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"Whats the thing that turns you off someone! Mine is been called "baby", "babe" etc! Espically on a first message!" First World problems.. | |||
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"Multiple status updates throughout the day on what there going to be doing and with who.....it's not bloody Facebook ffs🙄" Unless it's about a hotel in Fermanagh 😜 | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄" It's a woman's perogative to change her mind... | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄 It's a woman's perogative to change her mind..." Depending on connections and weapon I presume | |||
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"Veris by the same person over & over go enjoy the ride instead of posting... Status updates giving every life movement & interaction! The weird af messages detailing what there gonna do to you etc and not even a hello "Absolutely this 👍 | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄" Yea plenty of them alrite Pot kettle black comes to mind | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄 Yea plenty of them alrite Pot kettle black comes to mind" Shots fired.. | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄 Yea plenty of them alrite Pot kettle black comes to mind" Maybe someone used that as an excuse | |||
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"The word ick gives me the ick "This! | |||
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"Whats the thing that turns you off someone! Mine is been called "baby", "babe" etc! Espically on a first message!" Just for our education, what would you like to be called? Personally I don’t care what I’m called, I have fairly thick skin | |||
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"Hun, babe, darlin.....I am none of them 🤦♀️" THIS!!! And ending a first msg with a kiss. Get outta here you chancer. | |||
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"Profiles that say not meeting married or attached but then veris from married 🙄🙄🙄 Yea plenty of them alrite Pot kettle black comes to mind" And by the way not aimed at the poster but in general to the ppl that say that | |||
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"Single people Safe sex on profile Bareback riding in the photo's and video's and creampie finishes " Ah BM, what's wrong with single people huh? 🤷♀️🤣 | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! " Espically when he’s a flipping kid!!! | |||
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"Whats the thing that turns you off someone! Mine is been called "baby", "babe" etc! Espically on a first message! Just for our education, what would you like to be called? Personally I don’t care what I’m called, I have fairly thick skin" Nothing! Use my name if so but you don’t need to open up with “ Hey Babe”! It’s as cringe No problem been called it down the line | |||
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"Profiles with photos of the opposite sex as the main content of a photo - had a guy message yesterday- not even a mm of him in the photo - full on naked women as his profile picture. How does that even get past admin???? Seriously!!!" Sure there's another thread where a guy is looking for advice for his mate. He points out that there's a video featuring her. She's not on the platform and there's no way to verify her consent. FFS ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈 | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! " Now you Said it...  | |||
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"Turn offs - couples or simgles with bareback photos that are obviously not with their partner. One that a lot of male profiles are guilty off: photos of a female without her being tagged. Or worse still, married men with photos of a woman that would (unknowingly) appear to be their wife!" Wayyyy too much of this it's crazy!! | |||
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"Turn offs - couples or simgles with bareback photos that are obviously not with their partner. One that a lot of male profiles are guilty off: photos of a female without her being tagged. Or worse still, married men with photos of a woman that would (unknowingly) appear to be their wife!" How come nobody ever questions the group pics in couples photos with no indication of consent being given. Tbh fab should really only allow posting of the number of people in the profile less they can come up with a system of verifying consent. | |||
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"Long, winding profiles with more text on it than a best-selling novel Good luck, I ain't reading all that "Hands up i was guilty of that BUT in my defence it was because i was been asked the same questions, daily, multiple times so i wrote everything in my bio ... not that it worked i still got asked but at least i could just tell them read my bio | |||
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"Long, winding profiles with more text on it than a best-selling novel Good luck, I ain't reading all that
Hands up i was guilty of that BUT in my defence it was because i was been asked the same questions, daily, multiple times so i wrote everything in my bio ... not that it worked i still got asked but at least i could just tell them read my bio
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"Turn offs - couples or simgles with bareback photos that are obviously not with their partner. One that a lot of male profiles are guilty off: photos of a female without her being tagged. Or worse still, married men with photos of a woman that would (unknowingly) appear to be their wife! How come nobody ever questions the group pics in couples photos with no indication of consent being given. Tbh fab should really only allow posting of the number of people in the profile less they can come up with a system of verifying consent." Oh I question it all and people think I am crazy for asking. It's as much of a turn off to me seeing untagged males in female profiles as it is females in males - group is another thing. If it's traceable through verifications and they have the photos up too then there's some leeway but the reality is the law is there to protect everyone and receivers such as ourselves on a platform like this or other mediums should know and educate ourselves - or be open to being educated. | |||
