite sure what we are ourselves apart from kinky and curious. But once we explore some more, we'll appreciate having words that will help us find and engage with similar minds.

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