FabSwingers.com forum: Getting a meet

By *toryrory OP Man
4 weeks ago

Dungarvan

Is it just me or is very hard on this site for a single male

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
4 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"Is it just me or is very hard on this site for a single male"

Not hard at all if you willing to put effort into it...

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By *toryrory OP Man
4 weeks ago

Dungarvan

I used to 😂

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By *eekyNerdMan
4 weeks ago

Portarlington

Getting an one on one meet? Difficult but not impossible. You just have to be patient, polite and be engaging.

Social coffee meets, easy to meet people at those. These are probably the best option as there is no pressure on all present.

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By *ot so needyMan
4 weeks ago

Galway

I don't know but I never heard anyone else complaining about this problem. Definitely was never another thread about this issue.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
4 weeks ago

South Down

It can be, yes.

Your chances can improve with decent photos & bio, positive engagement on the forum, and getting involved with socials.

Low effort often yields lacklustre results.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
4 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

If you want genuine feedback than ask for help with your profile

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By *ot really famousMan
4 weeks ago

monaghan

"If you want genuine feedback than ask for help with your profile "
....dont ask for profile advice...there's a posse waiting here just to mow you down...don't do it !!!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
4 weeks ago

Belfast

What's the.......

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By *ito22Man
4 weeks ago

Dublin

It's very hard man and I'm not understanding why

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By *toryrory OP Man
4 weeks ago

Dungarvan

That's fair. Profile is pretty bad now that I actually look at it myself 😂 thanks everyone 🙂

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By *indenMan
4 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

" Is it just me or is very hard on this site for a single male"

Not hard at all if you willing to put effort into it...

I used to 😂 "

At what point did you give up?

What have you done towards getting a meet or meeting people?

There’s loads of good advice if you use the search function on the forums, but yes, it is difficult but since you already have a verification you can see it’s not impossible.

Search the forum, take the advice onboard, engage with people, be polite, normal and patient.

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By *indenMan
4 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"If you want genuine feedback than ask for help with your profile ....dont ask for profile advice...there's a posse waiting here just to mow you down...don't do it !!!!

I don’t think that’s true, I’ve always found people to be helpful…….

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By *penminddmanMan
4 weeks ago

Lisburn

From what I’ve been told the single men by far outweigh the women. And to many extreme creeps. I met a woman who wasn’t like completely stunning to look at, and her message box had over 500 unanswered mails! She showed me it herself

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By *electableicecreamMan
4 weeks ago

The West

"Is it just me or is very hard on this site for a single male"

I think it's pretty subjective too be honest. If your relying on messaging alone then I imagine it can be disheartening.

Probably not easy to get to social events from your location but I'd you can it's a game changer

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By *aybeLadyWoman
4 weeks ago

West Dublin

"Getting an one on one meet? Difficult but not impossible. You just have to be patient, polite and be engaging.

Social coffee meets, easy to meet people at those. These are probably the best option as there is no pressure on all present."

This. Respectful, all the time.

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By *chochamberWoman
4 weeks ago

Munster

Your profile pic is a bit too in your face.

Know the odds are against you, consider it your civic duty to give any hot woman a ride, if she wants it. You have to do the running, at the start at least.

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By *rRiosMan
4 weeks ago

dublin

"Your profile pic is a bit too in your face."

Coincidentally, the OP probably wishes it was a bit more in your face

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
4 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"From what I’ve been told the single men by far outweigh the women. And to many extreme creeps. I met a woman who wasn’t like completely stunning to look at, and her message box had over 500 unanswered mails! She showed me it herself "

Sweet baby Jesu!! "She wasn't completely stunning to look at.."

You do have a way with words Sir!!

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By *penminddmanMan
4 weeks ago

Lisburn

I’m honest and straight up. If someone said the same to me I wouldn’t care. In fact I would have more respect for them due to their honesty. Getting back to my main point though it would appear that a lot of desperadoes type men use this

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By *xplicitMan
4 weeks ago

donegal

It’s hard, but all of the above are right, in their own way.

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