FabSwingers.com forum: Hosp appt tomorrow

By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

I've a pretty big hospital appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous & anxious about it. This is easier to say to ye on here then to my family & friends 😒

I'm in/out of hosp monthly. Always go on my own with the attitude "there is nothing to see here".

I tell everyone I'm fine but I'm very good at holding it together tbh. Going on my own is always easier than someone going with me as in my mind in downplays the significance of each appt & why I'm there.

But I'm already nervous 😏

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By *oby72555Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I have lots of experience in this area. Please DM me as I would like to try and help you.

It is an offer of a friendly ear only with zero other expectation.

I hope you are ok.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
5 weeks ago

Drogheda

Sending positive thoughts and vibes. Reach out if you want to vent or release.

♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈

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By *iktikiCouple
5 weeks ago

cork

Virtual hug from us 🙌

But you should talk to someone you know or a family member

Please do if not stay strong 💪🏻

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By *olourpurpleMan
5 weeks ago

Waterford

Best of luck with the appointment. Hopefully it goes well for you.

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

"Virtual hug from us 🙌

But you should talk to someone you know or a family member

Please do if not stay strong 💪🏻"

Seeing my counsellor on Friday next week. Will talk to her 😊

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By *eestar10Man
5 weeks ago

cavan

Good luck x

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By *eckme70Man
5 weeks ago

Strabane

I hope all goes well for you tomorrow 🙏 I always go to the hospital on my own as well 🤷‍♂️

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By *og-ManMan
5 weeks ago

somewhere

I find it easier to go in on my own too so someone else being nervous on my behalf doesn't effect me

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By *ymbunny2016Man
5 weeks ago

Bangor

Really hope it goes well for you tomorrow. Please do reach out to someone if you need to talk or feel overwhelmed x

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By *rystalsswingCouple
5 weeks ago

Galway

"I've a pretty big hospital appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous & anxious about it. This is easier to say to ye on here then to my family & friends 😒

I'm in/out of hosp monthly. Always go on my own with the attitude "there is nothing to see here".

But I'm already nervous 😏

❤️❤️❤️

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By *ofusplusCouple
5 weeks ago

Limerick

Hope it goes well for you tomorrow ♥️

Please don't try to do this alone. It's amazing how a bit of support can help make it a bit easier. Don't be afraid to ask someone you know and it doesn't even need to be a family member or friend.

Good luck ☘

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
5 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

I go on my own too, it's hard enough managing your own feelings never mind managing someone else's distress. But sometimes when. The back is up against the wall it's nice to accept support if you need and want it.

Good luck!

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By *rystalsswingCouple
5 weeks ago

Galway

"Hope it goes well for you tomorrow ♥️

Please don't try to do this alone. It's amazing how a bit of support can help make it a bit easier. Don't be afraid to ask someone you know and it doesn't even need to be a family member or friend.

Good luck ☘ "

Superb advice ❤️

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By *oo32Man
5 weeks ago

tipperary

"I've a pretty big hospital appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous & anxious about it. This is easier to say to ye on here then to my family & friends 😒

I'm in/out of hosp monthly. Always go on my own with the attitude "there is nothing to see here".

But I'm already nervous 😏

Tell someone....or tell everyone,it might become too big to hold in,

The attuide of nothing to see here will only go so far

This might be out there...but do family and friends deserve to know??

Like Jesus I'd def like to know if one of my buddies was going through something massive

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

"I've a pretty big hospital appointment tomorrow. I'm nervous & anxious about it. This is easier to say to ye on here then to my family & friends 😒

I'm in/out of hosp monthly. Always go on my own with the attitude "there is nothing to see here".

But I'm already nervous 😏

Tell someone....or tell everyone,it might become too big to hold in,

The attuide of nothing to see here will only go so far

This might be out there...but do family and friends deserve to know??

Like Jesus I'd def like to know if one of my buddies was going through something massive"

Yes, the one's who should know, know.

