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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago

Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

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By *rRiosMan
6 weeks ago

dublin

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By *rRiosMan
6 weeks ago

dublin

Don’t be a dickhead and manage your expectations appropriately… Welcome

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By *ofusplusCouple
6 weeks ago

Limerick


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi"

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey

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By *eekyNerdMan
6 weeks ago

Portarlington

Don't expect to have people lining up to meet you.

Don't expect for even 1/4 of your messages sent to be read or answered.

Look out for new accounts, unverified accounts and ones with no photos. Alot have been spring up recently. They seem too good to be true and often are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey "

Nope no wedding ring and not married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
6 weeks ago


"Don't expect to have people lining up to meet you.

Don't expect for even 1/4 of your messages sent to be read or answered.

Look out for new accounts, unverified accounts and ones with no photos. Alot have been spring up recently. They seem too good to be true and often are."

Thank you for the tips I'll keep an eye out for those. I don't have much expectations, just trying to put myself out there a bit

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By *ot really famousMan
6 weeks ago

monaghan


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey "

...specsavers for you...

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey

Nope no wedding ring and not married"

To be fair, it looks like you’re holding your phone with your left hand and there appears to be a ring on your ring finger.

Although if I had to guess, I’d say the picture is a reflection so probably looks reversed.

If it’s an iphone then the lense is on the right when looking at the screen and is being held with the right hand……. 🕵️‍♂️

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By *antra MassageMan
6 weeks ago

South Side.

Welcome.

18 to 99..?

You could be more discerning.

Ask a friend to take, edit, and carefully compose a few good profile pics. B and W works well.

Your profile is much the same as 2,000 other guys on here.. rewrite it, honestly, stand out from the norm.

Maybe ask a female friend to write your profile, she'll have a better idea of what women want.

Work on getting a verification, ..so important, a social, a coffee meet.

Be proactive on the forum, it increases your exposure to many 000,s of couples and women quietly lurking, listening and watching.

Best of luck.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

Welcome to the forums OP.

My top tips?

Read the site FAQs

Be yourself and be true to yourself - don't even try to please everyone because that's the road to nowhere.

Don't be afraid to hold out for what you want. No-one is a commodity here or has a monopoly on sexual fulfilment. Enjoyment should be mutual.

Balance optimism with managing your expectations. It can be tough going for guys here. If you find yourself worn down by how things are going, take a break and hide your profile.

If it seems to be too good to be true, it often is.

Whilst group socials aren't for everyone, they can be a great way to meet and get to know people. I'd venture that small group/afternoon coffee socials are easier for a first timer.

Don't lead with your cock...big head before the wee head always

K

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By *aughty MilfCouple
6 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey "

definitely a shadow of a ring

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

Jeez people...the photo is taken in a mirror. The ring is on his right hand. Regardless, lots of people wear rings on many different fingers just because they can or want to 🤷‍♀️

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By *eroLondonMan
6 weeks ago

Covent Garden

It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.

The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.

OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️

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By *ooking4fun24123Man
6 weeks ago

Dublin/Meath

Hey all

Relatively new guy here too! Although I have met and chatted with some really cool people already.

Is there any socials people would recommend as “the best” for a first timer?

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By *aughty MilfCouple
6 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"Hey all

Relatively new guy here too! Although I have met and chatted with some really cool people already.

Is there any socials people would recommend as “the best” for a first timer?"

DV8 in Dublin

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By *ooking4fun24123Man
6 weeks ago

Dublin/Meath


"Hey all

Relatively new guy here too! Although I have met and chatted with some really cool people already.

Is there any socials people would recommend as “the best” for a first timer?DV8 in Dublin "

Thanks, I’ll look into going to one… would be nice to meet some like minded people 😄

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By *urker6969Man
6 weeks ago

Dublin

OP’s profile has vanished into the ether. Quite peculiar. Perhaps he perceived hostility in the responses, can’t say that I’d blame him. Maybe it was justified, maybe it wasn’t, we’ll never know.

I often wonder about the ephemeral profiles I see on here. I’ve seen plenty of threads posted where the OP disappeared almost immediately. I presume in some instances this is because the user got banned.

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By *ofusplusCouple
6 weeks ago

Limerick


"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.

The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.

OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️

"

Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was.

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone


"Hi, first time to post on here despite joining a few months ago. Hoping to meet some nice people and have a good time. Any helpful tips or suggestions are welcomed so come and say hi

Is that a wedding ring I spy?

Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio. It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not.

Good luck with your Fab journey "

Send in the forensics!!

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore

He only asked for suggestions or helpful tips, not to be judged, my mind boggles,

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By *eroLondonMan
5 weeks ago

Covent Garden


"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.

The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.

OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️

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Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was."


"Is that a wedding ring I spy? "

What that necessary? It was a loaded remark.


"Strange that you don't mention you are married in your bio."

How did you perceive that he was married without even being cognisant of any facts beforehand?


"It's important for some people to know if you have her consent or not."