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"Turn offs - couples or simgles with bareback photos that are obviously not with their partner. One that a lot of male profiles are guilty off: photos of a female without her being tagged. Or worse still, married men with photos of a woman that would (unknowingly) appear to be their wife!" Pics of the wife with a towel on her head and her back to the camera walking out of the room are the worst example of this. | |||
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"Overly graphic veris. Detailed photos of body fluid on/in places. Not reading profiles then asking questions that are answered in profiles. " Guilty as charged 🙈 but that's because I've a terrible memory lol | |||
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"“Don’t be shy” 🤮🤮🤮🤮" Instant Block | |||
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"Extremely graphic first messages. Y'know the ones where the guy doesn't even say "hello" just launches into something like "I wanna cum all over your tits" or "I want to fuck you bareback from behind & cum all over your ass whilst my wife watches. And then I'd have her clean you up.". Yeah, that's an immediate block. And yes, those are msgs I have received. 🤦🏻♀️" Get them daily and you just want to reply … you wish!! | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! " Totally agree. Biggest ick ever. | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! Totally agree. Biggest ick ever. " Definitely it’s vomit inducing 🤢🤢 | |||
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"Turn offs - couples or simgles with bareback photos that are obviously not with their partner. One that a lot of male profiles are guilty off: photos of a female without her being tagged. Or worse still, married men with photos of a woman that would (unknowingly) appear to be their wife! Pics of the wife with a towel on her head and her back to the camera walking out of the room are the worst example of this. " Like, it's actually illegal. They could be prosecuted for it. It's alarming behaviour, enormous red flag. To the point where I would never knowingly attend any event with someone like that in attendance! | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! Totally agree. Biggest ick ever. Definitely it’s vomit inducing 🤢🤢" Why do men do that? Recently received a picture from a guy with his dick blacked out with the word Daddy on it. When he asked why I turned him down, this was one of my points, he saw nothing wrong with it! Eh....I never want to think of my daddy when I'm swinging. 🤮 | |||
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"Whats the thing that turns you off someone! Mine is been called "baby", "babe" etc! Espically on a first message!" Tbh when someone show a complete lack of respect , either in a message or on the forums, straight away a no for me . | |||
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"Self proclaimed expert swingers who tell everyone what they should and shouldn't do "Those are the experts who've been at it the longest and know everything there is to 🙄 get over themselves!! | |||
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"Anything with reference to “daddy” gives me chills, when you are one it’s the biggest mood killer! Totally agree. Biggest ick ever. Definitely it’s vomit inducing 🤢🤢 Why do men do that? Recently received a picture from a guy with his dick blacked out with the word Daddy on it. When he asked why I turned him down, this was one of my points, he saw nothing wrong with it! Eh....I never want to think of my daddy when I'm swinging. 🤮" As Dad to my children the whole daddy thing is beyond weird for me | |||
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"Extremely graphic first messages. Y'know the ones where the guy doesn't even say "hello" just launches into something like "I wanna cum all over your tits" or "I want to fuck you bareback from behind & cum all over your ass whilst my wife watches. And then I'd have her clean you up.". Yeah, that's an immediate block. And yes, those are msgs I have received. 🤦🏻♀️" Actually, this. And I'm a guy. That's just rotten. | |||
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"Ladies having standards or using the word no. "....did you run out of duct tape... | |||
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"People using the terms Dom/Domme and Sub, and not having a clue as to what they truly mean. Most often by men who are trying to tell you they want to be aggressive, violent, inconsiderate, disrespectful, unkind, and a host of other toxic characteristics or actions. Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner. Don't call yourself something if you don't have a clue what it truly means. ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈" Remind me again what the second D in DDLG stands for?  | |||
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"People using the terms Dom/Domme and Sub, and not having a clue as to what they truly mean. Most often by men who are trying to tell you they want to be aggressive, violent, inconsiderate, disrespectful, unkind, and a host of other toxic characteristics or actions. Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner. Don't call yourself something if you don't have a clue what it truly means. ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈 Remind me again what the second D in DDLG stands for? "Was gonna say. Daddy Dom is a thing. | |||
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"Hun, babe, darlin.....I am none of them 🤦♀️" Absolutely hate these. | |||