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By *he KakapoMan
5 weeks ago

A nice rock

Well your attitude is definitely better than spiralling and focusing on the worst case scenario.

But honestly my advice would be let one or two people in shit like this is always better delt with with support

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
5 weeks ago

Funville

OP best of luck with the appointment and the ongoing appointments there after 🫂

You sound very similar to myself, I'll always do difficult things on my own because I find I'd rather not stress anyone else out and feel like I can handle most things myself.

You sound like a very strong person emotionally to have dealt with everything by yourself to date but my advice is to find one or two people you can chat about

things as it can lift some pressure off you also 🫂

I'm sure there are many people in your real life or on here that would be happy to chat back and forth 🫂 I'm great with random chats so if you ever fancy a non Fab style chat say hello, I'd be delighted to share random conversations about life 😊

Best of luck 🫂🫂🫂

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I was in hospital for 10 days recently. It was my first time in hospital and I was totally blown away by the level of professional medical care and the amazing kindness and courtesy shown to me during my stay in hospital.

The majority of those that work in the medical service are dedicated professionals who look after people extremely well when they are at their most vulnerable.

Best of luck OP for your hospital appointment and you can be confident that the people looking after you will be your friends and support you while you are in their care.

🤗🙏🤞👍

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

"OP best of luck with the appointment and the ongoing appointments there after 🫂

You sound very similar to myself, I'll always do difficult things on my own because I find I'd rather not stress anyone else out and feel like I can handle most things myself.

You sound like a very strong person emotionally to have dealt with everything by yourself to date but my advice is to find one or two people you can chat about

things as it can lift some pressure off you also 🫂

Best of luck 🫂🫂🫂"

Thank you x

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By *reative ideasMan
5 weeks ago

Next door

From one stranger to another, I'm here to listen should you need.

A simple offer of friendship.

Best wishes for your appointment

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By *irtypair00Couple
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I can totally get the whole go it alone same myself . I can handle and process my own feelings and concerns. But sometimes it's also good to talk and get it off your chest if you need to . It's amazing how just by talking with someone it can just clear your mind and help relax .

Best of luck tomorrow

Si 👌❤️

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By *xplicitMan
5 weeks ago

donegal

Your real life friends almost definitely have similar attitudes to those expressed here, in these situations people have great empathy towards your situation so take comfort knowing everyone wishes you the best. Good luck .

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By *ocal studMan
5 weeks ago

A town near you

It is only natural to be feeling anxious and scared for your life.although your medical history is private to you maybe by telling someone close to you like a friend a sibling or neighbour what you are going through medically and that you are feeling very anxious about it maybe they might be able to go with you and hold your hand or just be there for you when you either get good or bad news or if it's a procedure that you are getting and just be there for you when it is over so you have someone by your side when you come through.there are times a person thinks it is better not to express their feelings in this circumstance but when in a vulnerable position maybe the thoughts don't be right and maybe someone close to you can make the right decisions for you or have your back when you need it.the main thing is that whatever it is that your appointment is for that you get a good outcome and your anxiety hopefully will disappear.i am here if you need to chat anyway and if it's someone to chat over the phone just pm me Il give you my number and we can chat any time strictly in confidence and just an ear to listen

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By *oby72555Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin

"I was in hospital for 10 days recently. It was my first time in hospital and I was totally blown away by the level of professional medical care and the amazing kindness and courtesy shown to me during my stay in hospital.

The majority of those that work in the medical service are dedicated professionals who look after people extremely well when they are at their most vulnerable.

Best of luck OP for your hospital appointment and you can be confident that the people looking after you will be your friends and support you while you are in their care.

🤗🙏🤞👍

Totally agree and well said. 👏👏👏

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By *ind PaddyMan
5 weeks ago

South County Dublin

I'm sure the appointment will go well for you.

Rest up well afterwards.

Best of luck with your monthly appointment.