He didn't need to be lectured with patronising 'suggestions'.

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By *inkyboots02Man
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Thanks for the tips will try and get myself out there more

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By *lueLotusWoman
5 weeks ago

the wilderness

I feel like the OP just had the forum version of the eye of sauron hone in on him and wasn't ready for the trial by friendly fire. Hopefully he'll come back tempered rather than traumatised

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By *urker6969Man
5 weeks ago

Dublin


"I feel like the OP just had the forum version of the eye of sauron hone in on him and wasn't ready for the trial by friendly fire. Hopefully he'll come back tempered rather than traumatised "

Indeed. Another possibility is that he figured his profile had been tainted by this talk of his marital status and he’s decided to bounce to a new one to eliminate the negative association. Think your explanation is the more likely one though.

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By *electableicecreamMan
5 weeks ago

The West

That escalated quickly

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By *lueLotusWoman
5 weeks ago

the wilderness

We mean no harm, us jaded ones.

I've been here a year 😅

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By *rystalsswingCouple
5 weeks ago

Galway

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By *lutterFlyWoman
5 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

What a welcome to the site!

One things for sure, if he does comes back, I can't see him asking for 'friendly' advice on the forums again!!

🫣😒

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By *eth TVTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Mid Meath


"What a welcome to the site!

One things for sure, if he does comes back, I can't see him asking for 'friendly' advice on the forums again!!

🫣😒

"

You wouldn’t mind but he got off lightly enough.

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore

Poor man I'm actually disgusted the way he was questioned, too many Karen's here, if I wanted to know anyone's personal business I'd ask in private, so fucking sad🤔

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By *ot really famousMan
5 weeks ago

monaghan


"It never ceases to amaze me the unbridled judgement and loaded remarks from cowardly people who throw hollow and perfunctory messages of 'faux' kindness.

The OP is simply saying hello and being convivial. Instead, people are picking up on his 'phantom' wedding ring and giving unsolicited profile advice whilst absolving themselves with smiley emojis.

OP, welcome to the forums and welcome to Fab. ☮️

Hardly unsolicited. He asked for 'tips or suggestions' and he got them, without any judgement whatsoever. No need to make it out to be anything more than what it was."

...he asked for tips....not self appointed judges...

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

Op didn't last long

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By *oldByMarCouple
5 weeks ago

playa de ingles / outa da west


"Poor man I'm actually disgusted the way he was questioned, too many Karen's here, if I wanted to know anyone's personal business I'd ask in private, so fucking sad🤔 "

Totally agree with you 💯 %

Who’s Fuckn business is it if he’s married or not.. he’s not the only one

The Karen’s & white knights jumping to conclusions are ridiculing the guy .

Some of ye should have a good log look at yourselves in the mirror and see how Fuckn perfect ye are before you comment to others

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
5 weeks ago

Funville

There is always a herd mentality in any online groups. You just hope it's a herd that is more positive in nature than negative....

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore

We should always remember to that everyone has a story as to why we're here, cost nothing to be nice and kind..

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By *rown PrismWoman
5 weeks ago

Dublin

Oscar Wilde is said to have once said that criticism is the only reliable form of autobiography. It reveals more about the critic than the criticized.

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By *oldByMarCouple
5 weeks ago

playa de ingles / outa da west


"We should always remember to that everyone has a story as to why we're here, cost nothing to be nice and kind.. "

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By *unmale34Man
5 weeks ago

ca

Why is everyone so negative straight away ffs

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By *ealitybitesMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

Nothing on fab surprises me so I'm not even surprised that people are surprised.

Just another typical day on the fab forums.

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By *leasurer77Man
5 weeks ago

Athlone

The majority of the comments which are in support of Op are refreshing to see. Fcuk the begrudgers and self appointed St. Peters

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore


"Oscar Wilde is said to have once said that criticism is the only reliable form of autobiography. It reveals more about the critic than the criticized."

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore

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By *hellybellsWoman
5 weeks ago

tullamore


"The majority of the comments which are in support of Op are refreshing to see. Fcuk the begrudgers and self appointed St. Peters "

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
5 weeks ago

City Centre


"The majority of the comments which are in support of Op are refreshing to see. Fcuk the begrudgers and self appointed St. Peters "

I found some of those comments just as abusive if not more so.

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By *adger BrocMan
5 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"Poor man I'm actually disgusted the way he was questioned, too many Karen's here, if I wanted to know anyone's personal business I'd ask in private, so fucking sad🤔

Totally agree with you 💯 %

Who’s Fuckn business is it if he’s married or not.. he’s not the only one

The Karen’s & white knights jumping to conclusions are ridiculing the guy .

Some of ye should have a good log look at yourselves in the mirror and see how Fuckn perfect ye are before you comment to others "

.....

The question is if you take a look at yourself in the mirror will that be a true reflection of you or will the shoe be on the other foot or the ring on the other finger.....

👞🦶🥿💍👐💍

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By *astelloWoman
5 weeks ago

Far far away

Elvis has left the building

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