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" Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner." D/s relationships can include all of these things though? While I agree about the amount of toxic guys that call themselves Dom's, I'm also conscious that some people use those D/s to indicate they just like a bit of rough or kinky sex and a power exchange dynamic. That's a perfectly acceptable use imo. Not everyone needs to be a card carrying lifestyle kinkster to have the right to use words. | |||
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"Dick pic as profile photo. Iccckkk!!" And in the end every women wants it , such a irony  | |||
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"People using the terms Dom/Domme and Sub, and not having a clue as to what they truly mean. Most often by men who are trying to tell you they want to be aggressive, violent, inconsiderate, disrespectful, unkind, and a host of other toxic characteristics or actions. Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner. Don't call yourself something if you don't have a clue what it truly means. ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈 Remind me again what the second D in DDLG stands for? "Exactly. A Daddy Dom is a Dom. A Dom is not necessarily a Daddy Dom. | |||
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"Multiple status updates throughout the day on what there going to be doing and with who.....it's not bloody Facebook ffs🙄 Unless it's about a hotel in Fermanagh 😜" ...cream for that burn...? | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. " How did you respond? “Was your intention to make me dryer than the Sahara, well done! ” | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. " So much!! The ones who talk the biggest game are always be biggest letdowns | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. How did you respond? “Was your intention to make me dryer than the Sahara, well done! ”"I told him he had just ruined his chance with me. | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. How did you respond? “Was your intention to make me dryer than the Sahara, well done! ”
I told him he had just ruined his chance with me. "...was there anything in your conversation that would have led him to believe that this was ab inevitability? | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. How did you respond? “Was your intention to make me dryer than the Sahara, well done! ”
I told him he had just ruined his chance with me. ...was there anything in your conversation that would have led him to believe that this was ab inevitability?"He was like that at the start of our chats. I told him to tone it down, which he did. Then that. Doesnt bother me but we had chatted about what type of man I was into etc. | |||
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"Been chatting to a guy. Younger than me. I was finally warming to him, then he messages me 'so when are you going to suck my hard cock?'. That gives me the ick and an instant turn off. How did you respond? “Was your intention to make me dryer than the Sahara, well done! ”
I told him he had just ruined his chance with me. ...was there anything in your conversation that would have led him to believe that this was ab inevitability?
He was like that at the start of our chats. I told him to tone it down, which he did. Then that. Doesnt bother me but we had chatted about what type of man I was into etc. "The impatience of youth perhaps, probably saved you both some time | |||
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"Blokes who are very respectful towards women and arseholes towards blokes. One of those characteristics is the real them and I think I know which one " The White knights of Fabelot... Lol | |||
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" Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner. D/s relationships can include all of these things though? While I agree about the amount of toxic guys that call themselves Dom's, I'm also conscious that some people use those D/s to indicate they just like a bit of rough or kinky sex and a power exchange dynamic. That's a perfectly acceptable use imo. Not everyone needs to be a card carrying lifestyle kinkster to have the right to use words. " Sure, but if you're using the words incorrectly then it makes no sense to use them. ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈 | |||
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"Profiles with photos of the opposite sex as the main content of a photo - had a guy message yesterday- not even a mm of him in the photo - full on naked women as his profile picture. How does that even get past admin???? Seriously!!!" Yes this
And also couples profiles that maybe at one time they actually were a swinging couple but “wife isn’t playing anymore” then go get a single profile!!! | |||
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" Being a Dom/Domme has nothing to do with pain or strict control. It is not sadism and masochism. It is not DDlg. It is not little play or age play. It is not about hurting your partner. D/s relationships can include all of these things though? While I agree about the amount of toxic guys that call themselves Dom's, I'm also conscious that some people use those D/s to indicate they just like a bit of rough or kinky sex and a power exchange dynamic. That's a perfectly acceptable use imo. Not everyone needs to be a card carrying lifestyle kinkster to have the right to use words. Sure, but if you're using the words incorrectly then it makes no sense to use them. ° ♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈" Have to agree with this fully. Misuse of the words is dangerous. It can lead to grey areas where less experienced subs are coerced into doing things they don't actually want to do and inappropriate Dom culture. It isn't a game, it isn't 50 shades of Grey and it is more than just a bit of kink once people fully engage and understand it. | |||
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