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By *inkyboots02Man
5 weeks ago

Belfast

I hope all goes well with your appointment and you will always find us here willing to listen and support you through this ❤️❤️❤️

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

Thanks all for the kind words. I appreciate it 😘

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By *outheastbyeMan
5 weeks ago

Waterford

Best of luck tomorrow. Will be thinking of you

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
5 weeks ago

dublin

Best of luck with your app tomorrow

I get it. Sometimes it’s easier to deal with these things by yourself. Atleast you have your counsellor session coming up to talk things through and help you figure out the best thing to do for you

- Mrs

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By *eadMeisterMan
5 weeks ago

Blanchardstown

I just wanted to wish you a smooth hospital visit. I know it can be a bit nerve-wracking, but try to stay positive! You’re in good hands, and everything will go well. Looking forward to new updates soon!

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By *asual777Man
5 weeks ago

i travel all over

It’s good to have someone with you who can listen to the practicalities and discuss them over coffee afterwards as sometimes anxiety means you hear certain bits and not others .

Best of luck

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
5 weeks ago

Funville

The fact you have shared a little of what you are going through and that you are nervous, you are not alone today, there are alot of people here spiritual heading with you to that appointment 🫂

Best of luck 👍

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By *rown PrismWoman
5 weeks ago

Dublin

I am here with you... In my thoughts and heart ❣️❣️❣️

Warm hugs for you 🤗🤗🤗🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

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By *eckme70Man
5 weeks ago

Strabane

Best of luck today, I hope everything goes well for you 🙏 💚🤍🧡

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx

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By *eadMeisterMan
5 weeks ago

Blanchardstown

cheering for you

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

Co. Cork

🤗🤞🙏👍🤗

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By *eckme70Man
5 weeks ago

Strabane

"So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx"

I'm very sorry to hear that but glad there's a positive response,I'm sure it's not easy 🙏🥰 x

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By *aybeLady OP Woman
5 weeks ago

West Dublin

"So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx

I'm very sorry to hear that but glad there's a positive response,I'm sure it's not easy 🙏🥰 x"

Not easy but not the bad news I was posssibley going to face.

Having my 1st radiotherapy session today. They dont hang around 😏

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By *eckme70Man
5 weeks ago

Strabane

"So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx

I'm very sorry to hear that but glad there's a positive response,I'm sure it's not easy 🙏🥰 x

Not easy but not the bad news I was posssibley going to face.

Having my 1st radiotherapy session today. They dont hang around 😏"

Fair play for being so strong 💪 isn't it good that they don't hang around, it only gives the mind more time to think 🤗 go for a walk now r something to eat it might pass a bit of time for ye x

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By *ocal studMan
5 weeks ago

A town near you

Wishing you all the best with your treatment .I hope it won't be severe on you and you make a speedy and full recovery.take care and if ever your adult a loose end just hit me up and maybe just have a bit of banter to cheer you up.x

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By *eckme70Man
5 weeks ago

Strabane

Atleast you have the social to look forward to at the weekend, I'm sure you really need it 🤗🥰 have to write here can't pm you

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By *irdnBorisMan
5 weeks ago

meath

"So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx

I'm very sorry to hear that but glad there's a positive response,I'm sure it's not easy 🙏🥰 x

Not easy but not the bad news I was posssibley going to face.

Having my 1st radiotherapy session today. They dont hang around 😏"
really hope all works out for you and always an ear here to listen if you need to chat anytime all the best mick

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By *hePixieAndTheBearCouple
5 weeks ago

Galway

Fingers crossed OP. Never the news you want to hear, but from the sounds of it you're on the side of the issue where you should be able to push through.

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By *lutterFlyWoman
5 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

"So I saw the main doc a little while ago.

Bad news but with a silver lining. I always look at the positives.

Have to hang around here all day as I've another appt at 2ish and then back for treatment at 3ish.

Thank you for all the positive support xx

I'm very sorry to hear that but glad there's a positive response,I'm sure it's not easy 🙏🥰 x

Not easy but not the bad news I was posssibley going to face.

Having my 1st radiotherapy session today. They dont hang around 😏"

🫠🫠🫠

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