FabSwingers.com forum: Relationships

By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Anyone else gave up on something serious and chose this? I have had many and also a dad to 3.

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
5 weeks ago

Athlone

Long since given up!

At least here there is an honesty about what everyone is after.

Zero ambiguity!

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By *eano400Man
5 weeks ago

bsllyclare

If only ever one was honest

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Totally agree! Don’t get me wrong I have been all in on relationships in recent years I’ve had my fair share to never had to look far. But I always ended up with the same conclusion and that was I wish I never got involved again 😂😂

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
5 weeks ago

Rabbit burrow

7yrs single, on here 2 yrs, still holding out hope but it's just a sliver at this stage

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Maybe nobody can handle people like us 🤷🏼‍♂️😂😂

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
5 weeks ago

Rabbit burrow

"Maybe nobody can handle people like us 🤷🏼‍♂️😂😂"

Oh god don't say that 😭 Surely there has to be some brave & kinky people out there looking for more

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Well now that you mention it………. 😂

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
5 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Itd be so nice if two fabbers found each other on this thread

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Something to tell the grandkids about 🤣🤣🤣

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
5 weeks ago

Rabbit burrow

"Itd be so nice if two fabbers found each other on this thread "

The dream lol

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By *ultrySexy CiaWoman
5 weeks ago

cork

Snap Jess!! Single around 8/9 years now but we'll keep holding on to that sliver girl xx

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
5 weeks ago

sligo

Single forever. Last time I dated was 1998.

At this stage it's either a cat or a dog for companionship

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By *inkyboots02Man
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Not long out of long term relationship and don't intend to start another any time soon to much hassle

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

"Single forever. Last time I dated was 1998.

At this stage it's either a cat or a dog for companionship "

Dogs are better

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Don’t mean to be offensive but I agree 😂😂 my 2 dogs love me unconditionally and always happy to see me

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By *chochamberWoman
5 weeks ago

Munster

Happily single, I like my freedom and space.

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By *ozzlesMan
5 weeks ago

galway

I'm an easy single slice, individually wrapped, from first to last. 8/12/20 there's always plenty, easy single slices.

No idea why that came into my head .

Single for me.

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By *eekyNerdMan
5 weeks ago

Portarlington

Zero interest in relationships. Have enough commitments in my life without one of those as well.

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By *he KakapoMan
5 weeks ago

A nice rock

I haven't given up no.

But I've certainly given up chasing something or comprising what I want.

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By *iresmillyWoman
5 weeks ago

Dublin

There should be a speed dating night for Fabbers!! If any single males would like to go on a date

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

I love a date night. I even put it in my profile.

I have a date buddy. It's like a fuck buddy but you go bowling as well

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

To both last comments I agree in certain ways. I just don’t want any of the melting that come can come from relationships these days. I’m carefree but also loyal and honest. Maybe my problem is I’m to honest and I have no filter 😂😂😂

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By *alway BikerMan
5 weeks ago

Oughterard

If you met the lady/man of your dreams in the non fab world, and things progressed etc... what would happen to your fab world? When would you tell new person of "that life"? Interesting to see how they would take the news of it....

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Good question tbh. If I met someone who I had a good gut feeling about I would come of this. Honestly I wouldn’t tell them about it. But if they ever asked me the question I would be honest

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By *alway BikerMan
5 weeks ago

Oughterard

"Good question tbh. If I met someone who I had a good gut feeling about I would come of this. Honestly I wouldn’t tell them about it. But if they ever asked me the question I would be honest "

I'd come off this too in a heartbeat if I met someone special. I'd be completely honest about my swinging days with them though... Communication and honesty are huge for me. Nothing to hide really and at least they would know. Chemistry is essential though, I'd never settle for someone without it! There is always hope that you meet the one though. This might sound a tad hypocritical but I could never share her with another man... I'd be way too jealous and it would break my heart...

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By *londegem75Woman
5 weeks ago

city

Have given up on dating. As last 2 guys I dated dumped me once they found out I was on here. So hence I came back .

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By *londegem75Woman
5 weeks ago

city

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

"If you met the lady/man of your dreams in the non fab world, and things progressed etc... what would happen to your fab world? When would you tell new person of "that life"? Interesting to see how they would take the news of it.... "

I've been there. It wasn't fab but general enm/solo poly vibes and enthusiastic promiscuity on both our sides. We met and were both just as enthusiastic about non monogamy. After about a month we decided to go exclusive. Just doesn't suit us. I didn't miss it.

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

I wouldn’t dump you tbh cause I’m on it to 😂

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

What anything does in their single life is none of anyone else’s business

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

"I wouldn’t dump you tbh cause I’m on it to 😂"

If you use the reply

+quote button everyone can see who you are replying to

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Exactly why I don’t care 😂😂

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By *londegem75Woman
5 weeks ago

city

"What anything does in their single life is none of anyone else’s business "
. Ah I know that u know that but others don't see that. The last guy said his friend was on here and he told him abt me . So his friend said women on here are slags. Sad in this day that we are called that.

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

I don’t give a fk what anyone thinks about me I have reached that stage in my life. I know I do no harm. I just have a filter level much more higher than others 😂😂

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
5 weeks ago

City Centre

If I fell in love with someone not on this site I'd most probably delete my profile. 🤷‍♀️

If I was in a relationship with someone who didn't know about fab, I don't think I would tell them about it. I don't think anything could be gained from them knowing. I'd have to think about that very carefully.

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Agreed

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

"What anything does in their single life is none of anyone else’s business . Ah I know that u know that but others don't see that. The last guy said his friend was on here and he told him abt me . So his friend said women on here are slags. Sad in this day that we are called that. "

So his friend is on here but all the women he expects to meet are slags

Sounds like the friend hasn't actually met any women off here

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By *londegem75Woman
5 weeks ago

city

So his friend is on here but all the women he expects to meet are slags

Sounds like the friend hasn't actually met any women off here "
100 per cent. So I have zero interest in dating after that.

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Male or female if you on this we no Christian like 🤣🤣 I’ll say it again though what you do in your single life is your own business

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By *londegem75Woman
5 weeks ago

city

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By *ungGAAplayerMan
5 weeks ago

Single all my life but fit fella

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Single as a dollar and I ain’t looking for change

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By *ippieWoman
5 weeks ago

cork city

"Single as a dollar and I ain’t looking for change "

Agree. Single and unbothered. My last relationship was my last. He taught me my final lesson; men ain’t shit. Fab has been a godsend. Sex without strings.

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

Now you know I must defend us men who mean no harm but are honest 🙈😂 not all men the same!

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By *mmmm300Woman
5 weeks ago

cork

"There should be a speed dating night for Fabbers!! If any single males would like to go on a date"

Or women with women hmmmm.

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By *iresmillyWoman
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I do miss being in an “alternative” relationship I have to say. If I met a person on here for a relationship I think while we are dating it would be wise to get off Fab for a beat so we could establish ourselves first, with a view to coming back to swinging. I was married before and monogamy isn’t for me- maybe the right person would have me reconsider this? I’m not saying a different person every weekend, but every now and again is nice.

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By *cottPillgrim2022Man
5 weeks ago

Roscommon

That is a great idea! I'd be up for it!

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By *cottPillgrim2022Man
5 weeks ago

Roscommon

"There should be a speed dating night for Fabbers!! If any single males would like to go on a date"

That's a great idea! I'd be up for it!

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By *penminddman OP Man
5 weeks ago

Lisburn

I just wish people would be more carefree 😂😂 I have my beliefs yes but I’m open minded and very flexible. Fs so many people these days, usually the woke type !

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